In AN there are two categories of people residing...one who is hell bent on breaking the relationships with hatred and the other trying hard to adjust and keep the family from breaking.Today shalu has reflected upon kanak's mindset and her wonderful set of thoughts.
Now coming to my question what really makes a family?? It is just few family members related by blood under one roof or it takes efforts and time to maintain each and every relationship...In the ashram all the members are no where related to each other by blood.Yet they understand care laugh cry with each other...on the other side the other side in AN the members not able to talk to each other in a calm manner to at least listen what the other is trying to say ...they are mostly involved in heated discussions.
Dulari has had worst experience in her past she knows how it feels to be a part of broken family may be her maternal home so she reminds dhani now and then to involve in attaching a family rather than in detaching one.Viplav rightly pointed out this repeatedly again and again.
I agree to handle different kinds of people is quite difficult particularly family members eventually that will kind of decide how we shape up in our lives and how it shapes up the future generation as well. There is a saying start the charity from home...The way we want to be treated should apply to others as well...shalu's if she wants to be treated well she should first practice in treating others with respect as well. The way she is becoming an internal enemy is sure leads to destruction of AN.
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Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago