Zaroorat and Zimmedaari......Itna Confusion Kis Baat Ka Hai? - Page 3

SSO is the most confused person on this earth! 🤣
His life is like - Confusion hi confusion hai solution ka pata nahi 🤣
Actually he is not confused abt his feelings, he just does not want to adress them in front of anyone specially Anika!
He is Mr Tadibaaz SSO afterall!.
Out of character kaise ja sakta hai 🤣

Neha🤗 Need i say anything ? You're absolutely right as always... i agree with every word you posted... of course there's no way he would've admitted she is his Zaroorat when he was completely in his right state of mind but it doesn't mean his feelings changed in an hour😳

Neha the Best post ever. Hamesha poor shivaay is at the gun point. Thanks ji🤗

You have expressed it really well.👏

It is not really about Shivaay being or not being in love, rather he himself not believing that he can fall in love. SSO is in denial mode, rather selective about the reality he accepts. SSO is of the opinion that marriage is a business deal with ishq and ishqbaazi being mere words. More than Anika trying to make him realize, it is Shivaay who has to struggle between his preconceived notions about love and marriage and his true feelings. But he has already realized that his relationship with Anika is way beyond "a deal" but he is yet to give a name to that relationship as far as its importance in his life is concerned. Infact he has already fallen in love with her. But with all the unwanted incidents happening around, he hasn't really got the time to be aware of his own feelings. So he has definitely come a long way but still a few steps behind.

Zimmedari or Zarurat...all comes with love. Its a package deal.😉😆

I think its just that we have seen Anika's love for Shivaay whereas Shivaay is totally unaware or rather trying his best to avoid his true feelings (jo ki jaane anjaane main uski zubaan pe aa hi jaate hain😆) which is making many people restless( including me😆). But if the journey ahead is worth watching, then I'm sure the wait will be worth it.😃

Neha well said... There shud b no confusion.. Anika is Shivaay's zaroorat as well as zimmedari... He does show his feelings when he is in dire Condition...

Originally posted by: YeHoKyaRahaHai

Thank you.

Been reading a lot of posts, everyone is entitled to their opinion... but I think Shivaay needs to be cut more slack.

He said,

I am stuck between the two most important women in my life.

I don't see why more needs to be said.

As for the volte face about zimmedari...what do you expect. He is tadibaaz SSO after all🤣

For him actions speak louder than words. Taking a bullet for Anika. Telling everyone that it's Anika's home too. Clutching her hand even while hugging his mom. Asking for her first thing as he wakes up.

He is in a sticky situation himself..attacks are being made on his family members. Anika is in danger. He took a bullet. Svetlana is on a rampage. Tension between Om and tej. And to top it all ...his mom is in distress and against his wife. His wife too is in agony.

My verdict is that both Shivaay and Anika need a vacation.🤣

Anyhoo one thing irked me. The dadi scene which was completely pointless and irritating. Her lectures about Ishqbaaazi🤪and the fact that we don't know why anika decided to come back. And what Shivaay said or did to make that happen😉

And the writers need to clean up the plot and clear some loose ends. Some tracks are being dragged which is unpalatable. Otherwise.. nothing is deterring me from shipping this couple...rooting for them. Nothing will.😎

Lovely post Neha;)

Amri I agree with most of what u wrote. But not with the dadi's part, according to me I felt yesterday dadi's part was quite important.
U see when a person takes a decision or a person thinks over certain things, he or she thinks it over their point of view. What they feel is appropriate for them to do. He or she along may judge it right or wrong according to his perspective but this may be something else in terms of the other person. But when someone else starts speaking about a certain thing that is troubling u, u quite start thinking it in terms of that as well.
What I am trying to say is shivaay doesn't discuss his problems with any one he alone decides what is right and what is wrong. But yesterday when dadi was taking about ishqbaazi some of his ignored thoughts were triggered and he started at least for some time to consider them. As we all know thou shivaay subconsciously love Anika he quite ignores his feelings most of the time. So yesterday dadi lectures had some effect on him. Believe me even I am also one of those who falls a sleep on dadi's lectures but yesterday's one had it effects not only on shivaay but with all who were present there.

Originally posted by: ...Tanu...

Awesome post Neha.

Shivaay has always been like this. Emotionally awkward, especially to women. 😆. He has never expressed much about his feelings to anyone. Probably yesterday for the first time we saw Shivaay saying he loves her mother because he sensed his mother was vulnerable and he knows there is no one in her life other than him.

Shivaay has always been all about actions. How many times have we seen him saying I am doing this for my brothers because I love them so much. Same with Anika. He simply cannot express himself. But his actions never show that Anika is his zimmedari. It is much much more. We all know even last time he lied about zimmedari because he never signed the divorce papers. In the hospital scene we saw his vulnerable side because the situations were not under his control. But there in the room he returned back to his usual self and controlled his emotions well. But his actions are beyond confession. He doesn't need to prove it in words about Anika's importance in his life.

And absolutely agree about he being more in love with Anika. Anika has the strength to leave him still. But he doesn't, he cannot just. ❤️

I didn't find any disconnect with yesterday's scene. He is the typical Shivaay as he always has been. I love this Shivaay who is more into actions than words. ❤️😆

I just wished they showed us how Shivaay brought Anika home. 😆

Originally posted by: shanry

I like how you feel and would love to see Shivaay revealing Anika's status in his life they way you've envisaged it. 😊

Nadu

chalo koi toh ab bhi daadi ka fan bacha hai or at least thinks her lectures has an ampact!😳