my question to rikarians

I have seen a lot of stories written where anishiomru are shown guilty because they have not included rivya in the plan.

My question is it a breach of trust between couples when one spouse hides something personal of his brother's life. As far as they know veer is targeting Shivay, not the family.

My question is if your brother confide something with you and ask your help, you don't tell your spouse about it then why it is seen as wrong when omru are just being loyal to their brother.

Edit:

May be that is the reason Rivya now included in the plan(may be), because now they found out issue is not solely shivays it now includes rudy as well..

Do you think this show scenes have the logic to compare it with the real life. ?

Originally posted by: krithi1990

Do you think this show scenes have the logic to compare it with the real life. ?

I don't participate in forums discussions but since what you've asked implies to me too (as I'm writing as FS on this issue ) I'd answer.

Sorry I can't agree with you. According to this show the emotions ,expressions of some characters in the particular scenes and the action of the characters in the needed scenes are totally humbug.😲 When I tune in this show I feel something nonsense in some scenes. For example the backdrop scene. All their wives and the parents did not move an inch until they become outside of it. What a meaningful shot😡. Can you compare the emotions and actions of their relatives with real life one?

Originally posted by: AhamyTed

I don't participate in forums discussions but since what you've asked implies to me too (as I'm writing as FS on this issue ) I'd answer.

If it's an issue which can be well solved by discussing with everyone , there's no point of hiding .

Veer's issue was never only one person's . The moment he was shown shaking hands with Svetlana and all that Obro Barbadi thing they planned , it became a family issue.

Weren't they all affected by the auction or by sudden appearance of dead body in Lohri ?

I think if OmRu know about it , the wives too deserve to know.

There's nothing wrong in it. Both are smart and can provide good help. Hiding thing comes up when u think your wife would blabber things or her act would spoil the plan of others . I don't think BhavRi are like dt. They could've been alerted at least if not included in the plan.

(I guess the writer has also changed her plan and included them now )

Now I have a question for you ,

If you and your husband love each other a lot and are supposed to share everything with each other. Infact your husband even made fuss when you Hid something from him , would you like it when he's hiding his family problems from you ?

You left your family for him and he can't even consider you worthy enough to know his family problems ?!

P.S I just kept my view. No intention to bash anyone.

Originally posted by: nakshatra72

We audience know that it is a family issue.. But obros do not.. As far as characters go they think that auction happened because of Tej's stupidity, they don't know Veer was behind it.. They know veer is targeting shivay but they do not know he is targeting the whole family.. As far as they are concerned it is shivay issue not family:s

Originally posted by: krithi1990

Sorry I can't agree with you. According to this show the emotions ,expressions of some characters in the particular scenes and the action of the characters in the needed scenes are totally humbug.😲 When I tune in this show I feel something nonsense in some scenes. For example the backdrop scene. All their wives and the parents did not move an inch until they become outside of it. What a meaningful shot😡. Can you compare the emotions and actions of their relatives with real life one?

But I guess Veer was overheard when he was talking with Soumya about an Oberoi being involved and that he wants Oberoi Barbaadi.

Being loyal to your brother doesn't mean you should hide thing from your life partner whether it is small or big. In real life also if you got to know your life partner is facing something serious issue without informing you then it will surely hurt you .it make question on your capability to support your partner as well as it also make u think that r u that much trustworthy in your partner point of view. And about rivya capability there is no doubt both r strong and already tackle lot of problems successfully so there is no chance thing should be hidden bcoz of this.

And about veer is Shivaay issue then I would say it will be Shivaye issue upto it cause only Shivaay or anika but now he included Saumya and Tej so obviously it's turn to be family issues. Don't forget oberoi mention auction not only hurt shivika it hurts all family members bcoz he knows not only anika but Also family is Shivaay's weekness.

So being oberoi bahu like anika, Rivya should know all this, may be they would not included them but surely they should have known about all this.

This is my personal view . Don't want to hurt anyone emotion