Babusahib plans a date - Page 7

Originally posted by: GaramTawa

So right about the rebuffing...and kyun nahi kare...until he addresses it woh kyun invisible phatphatiya ride se maan jaaye bhai..and woh maanegi bhi nahi...I think someone mentioned it here but reminds me of the manaaoing attempt in PD during the walk where actual issue nahi face karna and yahaan its not the right comparison really cuz I do want to believe him when he says aisa nahi ki bharosa nahi hai..but the trauma is too fresh and deep and the reality too ugly to face it...so yes right now no real shift in that aspect like you said in your reply...par Imlie going duur and showing her hurt is really the only way...nahi toh yeh nayi shuruwaat pe he atka rahega......

And about this laachaar vs. irritated yeh kya oscillation mode mein rakha hai writers ne....please yeh irritated mode continue karo....waise I doubt a babusahib without Imlie will remain in laachaar or shaant mode for too long...volcano nahi toh fuse toh udega..Nishu pe hi sahi when he comes up with some new plans😆 ofcourse all depends on what Rapist Didi has in store next from her endless inventory of self/foetus harm crimes🤢

U hit the nail on the head for me at least. He is still in guilt mode and the reality is still too ugly so he is mt ostrich and hoping that everything can go back to his normal .

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Oh for sure😛 the fact that he knows her hurt is real.and she is not using it as some card to get back at him is what is making him lose his patience cr further and making him feel yeh bebasi caz again as he was saying kyin darr raha hai woh imlie hai samjh jaayevi tere dil ki baat showed woh alag level ka vishwaas that they share and trust ke woh toh inlie hai his very own who would get anything he would have to say .. the other thing is that despite imlie ka hurt and pain she is there regardless for him yes she has taken a step back but it is not like ke ab tum akele jhelo main chali which she could have very well so even though yes she is mad at him too she is there to nibhao saaath she has got his back in any case which is something malini could have never woh toh Pallu chuda ke bhaagti thi..badi hi clear distinction hai ke one can be naraaz and hurt internally but that doesn't mean end of rishta ya end of trust and everything.. imlie is hurt but still does have woh overall connect and trust and dil wahin dukhta hai jahan koi umeed ho jahan koi actual haq ho. She still has the ability to walk away from him while being there for him as a shadow overall watching out

THIS....so much. Yehi toh crux of the matter hai....Adi knows ki Imlie toh uske bina reh legi....pehle bhi reh chuki hai😆....but yeh nahin reh paayega na.....lol. Isliye Imlie is able to busy herself in random pranks or other things around the house while Adi ka every waking thought is ki Imlie kahaan hai, kaise manaaun, woh smile nahin karti, mujhse baat nahin karti😆. His extreme emotional dependency on Imlie is both his weakness and his strength.....wohi isko himmat degi to try and come out of this rut he's fallen into.....cuz Imlie nahin milegi tabhi haath pair maarega kuch karne ko😆.....jaise is date ke liye haath pair maare even though this is not the action actually needed at this point....lol but kuch toh kiya.

So yes, Imlie has the ability to give his saath in every situation - door ho ya paas.....she has the strength to walk away - it is her CHOICE not to walk away. He doesn't have that strength and that is why he is always more unraveled by distance from her - emotional or physical.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Caps from the SBS segment.....

LOL Adi pucca brake maarne ki nautanki kar raha tha so Imlie holds him peechhe se - her smiles are so sweet in that bit :) ....itna khush bhi ho liya Adi do minute ke liye🤣....but then she let go and his face fell again😆

Dunno how much of this will actually make it into the scene but it's amusing for now😆

Awwi4 just inko 2 sec ke lkye sukoon se mukurata dekh gives me sukoon..Word about the smiles such warmth and woh indulging quality it has of hi gaya wala matlab ek dum amused hai imlie by his efforts but had that I know you so are you dine quality to it and yeh itni mehnat kar raha hai zaroor aone lame jokes bhi maarega but that very thing is so cute ke ek smile ke liye he is going to any extent if it is stupid according to his own COC too he will still do it caz that is the side that only comes in regards to.imlei yeh playfulness yes ideas isko sirf imlie ke oiye aate hain woh andar ka bacha coming through taking joy out of a silly pretend bike ride awwww matlab mere ko pyaar aa gaya sirf yeh caps dekh ke. Let's hope this actually makes it to the final cut bhai dedk 10 sec extra.. and this sweet quality is kept to their intersctio baaki toh yes she will go but atleast thkda toh muskrat degi toh iski raat kat jaayegi

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

This was her privileged brat behavior ke I have the kid Inside me I have the pass and medal koi rok ke dimhaye behavior the way she dham se bhaitho and padharo knowing very well isma nahi hai..again she is flying even higher ke agar rape kar lia and kuch nahi hua tkh yeh sab kya hai and well sach bhi hai jab rape jaisa force karke kuch na hua tkh yeb sab toh Indeed chota hi hai ke khana kha liya. But she is more and more using the kid as her pass ke ab nobody can roko and toko her she has the trophy the way she was downright filthy in this whole bit and displaying her besharmo by blaming the Dr ya kucb..ek dun se the way she degraded sundar who was being a Friend to adi too I mean yes they do have that master naukar thing too but it is never this demeaning and sundar is more a family member to adi too the way she ruined that Instantly and adi ka soft sa go away to su dar by his eyes I felt terrible I wished he sunaoked her for that tok but no didi ki itni gustakhi nahi kar sakte na.. I seriously feels like breaking her head and punch her in her ugly thobda at this behavior..aise naagin ki tarah lejrati aayi thi and the way adi's face fell seeing her was a testimony how much he dislikes her too ek dum se the very sec she entered the guy saw din main taare like us

LMAO you actually expected Adi to defend SUNDAR in front of Malini? 🤣.....jo aadmi abhi tak Imlie ke liye fully stand nahin le paaya to push back at Malini ki ghatiyapanti, woh Sundar ke liye kya bolega? lol this isn't the first time she has spoken rudely to Sundar or treated him like a servant....pehle bhi kayi baar chuki hai and Adi lets it go mostly cuz Psycho ke tantrums se darta hai....ab aur bhi zyada cuz NANHI JAAN ki fikar and all😛

Jo aurat abhi tak Imlie ko naukar ki tarhaan treat karti hai, woh Sundar ka lihaaz kyun karegi? All this is "normalized" behavior in this story anyways....Malini ko free pass hai to treat everyone like trash without any pushback *shrugs*.....Kisi ko bhi koi bhi bakwaas kar sakti hai cuz oh she's so "beemaar" bechari🤪.

Adi can only express his distaste and revulsion towards her in his expressions - which were clear with the way his face fell when she showed up and he gestured for Sundar to leave in exasperation.....baaki isse zyada bolne ki filhaal himmat nahin ismein. They are all eternal victims of Psycho ka abuse.....People hail characters in other shows giving lectures about 26 years of emotional/mental abuse on a woman by her husband/saas.....but kisi ko Malini ka emotional/mental abuse of all the characters in this story nahin dikhta.....hmm wonder why? Cuz she's a woman who's done it more slyly than a man who did it more overtly? 🤔

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Totally agree with this....she has been a user of people all her life. But they still think she only "changed" now.....cuz her actions have gotten more brazen and uglier in her desperation to get Adi back....but otherwise she's always been this ugly person only.....just that writers don't have the guts to show any character acknowledging the full extent of her ghatiya nature.

On an adjacent note, I also found it worth noting that Sumbul spoke so maturely in this segment about Malini's pregnancy despite how gross the track is.....but she still spoke about it with dignity just like Imlie herself is showing dignity about the situation. Such a sharp contrast from the so called "mature" actress who gloated just like Malini about how she will retaliate against Imlie for so called "raas leela" with Adi.....the actress very well knew that the next track is about her drugging/raping Adi and she still gloated about it in the interview....what does one say about such a person😕. Meanwhile Sumbul is displaying herself to be a thorough class act as always👏.

As we always say maturity sirf followers khreedne ya Umar main badi Hine se nahi aati the so called mature actress doesn't know Mature ka M and she really lives in some alternate universe where she thinks she is fighting for some greater good of society by playing rapist malini🤷‍♀️ insaan ko baat karne ka tareeka aana chahiye first sirf dimple hone se koi sweet nahi ban jaata ke usko 10 dafah giggle karke lehra do and everything will be normalized and then gloat ke mere paas DIMPLE hai just like mee paas maa hai yuck

This is the very thing that makes me respect not only ST but GM too they k ow what they are doing and kabhi gandagi ke liye faltu justifications nahi dete if ST has such class and DIGNITY and grace and she is so well spoken matlab just like imlie she makes sure to convey the full baat with the right choice of words ek dum simple way main Gm Calls out a spade a spade in most cases. Again the clear cut difference rape characters ki galtiyon pe ittrate nahi hain..🤷‍♀️

ST has the utmost sensitivity when it comes to matter like this and the way she verbalize it ek dum calm and narmi se but bakwaas nahi . Our bacha is simply classapart

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LMAO you actually expected Adi to defend SUNDAR in front of Malini? 🤣.....jo aadmi abhi tak Imlie ke liye fully stand nahin le paaya to push back at Malini ki ghatiyapanti, woh Sundar ke liye kya bolega? lol this isn't the first time she has spoken rudely to Sundar or treated him like a servant....pehle bhi kayi baar chuki hai and Adi lets it go mostly cuz Psycho ke tantrums se darta hai....ab aur bhi zyada cuz NANHI JAAN ki fikar and all😛

Jo aurat abhi tak Imlie ko naukar ki tarhaan treat karti hai, woh Sundar ka lihaaz kyun karegi? All this is "normalized" behavior in this story anyways....Malini ko free pass hai to treat everyone like trash without any pushback *shrugs*.....Kisi ko bhi koi bhi bakwaas kar sakti hai cuz oh she's so "beemaar" bechari🤪.

Adi can only express his distaste and revulsion towards her in his expressions - which were clear with the way his face fell when she showed up and he gestured for Sundar to leave in exasperation.....baaki isse zyada bolne ki filhaal himmat nahin ismein. They are all eternal victims of Psycho ka abuse.....People hail characters in other shows giving lectures about 26 years of emotional/mental abuse on a woman by her husband/saas.....but kisi ko Malini ka emotional/mental abuse of all the characters in this story nahin dikhta.....hmm wonder why? Cuz she's a woman who's done it more slyly than a man who did it more overtly? 🤔

Sigh*i guess it is my lagaav for sundar that I do want someday someone to speak up for him too and no I didn't ofcourse expected the volcano ya kuch but mild sa bhi kar de ek dum formal sa ke woh bhi chalega esp since moments ago he again acknowledged thay sundar is imlje's best friend.. I also feel it maybe us my pros bias since again sundar isn't a naukar for me I see him as a family member hi toh I just feel more ugghh at the beizzati anyway this is indeed minor for psycho did ka abuse levels

About abuse well people have aitraaz over GM mentioning it as abuse offscreen too which it is ke how dare him toh onscreen kqise keh de. Again it is convenient feminism where the woman can be the abuser can tie a man in bedhihan can force him can rape him can be a continuous manipulator wanting him below her uske paoon ki jooti sab chalega but if a man done it toh Dunia ulat pulat kar do in their intellectual and pseudo feminism..the funny part being feminism ka concept hi arises from the concept if equality but then equality jaati hai tel lene. When the woman abuses it is tagged as just her casual badla..a woman has RAPED a man but there is hardly any hue and cry about it out he very social media that otherwise cried for the smallest thing and morche nikalta hai over smart of things on daily soaps and claim it to be toxic

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Awwi4 just inko 2 sec ke lkye sukoon se mukurata dekh gives me sukoon..Word about the smiles such warmth and woh indulging quality it has of hi gaya wala matlab ek dum amused hai imlie by his efforts but had that I know you so are you dine quality to it and yeh itni mehnat kar raha hai zaroor aone lame jokes bhi maarega but that very thing is so cute ke ek smile ke liye he is going to any extent if it is stupid according to his own COC too he will still do it caz that is the side that only comes in regards to.imlei yeh playfulness yes ideas isko sirf imlie ke oiye aate hain woh andar ka bacha coming through taking joy out of a silly pretend bike ride awwww matlab mere ko pyaar aa gaya sirf yeh caps dekh ke. Let's hope this actually makes it to the final cut bhai dedk 10 sec extra.. and this sweet quality is kept to their intersctio baaki toh yes she will go but atleast thkda toh muskrat degi toh iski raat kat jaayegi

Yes, that indulgent smile from Imlie is the cutest part of this as Imlie gives a knowing/exasperated sa smile seeing his bachkaani nautankis😆.......itna subtly and sweetly portray kiya hai ST ne👏.

I want to hope they won't play Balamwaaa🤢 on this bit and stick to Sajna Ho instead😆....show it from Imlie's perspective please😛....suit karega is bit mein Sajna Ho better......also worst case scenario bhi hai ki kuch aur hi level ka horrifying 90s song na utha laayein....haha let's see what we get.....waise toh I think short scene hi karenge as is their track record usually these days....Adilie ka sab jaldi jaldi😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Woh toh he anyways is a baccha only.....who can forget the tantrum he was throwing after losing his job jab bed mein muh sujaa ke leta padaa tha😆......dimaag se maasoom bacche hi hain Babusahib😆.

But yeah, his boyish side deffo comes out only with Imlie like it never has before with anyone else.....Imlie ko manaane ke liye saara videshi junk food bhi mangwa liya jabki Imlie herself has never shown interest in this food😆.....but he seems to be trying all kinds of random "date" ideas kahin se bhi.....jaise woh last time chai date pe bhi he had brought all those balloons and soft toys when Imlie never showed any indication of wanting that kind of stuff😆.

When Adi is at a total loss about kaise manaaye Imlie ko, he starts trying all kinds of random ideas haath pair maarne ko😆.....yeh sab wohi lag raha hai.....lol he's just yearning to see her smile and just wants two moments of sukoon with her.....but he isn't realizing these surface fixes won't cover up the deep lingering issues that need resolution.

🤣 yes adi then goes I to the most typical cheesy date ideas ke balloons soft toys ab heh junk food will make up all the random.cliched things will make her happy and again it also reiterates ke ismo bhi in sab baaton ka idea hai nahi like this is most cliched stuff he probably finds it on the internet ya dundar vagera ki help and does it..these are the materialistic things that loser didi always got out of him and gloated and flied high toh he really thinks this is all would make imlie happy but it was not the soft truly balloons then and it won't be the khana penna and his idea of perfect now.. even then it was the heartfelt gesture of preserving the sketch the baat that stood out t imlie and us and in this too am sure they will atleast have koi na koi ek line hi worth remembering and standing out as it is yeh imaginary bike ride for now indeed is alag and pyara gesture ek dum inke apne mood main to make her happy original idea hai yeh and just because erhe thought is so sweet it stands out

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

This was her privileged brat behavior ke I have the kid Inside me I have the pass and medal koi rok ke dimhaye behavior the way she dham se bhaitho and padharo knowing very well isma nahi hai..again she is flying even higher ke agar rape kar lia and kuch nahi hua tkh yeh sab kya hai and well sach bhi hai jab rape jaisa force karke kuch na hua tkh yeb sab toh Indeed chota hi hai ke khana kha liya. But she is more and more using the kid as her pass ke ab nobody can roko and toko her she has the trophy the way she was downright filthy in this whole bit and displaying her besharmo by blaming the Dr ya kucb..ek dun se the way she degraded su day who was being a Friend to adi too I mean yes they do have that master naukar thing too but it is never this demeaning and sundar is more a family member to adi too the way she ruined that Instantly and adi ka soft sa go away to su dar by his eyes I felt terrible I wished he sunaoked her for that tok but no didi ki itni gustakhi nahi kar sakte na.. I seriously feels like breaking her head and punch her in her ugly thobda at this behavior..aise naagin ki tarah lejrati aayi thi and the way adi's face fell seeing her was a testimony how much he dislikes her too ek dum se the very sec she entered the guy saw din main taare like us

Originally posted by: tellyme

+100 to all your emotion here.. Adi is not sunaooing her... Like halke se her bol deta that aapko pata toh hai main Imlie ko manane ke liye yeh sab ker raha hoon toh as a friend help me and please bring her here but nahi.. Kahan main kisse aise expectations rakh rahi hoon.. I mean how mum he become in front of her and she is defo her of all besharams shown everywhere.. And we as viewers cannot go inside the show and give her any piece of mind 😆

Arre nahi i do not want that either..I did not meant sunao her in regards to imlie here bhai jitna alag rakhe isse better bai no need to include her as a friend tok in matters related to IMLIE na bhai nah