If only stupidity was crime.... - Page 7

Originally posted by: -Sarcy-

Imlie hain na dusro ko bana rahi hain. 🤪 Kal hi jab usne itne easily proposal accept kar liya, tabhi maine bola tha, she has subconsciously accepted it already.

On a serious note, she's just battling with herself – the fight between the conscious and subconscious. The kind of dynamics AryLie share, she trusts him completely and doesn't see marriage to him as such big an issue. The problem is that her conscious self is still stuck in the past with the Ts and Aditya. She is just fighting that. Her anger is not at Aryan, per se. Her annoyance is at herself for being able to so easily accept what Aryan is proposing. And she needs a place to vent that out and ever since she's met him, Aryan has been her punching bag.

her Amma appearing in front of her yesterday and in way indirectly asking her to proceed with it is what she needs … Also her social/ cultural / moral compass, call it whatever you want is pulling her back … it’s because some where deep down she is okay moving on is shocking her ! Lol 😂

Originally posted by: ampm06

Sarcy muwah ❤️… this +++++++ so well said …

her Amma appearing in front of her yesterday and in way indirectly asking her to proceed with it is what she needs … Also her social/ cultural / moral compass, call it whatever you want is pulling her back … it’s because some where deep down she is okay moving on is shocking her ! Lol 😂

My very serious kostin is instead of daydreaming, why didn't she pick up the phone and call her real Amma? Could have heard what Meethi had to tell her. 🤔 😆

Originally posted by: _AmyChoco_

My very serious kostin is instead of daydreaming, why didn't she pick up the phone and call her real Amma? Could have heard what Meethi had to tell her. 🤔 😆

Plus I have my doubts that Methi in real may give her a whack at the back of her head for not using it when handsome hunk of a man who ticks off all the boxes in most eligible bachelor category is ready to do anything for her and she is resisting ! Ye kya kiyes ho thum Imaliya! 😆

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Originally posted by: SundariP

If only stupidity was crime,

I'd get Aryan arrested for it

in order to stop this wedding

and save him from himself 🤪

then find him a good psychiatrist

so that he can stop projecting his guilt into savior complex.

Meanwhile imlie can go be the illegal wife to her jiju

and chhoti maa to her nephew/neice

then cry amma amma over the consequences of her decisions

for all i care

both are equally pathetic and deserve no one better than each other

so I'm team adi-lie all the way now.

Congratulations to me.

Rant over.

Why the frustration, my dear? 🤗

With Imlie, I will always be irritated, because of the T family and the Adi guy equation. But yesterday, I didn't feel bad with her calling out for her amma. She is after all a young girl dealing with a lot, burdened with the world by the eternally helpless T family and Adi guy and now emotionally twisted by her rock, Aryan. It is but natural to fall back on your comfort zone, her amma who is the only advocate she has in this world ( of course, Aryan is also her fierce advocate, but she doesn't see him that way yet🤔). She is just sounding out her woes with her amma. Acceptable for me👍🏼

What is not understandable to me is if Aryan lost a few marbles making this deal. He didn't make it airtight or we are just not privy of conditions yet🤓He wanted this marriage mostly to keep Imlie's emotions under control concerning the Tripathis, so she doesn't throw her life away. Of course, part of it is also for himself, which he won't admit at this time😃. May be partly to see the bechara patrakaar squirm too, but this is not his primary motive. How does a fake marriage hold Imlie down emotionally? I mean she knows she is not bound to Aryan in anyway other than by role play, which she thinks is for the benefit of hurting Adi guy. If Aryan didn't lay down conditions related to the fake wedding, as in how she behaves with T family, yada, yada, yada, she can always try a stunt like she did yesterday. She almost spilled the beans to Aparna. I mean what would stop her from saying this to any one of them. That would completely beat the purpose of any wedding " fake" or real for ASR. I hope there is more to this than real nahin toh fake hi sahi😒It doesn't bode well for ASR.

Not sure if I am able to convey what I was trying to say😲

Yes you did convey what you're thinking...

I'm so pissed at both today that I can't find it in myself to enjoy this wedding at all rn.

Like you said i need deets into this deal... Plus I needed imlie to say to her jiju you're fcking married with baby on the way.

And tomorrow I want her to punch Aryan for declaring a real wedding to her jiju w/o her consent when he'd agreed for a fake one (this i still have hopes for)

Although he could just say she didn't shake hands so deal wasn't complete 🙄

Why's my life suddenly turned nightmare with this show 😭😭

Anyways ye 2 din ka hai, I'll find my peace soon hopefully 🧘🧘

At least with aryan, imlie ka toh... Samay lagi hain 😏

Originally posted by: SundariP

Yes you did convey what you're thinking...

I'm so pissed at both today that I can't find it in myself to enjoy this wedding at all rn.

Like you said i need deets into this deal... Plus I needed imlie to say to her jiju you're fcking married with baby on the way.

And tomorrow I want her to punch Aryan for declaring a real wedding to her jiju w/o her consent when he'd agreed for a fake one (this i still have hopes for)

Although he could just say she didn't shake hands so deal wasn't complete 🙄

Why's my life suddenly turned nightmare with this show 😭😭

Anyways ye 2 din ka hai, I'll find my peace soon hopefully 🧘🧘

At least with aryan, imlie ka toh... Samay lagi hain 😏

OK, understood, my friend🤗. This, we really, really need 👍🏼rather than her saying " I was also hurt when you did whatever". But the writers won't let her say it, as they want to maintain some nonsensical suspense of will she again consider Adi guy🤬 YUCK😡

With regards to Aryan's deal, I made peace this way . I posted this yesterday. Take a look and see if this makes sense to you: Not to influence you in anyway but to give you a perspective.

OK, now to my point of contention. I thought I would hide under a rock till I am at peace with this marriage. And today, I had to deal with 2 real life incidents which opened a new perspective for me. A professional interaction, where we had to take a firm action against a failing student. The options were laid out to him with an OR ELSE. The choice was the student's in the end. Another one, a friend had to be supported as she dealt with her troubled child, again options were given. But in either of these situations, they were not given a choice that they can continue with their status quo with no consequences. So, if I look at the situation from the standpoint of Imlie's well wisher, I probably won't give her the choice of self-destructive status quo. Because, I know that the other option she is given has no downside from my standpoint. But, if I am looking at the situation from the standpoint of her advocate, then, I don't like the fact that she is coerced into making a choice that I like. She is put in between the rock and a hard place.

I know thoda hypocritical hain, but I chose to understand where Aryan is coming from, as a well wisher. I would rather have her between a rock and a hard place rather than completely losing her-self in her unending service to the Tripathis. I made my peace with the situation and I am sticking to it for nowAaj ke liye itna hi gyaan hain

I don't know ki mein sahi pakada ki nahin where you are frustrated with Aryan😳

A bit frustrated with him as well...

But I'm so done with imlie he always looks like lesser evil, how much ever I try to be critical of him as an independent woman🤦🤦

I know I'll find my peace within 2 episodes, maybe even tomorrow...

Then I'll be making a wedding celebration thread lol 😂😂😂

Agreed,👍🏼 if he were my brother or family member, I would have said move away. Now that you say it, I am also not sure how he took the liberty and promise a proper wedding for bechara's eyes only🤣

Sorry, I can't stop laughing at this though🤣We need the conditions of the deal outed ASAP.

True, ASR is your most grounded, not a mahaan ML I have come across. His impatience with stupidity and mediocrity is precious to watch👏. As I am writing this, I hope he doesn't cross over into the mahaan category of ": protecting Imlie while he himself self-destructs "😭 Nahin, I don't want this. I want him to have a right dose of self-centeredness to keep him real and ruthless😃

Originally posted by: mili9

Agreed,👍🏼 if he were my brother or family member, I would have said move away. Now that you say it, I am also not sure how he took the liberty and promise a proper wedding for bechara's eyes only🤣

Sorry, I can't stop laughing at this though🤣We need the conditions of the deal outed ASAP.

True, ASR is your most grounded, not a mahaan ML I have come across. His impatience with stupidity and mediocrity is precious to watch👏. As I am writing this, I hope he doesn't cross over into the mahaan category of ": protecting Imlie while he himself self-destructs "😭 Nahin, I don't want this. I want him to have a right dose of self-centeredness to keep him real and ruthless😃

Yo...

You are me I am you.

I like his brains and hate to see when he doesn't use it and becomes imlie frequently these days 🤬