Vansh being a dumb man? - Page 4

Originally posted by: amritat

@bold - Have to disagree here. Neither Vansh nor his family are people who answer directly if asked.

Riddhima had politely asked a dozen people about backyard. Nobody said anything, so she had to dig her way through. She realized it would be the same about secret room as well. So she didnt take chance...

Also, she did ask Vansh during that keystealing scene about his changed demeanour, although she mistook it for Ragini. Vansh completely lost it and yelled at her for asking questions.

So, even if Riddhima had asked Vansh directly...his answer would have been...Zyaada sawaal mat puchho. Bahu ho bahu ban kar raho.

Sorry to interrupt here.😊 I didn't read you guys previous discussion. Only gonna tell these reading these 2 quotes. I think ridhima's asking vansh about his very personal matter is basically a baseless point & very early. Because there marriage was not ever based on trust & love this marriage is happened because of suspicion & hidden mission. No emotion no sympathy no love no trust is there . So it was ridhima's wrong step to nag vansh repeatedly asking about his personal matter so early. If she was intelligent player then her 1st priority would earn faith in vansh's mind.

Personally I don't expect anything positive from riansh demeanour gesture toward each other but definitely ridhima's no self respect always irritates me. Today her concealment about anupriya's truth again proves she doesn't think about her self respect at all. & if she doesnt give priority her self respect then nobody will think about her self respect.

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

Simply bata deta toh drama nahi hota na😆

I expected a better writing from Shashwat sir but he is writing that typical ITV story... family,raaz , manhandling..

I still don't get why Vansh married Ridhhu..Is it just for knowing the truth and catching the real enemy who sent her or attraction?

I understand Vansh is not in a mood to think anything properly but I miss that savage Vansh.

May be I m expecting too much from ITV writers😭

Vansh ki family ka to kya bolu, perfect example of- bahu toh bahu hoti hai

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

Sorry to interrupt here.😊 I didn't read you guys previous discussion. Only gonna tell these reading these 2 quotes. I think ridhima's asking vansh about his very personal matter is basically a baseless point & very early. Because there marriage was not ever based on trust & love this marriage is happened because of suspicion & hidden mission. No emotion no sympathy no love no trust is there . So it was ridhima's wrong step to nag vansh repeatedly asking about his personal matter so early. If she was intelligent player then her 1st priority would earn faith in vansh's mind.

Personally I don't expect anything positive from riansh demeanour gesture toward each other but definitely ridhima's no self respect always irritates me. Today her concealment about anupriya's truth again proves she doesn't think about her self respect at all. & if she doesnt give priority her self respect then nobody will think about her self respect.

@bold - Partially agree as well as disagree.

It is indeed too early for Riddhima to know everything as their bond is not strong yet. But then, if something like backyard or woh-5-din keeps coming up in every conversation around the house, then it would make any wife curious.

Had the so-called secrets not been brought up at all...then I would have agreed with you completely. Because, it takes time for a human to open up to his/her life partner, especially in arranged marriage.

@red - Completely agree. This is a mistake EVERY ITV show of similar storyline does. Arre, pehle bonding toh banao. Phir jo karna hain karo...

@blue - Riddhima had 3 options:

1. Expose Anupriya

2. Deny accusations but keep quiet about Anupriya.

3. Admit it was her fault, and in the process gain some sympathy.

If she had gone with Option 1, Vansh wouldnt have believed her. She had no evidence. In fact, Vansh would have yelled at her more n thrown her out for accusing his mom.

Option 2 was what she did first, although then she didnt know about Anupriya. And we all know, how that ended.

Option 3 was risky, but at least that would end the matter here, and had some chances of earning some sympathy from Dadi, bcoz she has always been lenient with Riddhima.

I doubt if Riddhima actually had any intentions to really leave. She was probably expecting someone to stop her and didnt even plead to leave, when Dadi took her side. The moment Dadi said maaf kardo usse...She was like...thank you Dadi...you are the best...😃

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

Simply bata deta toh drama nahi hota na😆

I expected a better writing from Shashwat sir but he is writing that typical ITV story... family,raaz , manhandling..

I still don't get why Vansh married Ridhhu..Is it just for knowing the truth and catching the real enemy who sent her or attraction?

I understand Vansh is not in a mood to think anything properly but I miss that savage Vansh.

May be I m expecting too much from ITV writers😭

@bold - True. 😆

Even I miss that savage Vansh. Of course, a human cant he savage all the time, he will have his low moments too.

But overall, I feel the standard of writing has slightly fallen post marriage. The pre-marriage function days are still my fav.

Originally posted by: LeviOsAa

that's the thing that keeps me frustrated at times, he doesn't want to share his past, scolds her if she tries to enquire about him, keeps taunting her, wants her to live HER life on HIS terms the life she never wanted, most importantly the life she didn't ask for. Can't she get depressed or saddened by his behaviour???😒

Vansh ki family ka to kya bolu, perfect example of- bahu toh bahu hoti hai

For present situation of her life; do not ridhima & her lover most liable? 😆 logically I yet can't blame vansh fully whatever ridhima is facing right now. Because their marriage is a bizarre marriage we can't forget it. So i again say accepting each other wife, hubby, in laws bahu these are completely out of mind thought. Ridhima could wait these 5 days. After these if she tried her mission maybe this wrath from vansh she would not face. & vansh definitely he has many flaws one of them is he wants to control his around ppl according to his way. But don't we know from beginning vansh is not any sudh safed admi. He is a dark person who is totally not easy to understand. Whatever happening in ridhima's life it was inevitable always . I always said if vansh even did wrong with her we can not say much against him because it was ridhima's 1st choice to enter in his life. Later whatever will happen in her life it'll be called only consequence of her decision to enter in vansh's life. But yes exactly why Vansh married ridhima this point should be clarified before viewers more openly.

Was there only suspicion?

Was there infatuation ?

Or not it was vansh's new willing to control her life according to his way?

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

For present situation of her life; do not ridhima & her lover most liable? 😆 logically I yet can't blame vansh fully whatever ridhima is facing right now. Because their marriage is a bizarre marriage we can't forget it. So i again say accepting each other wife, hubby, in laws bahu these are completely out of mind thought. Ridhima could wait these 5 days. After these if she tried her mission maybe this wrath from vansh she would not face. & vansh definitely he has many flaws one of them is he wants to control his around ppl according to his way. But don't we know from beginning vansh is not any sudh safed admi. He is a dark person who is totally not easy to understand. Whatever happening in ridhima's life it was inevitable always . I always said if vansh even did wrong with her we can not say much against him because it was ridhima's 1st choice to enter in his life. Later whatever will happen in her life it'll be called only consequence of her decision to enter in vansh's life. But yes exactly why Vansh married ridhima this point should be clarified before viewers more openly.

Was there only suspicion?

Was there infatuation ?

Or not it was vansh's new willing to control her life according to his way?

Originally posted by: LeviOsAa

that's the thing that keeps me frustrated at times, he doesn't want to share his past, scolds her if she tries to enquire about him, keeps taunting her, wants her to live HER life on HIS terms the life she never wanted, most importantly the life she didn't ask for. Can't she get depressed or saddened by his behaviour???😒

Vansh ki family ka to kya bolu, perfect example of- bahu toh bahu hoti hai

Agree...with every word.

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB

For present situation of her life; do not ridhima & her lover most liable? 😆 logically I yet can't blame vansh fully whatever ridhima is facing right now. Because their marriage is a bizarre marriage we can't forget it. So i again say accepting each other wife, hubby, in laws bahu these are completely out of mind thought. Ridhima could wait these 5 days. After these if she tried her mission maybe this wrath from vansh she would not face. & vansh definitely he has many flaws one of them is he wants to control his around ppl according to his way. But don't we know from beginning vansh is not any sudh safed admi. He is a dark person who is totally not easy to understand. Whatever happening in ridhima's life it was inevitable always . I always said if vansh even did wrong with her we can not say much against him because it was ridhima's 1st choice to enter in his life. Later whatever will happen in her life it'll be called only consequence of her decision to enter in vansh's life. But yes exactly why Vansh married ridhima this point should be clarified before viewers more openly.

Was there only suspicion?

Was there infatuation ?

Or not it was vansh's new willing to control her life according to his way?

@bold - Did she enter Vansh's life to become his wife? Did she know that Vansh would force her into marriage?

Originally posted by: amritat

@bold - Did she enter Vansh's life to become his wife? Did she know that Vansh would force her into marriage?

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Originally posted by: amritat

@bold - Did she enter Vansh's life to become his wife? Did she know that Vansh would force her into marriage?

No she didnt but definitely she knew she is not entering in a person's life who is white in personality. She welly knew she is entering in a man's life who is mafia, smuggler etc etc. So should have not she ready to face many obstacles for completing her mission for sake of her lover? & she also got chance to escape but she came back to get marriage so again we can't say this marriage was 100 percent forcefully. Tell me vansh is still mafia to viewers what if he attacked on ridhima's dignity forcefully! Did ridhima think about this when she decided to enter in vansh's life or getting married with him!