Originally posted by: LordLuminous
@Neelum Sorry, the rant was long and I didn't want to quote it because it was already a long post.
No worries. Sorry I am replying bit late. I am with my family.
I can understand that feeling, it was inhuman. Honestly, I probably won't be able to watch torture in real life, but fiction is a different realm for me. So I can't see the problem, but I respect that it bothers you a lot.
Thanks for understanding dear
But you see, anger is a fickle emotion. It destroys our morality. We can justify an act with anger and provocation. The idea is that Chandni was pushed to this limit is conservation in itself. We just saw a side of Chandni that didn't look very appealing. As a writer in me, it added depth to the character which made me attached to Chandni, but the human in me can see that this was actually very gruesome. Just like what Advay has done in the name of revenge.
Point taken but you have to admit advay has a much bigger reason for his anger
About the video, it was to make a point that a man's badnaami and a woman's badnaami are different. For Advay, it hasn't gotten him much. No one is taunting him like Chandni is taunted. I think that was partly Gul Khan's point of that video. Though, under normal circumstances, your argument if very valid in the real world.
True but chandhni was already badhnam before advay happened. All that is not just because of advay
Haughty? But Chandni didn't want the treasure, Indrani did. She was the one who did all this. And her justification was for her children's future.
But chandhni was the one who was doing pooja she knew for what purpose it will be used.
Honestly, it's not inconsistency. It's bad writing. Chandni should not be head over heels for Advay. The idea that she finds him attractive is fair, but she should not want to be with him and that is enough for me that she follows this. Also, I'm not sure what you mean romantically involved. I always felt Advay forcing himself onto Chandni. Neelum do you think Chandni is in love with Advay? Because then what I want to write changes. I'm just trying to make sure here.
Yes, I have always thought that chandhni was attracted to him and sort of in love with him for a long time there was no mention of Dev and all chandhni could think or talk was about advay. Yes sometime did invade her space and I would have liked a stronger reaction from chandhni at that time like a slap or something. But chandhni was shown to be lost in advay. May be indirectly but it was conveyed that she felt something for advay or at least I perceived it that way.
He doesn't give her false hope, he's not a liar? So what's with "Bhagyavan" and this shaadi act? Because that is him being very ironic. Advay calls Chandni a Parda or someone with many faces, but isn't treating her this way and acting so sweetly not the same thing. A lie. A tale. Fiction. Are you under the impression that Advay will keep Chandni happy after marriage?
You need to see season 2 to know what I mean. Advay wants to marry chandhni but he has never said he loves her. He calls her bhagavaan but he calls her jhooti, dhokebaaz all that too. he tells her she is his but at the same time he promises that he will break her family and he tells her that.
Do you think that Advay is going to start a family and give birth to Acchu. In my opinion, I want to call this character inconsistency but it's not even that. This is Advay and Chandni's characters. They are this. Did you know, Gul Khan's ML and FL have things in common? She purposely write them this way. They have common traits that certain tracks dissect. Take Shivaay and Annika in Ishqbaaz, they have their ego and attitude in common and that made them very compatible with how they react to each other.
I haven't seen Ishqbaaz, so can't really comment. I can only relate to ghsp. Geet was bit sad in beginning but the situation she was in who can blame her. Although MSK is my favourite hero but the way I related to geet was very personal. Being a girl I could understand her struggle. Here my issue is that chandhni character is changed according to track.
In this case, the dark aspects in Advay can be found in Chandni too. Maybe to a lesser degree, but they are there. They exist. Chandni is someone who is her circumstances. She is the way she is because life made it this way, just like Advay. No matter what she does, she isn't able to resist him an his plots. This is not an abnormal behaviour. Arnav did this with Khushi after she had overtaken him twice. You need to step up in certain circumstance. However, similarly to Advay, Chandni looks more inhuman with the nails.
Perhaps I don't agree, but isn't that the point of a discussion? A meeting of different point of views. I won't force you to like Chandni after the nails thing, but for me, I can accept it. 😃