Sushpective: So what does ASR really stand for? - Page 5

Originally posted by: cindrella255

hey Sush!
Loved the epi...and I agree with ur ratings...
While v expected a comedy show, things changed and it turned out b realization time...
Arnav...this man really has to turn his mind away from money...
And also I loved that it was Payal who threw the truth at his face, the victim herself...its more effective...
I din't like Kh n Arnav barging in, while two were talkin (khud toh tanhayee main sab kuch kar lete hain doosron ko baat karne tak nahi chodthe!) but loved when Payal-Akash told them off!
ASR n business...Akash's confused "kis deal ke baare main baat kar rahe hain" was hilarious
And Arnie's green face " Zaroor apne fiancee se baat kar rahi hogi" and "kiss se baat rahi thi " thru gritted teeth was awesum
And coming to ur question, I think he does not want 2 prove her wrong...He regrets for his actions and also wants to be a gud bro dat was evident from his question "Won't u regret ur decision in future?" ...
May be a combination of both guilt n concern
So I think he really wants his brother 2 get love of his love (though I don know how n when it started 😆)
gr8 post Sush! now off to other replies

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Thanks, Sush ... you are too sweet 🤗

Shwets ... I was sooo happy about that - Payal's broken marriage part ... it's time that the cv's started pulling some threads in ... I said on the trp's thread that I felt they were getting too complacent with the ratings and were happy coasting ... hopefully they will pull their socks up and get a move on now. They have been careful to put in lots of links and loops, but it would all be meaningless if they weren't brought out properly.

as for pointing out things ... I think this means I have way too much time on my hands these days ... or my IPK obsession is getting wayyy too unhealthy!! 😆

Great to catch both of you online together today!

Hi Diya---- I second Shwets & Sush --- your comments could be threads in themselves!!! They provide clarity while inspiring further thought!!!

@bold: true that!! There are a lot of lose ends that need tying in. The payal was a good beginning and now the infamous fashion show encounter...i hope they are able to weave everything in for us!! It's a great show with unconventional characterizations...i would hate for it to become just another "could have been" like the others that start with a bang and then fizzle out!! Not that I have any reference point...but you get the drift!!!😉

Originally posted by: Zuzana

Loved the epi..and loved all the discussions here. Nothing much to add..I too feel his action to help payash is a result of his guilt conscious and care for his family. Maybe he realised just how he had disrupted a whole family by his actions in the same way as the scattered pearls. As you pointed out Sush..hope he realises in time the value of losing kushi just to gain control.

@Sharu ... agreed with most of your points too ... if Khushi had said yes, Arnav would have said no ... but they both started off the way I expected, BOTH opposed Payash without bothering to find out Payash's feelings ... well, Khushi didn't know Payal's, but Arnav saw Akash propose and he straightaway jumped to opposing them because it was Khushi's sister ... class is the weapon he uses, that's all ...

Also agree that most of Arnav's decisions seem to be Khushi driven these days ... actually I should say, most of his reactions are Khushi driven - knee jerk in opposite direction ... then he comes back quietly like good boy and does what she says! 😆

and I agree with Sush and Renu ... I wish they don't use this to show Khushi's unsophistication just for laughs ... they can use this track far more meaningfully - that part put me off, esp because it really wasn't needed. Thankfully they kept it short.

Originally posted by: MsUniverse

So what can I say about today's episode that hasn't probably alreday been said...The whole epiosde was a treat to watch...

Hello Sush, I had a long day at work and the episode Refreshed and Rejuvenated Me😛

OK..coming back to the episode..apart from everything else that has already been appreciated...Like Khushi's dialogues, their nok -jonk...etc etc...There are 2 things I LOVED about todays episode...

1) I am glad that Payal had the guts to refuse Akash the way she did and remind Arnav of his past behavior...all that the Gupta family had to go through and the part he had to play in it...Khushi is too nice and too much in love with the Khadoos to bring all that up...but I am glad Payal is there to be thinking about Khushi's feelings...It matters to her...I am glad it matters to some one how Khushi feels/ felt...

Me too Loved Payal in tonight's episode. And I think if it wasn't for ASR and his taunts she would have just said a NO and left but the way Arnav talked to Kushi and about them together about stop day dreaming and all made Payal lose her control. And loved it for another reason that Arnav got to hear it from Payal herself who suffered because of his arrogance behaviour on that night.

2) I loved not one but both Gupta sisters breaking Arnav's claim that they are after money...they will jump at the first opportunity to grab a Raizada...Do you think ODB will remember this next time he talks to KKG about being a golddigger?

I think in Kushi's case its his iron shield, when ever he loses control in her presence and his weakness is visible he will use it.

If you have noticed or not specially these days (after he got to know Kushi) he uses those golddigger dialogues when he loses control and Kushi is still in control of her senses. He covers up his weakness with those hurtful words and he knows it will be direct shot at her.

The most intriguing part in todays epiosde was Arnav decided to do what he decided to do...A few weeks back when this promo came up...I wrote...What does..Mr. Arnav Singh Raizada really stand for? Through out the serial..he has been consistent about one thing...that he is class conscious...He does not think highly of people who do not have money...So why on earth is he trying to fix his brother's marriage with a girl who shares the exact same background he is supposed to hate about Khushi...????

It is certainly not love as he pointed out himself...

So is it because he feels guilty about what he has done and he wants to fix it?

Or is it because he can not take "no" for an answer and the fact that Khushi was opposing something means he has to go all out to be against that?

Or is it because...he is being a big brother who will get the candy for his younger brother if he wants it? (This trait of him for Akash has certainly not been visible so far in the serial)😃

I think its partially his brother's happiness and partially his conscious is pricking at him for being the reason to break Payal's wedding.

But did you notice when he called Kushi, and she said my sister's answer is no and he says I don't care my brother is not ready to take no for answer. I will get him what he wants😆 but our Kushi girl she has some guts hangs up phone on him and then when she comes to know about Payal she calls him back.

Whatever be his reason...one thing is for sure...this track will hopefully let him examine...exactly what is it that he does not like about Khushi? Why is he unable to take charge of his own life and make a sensible decision for himself as he seems to do for other people?

I think there is nothing he doesnot like about Kushi, he loves her just the way she is and Yes, he did not realize it that is altogether another topic. But why is he not taking a sensible decision you ask? for him marrying Lavanya is sensible decision, remember he tells his Jija that he doesnot want to those breaths which will stop just because of a girl or something like that. He always wants to be in control of emotions and with Kushi from the beginning that is what he doesnot have let it be anger, passion etc etc.

Or is it because marrying Khushi for him is not a sensible decision and marrying La is...?

Enough questions for discussions...Please do post comments/ feed-back...I am hoping my buddies Diya and Shweta to chime in with answers as well...

Rating...9.6/10...Still leaving room for Arhi passion for each other when they truly unite...

😆 I was wondering why you took .4 points

Sorry if this post is to heavy for the mood everyone is probably in...still hoping that you will comment/ give feed-back😃

Originally posted by: MsUniverse

Hi Princess...Mr. FIX-IT put his work hat on today!!

Yeah...these two...they barged in between Payash like it was their issue...😆

😆Both are Type As

About his question to Akash...Does he himself think that he will not regret his decision to marry La?

Originally posted by: MsUniverse

Hi Princess...Mr. FIX-IT put his work hat on today!!

Yeah...these two...they barged in between Payash like it was their issue...😆

😆Both are Type As

About his question to Akash...Does he himself think that he will not regret his decision to marry La?

gr8 discussion going on...And the same question did arise in my mind...when he asked it 2 Akash?was he asking himself too?!
but for him Kh brings the vulnerable side in him which counts large amount of regret from him...so he thinks he s better with La!

And agreeing with above discussion is it necessary 2 show Kh like this?! forget etiquette I mean she s Sanskari, will a sanskari gal open a pack like this?!
CV's make Kh a toy...
feisty when they want, bechari abla naari...kismat ki maari sometimes...(I don't mean being tolerant or selfless here)

Originally posted by: sbk2

He's a strange Mr. FIX-IT... he can't fix his own situation himself - I guess fate and Snake's deception will fix his situation for him.

Now that you mentioned it, I'm totally imagining him with a workman's hat on his head and a tool belt around his waist plus his business-like demeanor...a good looking Mr. Fix - it! 😆

oye shwetsy! yeh kya kiya?! me too riding my horse of imagination! he looks gud!

I think there is nothing he doesnot like about Kushi, he loves her just the way she is and Yes, he did not realize it that is altogether another topic. But why is he not taking a sensible decision you ask? for him marrying Lavanya is sensible decision, remember he tells his Jija that he doesnot want to those breaths which will stop just because of a girl or something like that. He always wants to be in control of emotions and with Kushi from the beginning that is what he doesnot have let it be anger, passion etc etc.TRUE THAT RADHE!!!WAITING FOR THE DAY WHEN HE WILL SING THIS TO KHUSHI>>>>>NOT LA>>>>[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HpyZEzrDf4c[/YOUTUBE]Not intending to SPAM my own thread...😆😆😆😆😆😆but couldn't resist...

some awesome discussion going on loved reading all of them.

Sush and diya yeah we all agree that aranv acts or reacts for kushi 😆

About kushi yeah you need to remember that she is just 18 , from lucknow and always speaks her heart/mind out.
i thought whatever missing etiquette and dress sense that is clearly contrast to ASR is kept intact which itself has a capability to grow as a track when arhi marriage happens in haste.

kushi as we all know has the tied hairstyle and chamkili dress contrast to ASRs designer suits. still he cant help falling in love with her.
i was telling to Zu that may be he will not get irritated with it.
but will help her to get elegant and stand upto ASR , i know its kind dream . but the way he was behaving in restaurant it looked like .
he has patience and willing ness to teach kushi 😆 when he has mind for it 😉

i have take it that ASR is necessary evil so is kushi being naive.
but i loved her discomfort when she has to say payal loves Akash
she simply skipped pyar instead moved to feeling 😆
(sanaya was so good here and also the way she was biting
that pack, this girl does thinks which typically no lead will do 👏)
and also that she was so uncomfortable that chai and biskoot was welcome
diversion and as usual ASR does not like kushi getting into any other interesting stuff except himself, when he is there 🤣

i wonder how two will sit and decide on what further plan to do.
it will be fun to see both on same mission for a change.
may be they will realize how similar they are but always
express it in exact opposite way