Karna Kunti
I am an ardent admirer of Kunti. I completely understand her situation when she abandoned Karna..she was helpless. She did which a girl would do when she gave birth to her son while she was unmarried.
Having said that I am answering this question from Karna’s point of view.
Epic did not clearly say that Karna was angry but certainly he was miffed with Kunti for abandoning him as soon as he was born. He expressed his grouse to her when she approached him and revealed his identity.
Karna told Kunti thus.
And he said, 'O Kshatriya lady, I cannot admit what thou hast said, viz., that obedience to thy commands constituteth (in my case) the highest of my duties. O mother, I was abandoned by thee as soon as I was born. This great injury, involving risk to life itself, that thou didst me, hath been destructive of my achievements and fame. If, indeed, I am a Kshatriya, I have, for thee, been deprived of all the rites of a Kshatriya. What enemy could have done me a greater injury? Without showing me mercy, when thou shouldst have shown it, and having kept me divested of all the rites (that are obligatory in consequence of the order of my birth), thou wouldst however, lay thy command on me today! Thou hadst never before sought my good as a mother should.Thou addressest me today, however, desiring to do good to thyself. Who is there that would not be afraid of Dhananjaya having Krishna with him (for the driver of his car)? If, therefore, I go today unto the Parthas, who is there that would not regard me as doing so from fright? Hitherto, nobody knew me to be their brother. If, giving out on the eve of battle that I am their brother, I go to the Pandavas, what would all the Kshatriyas say? Furnished with every object of desire, and worshipped by them with a view to make me happy, how can I render that friendship of Dhritarashtra's sons utterly futile? Having provoked hostilities with others, they always wait on me respectfully, and always bow down to me, as the Vasus bow down to Vasava. They think that aided by my might, they are capable of encountering the foe. How can I then frustrate that cherished hope of theirs? With me as their boat, they desire to cross the impassable ocean of battle. How can I then abandon them that are desirous of crossing that ocean which hath no other ferry?
Precisely he said
Kunti’s act caused harm to his fame and achievements.
He was deprived of his Kshatriya identity and thus he lost the right to follow Kshatriya rites.
No enemy would have done the harm done by Kunti to him.
As a mother she never sought for his good.
She came to him for her good( her sons)
If he agreed to unite with Pandavas who won’t consider him as one afraid of Arjun.
Kshatriyas will ridicule him if he suddenly claim to be the brother of Pandavas.
How could he make Kauravas unhappy since they provided him every joy.
Kauravas bow to him with respect like vasus does to Indra.
How could he betray them ,who relying on his might and ventured into war..
Clearly Karna’s feelings towards Kunti are depicted ..in this outburst..of him before Kunti.
Karna though got respect and position in Hastinapur,can not overlook Kunti’s role in depriving him of Kshatriyahood. He also thought Kunti never wished for his good but approached him for the welfare of her other sons.
Karna stressed that what Kunti did to him was not done by any enemy of him.
Karna did not forgive Kunti but did not curse her like Yudhishtir did.( Ofcourse the curse was meant for women in general, still..)
Karna was apprehensive of public talk…People will call him a coward ,afraid of fighting Arjun ..If he changed sides at the last moment. he will be ridiculed thus.
I appreciate Karna for
Not crossing the limit in blaming his mother though he certainly felt offended by her act .
He expressed his anguish but he did not curse her like the Eldest Pandav did. I still can not digest the way Yudhishtir dishonoured Kunti who suffered a lot to bring them up fighting with adversities. In contrast Karna behaved in a dignified manner. I would like to mention Arjuna also did not blame his mother for hiding Karna’s identity.
On the whole this single scene will offer us an insight into the mindset of Karna who did not forgive his mother but still did what a son should do…to be courteous and formal ….that definitely deserves applause.
Bori Critical Edition Of Mahabharata Udyoga Parva ch.144
Kisari Mohan Ganguli English Translation Udyoga Parva Section CXLVI