catch you by the collar! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

hi meenu... 😊

OMG How beautifully you have described things hammie. I loved your take on viplav's role as a elder brother and their haldi . its really well written

yesi saw him as shalu's big brother.. and they have such alovely relationship.. Mishal himself has sisters.. who adore him..ek hi bhai.. the man is a family man... he has his mother's eyes and dads chin..

thankyou for your post aand keep giving us these lovely posts.
thanks so much for reading and commenting meenu.. you guys keep me going.. much love hammie

Originally posted by: jacina1996

tanks hamlet you are so good like always 😊

Originally posted by: Dolly-heart

Hammie the only reason I would come close enough to hold your collar would be to tell you how tremendous you are at catching my attention with your take every day...

😆 ohhh dolly it's good to come here and have a chuckle with you

Viplav handled his responsibilities with aplomb and had everyone singing and dancing and having a jolly good time.

have to say doll loved the song, it mentions BIG Ben, Queen victoria.. and London.. loved the song..! broke into dance myself

The only sour puss there was the would be groom Raj with his scowl at remembering Dhaani with vengeance in his heart. Fool !! lusting after another woman while promising to love honour another woman for money.😡

yesh he looked sore man.. and he does'nt know he lusts after anothers, begum!

I had never heard of this tearing of grooms shirt before, but here it seemed to fit as you so nicely put it , to tear the "Naqab" off this toothy buffoon.

🤣 haaa hooo.. neither have I mate.. its like derobement! expose his thorax caged within which is his filthy evil ticker

The Ashram scene was touching in its simplicity with shy Dhaani in a red sari and the older ladies aglow with pride to see their Dhaani all decked up and Raj Laxmi dancing in joy for her friend. No tension till Dhaani's sari is ripped and of course Dulari and her ever present pessimistic head rears to stop everyone in their track.

dhani looked very pretty..pity viplav didnt see her in her red sari..

The resident Klepto is at it again with trying to take the gold thread out of Shallu's Lehngah, what is that lady doing there is beyond me. 😕

such lame scenes.. the whole family are chors!

The Haldi between Dhaani and Viplav was sensual and the best part of this episode.

Both of them made it memorable. Good to see Dhaani coming out of her shell.

yes she was such a cutie..pouts, smooch and giggles..

After many tries Dhaani eventually gets to see Raja's face and both Dhaani and Raja are shocked... so we wait to see whether this wedding will happen of will it be derailed by some shocking revelations...

yesss dolly.. haven't seen it yet but its being recorded as we speak

Thank you Hammie, for making it even more interesting with your take...

thanks dolly for always reading and commenting on the takes. means a lot to me

Take care. Catch you again tomorrow and will bask in the delight of yet another of your great musings...
yep sure mate , and ohh love your superb input👏 on the forum dolly proud of you and thanks for spreading joy amongst us all much love hammie

Originally posted by: captkirk

Interesting title. It was quite a fast paced episodes with al lot of events covered and in an organised manner and to top it all we saw enough of cute Vidha romance too:)

Originally posted by: premparbat

Ah Catch you by the collar - I am going by the literal meaning today
here's my collar give hammie a good shake!I noticed your comment but had to go family was waiting for me come and eat.. so now back to you to get clobbered! how are you premratan
Now now..such an apt Title ..at least for me . The highlight in this episode was a dapper Viplav / Mishal in Black and my thought was to catch him by the collar , bring him close , very close and 🤬 . BUt you are the sensible one Hammie keeping a reign on your emotions and finding meaning and details which we all miss. A thumbs up to you for keeping us honest.
haan mishal! looks the best in black.. how can I NOT recall his black pathianias dutta bhau mindblowing... collar undone so show his curly black chest hairs! my family all clapped when he showed up in black.. the man glows , his skin..his broad forehead.. very becoming... sleek, elegant , lean and mean he used to look as dutta the don.. its his athletic body as opposed to pumped up muscles that appeals to me.. ok you done with the pouting...
As for the episode which i thought was loaded with symbolism . Do the writers go that deep or is it us that find a layer that does not exist . @aimf wrote a beautiful take and so did others finding finer points that make you rethink the 20 mins of execution. Like you all me too found a few links that were interesting.
yes aimf did one that I too found best fit.. sammy has to come with hers.. but never heard of this tradition...
First of course is the entire wedding ceremony happening with a sort of replica at the Ashram. Kanak's two children getting married , one she is aware of and the other she is not. While a mehendi is conducted at AN Viplav & Dhani conduct a private ceremony of their own .
this is fantastic point ratna.. do feel sorry for her.. somehow,I know its her own doing already not really supporting her own children.. only went after wealth
Viplav starts the sangeet at his end while RL begins her merriment for her frend at hers. Dhani wanting to be part of all the functions , after all its her SIL's wedding and Viplav making sure that she is included in everything. Shallu's wedding is all pomp and show with a man who cannot be trusted and a secret ( already happened ) wedding of Viplav with no fineries to a girl who thinks nothing but the welfare of his family. The cheesy "Do jism ek jaan .." settled in and was able to see a bigger picture of the events . Indeed Viplav & Dhani are so attuned in their thoughts and need for each other.
actually yes through his eyes and the eyes of their phones they did become two bodies and one soul
And the most symbolic of all was the "tearing of the kurta " I for one have never heard of this ceremony . @Dolly called it - Viplav tearing raja apart ...You describe it as - Viplav lays bare his chest ...and me - Disrobing Raja in public. Raja on the other hand takes this to mean "Wait saale sahib when the news of Dhani being Suman breaks your heart into two ..." Again a contrast for the audience . Will Viplav support Dhani or will he not ... !!! It should n't be very long before we get to know this.

With the end game you are concerned about its outcome on Shallu , she is the daughter of the house. While she is worthy of compassion and empathy , to me she is a model for women and young girls who hinge their lives on finding a suitable partners for themselves. Girls who not by their own fault have no confidence or the support to do something worthwhile with their existence . Shallu has not been allowed to make her own choices
yes the son was alllowed but not the daughter.. rich middle class mentality , girls needn't be educated only elementary .. for eventually they'll be married off its like victorian times.. girls seen not heard!
nor does she understand Raja's disregard of her . She has been ridiculed by her own mother and finds marriage to be her escape. Will Shallu reject the marriage when she knows about Raja or will she blame Dhani ? How different is she from Suvarna who decided to marry Trip despite his faults . will shallu become stronger and self aware after the breakup ( if that happens ) . I very much doubt it and that to me is why I don't feel sorry for her. Life teaches lessons and this is her opportunity to learn one. I for one am such a such a supporter of women standing up for themselves ...Sorry if I sound unsympathetic for this character.
bravo... have to agree with your thoughts.. so the likes of shalu are doomed.. due to the families they are born in.. basically they are conditioned i wonder if social values are to be blamed as well..
That's all from me Hammie. A couple of small points . kanak has quietened lately and I like her latest getup. Looks very dignified. Dhani in red saree was so simple and plain loved her And of course Lord of the manor - As i said in the start looks delicious.
yes kanak looks very impressive and dhani andmishal too... all good😃... thanks for such a brilliant comment prem ratan and sorry for late reply... much love yours ,hammie

Talk to you soon. Hugs.




Adding sura's link to make my point ; Woohooo

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