I generally don't like shivaay

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have bashed him so much and I believe he has deserved all of it because of the way he has treated anika...but these 2 episodes have given me something to take him seriously...to take the great wall of shivaay seriously...because he really is that when with his family.
Always in control of his emotions...letting nobody take care of him...brushing it away when tia expressed her concern about the scandal that will harm business with a "it's normal,it happens"...the way he treats tia generally makes it clear that she is not his equal partner,he never shares his burdens with her...instead he asks her to sit comfortably on the couch and asks if she needs something.He has not opened up to her at all,has he?

I wonder if anika will ever do/say something that will make shivaay believe that he can share his burdens and responsibilities with her...that she can be his equal partner.
Would he let her worry over him?even let her pamper him?😲

But anika shouldn't forget sahil in all of this ever..I kind of feel bad for him...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I actually think he's already done that, where he's shared his pretty overwhelming responsibilities with Anika, not discussing them-- but actually sharing them. Unconsciously or not, he has found a person of equal strength, and already treated Anika as a fully equal partner. The man who wont let his fiance speak about his business problems hasn't just shared bigger problems with Anika, he has already expected her to deal with them FOR HIM.


Letting Anika to handle someone who he sees as family is a big sign of trust. So Tia doesn't even get a 2 minute discussion about a well known business deal, while Anika gets to decide how to help Mallika when Shivaay himself is worried and shows her that he can't figure things out. And lets her help him. And speaking of Mallika, there was that moment when Anika was literally his partner dealing with her.

Example? When Mallika was rushing to leave the Mansion after the picture leak, before Siddharth Vikram Rana got there. Shivaay had to leave to go see Tej about the Ranas sending them a legal notice. He was torn, because he had to go to Mallika, and here was Tej, demanding his time too. I was floored because instead of Om or Rudra, who was closer to her, or even Dadi, it was Anika who he turned to for help. When she followed him Anika told him to go to see Tej, she would deal with Mallika. And he.. just went. They nodded at each other, and then crossed paths, one heading to take on the first responsibility, the other one taking on the second issue. It was a moment of absolutely seamless, synchronized and compatible partnership.

He might not have any idea, and this isn't a product of being in love with someone, but his deep respect for Anika is already there. Its not respect for her name or admiration for her beauty or even physical attraction that is making him treat her like a partner, and I don't mean a "romantic" partner.

Its him purely acknowledging that she is as capable of taking care of stuff as he is --its respect, pure and simple, for her abilities and strength-- which mirrors his own.
Edited by napstermonster - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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oh...I have not seen that episode properly...and have missed other episodes too so don't know if there are other examples..there must be...because I am sure he realizes anika's strength.
I just hope we get to see more of this in the future...it's the aspect of their dynamics I look the most forward to...

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