Vansh being a dumb man? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Lipstickqueen

You’re right! Riddhima has no self respect but maybe in time she will learn it??

Unpopular opinion here but every year you go and cry your eyes out and become a recluse because your mom left you?? Why not just tell wifey who the dang person was in the first place? To me that’s a bit contrived. As for him marrying her that too is silly unless he knows about Kabir. None of it makes any sense and to me they put drama in for drama’s sake.

Red- did she ask him?? She got to know about her being his mother only when she got caught. Didn't he tell her about Ragini when Ridhima manipulated him to tell about her??

I 100% agree. If he doesn't know about her being involved with kabir, all this makes 0 sense

Originally posted by: amritat

Bcoz yeh humaara culture hain, at least as per ITV. 😆

In TV serials, men can man-handle, get out his wife anytime he wishes to, get another woman pregnant, etc. But wife has to remain virgin and mahaan.

I remember in Kumkum Bhagya, that married hero got his gf pregnant...who stayed pregnant for 2 years. Same in IB, where Shivay sl*tshamed Anika once before marriage...while Tiya was supposedly also pregnant with his child around the same time. 😆

Originally posted by: LeviOsAa

bold- I guess everyone has their own ways if dealing with such situations, this was his way. He didn't involve anyone just wanted to be left alone. I didn't find anything unusual or wrong about that.

Red- did she ask him?? She got to know about her being his mother only when she got caught. Didn't he tell her about Ragini when Ridhima manipulated him to tell about her??

I 100% agree. If he doesn't know about her being involved with kabir, all this makes 0 sense

Your points are fair and balanced. Can’t argue with them. 😁

I will say I understand his need for solitude and peace during a difficult time in his life but given everything we know about Madame spy did it not occur to anyone that she would go digging??? Or maybe that’s been the plan all along.

Originally posted by: LeviOsAa

bold- I guess everyone has their own ways if dealing with such situations, this was his way. He didn't involve anyone just wanted to be left alone. I didn't find anything unusual or wrong about that.

Red- did she ask him?? She got to know about her being his mother only when she got caught. Didn't he tell her about Ragini when Ridhima manipulated him to tell about her??

I 100% agree. If he doesn't know about her being involved with kabir, all this makes 0 sense

@bold - Have to disagree here. Neither Vansh nor his family are people who answer directly if asked.

Riddhima had politely asked a dozen people about backyard. Nobody said anything, so she had to dig her way through. She realized it would be the same about secret room as well. So she didnt take chance...

Also, she did ask Vansh during that keystealing scene about his changed demeanour, although she mistook it for Ragini. Vansh completely lost it and yelled at her for asking questions.

So, even if Riddhima had asked Vansh directly...his answer would have been...Zyaada sawaal mat puchho. Bahu ho bahu ban kar raho.

Originally posted by: LeviOsAa

whaattttt?????? Are you serious😆 unbelievable for me 🤣

Nothing is unbelievable if u watch ekta's serial. 😁 & many years pregnancy periods with no baby bump is common there 😂 I don't know where itv viewers get this strong patience that they are watching kumkum bhagya & kundli bhagya years after years still!😵😆

Originally posted by: LeviOsAa

whaattttt?????? Are you serious😆 unbelievable for me 🤣

Yes. 2 years. That also without any bump.

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

Nothing is unbelievable if u watch ekta's serial. 😁 & many years pregnancy periods with no baby bump is common there 😂 I don't know where itv viewers get this strong patience that they are watching kumkum bhagya & kundli bhagya years after years still!😵😆

Originally posted by: amritat

@bold - Have to disagree here. Neither Vansh nor his family are people who answer directly if asked.

Riddhima had politely asked a dozen people about backyard. Nobody said anything, so she had to dig her way through. She realized it would be the same about secret room as well. So she didnt take chance...

Also, she did ask Vansh during that keystealing scene about his changed demeanour, although she mistook it for Ragini. Vansh completely lost it and yelled at her for asking questions.

So, even if Riddhima had asked Vansh directly...his answer would have been...Zyaada sawaal mat puchho. Bahu ho bahu ban kar raho.

It’s like the phrase people used to use that children should be seen and not heard. In this case substitute wife for children and you have what the family expected.

Originally posted by: Lipstickqueen

It’s like the phrase people used to use that children should be seen and not heard. In this case substitute wife for children and you have what the family expected.

Exactly.

In fact, if you think about it...it is actually kind of disrespectful for the bahu.

There is some internal secret which everyone in the house starting from the owner to the servant knows. Only the bahu doesnt.

These people are constantly dropping hints every now n then in front of the bahu...but when she is asking what is it...everyone is telling her...Shut up...apne aukaat mein raho!

What kind of a family does that?

See, WE know that Riddhima is a spy, so we are judging her for her curiosity. But the family members dont know she is one...for them, she is a bahu and part of the family.

Then why they treating her like an outsider? Simply bata do...ki inn 5 dino mein Vansh apni ma ko bahut yaad karta hain. Iss liye, usse zyada pareshan mat karna.

Originally posted by: amritat

Exactly.

In fact, if you think about it...it is actually kind of disrespectful for the bahu.

There are some internal stuff which everyone in the house starting from the owner to the servant knows. Only the bahu doesnt.

These people are constantly dropping hints every now n then...but when the bahu is asking what is it...everyone is telling her...Shut up...apne aukaat mein raho!

What kind of a family does that?

See, WE know that Riddhima is a spy, so we are judging her for her curiosity. But the family members dont know she is one...for them, she is a bahu and part of the family.

Then why they treating her like an outsider? Simply bata do...ki inn 5 dino mein Vansh apni ma ko bahut yaad karta hain. Iss liye, usse zyada pareshan mat karna.

Simply bata deta toh drama nahi hota na😆

I expected a better writing from Shashwat sir but he is writing that typical ITV story... family,raaz , manhandling..

I still don't get why Vansh married Ridhhu..Is it just for knowing the truth and catching the real enemy who sent her or attraction?

I understand Vansh is not in a mood to think anything properly but I miss that savage Vansh.

May be I m expecting too much from ITV writers😭