About SSO and OUR Double Standars- Lets Flip our Thoughts - Page 5

I agree with what u said bcoz I am looking at this as Shivaay's story & not Anika's. This is meant to be him getting over his eternal fantasy of NKK. For this he has to succumb to his lowest & burn & get up from it.


I agree with u about the Rape thing too. Rape is a huge term & people don't understand the intensity of that word bcoz our legal system has made a joke out of it. Raping someone is not just invading their private space mentally but physically too. Rape puts the victim through such mental & physical trauma that no one can even think of it who has not gone through it. Also what the society puts that victim through making their being as the reason for their suffering is the worst part of it.
But him doing what he did was him going dark. There is no justification for his actions. When he says he can do anything for his family, he himself is saying that what he is doing, he understands he is not supposed to & is morally wrong.
But the only problem I will have in this is if Anika will not giving him a hard time. Becoz she is not at all like other Heroines on TV. She gave him a hard time last time & she needs to do that now too.
SSO needs to stop thinking that becoz he can, it is ok to be selfish enough to hurt anyone to protect his family & even if he does that, he can justify it.
In Anika's words If he can go Bawla Khargosh on Anika when it comes to his family, He needs to understand that Anika too can go Bawli Khargosh on him for threatening her with Sahil.
Dadi's words 'Jo ho Takkar ka ho'. I just want to her wipe her tears kick some ass!

Originally posted by: Olicity2124

I come to say that I LOVE you.

I agree to each and every words of yours.

Let's just remember that shivay IS A HUMAN, what make us humans is that we commit mistakes and that's bcz we have emotions, feelings, we get angry, hurt... Etc and what make a one a good human is when he commit mistakes then realize them he seeks for forgiveness this is what mean being human being not by behaving like angels.

Shivay went to a very dark side of him but he meant to return bck and the journey would be worth it.

It is so weird and unbelievable that a man throws a girl pushes her keeps his feet almost on the girl face threatens to undress her threatens to kill her brother is being justified by so many girls Anika was terrified she is scared for her honour scared for her brothers life yes it is possible that he wouldn't have done any of those even if Anika hadn't listen to him but you can't deny the fact that he made her scared for her honour for her brothers life humiliated her treated her like some dirt

Originally posted by: pritzz

@aditi and @nikki obviously his manhandling was Incorrect - who is saying those where right thing to do? NO I said he was in his CHARACTER, but Let me point out one thing - Shivaay and his thoughts were NOT WRONG this time atleast- ANIKA slapped SHIVAAY because he DESERVED but according to ANIKA not according to SHIVAAY - coz shivaays knows the other picture ,also, he definitely pushed anika on bed , which was INCORRECT but he did nothing VOILENT, if he had been THAT cruel and an ASSHOLE he could have easily done stuffs like daksh can do and almost did! DID HE? NO he was forcing her to get married, he did not slap her , fought her, dragged her by her hair, nor did her throw her across the tables and chairs and glass show pieces and hurt her.. DID hE? NO!! That's my point - He definitely did wrong but not AS VOILENT AND CRIMINAL ACT you all are defining it to be... What is Domestic Voilence? Just like Man Pushing women on bed or floor is Domestic violence - same way Woman Slapping Man is Domestic violence, WHEN WE CAN DANCE on Anika slapping Shivaay WHY ABUSE Shivaay on pushing Anika on bed?? WHY ? He did not do dirty things? HE just said - he threatened her HE will change her dress - so are you judging him for something even before he did??

WE say "I will Kill you"- like every single day, does that mean we go an kill ...No na.. It was a dhamki for her , and obviously he would have sent someone to do that... he is everything along with a gentleman - the beast you saw yesterday was the one who had his everything at stake, and his last hope was lost although unintentionally but because of ANIKA and thus His POV was nothing wrong to be talked about.

Totally agree with u 👏

I'm shocked at current shivaay because i have seen only the milder version after anika entered Oberoi house. But i agree about double standards.

Nayi soch anika should choose sahil over shivaay (which i agree and one of my family member did it. Chose her young brothers over moving abroad with her hubby in the 1950s so not really nayi soch. Just priorities). But Shivaay should choose anika over everyone else. Another thing FL should never confess love. Hero should beg and FL pyaar bheek me degi.😆 He should fall in love first, confess 1st get rejected😆 and then beg. FL should be served everything in platter. Nayi soch! She will just accept or reject.😆 Not saying about IB in particular. This is what i see in many forums. I think ppl just want to live the fantasy some guy falling so much in love. And heroes mostly ultra rich hote hai.😕 How many times we have seen such tashan wale hate turns love type stories where both ML and FL are same background?

Amazing much needed post by you pritzz..Totally agree with your all perspectives.😊

Even i never support ml manhandling fl...i feel cv's could have avoided at-least this one scene where SSO keeps his foot near Anika's face..that was very disturbing.

What an Amazing performance by Nakuul.He slayed it.he was ruthless to the core...his eyes were on fire...can't believe it's d same person who played Adorable Adi in PKDH...what a transformation to such intense multi-shade char Shivaay/SSO...the way he transformed from Shivaay to Arrogant/Ruthless SSO after that well deserved slap by fiercy Anika...he killed it...take bow Naks.,no one could have played this role better than you...SSO is for you only...so proud of you...Love you to the moon n back.❤️

Nakuul and Surabhi both nailed it with their terrific performance.👏

SSO was true to his character.Anika and we have to witness this dark/worst side of SSO as for him his family comes first always,he can go to any extent to save family reputation..after that hired gril ran away...he was frustrated/angry...he has lost control on this worst situation...hence this forced marriage by blackmailing her and he got his due for his wrong accusation on Anika..well deserved tight slap for him.Am sure once he becomes clam...he will defo realize she is framed in bad way by creepy guy.Anika was also not at fault...she did exactly what her heart said...she didn't want to indulge in this mess...but she had to interfer in his life as awlays.😉

Once all mu clear and creepy daksh/tia got exposed...he will defo feel guilty and try to win her love back as he made big accusation on her which is difficult for her to forgive.But they are destined to be together.😳😳

Am so waiting to see Shivaay taking left and right of that psycho daksh ...bahut dulai hone wali hain.😆😆

Shivika's love and hate journey going to be Amazing to watch.It will take time for Shivaay to break all his barriers of blood/lineage/name and accept Anika. She is his wife now,he will be in more of over protective/possessive mode.She is officially his family now.Anika and family will come first from nowonwards.Shivika are still not aware on their personal lives and this marriage will help to know about each other and Shivika will complete by being supportive system to each other.😳

Even i read some posts on rape whene there was nothing like that is shown...don't know why people assumed that way..he can never do this...even there was one post on Nakuul how could he do such scene...common guys...he is doing his job...he himself a true gentleman in real life...its not easy for him to portray such scene..he did it so flawlessley...People shouldn't forget he already played too goody role just like God Shiv in PKDH{I still Adore my Adi/Romeo❤️]...SSO is totally polar opp to it...proud of him for bringing life into such complex multi-shade char.😊

Originally posted by: Sanya17

It is so weird and unbelievable that a man throws a girl pushes her keeps his feet almost on the girl face threatens to undress her threatens to kill her brother is being justified by so many girls Anika was terrified she is scared for her honour scared for her brothers life yes it is possible that he wouldn't have done any of those even if Anika hadn't listen to him but you can't deny the fact that he made her scared for her honour for her brothers life humiliated her treated her like some dirt

Originally posted by: pritzz

When a girl throws gobber on an ultra rich man who has some face as well as wealth value in the country, Throws Buckets and buckets of water on him, slaps him, taunts him She is doing OK?? I mean we cannot deny, that she is middle class and he is ultra rich can we? And secondly I am not justifying his "Action" I am justifying his Reaction and his anger and his character ( I.e SsO is the Sso we were exprecting) , he never said he is soft and cottony , he has always mentioned it he is all thorns and fire... ! About making her scare.. yes he did.. but he equally cares.. his ONE single act of forcing her to marry him for whatever reason and his harsh behavior cannot just in a snap of a second Erase the Shivaay he is and always be for her. never. This is his one side.. he is ruthless and Anika being his lady love SHE HAS TO SEE AND FACE the shades he has and has to learn to tackle them ,, being a true lover you never change you partner you always accept him with all his faults and defects and Shivika will do the same! Do not make it a social issue.. shivaay did nothing that will Spoil Anikas honour... remember daksh has done worse... And this man is and will always be Her shivaay

Originally posted by: Sanya17

When did I say Anika throwing water or gobar is OK because that is not I just wanna say that what he did to Anika humiliating her threating to kill her brother was cruel wrong what if what shivaay did today was done by daksh you who is trying so hard to justify shivaay reaction would you have done the same for daksh and daksh oh my god you are telling daksh has done worse I will die of laughing 😆 did daksh try to force himself on Anika ??????????i dont know what he will do in future but till now he didnt try to force himself on anika he made her scared by stalking but Anika was far worse scared by shivaay she was scared for hr honour scared for the life of the only person she holds dear her brother sahil (watch today's epi )