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Posted: 13 years ago
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GREAT analysis Anu !!!
Agree with each n everything u said !

*edited--- copying the same i wrote in community-drive's post*
There is not going to be any confession for sure... Arnav surely knows that she is unhappy... and by this move he is asking her to confess that SHE IS UNHAPPY... may be Khushi just blurts out that she is not happy and she did this engagement due to BUA 😡.. He doesnt want her to say that she loves him.. but wants to make her realize that she is making the wrong decision... !!! Once she tells him this...as always Arnav comes into action and starts Save Khushi mission 😆 I dont know HOW... but hopefully Khushi is out of her engagement... And may I hope that LA also backs off ... Today she looked sad and confused due to ASR's behaviour... !So LA also can come to the rescue for our Arnav Babu... in the sense... she already realizes Arnav's lack of interest and she may call off the wedding... and the icing on the cake would be that She confronts Arnav about Khushi... (*another wishful thinking of mine*)
Later CVs will bring Arnav and Khushi back to square one😕 ... bickering starting all over again😉.. then P-A track starts... Khushi opposing and Arnav supporting... 😆
CVs are keeping the Snake for the last... or say 2nd last .. as last would be Arnav's Past 😆
Edited by monsi08 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#42
ASR does not know that Khushi has been forced into her engagement. So, he has come up with this masterplan to make her realise she loves him.
What he does not realise is that she will be able to do nothing about it even when she realises it. The ball is firmly in his court.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: Neemsundari



I so totally agree with this analysis. ASR is a conflicted, tormented, man, yes, but his ego still reigns supreme. He will not reciprocate with a confession if Khushi breaks down. The only thing that can break him is if Khushi is dying/ in mortal danger.

Yes, he almost blurted the truth of his feeling to her...but it was not about love, it was about possession--- Khushi has always been at his beck and call, his to torture, protect or rescue, so all he feels is she is HIS property. And with her engagement, he feels she has betrayed that "RIGHT".

I do hope that he will soften up as time goes on though, because I don't think any of us wants to put Khushi in mortal danger!!

ASR will be the last person to put Khushi in mortal danger
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Posted: 13 years ago
#44
where in the world is this amazing love story leading? arnav is hell bent to worsen things 4 himself..
i loved his decision nyways.. just to prove khushi..no to prove himself he is happy..he prepones his engagement.. and gives an ultimatum..
what next? buaji will finalise the date of khushi's marriage.. and kh will readily agree to it.. why? to shhow arnav she is happy...
this is best love game we hav ever come across..
and ur analysis was superb dear..😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: momma1128

@Su - I know even ASR will bring the world to her feet if necessary, once she accepts him, but we are such a long way from there. He will however quietly be her hero as he has been for the past few months, if she lets him.


@Zain - we are back to elephants and monkeys on your back - bring the whole damn zoo because the engagement is going to be an all out animal farm - complete with hissing snake and hippobuamus.

@Anonymous - yes, I loved the fact that he acknowledged that she was a hard worker - but it was also a sideways dig because he is complimenting her in the context of doing the hard work for a project she worked on - getting La and ASR together - which he knows she wept about.

@Premparbat - I also think they are back to challenge days of the office. And we all know ASR never gets the result he thinks he's going to get out of those challenges. He ends up saving her despite his attempts to make her crack. ASR is impulsive about KKG - that is why she is so under his skin, but this decision was intentional but I agree, I don't think he understands or realizes the ramifications of what will happen if she understands kyun farak padte.

@Tink - they are such good players at round round. I love you but I have to stay away from you so I hurt you but then I get hurt seeing you hurt because I love you but I have to stay away from you ...damn I am dizzy 🤪 But yeah, this is getting so deliciously complicated and so many fronts are about to explode - can't wait - kind of like watching trains collide - you don't want to see it, but can't help looking (especially when the eye candy is so damn tasty!)

@ bold ASR is now somewhat getting on my nerves earlier his taunts his behavior everything was tolerable about him and now he wants Khushi to come to breaking point and confess her feelings so that it satisfies his ego. He doesn't feel he is the only one who is at the loss from this, even Khushi did love him.

I agree Khushi did really weep about getting La and ASR together but she will never regret what she has done. But, surely ASR will have to sit back one day and regret what he has done and is still doing, because this is not going to help him in any way Khushi is not going to sweep over his feet and say I love you and marry me.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: sunaina02

Anu - you have said it all in black ink on a white paper , simple and clear.

If after reading your post people say they do not understand what ASR wants - I would like them to read your post again and again till they understand .
Khushi lied.
Our innocent and naive Khushi lied . WHy ?
She is not innocent as she is supposed to be . She is good but not innocent .
She misses her parents but never let her "babuji" and "Amma" know that. She does not agree with everything Buaji says but nods her head to keep peace in the family . She keeps her secret feelings for Arnav hiden from Payal her dearest jiji
She is a diplomat , an experinced home-maker . What we learn after 10 years of adult "sansar-life" , she has learned from her pre-teen years .
So Khushi lied and defended her fiance . She doesnt get any pleasure from Shyam , she doesnt enjoy his company but she defended him . Why ?
That is her way of hiding her feelings from Arnav . She wants Arnav to come out and claim her .otherwise she will not give up.
Arnav wants her to say she loves him and will be only happy with him. Then he will lay his heart, mind, body and soul at her feet ( I wrote this in another thread) He may not do with with a declaration to the whole world . he may not even let khushi know . But he will be there , at her feet, always. Arnavs anger has no bounds , his love will also have none

I agree that Khushi is good girl but she is not innocent. I believe it is good for her because if she had been innocent people would like to take advantage of her, just like Shyam and Arnav both are is taking. For Arnav Lavanya is his ego and Khushi his love and for Shyam Anjali is the source of income and Khushi his love/lust (not still sure about it)

Why should she share her feelings with the man to whom she means nothing? Why shouldn't she lie and defend her fiancee? Why should she share her feelings with a man who always keeps on insulting her, questions her character?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: noor123


I don't think ASR's dialogues on the stairs regarding Kh's fiance were to elicit a response of truthfulness from Kh (that she loves him) - FAR FROM IT he wanted to hurt her through pointed taunts - he knows she is unhappy and WHY she is unhappy, but he wants the satisfaction of making her cry over her misery and wants to feel good and then bad on making her cry and miserable.

That is the way this guy works.

Also, 'bluff' is not a bluff - it is ASR's way of telling Kh that what she said about him being 'worried' and 'unhappy' is NOT TRUE - he wants to show her that not only is he willing to marry La but he wants the engagement as soon as possible.

Ofcourse, by tomorrow, he'll change his mind cos La may say that her family cannot be here at such a short notice and Naniji may make a 'mahurat' argument , so ASR will HAVE to relent to defer the ceremony for a month - but at a price - Kh will do the arrangements. It's simply a way to ensure that Kh is mentally tortured by the very fact that she will be arranging for her love's engagement while simultaneously ASR will have satisfaction of seeing her discomfort. That will make him feel like HE 'WON' OVER THE OTHER GUY, THAT HE WON OVER KH'S PRIDE, THAT HE WON -when actually he will lose and lose big!

I think ASR is going to get a BIG SHOCK when he sees that Kh is not that much perturbed doing the arrangements - what ASR does not realize is that Kh has accepted her fate - WHILE ASR HASN'T (he makes his own fate remember - that's why he is unpredictable and a nutcase - apart from being a self-made tycoon) - so she will not react to various arrangements like HE EXPECTS HER TO - making him more agitated.

THE ONLY REASON HE WANTS A RESPONSE/CONFESSION IS TO SATISFY HIS OWN EGO THAT YEAH, THE GIRL DID LOVE HIM, HAS ACKNOWLEDGED IT TO HIM - SO THAT HE CAN FEEL HE 'WON' OVER THE OTHER MAN! And that's about it. ASR will do NOTHING if and when he finds out that Kh loves him - cos that is beside the point remember? And Kh will NEVER break off her engagement even if and when she confesses - cos that is beside the point as well (her family comes first).

ASR will get angry that she is going ahead with the sagai despite confessing she loves him, and will be even more mean to her - displaying affection to La as a ruse to displease/ hurt Kh. And Kh will b more miserable cos she will have hell in RM and feel like she IS IN hell with the non-compatible 'dates' with to-be-hubby Shyam.

It is all a power play by ASR - but for reasons other than those u mentioned - COS EVEN IF KH ADMITTED TO LOVING HIM - HE CAN'T GIVE HER WHAT SHE WUD WANT - A MARRIAGE COS HE HAS HIS EGO, PAST & EVERYTHING HE HAS STOOD FOR FOR 26 YEARS TO THINK OF!

And it will get even more interesting with P/Akash marriage talk. And yeah, it IS getting very very interesting!

Woww.. Amazing.. just pulled the words of my mouth!!
This is what i also wanted to convey! he wants to show her that he is happy without her and at the same time he wants her to feel sad that he is not with her..
even if she confessed he wont marry her. or neither will he confess back.. then wats the point in confessing?
i am feeling very very nervous for khushi coz this guy wont let her live in peace and CVs atleast show us something abt what arnav is realling thinking and what he wants actually.. we are still not clear that he just wants to satisfy his ego or he wants to live with khushi..
actually i want to open a new thread for this above question.. post ur comments guys!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jeeez ! aren't u the best analyst ova here???...YES ! U R! 👏👏...Totally BANG ON Anu dii !👍🏼...u nailed it as usual...nothing to add ! the wait to hear ur take is alwaz worth ! Keep posting !🤗🤗...n yeshh v need ur posts often to understand da complexity named Laad governor...😆


This forum has really got such talented ppl arnd...whether its Geet's emotions unfelt...Sunaina dii's sarcasm...😆...Sush dii's SUshpective...Diya di's weekly take...Sathu's wonder quotes n in depth thots...Opti's Optimism... ..Aditi's unique emoticons...n finally ur wonderful posts and sense of humor😆😆...(ufff...big list😆)...all of u guyz r ⭐️ of this forum..👏...a big 🤗 to ya all !

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@littlemizzsunshine - no I didn't mean Khushi's calling ASR's bluff. I meant ASR calling hers. He called her on her bluff with the payal in the car - he was ready to have that conversation she was forcing by the pool, but because he messed it up so badly - she told him in the car the payal was not important to her - and that made him even angrier. I don't know where ASR is going with her realization, but I do know that he doesn't want her to be unhappy. Usually people just lead a horse to water - ASR jumps on its back and pushes the face down and makes them drink.

@nehuu - it is the best game on tv

@anonymous - her tears are not for the regret for what she has done, but for what she cannot have...but then, she is also wondering how she ending up wanting something she was handing over anyway. I don't think it is about his ego - it is definitely mammoth - don't get me wrong - it's about why is she bluffing about this to the family. Remember what he believes marriage is for other people - he said it to his Nani about his Mami and Mama - if they make each other happy, that is all that matters and here he knows she is not.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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@pinky @garima - it is totally about figuring out why farak padta hai to him and how much of a bluff today's mujhe koi farak nahin padta is to her. Thanks for posting!

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