Zaroorat and Zimmedaari......Itna Confusion Kis Baat Ka Hai?

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livelytanu

@livelytanu

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Awesome post Neha.

Shivaay has always been like this. Emotionally awkward, especially to women. 😆. He has never expressed much about his feelings to anyone. Probably yesterday for the first time we saw Shivaay saying he loves her mother because he sensed his mother was vulnerable and he knows there is no one in her life other than him.

Shivaay has always been all about actions. How many times have we seen him saying I am doing this for my brothers because I love them so much. Same with Anika. He simply cannot express himself. But his actions never show that Anika is his zimmedari. It is much much more. We all know even last time he lied about zimmedari because he never signed the divorce papers. In the hospital scene we saw his vulnerable side because the situations were not under his control. But there in the room he returned back to his usual self and controlled his emotions well. But his actions are beyond confession. He doesn't need to prove it in words about Anika's importance in his life.

And absolutely agree about he being more in love with Anika. Anika has the strength to leave him still. But he doesn't, he cannot just. ❤️

I didn't find any disconnect with yesterday's scene. He is the typical Shivaay as he always has been. I love this Shivaay who is more into actions than words. ❤️😆

I just wished they showed us how Shivaay brought Anika home. 😆

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neena

@forumgirl

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

He has told his private investigator that
Anika is his wife! ❤️
So somebody knows other than his family.
Family- he will blurt out one day for sure. We will be thanking oh my maata for that!

So from zaroorat to zimmedaari to biii.. wiii is not far away!
Trust jus started to build up. Infact its strong now. He told her he trusts her.
Love is always ther.
Jus that he hasnt told her.
Woh bhi hoga. 😳

In between all this we will get to love and hate him so much 😃 😆

Edited by forumgirl - 8 years ago

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LTLFan

@LTLFan

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

I think he is not saying anika is his wife because he cannot declare that to the world. Private me kehke kya fayda? Right now he will say only if he is pushed to an extent like in Daksh scene where he said anika as SSO's biwi or when tia situation is cleared and when he can tell the world that she is his wife.

Also i think if he realised love and said he considers her as his wife clearly now then control chala jayega which is not good right now when tia mess is still there.😆 I would say take more time.😆 DBO is coming toh lot of time available in IB for slow progress.

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TheTroubleMaker

@TheTroubleMaker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: dattu21
Shivaay Singh Oberoi is the man of action rather than words!
you said it very well, Neha.😊 Infact I liked it that he is still in his character😆

I am liking the way #shivika story is going, not want to rush in any particular point otherwise what's the meaning of journey or story?No doubt, there is regarding this issue & many more will come seeing upcoming drama😆 & He is neither going to leave her nor allow her to go!😆

Yes...he is still very much in character...the reason he denied being in love...bcoz his realization is still pending!

I am also liking the subtle progression, the little care and concern they have started to show and a comfort zone that is finally there between them...Shivay doesn't shy away from kissing her unhesitatingly (even though a forehead kiss) and walking away or calling her most important woman or telling her, he needs her...he has started to be a little vocal than before...Yes his journey is long, but atleast he has started to move on the right path and I am so loving the changes he is showing <3 😆

@Bold: I loved the way u said it...nor allow her to go...exactly!😆 That's how Shivay is! 😆

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teehee

@teehee

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Thank you for the post Neha. I also didn't find anything wrong when he said zimmedari. He's in denial about live and what it means to him but that doesn't mean that he's not in love. It was completely plausible because the context he said the two things were so different. One is when he's longing for her and the other is when he says been through his moms OTT tug of war so anyway irritated and also Anika crying didn't help. I'm completely with you on this one 😆

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shanry

@shanry

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Crazy4Mayur
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I also feel that with the everyday insults, accusations and attacks on Anika, the physical attacks by NBs as well as the Verbal attacks by Pinky and Tej and Tia, there is another build up happening again...Shivay tries to stand by her without upsetting the family members but like he said yesterday...he feels mentally emotionally and physically drained...this build up might lead to him calling Anika as his Wife, if not infront of the world than atleast infront of the family, especially Pinky!

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I like how you feel and would love to see Shivaay revealing Anika's status in his life they way you've envisaged it. 😊

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IntrovertedDame

@IntrovertedDame

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Thank you.

Been reading a lot of posts, everyone is entitled to their opinion... but I think Shivaay needs to be cut more slack.

He said,

I am stuck between the two most important women in my life.

I don't see why more needs to be said.

As for the volte face about zimmedari...what do you expect. He is tadibaaz SSO after all🤣

For him actions speak louder than words. Taking a bullet for Anika. Telling everyone that it's Anika's home too. Clutching her hand even while hugging his mom. Asking for her first thing as he wakes up.

He is in a sticky situation himself..attacks are being made on his family members. Anika is in danger. He took a bullet. Svetlana is on a rampage. Tension between Om and tej. And to top it all ...his mom is in distress and against his wife. His wife too is in agony.

My verdict is that both Shivaay and Anika need a vacation.🤣

Anyhoo one thing irked me. The dadi scene which was completely pointless and irritating. Her lectures about Ishqbaaazi🤪 and the fact that we don't know why anika decided to come back. And what Shivaay said or did to make that happen 😉

And the writers need to clean up the plot and clear some loose ends. Some tracks are being dragged which is unpalatable. Otherwise.. nothing is deterring me from shipping this couple...rooting for them. Nothing will.😎

Lovely post Neha;)

Edited by YeHoKyaRahaHai - 8 years ago

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Roudy1

@Roudy1

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Lovely post Neha,
I really don't understand why people have so much of confusion over shivaay's character. We all know shivaay's actions speak much better than shivaay words. We also know shivaay trust and listens to his more than his heart. That is shivaay's style of dealing with problems.
Talking of whether he is in love or not, I think there need no explanation for this one, the last few episode did say a lot about it. The way he became reckless without her, the way he wanted her to be near him, the way he feared somethings would happen to her in his absence, the way he saved her. Don't all these lead to the fact that shivaay loves her a lot.
Thou shivaay has change quite a lot, his inner believes that are NKAK are still roaming around his brains. Still there is a lot more for shivaay to change, his journey just started so don't accept sweet lovely dovely words from him. It's just when situation go out of control his subconscious mind plays the roll and makes sure his wife is always with him. After All Anika has become his life without her he is lifeless.

Edited by Roudy1 - 8 years ago

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-Shobha-

@-Shobha-

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Loved your post, SSO is the best TV hero I have seen and love the most, so glad he is a complicated character, was getting sick & tired of the chocolate boy hero who is direct with his feelings and views in regards to love.

Love SSO when he is confused and stuttering, he is keeping Anika and us on our toes, once these two discover what love is then it will be magical, cause it will be the first time for both and I am looking foward to them teaching each other😊

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IntrovertedDame

@IntrovertedDame

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Felicity1234
Mujhe koi confusion nahin hein Neha

he's an idiot and loves her, but doesnt realise it and whenever he feels something is happening between them, his self-defense mechanism activates and he becomes/reacts like SSO for a few seconds😆

my issue is i cant take Anika crying so much anymore, the CVs need to buck up now.

This.

You're bang on Khush. We all know that SSO is irrevocably in love and so is she. In fact I'd pretty much say he is a goner.😆 only difference is that Anika has realized it.

Intensity wise I'd say SSO is far ahead. Ya, he is yet to acknowledge Anika in front of the world. But the magnitude of what this implies is much more. Everything is at stake for him. His family...his business...not to mention his own reputation. I don't think this acknowledgement will happen any time soon.

One thing is that I'd love Anika to be restored to her spunky self. It's not nice to be crying ALL THE TIME. I agree that it's been a tough couple of days for her...what with her realization and the accusations cast on Sahil and then the gunshot...but now I want fiery Anika back. Takkar ki ishqbaazi is what makes them special ⭐️

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