Mere Shivvay - Part 3 - Page 3

Originally posted by: asya34

Originally posted by: Ssyed001

As much as i loved the episode today - im kind of scared of what's next.

It seems that everything is moving too fast - like a train wreck. Also scared of Shivaay suddenly changing (hes done it in the past).

Also im in 2 minds about his motives to find out about Annika's past. I dont think hes doing it for annika, hes still doing it for his own satisfaction.

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

Getting her immediately back with haq doesn't mean he can see her as mom of his kids... He Just needs her... He wants her... He will keep her... With Or without kids in future... Wife She is... She is his companion... His saathi... Soul mate... But not necessarily the mother of his kids... Remember He told her during Kalavati track that I wudnt mind if u can't give me kids...

Yes he is an oberoi n it will take time to get over his NKK... But Him discussing it immediately after he comforted her that she is his wife wasn't what she cud expect... He hadn't expected him to accept her... Though she wanted it... She had always believed for him whatever she does NKK will always be imp... So when suddenly he accepted her... She felt relieved and calm that he is gonna b there... N then his mujhe Meri biwi ka past janana bahut jaroori hai can as a total shocker that he told he tone thing n is doing smthing else...

Yes Kate Middleton and Dutchess mein diff hai... I hv nvr said Annika is doing justice to begin his wife... She isnt... She has always been scared he will leave her and hence has nvr accepted she is Annika Shivaay Singh oberoi... Once She accepts that n yet doesn't be like what an oberoi bahu needs to be then she can b questioned...

Annika has a long way to go to be an oberoi bahu... She has to learn the etiquette of being the elite... She has a lot of learning but that doesn't take away that she still has fear that knowing bout her real bg Shivaay will leave her... Shivaay Not being in her life is her greatest fear... Dying isnt her fear... It's about Shivaay hating her, leaving her thats her greatest fear... The fear that if her past unravels she is the paap ki nishani wud Shivaay accept her like he said now that she is his wife... Those questions are scary to her to even imagine coz Shivaay is her heart.. Her breath... For Shivaay annika is his heart n breath too but his realization that she is those isn't there yet... He even to himself hasn't yet accepted or thought what she really means to him..
... and that is the journey that has just begun. The 'mother of his kids' will be revisited in a few episodes but that has to be gradually accepted. You cannot expect a change overnight. That is the second huge commitment and the true test of his love for her.
The journey has just begun ... he still has many more miles to go yet.

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

Pearl like pinky said we know what kind of kids r in ashram... Well if he comes to know she is a paap ki nishani... Young girl's mistake... What is he going to shut ppl's mouth with... Can He stop ppl talking bout Annika... Will He be even able to stop pinky from talking about Annika's ganda khoon... He can silence her but can't change her thinking... He himself has that thinking... So What is he going to do by knowing her bg? I know he is like that... But all I'm saying is he shud hv spoken that to Annika... Opened up about his worries to her... Coz this concerns her... She is core of it all... She is deffo scared he will ho back on his words of her being his wife once he knows everything coz like pinky said n she herself called her paap ki nishani... Knowing Shivaay She has almost no doubt that he can't accept some paap ki nishani as his wife... She will nvr have his respect... She has all her life heard ppl calling her all that n she dint give a hoot to it coz those ppl dint matter to her... But Shivaay's acceptance and then him digging out her past n him losing respect for her will break her... That's her fear... A fear of being accepted and then rejected... When She will be in happy bubble he might know her past and break her bubble leaving her alone

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I am sorry but hello plz do not stereotype kids in orphanages that is very offensive all kids in the ashrams are not najayaz you can never really understand the situation of any parent who is forced to leave his/her child and under what circumstances they did it plz just not say that it kinda certifies pinky ki bakwaas and that is not true.

Besides what is the guarantee ke anika is najayaz? Or Ganda khoon as they like to say it najayaz children are also human it is not their fault that someone decides to bring them in the world how can you hold them responsible for it

Besides shivaay doesn't have to go and announce to the world his findings he can totally keep them to himself no one else asked him to go and search for her past and find answers he is doing it for himself and now he has changed so much and even if he was the same old shivaay he would never use any information like this against anika or any other girl

Originally posted by: asya34

It is Shivvay's journey and we all wanted this fact to be out in the open, so that is what happened.
Some predicted he would leave Annika and that did not happen. Some predicted Annika would leave him - he did not let that happen.
Have a little faith in the guy. He has proven time and again in the past few weeks that he does not take either Annika or his marriage to her lightly and is very very committed to both.

Let the man take his journey and make his decision about NKK and its merit by the end of it. Just remember the fact that he cannot live without Annika.
My fear is more that Annika's background reveals something that puts the Oberoi's in a bad light. At that point if her parents, who have been looking for her all this while, ask her to leave Shivvay if she wants to be with them then i fear what predicament that is going to put Shivvay in.
Does he give her up so that she gets the Family she always craved for or does he hold on to her because he cannot live without her now.

Originally posted by: asya34

(Controversial topic I know but this is just my P.O.V. No bashing pls 😉)

Another notch on Shivvay's belt as a supportive and good husband today for just being who he is. The man seems to be unstoppable nowadays and hell bent on wining the "Husband of The Year" award as well.

Lets start with the mature and understanding husband who really and truly knows his wife inside and out.

- "Shivvay Mein Bahut Daar Gayee Thi ... Mujhe Laga Key..."

"Mein Chala Gaya"

The statement was completed in the most understanding and consoling tone ever. He already knew her fears and did not even listen to her message that she had just left on the phone to react and then return. He was there even before she had completed her message and sent it to him.

Shivvay is so tuned into Annika's fears and insecurities that his face mirrored her look of pain when he spoke with her. When she ran to him all he did was absorb her into him while she clutched him tightly as if fearful that he would leave her even now. Him just standing there while she plowed into him was him letting her find solace in him while he let her find it in him.

His embrace was protective, reassuring and strong - making sure to dispel those unwanted fears and calm her tensed body. What followed was Shivvay being Shivvay. He was the protective, supportive and proud husband who was surprised that his wife had to ask that question of him again. The pain that he wore in in eyes and on his face was because of how vulnerable and fragile she was mentally and emotionally to doubt that something like this would make him abandon her.

Now for the crucial statement that made his wife walk out on him. Was it misconstrued by her because she was in so much pain that all she could work on was her absolute and sure knowledge that he would choose his NKK over her??!!

Yes!! It was. It so completely and definitely was.

Think back to what Annika would always say would happen if Shivvay found out the truth about her background time and again with conviction and guarantee. She always said that the day he found out about it would be the last day of their relationship and all it stood for.

Never once did she doubt, falter or second guess that there could be another outcome. She was so completely prepared for the outcome of their relationship ending in her mind that it gave her no other option but to psych herself to believe that it is exactly what he meant when he was talking to his brothers in the kitchen.

What did Shivvay say in the kitchen?

He starts out with "Is mein Annika ki koi galti nahi hai" - His wife is completely blameless in what happened today and also for what happened to her years ago. How can she or could she have control over the fact that she is an orphan!

"Mein jaana chahata hun jisse meri shaadi hui hai who kahan se hai, kaun hai, kya hai... "

"Mere liye mere biwi ka background janna zaruri hai... bahut zaruri hai"

Is it important for him to know her background in order to accept her - no!!! it is not because he already has accepted her. So why is it important??

(Again just my viewpoint and some may disagree - I understand that)

It is important because then I can stop the world and especially my mother from spewing poison and hurting her beyond tears. I can stop her and the world from saying vile things about my wife. I can actually protect her if I know the facts because then I would have something concrete to fight with, like he was a simple middle class man who made and sold soaps but was hardworking and industrious. Something like that gives me facts and knowledge that I can use as weapons to fight on her behalf and make a strong case to put forward.

How can a man who has dealt with logic and facts all his life to make his point always, use absolutely nothing now to stand up against the world and fight for his cause.

There is nothing wrong with Shivvay wanting to know about his wife and where she comes from. It was not that he chose NKK over her but rather he chose her over his NKK.

He has already accepted an orphan as his wife and that was proven by the fact that he went to get her back home. What he needs now is resources and tool to be able to give that same wife the respect, honor and rightful place as an Oberoi Bahu. I do not see any malice in that action taken.

He truly is her Shivvay.