# CAN'T HANDLE IT..... - Page 2

Originally posted by: _AmyChoco_

- This is what warranted my attention. Aryan barging into the room and accusing Adi of having done something. Aryan jumped to the conclusion that Adi was manipulating Imlie. Adi didn't even have to lift a finger. His smug expression Said it all. Why , Aryan..do you feel the need to blame Adi? You never thoughts your actions itself might make Imlie run away from all the buffoons? Still thinking your actions are right? Tsk tsk. She told you today she is missing her friend. What are you gonna do about it?

Well this is interesting... Didn't think in this direction honestly...

What Aryan displayed today seemed peak husband/boyfriend behaviour per me

Right from getting goaded by remarks of BM/BD that she might be with her ex...

He barged in there, saw the preparations of emotional manipulation...

Frankly when you say that adi is justified in pursuing her, even if you don't factor in malini and baby angle, he's done nothing to deserve a 2nd chance yet... Right after she refused the apology the man proposes marriage? This is beyond me.

And after that the relentless marriage persuation and sorry persuation forgotten? Is that how it works? The order of doing things is completely wrong. And even meethi made it loud and clear that this behaviour is not acceptable to her as a mother.

Circling back to aryan again, he was yes like you said jumped to conclusion as he expects the worst from adi.

And obviously very few people introspect their own mistakes and Aryan isn't untouched from this flaw, but hopefully he will see them and correct them.

But also he doesn't think his actions are correct, that week know of as he had this monologue today about lying and all.

And he doesn't think she will leave because she has made a deal with him for her loved ones (per me)

Originally posted by: _AmyChoco_

Dear Mili, what have we gotten ourselves into? 😆😆I watch the episode quite late at night and hence it is with amusement that I see all the ranting & the analysis. So I will be much 'prepared' when I actually get to watch 😆

My thoughts on the clips that I have watched..

- I will be honest, the pictures on the wall did not get any reaction from me. On the contrary, I thought it is a heightened reaction that all are giving to it. He is still holding on to (false) hope. Call him delusional at best. I mean, it's his house , his room. And this isn't any girl we are talking about. This is ex which he hopes to be his current (before anyone comes at me..in my head , I have kept the Malini angle aside for the time beinf) I never criticized him goung after Imlie just cuz he wasnt divorced. For me, it was the pursuing without any reflection on his own actions for which a mere sorry wouldn't redeem. And if anything, if anyone sees it..it reflects on him..and not on Imlie. What was his intention behind it..dunno..was it shown? Aryan should have anticipated that Adi would do something. I fault Aparna for even suggesting this maika thingy..Even if sly, I want Adi to make a move instead of moping around waiting for Imlie to come running to him.

- I will criticize him for being so smug and overconfident in front of Meethi about Imlie's vishwas. Have you done anything to gain back Meethi trust? Apologize? Anything?

- Oats thing..I don't see romance. I see high handedness. Again, I just saw the clip. My first thought.. she asked for namkeen food right..why forcefully feed her that? Maybe I am reading the scene all wrong.

- This is what warranted my attention. Aryan barging into the room and accusing Adi of having done something. Aryan jumped to the conclusion that Adi was manipulating Imlie. Adi didn't even have to lift a finger. His smug expression Said it all. Why , Aryan..do you feel the need to blame Adi? You never thoughts your actions itself might make Imlie run away from all the buffoons? Still thinking your actions are right? Tsk tsk. She told you today she is missing her friend. What are you gonna do about it?

This. I don't get it. He feels bad that he is being high handed but uske liye kuch kar bhi nahi Raha hai 🤷🏻‍♀️

He is simply forcing her hand and that's never his behavior. It seems like some stupid intruder has taken his place!

He is behaving like an ass and if Imlie is calling out on the same, he feels distressed!

Oh Bhai, aap chahte kya hain? Woh aapko aarthi utaare! She feels betrayed and she is right!

Imlie ki savior complex has now got passed on Aryan and he is behaving like a madcap tbh

And force feeding kis liye Bhai, to "establish" that you are villain ?😡 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Arrghh 🤡

Originally posted by: ampm06

I agree with you here , there wasn’t anything remotely romantic about force feeding scenes. In fact I always dislike such scenes which has been played in ITV/ movies previously too.

It was simply Aryan reinforcing his power over her - it’s not easy to win from him and that he can see through her BS. I know he keeps harping fight me and wants to keep her mind occupied/ but he plays an unfair game he bolts in all the doors she can fight out and then challenges her to defeat him … he is unfair at times ! It’s like he has come down to this conclusion this is only way to get through her and it’s building up so much that even though he started it he is allowing misunderstandings to grow with it too, at least that’s how it looks with last two episodes!!

And hence we had the "i miss my friend" dialogue from imlie today... And she's all of us.

We miss old arylie dynamics 😐😐

Originally posted by: SundariP

And hence we had the "i miss my friend" dialogue from imlie today... And she's all of us.

We miss old arylie dynamics 😐😐

@b: 😭 ikrr 🤔

All because he thinks he is "saving" her. He is, but this won't get you any brownie points idiot 😡

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

@b: 😭 ikrr 🤔

All because he thinks he is "saving" her. He is, but this won't get you any brownie points idiot 😡

This "saving" is getting on my nerves tbh 🤦🤦

And now the hotness can't cancel it out anymore... Even their close scenes don't do it their chemistry was never all physical, it was the open communication without judgement and emotional depth as shared pain connected them 😔

Originally posted by: SundariP

This "saving" is getting on my nerves tbh 🤦🤦

And now the hotness can't cancel it out anymore... Even their close scenes don't do it their chemistry was never all physical, it was the open communication without judgement and emotional depth as shared pain connected them 😔

@b: ab zyada hogaya! He is not saving her, just forcing her to relive all the bad moments 😒 Jo Banda uski aasu se nakhush tha, he himself is making her cry doesn't sit right with me!

Chod do! Let her be. If she is not interested, let her take HER OWN DECISIONS. Zyada se zyada kya hoga, she will fall. Help her come back like you always do. This is not helping both of you, you are feeling bad, hurt and more than you so is she.

@i: 💯💯 it was not the physical aspect of it. Emotional aspect tha, ek respect thi, she trusted YOU over everyone which made the close scenes close to heart. Chemistry can't substitute ass*** behavior and Aryan realises his actions are hurting her more than anything! But realisation se ghanta faraq padega if he is not willing to change his behavior🤔

And the funny/irony part yeh hai ki, she is not actually disappointed to marry "him" , she is not on board with him forcing her to take this decision. GADDHA 🙆🏻‍♀️ agar iss aspect se soche toh he will realise that she definitely likes him. Shayad pyaar nahi, but dost se zyada hai! Aryan where is your brain at? Grass khane 😡

Originally posted by: SundariP

Well this is interesting... Didn't think in this direction honestly...

What Aryan displayed today seemed peak husband/boyfriend behaviour per me

Right from getting goaded by remarks of BM/BD that she might be with her ex...

He barged in there, saw the preparations of emotional manipulation...

Frankly when you say that adi is justified in pursuing her, even if you don't factor in malini and baby angle, he's done nothing to deserve a 2nd chance yet... Right after she refused the apology the man proposes marriage? This is beyond me.

And after that the relentless marriage persuation and sorry persuation forgotten? Is that how it works? The order of doing things is completely wrong. And even meethi made it loud and clear that this behaviour is not acceptable to her as a mother.

Circling back to aryan again, he was yes like you said jumped to conclusion as he expects the worst from adi.

And obviously very few people introspect their own mistakes and Aryan isn't untouched from this flaw, but hopefully he will see them and correct them.

But also he doesn't think his actions are correct, that week know of as he had this monologue today about lying and all.

And he doesn't think she will leave because she has made a deal with him for her loved ones (per me)

He is head over heels in love with her but does not want to accept that - wildlife se pyaar and all you see . Duffer at this point if he actually conveys that to Imli , she may be awkward but at least she will try to understand him.

But deep down it’s his insecurities that’s playing him too , she cannot accept any other man in her life as love interest. AKT’s she is always going to be mine … that’s why so violent reaction after seeing the pictures ( which I agree we’re super creepy ) it’s his woman now and this man will manipulate her again some way and take her away. Hence the urgency to get married for real too.

Because for now he is thinking let me just get through with wedding by hook or crook .. I will get everything back to the way it was (between him & Imli) soon .

Least does he know Imli is not gonna make it that easy for him even they end up married for real .

And honestly I hope she gives it back to him … the nookh jookh will be very entertaining to witness 😆

Originally posted by: SundariP

Frankly when you say that adi is justified in pursuing her, even if you don't factor in malini and baby angle, he's done nothing to deserve a 2nd chance yet... Right after she refused the apology the man proposes marriage? This is beyond me.

I didn't justify his actions..I said I prefer to see him try ..than stay in the corner in his lala world..(What I am implying..try & then fall flat on your face.. Pataak.. bada maza aayega) 😆 Point to be noted, milord 😆 Why did he propose marriage? Dude skipped many steps..and came Tadaa..mujhse shaadi Karoge. (Between you and me..me not likey that lopsided half smile permanently plastered on the face, hence do something else..give some other expression) 😎

Originally posted by: ampm06

you hit the nail in the head ! 😆 This is typical husband behavior- he is being territorial ever since the dream in hospital and has taken Imli under the same wing as his mom and sister, he almost says as much too !

He is head over heels in love with her but does not want to accept that - wildlife se pyaar and all you see . Duffer at this point if he actually conveys that to Imli , she may be awkward but at least she will try to understand him.

But deep down it’s his insecurities that’s playing him too , she cannot accept any other man in her life as love interest. AKT’s she is always going to be mine … that’s why so violent reaction after seeing the pictures ( which I agree we’re super creepy ) it’s his woman now and this man will manipulate her again some way and take her away. Hence the urgency to get married for real too.

Because for now he is thinking let me just get through with wedding by hook or crook .. I will get everything back to the way it was (between him & Imli) soon .

Least does he know Imli is not gonna make it that easy for him even they end up married for real .

And honestly I hope she gives it back to him … the nookh jookh will be very entertaining to witness 😆

@bold: ok when you put it like that, then it makes a clear parallel between akt and asr....

I mean both are in same boat, let me marry first by hook or crook and get the forgiveness later?

(If i ignore malini-baby angle in akt situation per @amy)

Originally posted by: _AmyChoco_

I didn't justify his actions..I said I prefer to see him try ..than stay in the corner in his lala world..(What I am implying..try & then fall flat on your face.. Pataak.. bada maza aayega) 😆 Point to be noted, milord 😆 Why did he propose marriage? Dude skipped many steps..and came Tadaa..mujhse shaadi Karoge. (Between you and me..me not likey that lopsided half smile permanently plastered on the face, hence do something else..give some other expression) 😎

And i get your point... Lol see my next comment

Also he was good today... Actually the situation was apt for the smirk today lmao 🤣