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BellatrixAndTom

@BellatrixAndTom

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Posted: 13 years ago

#61

Superb post momma1128. I wish people would understand that criticizing something Khushi does or does not do does not automatically mean that they are Khushi haters or ASR droolers. Hope the sarcasm coated generalizations will stop. I was fed up yesterday with the ease with which comments about a perceived characterization flaw were branded as the progeny of a mind clouded and blinded by a thoughtless fascination and obsession for the handsome male lead.

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lovely

@lovely

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#62

To be really honest with you IF has changed the definition of discussion for me. I have taken too much of heat in other forums and like someone said I choose not to get involved to avoid unnecessary headache.

Normally I can never justify nor do I relate to zny female leads of Indian shows. They are shown to be too extreme. But this was a show where Khushi was shown to be gusty and I loved it and not to mention that I adore ASR.

So I decided to be active on this forum again. And to my bad luck they messed up khushi's character. Going by the past experience I chose not to comment becoz I knew what would follow.

I agree with you they need to show khushi's POV and work on her character. Unless and until that is shown this is not going to stop.

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Rehanna aka Parri

@Black_Paradize

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#63

dear dun be upset...tht happened with me aswell...but who cares ... here we are to express wht we feel not wht other think of us? be relax bunny and say wht u want to say...ppl who agree would comment and who dont just write "there's no room for bashers here" ...i dun understand whts the problem here? every one have his/her own point of veiw but ppl dun let u be happy with tht and try to impose things upon u tht they feel are correct... just dun worry abt any thing dear , relax and ignore like i did when tht happened to me. and specially em very much annoyed of ppl here with women rights boards... wht ever guys ASR is not a rapper or any thing like tht, wht if he is treating his own girl the way he wants, if she's not happy with it ,she'll let him know by herself. she is not a coward person ,so stop raising ur voices over her being manhandled,physically abused or any torture by ASR. comon i mean ...

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Aisha

@asha...

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#64

Thank you for this post Anu 🤗...nowadays before I reply to a post...I think 10 times...even a little criticism on Arnav and Khushi an your labelled a part of KPS...OR ...APS...and I don't like arguing and wasting my time in such things ...especially when the other person has already judged you...I watch this show for both...not one of them...and if people are not even allowed to have different opinions without someone breathing down your throat...then I don't see the point of this forum!!!

Agreed Khushi needs some internal monologues...but at the same time...I liked how she took a stand and asked him ''Kyun''..and wanted an answer

Edited by asha... - 13 years ago

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Japonica

@Japonica

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#65

ABSOLUTELY! Thanks on behalf of all similarly peed off women. This was a much needed reply to all the uneccesary polemic that is going on around.

Edited by Japonica - 13 years ago

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stardust-

@stardust-

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#66

couldn't agree more with the replies and the post!

frankly, i am more than sick of these labels! i like Barun. does not in anyway mean i don't like Sanaya! period! and vice-versa for those who agree.. as for the characters, there are fictional! there'll always be something you would like and not like in them.. why get so worked up?!

i wish i din't have to think twice before saying something nice about what i like.. free expression comes with a price of accusation here!

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sayani2807

@sayani2807

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: solembaum
Anu, good post, forum atmosphere has not been that great for sometime now... and i try to read only few posts where I am comfortable... But I don't think it is only the Khushi Protection Squad that has to heed this advise... I have felt that ASR fans have bashed Khushi quite a bit... I had stopped reading general posts after what felt to me like a huge bout of Khushi bashing on this forum... and I am not taking criticism as bashing... But that post about men are not toys and the comment that her open smile brought her father to a near death situation and she still has not learned from it... I find those as unnecessarily instigating comments and I would not count them as constructive criticism... So I guess some Khushi fans and some ASR fans too need to be a bit more careful about how they word things...
But on the whole agree that we should be able to have healthy discussions on the forum... I am sorry if I offended any of you... i don't belong to either group... and I am mostly a silent reader ... I have probably participated in very few discussions.. and reading too is limited to posts by some people... and while we may not have the same opinion always , your opinions are always a pleasure to read... and I rarely miss your posts...

and I never knew this nasty PM business is here also!!! I had heard of those in the horror days of DMG forum!! I hope people stop this nonsense!! and @napstermonster and shybabe, please keep posting...

agree wid ur post 😊

especially d abv bold part..

Its sad to see dat Barun & Sanaya r working soo hard to keep us entertained,to rule the trp charts & here we r fighting on petty issues,dat 2 abt fictional characters..

Its f9 to criticize or defend a character,but in that process behaving badly wid a forum member is totally unacceptable & uncalled for..

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sayani2807

@sayani2807

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: sayani_monaya

agree wid ur post 😊

especially d abv bold part..

Its sad to see dat Barun & Sanaya r working soo hard to keep us entertained,to rule the trp charts & here we r fighting on petty issues,dat 2 abt fictional characters..

Its f9 to criticize or defend a character,but in that process behaving badly wid a forum member is totally unacceptable & uncalled for..

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momma1128

@momma1128

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: sayani_monaya
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Regarding the post you are talking about : the member there very openly said, did she not, that she has a bias. Many many people took umbrage with that topic and told her so. Later, if you revisit the post, she did in fact explain what she meant to say. But not before, she was accused of any number of things...least of which was what she admitted too, which is having a bias towards Barun.

My point is, there is a way to conduct ourselves in discussion. If you find someone's comments instigating, then call them out on it and say I find this comment ------- (fill in the blank). Let's not get down to the name calling.

Can you see here how many people don't comment because they feel they cannot utter a word without being baselessly attacked. The members, not the characters, are real people. Even the insinuations that everyone here is a drooler - stop it.

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momma1128

@momma1128

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: lovely
To be really honest with you IF has changed the definition of discussion for me. I have taken too much of heat in other forums and like someone said I choose not to get involved to avoid unnecessary headache.

This FORUM changed the definition of discussion for me. I came from a forum where we talked about the characters and their shortcomings all the time. There was heated debate, there were definite points of view, but never were the members labelled as droolers if they took the male lead's side and nor were they labelled man-haters if they took the female lead's.

It is ridiculous beyond here. It's hard to hold on to sanity at times in this forum. But I freaking love the show, so I am stuck in pergatory.