Why is Adi not asking these questions to himself.

I see a lot of discussion around Adi's behavior especially after SBS segment. I agree to Adi's stand about collecting proofs before blaming someone for something as heinous as sexual assault. But even I am confused about few things:

1.) Why is he not investigating who drugged entire famliy. (This is not an incident which can be taken lightly)

2.) A girl who used to do constant Didi-jaap has so strongly turned against the same didi. Why is that. Is it only misunderstand or there is some thing hidden.

3.) Why is he not helping Imlie in collecting these proofs.

I, personally, get that before the incident he didnt' take these things seriously and after the incident so much is happening with him that he is not in a condition to understand anything. He himself told KC , humein kuch samagh nahin aa raha.

Some are also discussing that he is blindly trusting Didi and not trusting Imlie at all. I will not lie , I also get this feeling sometimes but then he is also not actively stopping Imlie and his "Imlie hamari patni hain" jaap is still on. So I don't know. I guess I am also as confused as Adi.

Would love to hear your opinion.

I see a lot of discussion around Adi's behavior especially after SBS segment. I agree to Adi's stand about collecting proofs before blaming someone for something as heinous as sexual assault. But even I am confused about few things:

1.) Why is he not investigating who drugged entire famliy. (This is not an incident which can be taken lightly)

2.) A girl who used to do constant Didi-jaap has so strongly turned against the same didi. Why is that. Is it only misunderstand or there is some thing hidden.

3.) Why is he not helping Imlie in collecting these proofs.

I, personally, get that before the incident he didnt' take these things seriously and after the incident so much is happening with him that he is not in a condition to understand anything. He himself told KC , humein kuch samagh nahin aa raha.

Some are also discussing that he is blindly trusting Didi and not trusting Imlie at all. I will not lie , I also get this feeling sometimes but then he is also not actively stopping Imlie and his "Imlie hamari patni hain" jaap is still on. So I don't know. I guess I am also as confused as Adi.

Would love to hear your opinion.

Currently, he is still in a shock , can’t think straight. He also never expect Malini to do such things . She always be kind and gentle when she is with him , so it’s difficult for him to digest it . He is upset with Imlie , bcos he is concerned about her and don’t want her to get hurt .

But these questions are not related to Malini. There are generic questions about incident and Imlie's behavior and his responsibility as her husband.

Originally posted by: aarti1234

But these questions are not related to Malini. There are generic questions about incident and Imlie's behavior and his responsibility as her husband.

In directly it is related to Malini . All these mis understanding is created by her .

You have to put yourself in his shoes, so you can understand his dilemma!

A "good friend" who was with you for "7years" and whom you choose to be a partner for a lifetime in one point of your life, who paint a perfect picture of a supportive friend for a while after you let him down and left him alone, who is generous enough to remind you of his favors to you every time you question any change behavior, not recognizing how they guilt trip you to grovel to them!

It is really hard to believe that this very person could do such bad things to you or to anyone! Due to this trust and denial you tend to give them excuses to every thing they do even if it was silly! Until you see the big picture that makes hard to be not recognize! When the mask of the good friend revealed forever!

If it not happened to me, I will be like the most of the viewers seeing Adi not trusting imlie and being so stupid to not see things! But believe me, it is hard to admit that your chosen friend is doing bad to you!

However, the first point is what makes me wondering why no one ask this valid Q!

I can understand Adi not wanting to process this, but why no other think of it? Search for whom?

The second point is what I was talking about, it is not about trusting Imlie, if he trust her for his life! So this is nothing! But it is a matter of what was presenting to him for so long ! It is hard to believe a friend could do such thing!

For the third point, he is totally drown in guilt, and taken full responsibility of this upon himself! He don't want to process any further for several reasons (1) he is convinced that he really slept with M so however it happened he already did a big mistake of cheating on Imlie and giving Wife rights to M again! He brook Imlie's heart and this is not a small guilt to him!

(2) if really It was M plans (a) it is a shameful thing to be a man and get "raped" remember how a forced marriage brook his ego and how shameful he was! (b) it will break his 7years friendship !

So accepting the guilt for him is better than digging in the matter and complicate things more!

Why is everyone so certain they slept together - because he had changed? I don't get it? Both don't remember - they could have both just passed out in the same bed?

Why is everyone so certain they slept together - because he had changed? I don't get it? Both don't remember - they could have both just passed out in the same bed?

Only Aditya and the family was drugged. Malini was very much alert to execute her dirty trick into action .

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

You have to put yourself in his shoes, so you can understand his dilemma!

A "good friend" who was with you for "7years" and whom you choose to be a partner for a lifetime in one point of your life, who paint a perfect picture of a supportive friend for a while after you let him down and left him alone, who is generous enough to remind you of his favors to you every time you question any change behavior, not recognizing how they guilt trip you to grovel to them!

It is really hard to believe that this very person could do such bad things to you or to anyone! Due to this trust and denial you tend to give them excuses to every thing they do even if it was silly! Until you see the big picture that makes hard to be not recognize! When the mask of the good friend revealed forever!

If it not happened to me, I will be like the most of the viewers seeing Adi not trusting imlie and being so stupid to not see things! But believe me, it is hard to admit that your chosen friend is doing bad to you!

However, the first point is what makes me wondering why no one ask this valid Q!

I can understand Adi not wanting to process this, but why no other think of it? Search for whom?

The second point is what I was talking about, it is not about trusting Imlie, if he trust her for his life! So this is nothing! But it is a matter of what was presenting to him for so long ! It is hard to believe a friend could do such thing!

For the third point, he is totally drown in guilt, and taken full responsibility of this upon himself! He don't want to process any further for several reasons (1) he is convinced that he really slept with M so however it happened he already did a big mistake of cheating on Imlie and giving Wife rights to M again! He brook Imlie's heart and this is not a small guilt to him!

(2) if really It was M plans (a) it is a shameful thing to be a man and get "raped" remember how a forced marriage brook his ego and how shameful he was! (b) it will break his 7years friendship !

So accepting the guilt for him is better than digging in the matter and complicate things more!

But questioning who drugged the family is not at all related to Malini. Guiding Imlie on how to gather proofs is also not related to Malini in my opinion. But I guess he is in total darkness right now to think straight and guide anyone.

Originally posted by: PPak

Why is everyone so certain they slept together - because he had changed? I don't get it? Both don't remember - they could have both just passed out in the same bed?

I am sure 100% that nothing happend!

1st , M was not drunk! The only ones who didn't drink the drugged juice is M and Imlie both of them was in their sense the whole night!

2nd, M already informed Imlie that she mixed something in the Juice, so she knows whatever happened that night was M's Plan!

3rd, Adi the first thing he said after waking up, that the last time he remembers is once he was with Imlie ( hide and seek ) he didn't remember how he get back to his room!

4th, Imlie saw him entering the room, she tried to open the door but it was looked, that means M was already in the room and she is the one who locked the door!

5th, Imlie was setting all the night by his door trying to save him from M not knowing that M already in the room! M could control herself to be quiet but how could she control Adi to be quiet when he was in a drugged state? So if she tried to do anything even pretending to be Imlie, Imlie at the other side of the door will hear something! The one who heard the steps sound could hear a louder voices!

I think what happen is, M wore Imlies sari , guid Adi to room, lock the door behind them, Adi pass out on the bed, she took the advantage of no one knowing what happened behind the closed door and the fact that they were married to frame him of sleeping with him, so while he slept she change his clothes, and in the morning played the legal wife victim card!

All what they are trying to do now is confused us as a viewers weather it really happened or not! Until the big reveal of the ugly face of M and her mother!

But am not in team confused at all 👌🏻

I was listing in the previous replay the situation and the perspective of Adi and why he is not acting effectively to support Imlie while she fight for his respect

Originally posted by: aarti1234

But questioning who drugged the family is not at all related to Malini. Guiding Imlie on how to gather proofs is also not related to Malini in my opinion. But I guess he is in total darkness right now to think straight and guide anyone.

I know it is not related to Malini! But this man does not want to deal with anything related to that night! He and his entire family are ashamed of the result of the night ( Adini slept together ) as what M frame the situation to be viewed like this! So they and Adi specially want to brush it all under the carpet he is like ( give me the punishment, forgive me and lets move on and forget what happened! )

He just don't want to deal with the situation and its sequences 🙃 like any other victim who just want to burry their head in sand rather than punish the real culprit! He is GUILT TRIPPED by M, that is!