ShivIka/NaRbhi AT#208:Kaun Tujhe Yun Pyar Karega Jaise Mai Karti Hoon!

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Felicity_Khushi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#661

Originally posted by: ...Jes...
I get it Khush, U mean to say self destructive😳 Well, love has many forms and many stages. And I personally believe heartbreaks are needed to grow in life. Specially helps u to see the reality and makes u able to think not only about yourself. And yes u can again fall in love for sure, universe is always kind, all u need to do is let do the burden😳

and here, Anika is lucky😆 She already knows her husband is taadibaaz. I know his words hurt her a lot but at the same time,she can see what a genuine person her husband is and how he keeps doing for everyone,not only for her. And it will take time to them to settle ultimately, two person having two different ideologies cannot have it so easily. It is about time and patience if they want to be together, otherwise it is really easy to just let it go in my eyes.😳

you are thinking about the end, while we are talking about the journey Jes
Yes i know that in real the journey in love is the most beautiful phase in anyone's life filled with TLC and pain.
and right now their journey is unequal, so it's normal we will be sad/angry at SSO's words( unintentional at times i agree)
This is a show, hence we know they are end game, and this may in a way bias our opinions i guess

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TheTroubleMaker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#662

Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa
But i dont think Anika's love is one sided
Shivaye loves her but he is being pig headed anout it

Absolutely his lordship valli harqat

Anika's is not! Shivay is actually more into love than her!

She is still strong enough to let go of him, sign the Divorce Papers or leave his life for his own good but he is so much into her that he just can't stay a day without seeing her infront of him!

What he did in the hospital and after coming home to get her back is an example or not signing the Divorce Papers or always stopping her with some or other excuse!

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Felicity_Khushi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#663

Originally posted by: Crazy4Mayur

Khushi...ek tarfa pyaar ki taqat hi kuch aur hoti hai...😳

And u know, selfless love makes u stronger and a better person...one sided or unrequited or incomplete love!

It actually u keeps u sane coz wen in love, u do all sorts of nonsense things which u'd never do being urself 😆

Neha, i love SRK but dont give me his dialogues from ADEM😆

sometimes i hate SRK, because the romantic films he gave, the dreams he gave to stupid girls( yeah me included😆) never comes true😆

stornger to deal with pain and loneliness, but internally it makes you alone and empty

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Nandini

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Posted: 8 years ago

#664

On readinh all the lovely talk i wish i could cone from lappy tool like bhootni

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Jesmin

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Posted: 8 years ago

#665

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl
Jes and Khush u know I totally agree that NKK matter... We all do bg checks etc before we think about proposals for marriage... Forget marriage even while we do friendship smwhr class difference plays a role... Koi canteen wala apna yaar nahi ban jata... But when someone time and again proves their worth, ppl change their views about atleast that person... Yes Shivaay thinks differently about Anika but he hasn't reached a stage where he can tell others to stop insulting her... He himself in anger keeps insulting her... Keeps saying things which he may not directly say to her but they hurt her... He knows those things will hurt her n yet says them... So he hasn't learnt to respect her for being anika yet... He needs her, cares for her, trusts her but doesn't respect the person she is...
And after him forcing her into marriage, her doing so much for him... Him doing so much for her... He yet doesn't wanna accept she is his wife... Forget about media and society... He doesn't even accept that to her...

So I so want her to torture him in the name of this ML.. And make him accept that she is his wife n she is his need... That too infront of whole family...

Di, I also say something😛 And I know NKK Shivaay has taken it to another level but somehow I totally dont rubbish this thing cause it is found in everyone. who doesn't think like that? how many people doesn't shoo away the beggers from their car window? how many people joins beggars while eating? I may sound rude but it is true and found in every normal human. if SSO is to be blamed why not every human ? SSO actually has brought this topic in light and I feel related to him and am always happy to discuss his character.

And I am really looking forward to this track. She should at least test him and try to get assured , and get checks about her doubts. its a very intelligent and crucial track in my eyes if they can utilize it.🤔

Edited by ...Jes... - 8 years ago

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Felicity_Khushi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#666

Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa
But i dont think Anika's love is one sided
Shivaye loves her but he is being pig headed anout it

Absolutely his lordship valli harqat

😆

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Felicity_Khushi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#667

Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa
Heavy discussion in AT
waah

yeah it happens sometimes, we all surprise ourselves and really discuss😆

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vivacious_gurl

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Posted: 8 years ago

#668

Originally posted by: Felicity1234

i also agree that NKK matter, infact this is the first criteria which one has to check for marriage...
however NKK is ONE of those criteria not the ONLY criteria.

as far as i've experienced things in my life, i'd value a person for what he is more than what he stands for in terms of NKK
Actions matter more than NKK.
what will i do for 50 years in a marriage with someone with good NKK but not not even a good human being😆

Totally agree Khush.. NKK are only a starting point.. It is not the end... Relationship is based on lot of things... While choosing a partner the first thing u see is NKK but then that's it... It is not the reason for final choice...

I will speak from personal experience... I developed feelings of much more than friendship with a friend whom I met at some classes... The guy was an iitian... Working in a good company but to think of it his family financial status wasn't even half that of mine... I was always a upper middle class girl n he came from a Lowe middle class... Struggled for education... Was brilliant... Got scholarships thru out... Was extremely truthful in friendship... Very caring... If i had only seen NKK and status that wud hv been the end of my friendship also... But I believed in him.. His potential to make it well in life... His nature... His care for me... N thankfully my parents saw the same... 4 yrs of relationship... Now 10 yrs of being married to him.. I m the luckiest coz he has done everything possible to keep me happy... His live n care was enuf for me but he has made sure he gave me independence... Nvr once did he feel let down in life when I was at a career high n earning almost double than him... Let me take a break when I wanted to plan a family... Took family burden on himself... Has been the ideal son to my parents... Like I hv been ideal daughter to his.. Struggled with jobs to be a winner and give us as a family a standard of living which is even better than what I had earlier..

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Felicity_Khushi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#669

Originally posted by: NandiniRaizadaa
On readinh all the lovely talk i wish i could cone from lappy tool like bhootni

Bhootni meaning Jes😆

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TheTroubleMaker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#670

Originally posted by: Felicity1234

Neha, i love SRK but dont give me his dialogues from ADEM😆

sometimes i hate SRK, because the romantic films he gave, the dreams he gave to stupid girls( yeah me included😆) never comes true😆

stornger to deal with pain and loneliness, but internally it makes you alone and empty

😆

I love SRK too but I don't believe in Ek Tarfa Pyaar! 😆

Its either reciprocated or not there at all...otherwise its just chasing something u r never gonna get and makes u wallow in self pity!! 😆

@Bold: I completely get that :)