What if Arnav was a Girl?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Serene..

Nice topic..
i too had this thought.
i think in real life it is hard for a woman, with ASR traits, to find a love..

if arnav was a girl...uff what would boys do to handle that kind of a girl yaar...but even asr as a man is dificult to handle...its coze khushi's character is created in such charasmatic way that beautifully shows handling asr with ease...nice post dear

yeah, i think in hitler didi it is like that.

Originally posted by: P4R0

I personally wouldn't use my past to hurt people in my harsh manners and words, as my past was my learning curve for who I am today and who I want to be tomorrow...but that's just me.
I agree with the other forum members, if the role was reversal, Khushi becomes KKG (ASR version) and ASR becomes Arnav ji, apart from the man handling I think the story line would be similar and in the end it would be the continuous TLC given by and received by the characters that would help them to overcome whatever barriers they have in life...and also trust...which is the most important as there ain't no point in loving someone if you don't trust them.

Wow I went on...see that's what you do to me with your post woman😉

Originally posted by: ainimonaya

very nice post wesha but quite difficult to answer!

well i think yeah ..i think girls like ASR do exist and are loved too ..though sweet innocent and and may be little weak girls,i mean girlz demanding care and protection are mostly loved but i think like khushi handles Asr same like did Asr type girls can also be treated by love and more attention..

@siona. ya, dear. Khushi's character is cut out ( and still being cut ) to suit ASR's in every which way possible. I hope, if ASR's character had to be made to suit every whims and fancy of an arrogant, bitchy Khushi, if that would have gone down well.
ASR's scars are not due to his current familial situation, its a relic of his past that he refuses to let go."

Well, firstly I think it would be difficult for someone to understand a person like ASR. It would be difficult for someone like ASR in real life to find a girl who will try to understand and love him despite his tough mean exterior. Its not a easy thing. And there is also a possibilty that girls will be attracted to him for money, status, etc and not for his personality per se. So the idea of girl understanding his soft side, putting up with his mean side and her love changing him... all this is a rare possibilty. I don't think in real life, this would be a common happening. And plus these rare events (instead of common happenings) are more interesting to watch on TV - they make good fiction.

Originally posted by: S.Stephy

Well, firstly I think it would be difficult for someone to understand a person like ASR. It would be difficult for someone like ASR in real life to find a girl who will try to understand and love him despite his tough mean exterior. Its not a easy thing. And there is also a possibilty that girls will be attracted to him for money, status, etc and not for his personality per se. So the idea of girl understanding his soft side, putting up with his mean side and her love changing him... all this is a rare possibilty. I don't think in real life, this would be a common happening. And plus these rare events (instead of common happenings) are more interesting to watch on TV - they make good fiction.

Now to your question... what if it was a girl with ASR characteristics. Again it would probably be a very rare chance for such a girl to find someone who would truly love and understand her. But again it would not be an easy or a common thing.

Note: When I said ASR characteristics, I meant the tragic past, trust issues, the pushing down the first floor, the gold-digger insult, etc... not just a bit of hot temper.