Arylie Discussion Thread 49 🧿 - Page 24

Originally posted by: dumas

Normally I dream of romance between Aryan and Imile tonight I be dreaming of beating him with my baseball bat while Imile cheers me on.

KEEP SAFE STAY SAFE SEE YOU ALL TOMORROW.

Originally posted by: Sunshine_nino

is it Tamarinda doing with hashtag Aru baby

Watched two episodes finally 🙄

Not surprised by imlie reaction on yesterday episode after she meeting uday. Hmm this guy is such a jerk. Aru making moti roti is so 💕 he can do anything for her happiness. Nok joke, eye contact, imlie adoring Aru efforts with so much of love and their hand chemistry 🔥 everything perfect. I prepared for you so it doesn't matter whether I likes it, he is scoring and taste of roti reminded meethi, no wonder imlie got emotional and Holded his hands with full HAQ. Aru realized something is really wrong, ofcourse you're the reason Aru, it's your turn to mend mother and daughter relationship.

Imlie only know the true colors of Blue devil and BD, she also knows if they come up with any alliance then it won't be good. She says it's her family so she should let them know at first place instead allowing the devils to play their drama🤦. As expected her intentions was misunderstood, devils played it well today ✌️ imlie said well, don't accept Sundar but don't take uday as own blindly🙌 but it didn't reached anyone. Yesterday Kaki ma and arpi saw how this guy was talking but still they're going with this alliance🤨Arpi had enough of emotional and painful taunts so choosed self destruction mode😔

Kaki ma is over the moon and she thanking blue devil give me🤢don't like imlie costume but she is looking very pretty 😍, Aru find another way to say pretty as stupid, really 🤦 imlie way of imposing Sundar on arpi didn't went well with anyone, Aryan really disappointed me today, he only married her. they may have differences but it's doesn't meant he can say she isn't a family even while holding bomb trophy he said my family. No wonder imlie felt broken 💔 my heart goes for her. This guy digging a hole for himself each day. She is right he isn't reading any women's emotions 🤷 He very well know arpi and Kaki ma mean a lot to her but still he is hurting her, not good Aryan👎🏼 imlie should stop imposing Sundar to anyone and let arpi burst the bubble by herself🤔 No wonder Aru figured out imlie is still on mission, on precap she hitting back his own words👏

I think by Saturday this track will over. In this track Aru mind is on vacation and imlie trying to show her intentions to him. On marriage track imlie didn't see through Aryan actions this time it's role reversal. Fine with all misunderstanding between Arylie, let them come over.

I'm too disappointed today to look at any arylie crumbs they offer.

I hope he sincerely apologises tomorrow before any PF and it does not get brushed under the carpet

Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

Ek din Pagdandia jaake rehne ki practice chal rahi hai jamai babu ki😆 now he even make PD ki famous moti roti aur kya chahiye

I think the way things going he going to end up on PD for sometime now🤣🤣 for all the idiotic things he is speaking these days to his wiffy 🤨🤷

You're not family and don't involve on my family matters

Originally posted by: Jyoti.Kaur

Hi lovelies❤️

Changed my username from the dots in jyoti to just 1 dot n added my last name😊

Been wanting to change it for awhile so just letting everyone know if u tag me plz use my new username❤️

Thank you Behan ✌️ will keep it on mind👍🏼

Originally posted by: Doctorsaman

dear just wrote it in a casual way..

Dnt get offended..i know dear and sorry if u found it wrong

It's okay yar, but let's not do this, ek toh they've a huge age gap, so talking about them together can make most members uncomfortable.

Also it's their personal lives...

Originally posted by: SundariP

It's okay yar, but let's not do this, ek toh they've a huge age gap, so talking about them together can make most members uncomfortable.

Also it's their personal lives...

lmao, am I the only one that liked today's episode? just want to share my perspective... apologies in advance for the essay, I haven't written this much since my university exams 😂

I know it seems out of character for Aryan to not believe that Arpita wouldn't say something to him if she was important and tell Imlie that she shouldn't interfere in his 'family' matters, but is it really? Aryan's pride and his family have always been his blind spots and the things that make him act most unlike his more rational and strict persona. Just because he has been built up to be a 'perfect' person and pati, doesn't mean that he actually is - he's a complex and flawed person and that is what makes him interesting! (I also feel like the criticism for Imlie vs. Aryan is very gendered but that is a wholeeeee other conversation 😂)

Aryan has never responded well to Imlie looking into his life, he never liked her interference in his matters and he's always been super protective and possessive of his mom and Arpi. We saw this during Arvind-related things too. Imlie has said before that she and her life are an open book to him but he does not reciprocate. That is still very much the case in my opinion.

The first couple of tracks after he came in were around Imlie and her life, so we got to see her struggle and fall weak and him come in and be her support. Post-marriage we've seen that shift to tracks that are about him and his family (because she is finally privy to them as his wife, he's still a mostly closed book) so now we see him struggle and fall weak at times, now Imlie will come in and be his support during those times. That's their 50-50 relationship coming out. You can't just have Imlie be in trouble/wrong all the time and Aryan come in and fix things - it leads to an unbalanced relationship where Imlie is never really able to be a strong person/character on her own because she is always overshadowed by the magnitude of 'Aryan Singh Rathore'.

Aryan is a good mentor and a good friend to Imlie and we saw those relationships build over time - but it took time to become both of those things and we got to see progression in his feelings and actions towards Imlie in 100+ episodes. He was harsh to her in their first few interactions, those roles didn't come naturally to him. Post-marriage we are now seeing him shifting from the mentor and friend role to now becoming her husband and family, which is a very different type of relationship and feeling.

Aryan isn't a good husband or family member to Imlie yet. He doesn't really even consider Imlie his wife and family yet - you see this in him continuously reminding her (and himself) that she's just his employee. After he tells Imlie to not come back at the end of the Arvind track, he says that he wants to move on with his family and then names his mom and Arpita only. If he can't fully recognize or admit to himself that Imlie is his family, how is he supposed to act on it properly?

Most of their current relationship's intimacy and understanding are carried over from their mentor and friendship relationship - which has served them well as the basis for them being together (e.g. him having bharosa in her not cheating is him knowing her character from knowing her and working with her for months, this is not a husbandly thing for him to do IMO) but now we're starting to see that that's not enough for them. They are butting heads and playing this push and pull game that results in misunderstandings because they haven't figured out their new relationship dynamics yet.

This results in him doing stupid things like locking her in her room or saying hurtful things like 'leave me and my family matters alone because we'll deal with them ourselves' (I'm going to be honest, I cried when Imlie cried about not having any apne after Aryan said this - I was so heartbroken for her). It's not really a malicious act nor is it necessarily character butchering of Aryan, it's simply them struggling to get to the next step of their relationship.

I think this track of the Sundar-Arpita wedding track is meant to bring Arylie closer together and give them more insight into their feelings for each other. I don't think it's going to do 100% of that work (future tracks like the rumoured ex-gf entry and Meethi forcing Imlie reveal will do this instead) - instead, it could just be that it reveals the Aryan not thinking of Imlie as a family piece (which started to happen during today's episode) and gets them to resolve it. It's going to be angsty but ultimately their relationship will be stronger after they go through this together.

I loved how Imlie threw his words back at him in the promo for tomorrow and told him that she was removing herself from the situation rather than just giving in and staying when she didn't agree with what was happening. That's what makes the two of them together so interesting - they never back down from the other, and eventually bring the other around and work with each other to fight battles together.

It's going to be interesting to see what Aryan's response will be to what Imlie said in the promo, he's a little bit of a gadha 😂 though so I don't expect him to correct himself or apologize right away - probs going to take him more time.

Originally posted by: Wanderbug

More than asr i m annoyed by arpita’s ckt butchering. Plz my homegirl who stopped ac from slapping imlie in party gave her dead look n then turned the tide smoothly to dance will never be all bichari n tell imlie tumhe meri kasam. Save her from this destruction plz

this is what is bothering me more than Imlie doing her tantrums. Arpi is always a pillar of strength for Aru. yes her fire phobia was there, but otherwise a pretty brave person and understands feelings well. This whole track of her wedding is so so bad..To top it Aryan and his behavior these days.