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Posted: 8 years ago
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I haven't watched the ep yet but it's an Indian serial and they are going to show some bizarre and weird stuff sometimes that not all people will like. You just have to let it roll off you. And don't take this as me being like "don't complain." All I'm saying is that it's something I've learnt to try to accept with Indian serials. They'll be wacky and sometimes over the top and will bug you and I just try to ignore those scenes now because Indian serials show one thing one week and another thing another and the beauty of having eps every day and so many scenes at the end of a serial is that you can just focus on the scenes you liked and ignore the wacky scenes that didn't quite fit your vision of them.

Though I am hoping that they bring back more intense and meaningful scenes between Shivika rather than just funny moments with family. We barely get any scenes of them alone anymore. We need the intensity back. If all the marriage scenes are going to be like this then I'm just hoping they get a move on and get them married so we can have normal scenes back.

But I'm hoping that they do better than that and as soon as they start the functions that the intensity is brought back. Because it'd be a shame for intense moments that we've invisioned for their wedding to not happen and it just to be filled with comedy and moments with family. I don't want their wedding to be peeka peeka. These are meant to be the biggest moments of Shivika and they deserve to be intense and grand and intimate without always needing to share the focus with their family.

It's like they want to show Shivika romance and family scenes which is fair enough and to save time they decide to mix both together which leaves a bad taste in the mouth because they should be separate and mixing them is bizarre. They probably think this way all fans will be happy because Shivika fans are getting Shivika romance and the other pairings are getting scenes too and family fans are getting family but they don't realise that by putting all this stuff together it appears very sloppy and weird and like it was just rushed together and no thought was put into it. This is literally what it is: family scene, two second Shivika romance in front of their Daadi and dad, family scene, another two second romance scene with family standing in the background and so on until it cuts away to Rikara or Tej and Swetlana.

For such a complex pairing that so much time and effort has been put into they can't just just think they can get away with putting cheap romance in anywhere and we'll be happy with it. It needs to be stuff that makes sense for them. You can't create such a complex pairing and then get lazy and put in stuff that doesn't fit them. Even if they give us one scene in the ep, I'd rather they give us that and it be great and meaningful and blow us away rather than having many meaningless moments of Shivika shoved in with their family. If they cut Swetlana and Tej then that could mean Shivika romantic scenes and family scenes could be separate rather than them romancing in front of their gran and Shivika scenes could be more imaginative than what we're getting right now.

Considering the length of my post I don't think I followed my advice of letting it roll off me very well.
Edited by notacrimetolove - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42
what does PDA stand for? acronym? I know what it refers to...;)
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Posted: 8 years ago
#43
Can't connect with shivika these days...
The proposal was done right n after that everything seems forced...

Shivay was so private about his married life n suddenly this whole family ke saamne

can't take ir
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44
I've been hating this ILU challenge since i saw the segment on the allergy ploy by SSO and everyone wanting Annika to confess her love infront of the family🥱
even i think that at least some things should be left private to only a couple, this makes no logic that a husband is planning with his whole family to get his wife to say her first ILU in public!
this is such a spectacle🥱

hated the last scene because little pda/romance is ok, but what he was doing with RuVya standing behind is very embarrassing in my eyes too.

Where is the SSO who once said that whatever happens between them is just for themselves and not privy to the whole society

i already tweeted how this is such an insult to shivika on Twitter, but funny some are trolling my post and are actually liking this and arent even able to differentiate between simple PDA/romance and blatant display of a couple private thoughts to everyone🥱

this is no longer funny nor romantic at all

what next? will SSO involve his whole family when he wants first kiss from Annika? when he has first night even that he'll tell his whole family🥱

a man in love indulging his wife is something else than what we are getting lately🥱
Edited by ashti1234 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45
🤢 this have been my response to past couple of episodes. I can't digest this mahi-ish version of shivaay. And just because he is in love he doesn't have to be ott in public. There are other ways of showing affection in oublic without resorting to cringy pda. Again a miscalculation of gulneet we enjoyed the cheapde/naughty Billu ji because he was that version of shivaay in PRIVATE not PUBLIC. I fail to understand why gulneet think we will enjoy shivika's private life becoming a public spectacle where everyone from dadi to bhavya have a part in. This is not cute it's cringy. I didn't sign to watch a grown experienced man turn into hormonal teenager with no self control. Today especially I was feeling second hand embarrassment on behalf of shivika for this cringe fest. There is so much to show they should follow up on emotional and psychological hurt both shivika went through during seperation forget seperation shivaay doesn't seem to have any emotional response to being essentially used and abused by his mother. Shivaay and shakti bonding, shivaay talking about his childhood I also wouldn't mind a little insight into shinky marriage present and. They can follow up on abuse anika went through and it's long standing repercussions. ShivIka can have serious discussions about thier priorities, how they want to balance thier relationship, future, sahil and his future, thier hopes and dreams, things they want to accomplish, children in the future all the things that they can talk about now that they had to skirt around before. They can show Anika working again and shivaay feeling neglected. They had build these characters and relationship on perhaps unintentional substance and now this mindless drabble is point less. The love antakshiri is so lame I can't even go there, is nothing sacred and private to shivaay a man who is fiercely protective of his privacy and relationship with Anika anymore.
And don't get me started on ugly hair of shivaay 😭 I want my well put together sso back.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I actually just watched the ep and the PDA actually wasn't that bad. All he did was touch her face and touch her hair somewhat and Rudra and Bhavya were acting very normal about it and tbh Anika always gets somewhat uneasy whenever he comes near her so it wasn't a big thing. All she was really bothered about was how he was acting like this during a discussion about Swetlana but it wasn't that big of deal and it was really only after he found a solution to their problem that he decided it was done and it was time for romance which was basically just stroking her hair. Tbh I didn't really mind it.

Yeah it was a bit weird how his direction of topic suddenly changed which felt a bit forced and odd and I did think that they should have had this scene without people there but the touching wasn't actually bad. It's not like that Dadi or his dad were there either. It was his brother and Bhavya and it wasn't like he was vulgar and he was kissing her or pawing her like some people have said. I do think if he wants to touch her or talk to her that he should make it a bit more subtle rather than shoving it in people's faces because during a romance scene I want to see Shivika not them and their families reaction to them but whatever maybe the writers could learn from this. I do think that they should keep the "I love you" thing between them rather than letting everyone know how this function is another chance for Anika to say "I love you" or whatever which I don't get because why does it need to be in front of the family at a function? Is it a tit for tat for Shivaay proposing in front of the media? If he said that and challenged her that he did that in front of everyone and that he wants to see how much guts she has then maybe I'd get it but here it's just weird and it's like what why? There's no explanation or reason for it? I also don't want a I love you with the family.

But either way I was expecting the scene to be very PDA but tbh it wasn't. In fact I found the precap more cringy for me.

For me the worst bit is the way the scenes are set and how the direction is changed from family comedy or drama suddenly into romance which makes it feel forced somewhat whenever they do it because of the sudden turn. They need to keep things separate and put them into different scenes so they can focus on one thing and make things more intimate when it needs to be.


Edited by notacrimetolove - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#47
Ditto. Like I wrote in the CC, he was way out of character at the end, especially since Rudy was clearly not comfortable watching them. Hopefully cvs will address this
Edited by charismatic-gem - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#48
At first even i thought it was odd but then i thought this isn't the SSO we're used to because he is in a new phase .. back then it was different because he hadn't acknowledged his feelings towards annika and at the same time he never knew how deep her feelings were towards him .. but now he is fully aware of his feelings and has even openly confessed it to Om and now wants to say those golden words to annika as soon as the right time comes. At the same time he is 100% sure that she loves him too. Love is something he hasn't experienced before. When it's all new it's not odd to be all touchy touchy and PDAing. Cut the guy some slack, he knows he is in love and is enjoying this new feeling.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: sky-if


Agree! Annika needs to give him (in private!) one of her irritated 'aapka kuch nahi ho saktha' talks and then bring out the Billu in him by confessing so this stops.. 😆



Why Private? Since he is busy doing everything PUBLICLY, she should also give him a KICK in his backside PUBLICLY only...since the junta's justification is that sab chalta hai in this new "lovey dovey" phase😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: incandescent



That's exactly how I feel. He could have chased Annika all over the house...steal some time together...breaking Dadi's two feet rule and have these moments in private.

Why on earth would he want to hear it in front of the whole family...and not just family...even guests. That's not Shivaay.



Apparently it is according to some people😕...Guess I didn't understand this character all along🤔

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