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momma1128

@momma1128

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Posted: 14 years ago

Thank you CV's for finally finally giving us a thought process!!!

Of everything that I enjoyed today - the most was actually the time given to internal thoughts.

Without that internal conversation ASR had about why and what is it about her tears and HER that made him stop and feel bad, made him feel something, made him want to change, we would not have been privy to ASR's moment of realization that he has fallen for KKG. For me, ASR brought La back to fulfill his promise that if he found someone that he loved so much that he forgot himself, he would stay away from her. La is a pawn being played by King Raizada to keep Queen Khushi from capturing him. ASR, abhi khel baaki hai sir.

And FINALLY insight into what is going on in Khushi's head. The scene in La's apartment where she is bothered is so much more effective because of the voice given to the thoughts in her head. Even the point where she wants to buy plants and sells her bangle, so much more effective because we hear her thoughts - why should they suffer for my mistake?? This simple thought sets up her conflict so well. Here she is giving La Arnav's hand, she has set up the reconciliation, but why is she feeling that she just gave something away that she didn't even know she had or wanted?? It's enough to wipe the smile off her face and shed a tear for what might have been.

I guess you never know what you want until you realize you may never have it.

p.s. - Please writers, having built La back up to having self respect, don't destroy her again. I had to grit my teeth through the gulab jal bit.

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aa123.80

@aa123.80

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Posted: 14 years ago

Great post Anu...

Yeah, the way the CVs focussed on both their thoughts was good. Arnav's thoughts have still been shown in the past, but nothing from Khushi's side. So it was great to see her finally questioning herself about what's happening to her.
Arnav finally admitting that her tears make him weak, and thus we know why he uses his anger as a defence mechanism, especially against Khushi, and most importantly, why he accuses her of being a manipulative girl who pretends to be good, and uses her tears as a device to get what she wants. Cause inside, he knows it's those tears that make him crumble, and he tries very hard to refute those feelings and convince himself that that the tears are fake.

And Khushi, what she didn't do to reunite La-Arnav, and when finally they do, she's not happy, in fact she's crying. I loved that look between Arnav-Khushi when he's hugging La, and looks at her all surprised, and Khushi just walks away. She's wondering her plan's finally successful, but she can't help feel like something's just been snatched away from her. And she feels like that when she sees Arnav hugging La, cause she's hardly seen him reciprocate those feelings to La.

I'm just hoping the CVs don't show her directly in love. Rather, it would be great if we saw a gradual difference in her behaviour with Arnav and a lot of monologues.

Oh, and yes! I reallyyy hope La's not turned into a vamp this time around! It was so good to see her as a normal girl with self-respect. I want her to see it herself that Arnav does not love her. It's wayyy too obvious! I wish they show her using some brain atleast now!!
Yup, the bimbo in her was back with the gangajal and "powder" moments. 🥱

-Ishita

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Sunaina Mitra

@sunaina02

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Posted: 14 years ago

Anu -I will coment after I watch the episode tonight .

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arshia

@ashvez

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Posted: 14 years ago

@Momma..have yet to see the epi..completely...had guest n guests.

Well, you have given a very appropriate gist.But , somehow that hug was not required nai...that too donon haathon se..In a way agar woh hug nahin hotah toh shayad Khushi would have never realised the loss.

But, as u said...LA should leave with dignity...whenever she realises that Arnav was never hers, nor was she .LA loves to be ASR's GF and the very idea of getting married to him is something new and exciting...I don't see any true Love here.The process of her change was just to impress the NAni and get accepted in the household as that would matter to ASR especially Anj's verdict.

Jo bhi ho...the whole Navratri we would have Khushi in RM, and the conflicting thoughts in both of their heads.Ab, we have to see who acknowledges first the feeling of being in Love with a complete opposite of what they want...in Khush's case dreamt.

Ash.

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@SK1991

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Posted: 14 years ago

anu...🤗
awesome post ya...

I think our jalebi girl z confused now...and ASR also...😆...koi tho jake in donose kehedona that they are in love...😳

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gilgamesh

@gilgamesh

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Posted: 14 years ago

I loved the dawning of realisation on both...and also hope La gets to leave (if she does) the show with self-respect - perhaps her gift of friendship to Khushi will be to "return" him to her...am keeping my hopes that no matter what they show, devi maiyya and her dupatta will perform the final miracle between the two!

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ktms

@ktms

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Posted: 14 years ago

Yep anu,today thought process was well scripted.Dont come up with such good thinking once in a while cv's... keep it coming regularly!!

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Navin

@napstermonster

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Posted: 14 years ago

Momma, I actually absolve ASR of manipulation with Lavaniya to keep Khushi on her toes. I think, though he's perceptive enough, he's been thinking that his focus on Khushi is pretty one sided, and a nuisance, not a real threat to his peace of mind. Until the hug scene, that is.

Bringing Lavaniya back, was the easy solution here for ASR--It refuted Khushi's accusations, which clearly stung him (maybe because there was a lot of truth to the claims). Also, I thought felt emotionally blackmailed, and everyone, including Khushi had pressured him so much that the card, with the pseudo suicide note was the final straw. He wasn't happy about it (Dammit!) nor did he understand why he felt the way he did about Khushi, but I thought that the actual "Duh" moment happened during the hug, like a dual realization.

I thought his face showed total shock, a stunned realization that Khushi is actually crying with unhappiness at what she's been trying to accomplish for the whole day and what that implies for them. I feel that if he's been trying to keep Khushi on the playing field prior to this, he's behaved little better than Shyam, because after all, La literally moved out a night ago.

I mentioned in another post how this might actually hasten the La-ASR marriage/engagement track, not remove it from the picture, so I wont rehash. I just don't see him being able to go to Khushi and trying his luck there, given his vow to Anjali regarding soul-mates and staying away from anyone who left him truly breathless. He'd be terrified of Khushi's pull, and I do think they are setting up a LA-ASR marriage (or engagement) track for the Maha Episode. Maybe paralleled with a Khushi-Shyam marriage track? God that just made me actually shudder...

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--Nargis--

@--Nargis--

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree momma...i loved the epiphany for both Arnav and Khushi. ASR has in th epast reflected on his actions and reactions towards Khushi...but he had never admitted that he doesn't like to see her cry. Today this verbalization has cemented something for him...that perhaps he is falling for her...that perhaps he may be weakened by her tears...and thus agrees to go back to La...the easy route.

I understand that he is running form his feelings, and that he is saying true to his words that he would stay away from any girl that make him feel...but is not also breaking his word when he said he will not go get La back...if she wants to return, she will have to come on her own??

As for Khushi...I love her turmoil...and her innocence. When she see's Arnav reciprocate the hug, she is torn for a bit...hurt to the extent that tears come from her eyes...and then she questions herself... kyoon...mein hi toh chaati thi ke woh Lavanya Ji ke paas aaye... Again her saaf mann and innocence show thru.

I think it was a great episode, as this was the first time they have verbalized their mental question. Looking forward to instances where they both feel the connection and the pull again...

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Sejal

@-Leah-

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Oh man I am thinking I should edit the La post I made a few days ago .🤣🤣🤣..they are bent on making her stupid and Dumb..WTH you loser writers?...you want us to hate her😔.That whole gulab jal thingy and then the Tulsi plant.🤢..is there going to be family drama over that tulsi plant now..

The best parts were the Khushi alone parts.I have always wanted her to get alone scenes..where we understand what is going on in her head..what she feels..how she thinks..etc...even if it is tips thru the unwanted Shyam...I dont think she was as affected before whether it was at teej..or even when La was rubbing off mud from his face coz he never reciprocated 😆..but today he did just that and she didn't like it lol.( Arnav needs to show La more affection BTW)🤣.she doesn't know yet but she always had that connection with him even though he was horrible to her..the time when he saved her from the car,the time when she was stuck in the building and the last when both of them had that talk in the gazebo..the attraction was already building albeit slowly but it was there..we never saw it coz they never showed it(unfortunately).I dont beleive that she fell for him just today..today she actually expressed what she has been feeling for quite sometime. Now why would she love someone who has treated her like crap?..I think that is the question Khushi has to ask herself too coz despite all the hate,comtempt and anger shown by both of them in turns their defining moments are far superior and that is what makes them inseperable.

And yeah Arnav brought La back for the very reason you mentioned Anu.🤣...she is like his lifeguard protector.🤣.He needs to stop using her asap.I was rofling when he read the letter of her contemplating suicide and just went back in his chair to his Khushi thoughts.lmao.

Edited by xxXSejalXxx - 14 years ago

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