The quote by Mahatma Gandhi "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong" holds true. Forgiveness doesn't mean what happened was acceptable, it just means that you have made peace with the pain and you are ready to let it go.
It takes a strong will power to forgive someone and move ahead in their life...else people resort to seeking revenge. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.
The quote by Gautama Buddha says...Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. It hurts more to hold grudges than to forgive, the anger we keep hold inside us causes damage to us nobody else...eventually we become prisoners of ourselves.
Holding a grudge doesn't make you strong but makes you bitter...Forgiveness set you free, it doesn't make you weak. Grudge only destroys one's inner peace and happiness. Weak mind seeks revenge and strong mind forgives.
Forgiveness is giving up the anger and resentment where one feels towards another person who did you something wrong ...we may not forget what they have done, we can be cautious about trusting them but that is another issue.
Grudges are waste of time and energy...it effects you more than anyone else and life is too short to hold grudges for a long period of time.
Dhani has always forgiven and asked for forgiveness as well...she held any grudge against anyone...she is strong enough to forgive people irrespective whether she receives an apology or not. Forgetting what wrong people have done to her is another issue, trusting them is another.
She is happy and has her inner piece, due to her rough life experiences she has become wiser...she is happy where ever she is and this is one very rare quality. On the other hand people like DT, kanak and bua know only how to be bitter in their lives.
Bua and DT hold grudges and think of punishing dhani...they have been nothing but bitter and expect to have peace of mind...They wish to seek revenge from dhani and punish her...have they ever thought of the consequences of their actions.
When they are going to be unmasked before all then what purpose does their anger serve them?They with such bitterness shall not be happy at all, and they are prisoner of themselves.
Viplav and dhani have always forgiven each other and others as well, they know harboring such negative emotions shall destroy their peace, so they prefer to bring happiness in their and others lives as well...Life is too short for long term grudges.
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