About SSO and OUR Double Standars- Lets Flip our Thoughts - Page 2

Yes, a strong woman needs a storng man, but a strong man who respects her in anger as well as in rationality..

Anika is too good and that's why she needs someone who will push her onto the bed and put his boot next to her face---- wow.

We live in India and here domestic violence and gas lighting and rape culture are actual issues.

I agree SSO was never shown to be a saint and had been shown to have anger management issues but I never thought him capable of physically abusing someone or threatening to disrobe them...news flash...duryodhana and dusshhashan too only said and tried to disrobe draupadi so they are also exempt...

And its unbelievable to see ppl being OK with it..because its a daily soap , because nakul is good looking??

Rape culture spreads when we trivialize violence and abuse and its ramifications...Anika must have been terrified. Why can't we see that??

Also regarding the love sick puppy?? It will be much better to see a love sick puppy than an abusive male who resorts to physical violence to get his way.

Manhandling and physical and emotional abuse are never okay...no matter the circumstances or the mental condition..abuse is abuse is abuse.

Thank you for this beautiful post.

Lol the same ppl after so much shouting and bashing Shivaay still would want Anika to get back to her SSO...kyun bhai..? Why would you want a girl to get back to a guy who abused her, insulted her, attempted to rape her..? Gul should just show how anika lives a strong independent life on her own showing a middle finger to SSO and finding a guy who is anything but SSO...show khatam, everyone shall be happy... Yayyie go girl Anika..lol

I don't know about the character aspect of it all, but reading all of your comments (particularly ones in the AreYaar's thread too) has made me feel so much better about yesterday's episode. I had never imagined that I could laugh so much at yesterday's episode.

Thanks loads for making me feel better 😃

Totally agree with u!😊

Appreciating a performance and justifying actions is two different things... I loved the performances by both the leads... I am currently enjoying laughing and hating shivaay.. Coz he is supposed to be hated.. He isnt doing anything which is to be loved... But since as viewers we are seeing it all.. We surely know his reasons for totally going out of control; we are just stating them.

At some one saying the show should have the leads not ending up together... Well its to real for a fantasy love story and audience wont like it.

@aditi and @nikki obviously his manhandling was Incorrect - who is saying those where right thing to do? NO I said he was in his CHARACTER, but Let me point out one thing - Shivaay and his thoughts were NOT WRONG this time atleast- ANIKA slapped SHIVAAY because he DESERVED but according to ANIKA not according to SHIVAAY - coz shivaays knows the other picture ,also, he definitely pushed anika on bed , which was INCORRECT but he did nothing VOILENT, if he had been THAT cruel and an ASSHOLE he could have easily done stuffs like daksh can do and almost did! DID HE? NO he was forcing her to get married, he did not slap her , fought her, dragged her by her hair, nor did her throw her across the tables and chairs and glass show pieces and hurt her.. DID hE? NO!! That's my point - He definitely did wrong but not AS VOILENT AND CRIMINAL ACT you all are defining it to be... What is Domestic Voilence? Just like Man Pushing women on bed or floor is Domestic violence - same way Woman Slapping Man is Domestic violence, WHEN WE CAN DANCE on Anika slapping Shivaay WHY ABUSE Shivaay on pushing Anika on bed?? WHY ? He did not do dirty things? HE just said - he threatened her HE will change her dress - so are you judging him for something even before he did??

WE say "I will Kill you" - like every single day, does that mean we go an kill ...No na.. It was a dhamki for her , and obviously he would have sent someone to do that... he is everything along with a gentleman - the beast you saw yesterday was the one who had his everything at stake, and his last hope was lost although unintentionally but because of ANIKA and thus His POV was nothing wrong to be talked about.