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I will come straight to the point.
There was NO USE of the arm grab on Kabeer's part, i wonder why would the director include it? Adnan was perfectly capable of conveying Kabeer's rage without that physical gesture, and the dialogues were powerful enough even if they would have been spoken by a distance. What was the need? a dire need to follow a regular formula? Ishq SubhanALLAH team you ppl are better than this .. u dont need all this regular conventional stuff.
Having said that, they do deserve a leverage for showing it AS IT WAS, MANHANDLING, not a soft bg tune playing and not a romantic thing or followed by an eye lock or something. It was his extreme anger and something the audience should feel cringe at.
Next, Zara's apology, so Zeenat was the one telling the narrative of the incident, the chances are absolutely nill that they would show Kabeer at fault bcz then maybe he would be held guilty and might be pushed for an apology, in all cases the evil sisters will put Zara in bad light, so i am pretty sure the manhandling part hasnt been narrated. So Ayeshas pursuance to Zara for a manofy project is understandable and genuine.
Coming to Zara, I can see that we all know that Zara is not liable to change Kabeer's thinking, enough of bad boys turning good by thier wives but none of us are realzing that who gave Zara a right to interfere and jugdge Kabeer's thinking? Who gave her this right? yes on a general perspectibe he is wrong but has kabeer ever said he will change Zara's thinking? I have never seen Kabeer interfere in Zara's thinking, he might oppose it, but has never humilated her infront of anyone with outrightly opposing her.
How are none of us discussing the kind of maturity Zara needs to be taught? Its easy to direct all the anger at Kabeer ask Zara to leave him alone but again, WHO GAVE HER KABEER'S RESPONSIBILITY? NO ONE. Her sudharofying Kabeer is not what this marriage needs. Kabeer is practical enough to keep professional ways apart .. its Zara who is hell bent on a mutual professional outlook, which is creating all these problems.
Kabeer abused Zara phyically, and Zara is abusing him emotionally. You do not get to push someone on his worse and then complain that someone behaved the worst with you - you pushed it, when there was no need.
If getting physical is a complete no, then intefering in someone's personal matter is also a complete no. i m not defeding any abuse, just putting both of them on the same table.
Zara is the one who went out of her way with that maulvi, with the meeting and then she went out of her way to aplogize, thats her nature .. going an extra mile when its not needed.
Doesnt Kabeer deserve a better life partner who wont humilate him in front of everyone? Who after being told repeatedly would actually pay heed to what he says. Why does only Zara needs an understanding husband?
If Zara has a right to walk away after an incident of manhandling, why is no one giving Kabeer a right to walk away after the stubbornness and extreme sense of self righteousness Zara is showing? All abuse is not physical.
Why is no one saying that what Zara is doing is called interference and over stepping, if we call manhandling as manhandling, why cant we call interference as interference and NOT help !
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