Arylie Discussion Thread 49 🧿 - Page 26

Originally posted by: Wanderbug

lets wait for tomorrow and see if need to gear up for another 10-15 min wala break up with 2 angsty songs played in bgm. My bet is they will play ‘jag suna suna lage’ and ‘ chipana bhi nahi aata batana bhi nahi aata’ respectively. 🤓

you will have to report back bc im not watching! (beyond yalls posts, its kind if a delightful way to get through this track)

Originally posted by: chotoranii

you will have to report back bc im not watching! (beyond yalls posts, its kind if a delightful way to get through this track)

Keep u posted.

Originally posted by: Wanderbug

lets wait for tomorrow and see if need to gear up for another 10-15 min wala break up with 2 angsty songs played in bgm. My bet is they will play ‘jag suna suna lage’ and ‘ chipana bhi nahi aata batana bhi nahi aata’ respectively. 🤓

at this point, we should just make an Arylie breakup playlist :P

are the writers taking requests? cause ‘jag suna suna lage’ is unmatched

Originally posted by: KrishnaSourav

iye beating hain cheek pulling hain 😆Elo

is it Tamarinda doing with hashtag Aru baby

@bold-yep kinda both🤣

It's me doing this to him coz ye kitna pyaara insan hai ❤️still I am angry on him😡

Aryan has major foot-in-mouth syndrome when it comes to Imlu 😤

She should slap him on the head and say tata bye until he learns to say what he actually means.

Originally posted by: rnrozzy

lmao, am I the only one that liked today's episode? just want to share my perspective... apologies in advance for the essay, I haven't written this much since my university exams 😂

I know it seems out of character for Aryan to not believe that Arpita wouldn't say something to him if she was important and tell Imlie that she shouldn't interfere in his 'family' matters, but is it really? Aryan's pride and his family have always been his blind spots and the things that make him act most unlike his more rational and strict persona. Just because he has been built up to be a 'perfect' person and pati, doesn't mean that he actually is - he's a complex and flawed person and that is what makes him interesting! (I also feel like the criticism for Imlie vs. Aryan is very gendered but that is a wholeeeee other conversation 😂)

Aryan has never responded well to Imlie looking into his life, he never liked her interference in his matters and he's always been super protective and possessive of his mom and Arpi. We saw this during Arvind-related things too. Imlie has said before that she and her life are an open book to him but he does not reciprocate. That is still very much the case in my opinion.

The first couple of tracks after he came in were around Imlie and her life, so we got to see her struggle and fall weak and him come in and be her support. Post-marriage we've seen that shift to tracks that are about him and his family (because she is finally privy to them as his wife, he's still a mostly closed book) so now we see him struggle and fall weak at times, now Imlie will come in and be his support during those times. That's their 50-50 relationship coming out. You can't just have Imlie be in trouble/wrong all the time and Aryan come in and fix things - it leads to an unbalanced relationship where Imlie is never really able to be a strong person/character on her own because she is always overshadowed by the magnitude of 'Aryan Singh Rathore'.

Aryan is a good mentor and a good friend to Imlie and we saw those relationships build over time - but it took time to become both of those things and we got to see progression in his feelings and actions towards Imlie in 100+ episodes. He was harsh to her in their first few interactions, those roles didn't come naturally to him. Post-marriage we are now seeing him shifting from the mentor and friend role to now becoming her husband and family, which is a very different type of relationship and feeling.

Aryan isn't a good husband or family member to Imlie yet. He doesn't really even consider Imlie his wife and family yet - you see this in him continuously reminding her (and himself) that she's just his employee. After he tells Imlie to not come back at the end of the Arvind track, he says that he wants to move on with his family and then names his mom and Arpita only. If he can't fully recognize or admit to himself that Imlie is his family, how is he supposed to act on it properly?

Most of their current relationship's intimacy and understanding are carried over from their mentor and friendship relationship - which has served them well as the basis for them being together (e.g. him having bharosa in her not cheating is him knowing her character from knowing her and working with her for months, this is not a husbandly thing for him to do IMO) but now we're starting to see that that's not enough for them. They are butting heads and playing this push and pull game that results in misunderstandings because they haven't figured out their new relationship dynamics yet.

This results in him doing stupid things like locking her in her room or saying hurtful things like 'leave me and my family matters alone because we'll deal with them ourselves' (I'm going to be honest, I cried when Imlie cried about not having any apne after Aryan said this - I was so heartbroken for her). It's not really a malicious act nor is it necessarily character butchering of Aryan, it's simply them struggling to get to the next step of their relationship.

I think this track of the Sundar-Arpita wedding track is meant to bring Arylie closer together and give them more insight into their feelings for each other. I don't think it's going to do 100% of that work (future tracks like the rumoured ex-gf entry and Meethi forcing Imlie reveal will do this instead) - instead, it could just be that it reveals the Aryan not thinking of Imlie as a family piece (which started to happen during today's episode) and gets them to resolve it. It's going to be angsty but ultimately their relationship will be stronger after they go through this together.

I loved how Imlie threw his words back at him in the promo for tomorrow and told him that she was removing herself from the situation rather than just giving in and staying when she didn't agree with what was happening. That's what makes the two of them together so interesting - they never back down from the other, and eventually bring the other around and work with each other to fight battles together.

It's going to be interesting to see what Aryan's response will be to what Imlie said in the promo, he's a little bit of a gadha 😂 though so I don't expect him to correct himself or apologize right away - probs going to take him more time.

Very well reasoned, agree with you, today when he said those words of her not being family he was not fully angry, but one more reason is him saying that he won't let this marriage be a burden to her since he knows she will do anything for her apne. But it a wrong of going about...even I cried when Imlie felt her heart break and also in the precap.

Will see how their 50-50 relationship will resolve this..

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/imlie/5289190/aake-rula-jaa-rulaya-tha-jaise

Putting this here because I don't think Aru was butchered even a bit.

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today epi was little boring but ok. i read all 11 pages of post just now so saying i dont think they butcher ASR till now. he said this dialog in continuing of "tumhari shadi tumhari marzi se nahi huyi hai iska matlab ye nahi sabki shaadi aise hi ho"... cos she ws telling hw woman keep quiet n marry n for aryan his sister is not in that category he dont know that arpita becom overnight abla naari cos writer gve her such script 🤣 but anyway, i dont think need to take his dialog so seriously. that way so many time imlie told him "humarae apan logo mei babusaheb hai tum nahi" but at end whenever he tell her to go away, she come running back to him only n leave her apan one side.. he said words which hurt her v much i felt so bad for her also but when she give him that dialog in precap he will realise cos he have not realise yet. this is second time he tell her family = maa +didi so now when she tell in precap, he will think n is not going to let her go.

ye itna ffwd me engagement kaise n imlie will find way to expose this sasta uday with one dry khopra on his head he dont even need koni 😆 malai kofta he made in air outside R mansion n brought in hot tiffin n no one wonder how her made 🤪 chalo logic marro goli cos like arylie 15 minute break up with 2 song even our breakup with show is for 5 min only 😆

mujhe to epi mein ye dikhai diya
Aryan "Itni Pretty bhi lagegi par stupid baatei karegi"

Imlie PREETI KAUN HAI 😡😆
Aryan Preeti nahi pretty

Kaun ex GF aaa rahi hai . aao aao 😆

Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

today epi was little boring but ok. i read all 11 pages of post just now so saying i dont think they butcher ASR till now. he said this dialog in continuing of "tumhari shadi tumhari marzi se nahi huyi hai iska matlab ye nahi sabki shaadi aise hi ho"... cos she ws telling hw woman keep quiet n marry n for aryan his sister is not in that category he dont know that arpita becom overnight abla naari cos writer gve her such script 🤣 but anyway, i dont think need to take his dialog so seriously. that way so many time imlie told him "humarae apan logo mei babusaheb hai tum nahi" but at end whenever he tell her to go away, she come running back to him only n leave her apan one side.. he said words which hurt her v much i felt so bad for her also but when she give him that dialog in precap he will realise cos he have not realise yet. this is second time he tell her family = maa +didi so now when she tell in precap, he will think n is not going to let her go.

ye itna ffwd me engagement kaise n imlie will find way to expose this sasta uday with one dry khopra on his head he dont even need koni 😆 malai kofta he made in air outside R mansion n brought in hot tiffin n no one wonder how her made 🤪 chalo logic marro goli cos like arylie 15 minute break up with 2 song even our breakup with show is for 5 min only 😆

mujhe to epi mein ye dikhai diya
Aryan "Itni Pretty bhi lagegi par stupid baatei karegi"

Imlie PREETI KAUN HAI 😡😆
Aryan Preeti nahi pretty

Kaun ex GF aaa rahi hai . aao aao 😆

forgot tagging of some behena i remembr

Originally posted by: PrincessDiana

forgot tagging of some behena i remembr

Yup...Aru's character arc is not destroyed yet. Dude is just being hormonal😆 Pyaar bhi karna hai and denial mein rehke frustrate bhi hona hai enough to send his antennas to graze in the fields and say duniya bhar ka hurtful things to his beloved pretty wifey.

Ab Wifey jaa rahi hai na kal.....Now watch kaise mansion mein earthquake aata hai.