Originally posted by: dee.soliloques
No abuse. No hate. Just a reminder. Let’s not talk about sensitive issues so casually and as a joke when it’s unrelated to the show and we have no idea what people are going through in their lives, people who come on here as a way to discuss with like minded people, debate, rant, as a way of respite. We never know who we can trigger with our words and when. If you are watching, I don’t know if you are, but if you are, then is it not right to keep to discussing the episodes, what the thread is made for?
Jokes like these are not only distasteful but can have some actual consequences if it triggers someone, we might feel disassociated because we see mere letters on our screens but there are actual people behind them. If you feel a need for jokes like that, you can have private conversations for it. If you say something so triggering and distasteful on a public forum it is pretty given you’d face disapproval.
I think Imlie should change her stream again and study towards a PhD in organic chemistry.
Seriously, we are gonna trivalise marital rape and male agression to condemn a fictional character of a crime he hasn't committed. All because Gashmeer is soooooooo hawt with his salt-n-pepper hair, and acting skills, and Greek god bod, and the character he played was so flawed that it could never be wrong while Fahmaan has a babyface, and cannot act, and imaginary acts are taken a priori to condemn the character he plays.
This strated a day before yesterday to shame fans who— to quote the original poster— "[drool over Aryan's] body parts" in a contrived manner and has ended up on a point where we are anticipating Aryan to enact an act of marital rape on his for-now-imaginary wife. All the whilst taking shots at the marital rape Malini did enact on Aditya.
I say, eff Gashmeer and eff Fahmaan. Eff Aditya and Aryan, too. But, if as a woman, I have lost my sensitivity towards rape, and Iam so bitter that I can speculate on marital rape owing to my love for a certain actor/character or hatred for a certain actor/character, then I would really step back, reflect on my life, and maybe join a yoga class, maybe.
Edited by Deltablues - 3 years ago