Imlie Written Updates 25 Jun 2021 - Page 20

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ismein worry ka kya matlab hai 😆….yeh toh given hai as per the storyline. Duhh 🤷‍♀️😂

Makers have kept all characters in the story under the delusion that AM are “best friends”. It’s not just Adi 😆….Imlie points out his cluelessness about Malini sometimes, that’s about it. Rest everyone takes him at his word on a surface level about his dosti with Malini without noting the contrast in his actions. His token defenses of Malini are considered proof of BFF-ness. Lol

And ultimately it’s not Adi’s fault that Malini will remain in their lives. Imlie is WAY more enthused about clinging to Didi than Adi is. lol she proved it in today’s epi by again acting giddy over having Malini back in T house.

So long term, it will be Imlie’s delusion about Didi that will cause more problems than Adi’s token gestures for Malini I feel 😆….cuz he is otherwise consistent about focusing on Imlie and prioritizing her. While she insists on fixating on Malini. Toh dono milke babysitting karte rahenge, bas 🤷‍♀️😂

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this friendship is going to be the albatross around Aditya’s neck that Malini will hang very conveniently. Started in the latest episode itself with Malini labeling their relationship as friendship in front of her parents. And guilt toh waise hi hogi, together it is just going to be used to bring on drama that will ultimately get AdiLie closer hopefully.

Malini knows she is Imlie’s weakness and she will use that too. Even in that restaurant conversation - the way she spoke to Imlie may very well have been her saying “yes all that you’re saying is true”. I mean she is pretty naked about her manipulations and will be in the future too. But pata nahin makers ko kya padi hai ise glorify karne ki.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yep, it’s the usual token stuff they show in other SP shows too. FLs giving bhaashans on their so called strength and progressiveness but still clinging to a man at the end of the day for validation 🤷‍♀️😂

Log Imlie pe ungli karte hain but her background explains why she views marriage and sindoor the way she does. What excuse do these so-called modern, educated working women have to be so weak and spineless in the need to cling to a man?

I was laughing over Didi ka “main akeli reh gayi” dialogue especially hard. The Imlie who never had her privileges, her education or her financial independence also never wept over “being alone”. Even when she felt alone or abandoned, her stance was always about FIRMLY focusing on herself assertively….,she has dreams and goals for her life beyond debilitating herself over sasural nahin hai, maayka nahin hai blah blah. So called modern woman is the one crying over sasural, maayka, akelapan while the supposedly gaon ki gawaar has the capability to imagine her life beyond a man 🤷‍♀️. Yes Imlie loves Adi but she doesn’t sit and cry over akelapan on generic levels like pathetic Didi.

So yeah it’s beyond laughable that people want to claim Didi to be a “progressive” character simply over wanting a divorce. Lol asking for a divorce but still sitting and crying over the same man, still continuing to hang around his life for token purposes. Yeh kaisi progressiveness hai? 😆….Simply being an educated working woman doesn’t make you progressive. Progressiveness SOCH mein hoti hai. Imlie who is otherwise labeled regressive for giving regard to sindoor is much more progressive and independent mentally than the older, so called mature/sensible Didi😆.

Anyways the world runs on tokenism and marketing. Actual substance mein kam hi logon ko interest hai 😆

I just get irritated with the bhaashanbaazi that FLs do. Real life main hardly woman do that. Aur satyavachan about tokenism used to pander to the so called modern audience.

Sab shows ko bas alag aur progressive hone ka title chahiye hota hai. When hardly there is anything different about the content that they show- only the packaging changes. Now what is shown in Imlie is also not different content wise but it is the organic treatment & execution of most things that makes it feel different. Except for Didi which is a blind spot that they have created for themselves & are now do not know how to handle.

So they are going all extra hard in their PR about Didi being a modern progressive woman even when it is clear to the dedicated audience that she is actually not that. Only a certain section of SM users buy into this promotion as they want to prove to be some kind of a different viewer when at the end of the day they also watch the same show.

This audience wants to prove that how modern & different they are in supporting a wronged female while ignoring all the flaws of that character & also ignoring the FL who has suffered way worse than Didi.

This double standard is the reason why I cannot buy into their arguments for Didi when they give her a free pass to wrong all the people in her life while ridiculing Imlie for believing in the sanctity of her own marriage & eventually falling in love with her husband. It is not as if Imlie had ever purposely tried to come in between Adi & Didi. She has always wished for Adi treating Didi better above all. But still they do not sympathise with her or consider her circumstances.

Didi's faults are justified because she is a child of a broken home. Not as if Imlie has grown up in poverty, with the shame of being considered illegitimate child & fighting for all the things & respect in her life.

Imlie is being begrudged even the one happiness of being loved back by her husband & receiving his unwavering support. And this has happened on its own without any orchestration by her. She has never wanted to stay where she is not wanted. Earlier immediately after marriage she had no option but to stay at T house because she was removed from her own world & forced to leave her home. She has always been ready to leave the T house whenever Adi wanted. She was going to leave on marriage day but was stopped by Adi. She actually went to stay at PD during 2nd PD trip but the gunshot incident happened & she was back to Delhi. After this Adi never told her to leave but she did leave on her own when Adi told her to get married to someone else which was against her belief. She left without any plan of going back to Adi but it was he who couldn't live without her & came to take her back. She still resisited coming back but eventually had to give up in front of her own feelings as well as Adi's persistence.

But why is Didi so reluctant to break ties with Adi completely who has cheated her & has betrayed her according to her. She has all the options & privileges available to do so. But her own obsession with him is not letting her do so. That is the simple reason. Everything else that she spouts & deludes herself into believing are just excuses to stay close to him & feed this obsession. So what independence is she displaying & what stand is she taking? So much for being a modern independent woman.

Sorry double post from mobile.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yep, it’s the usual token stuff they show in other SP shows too. FLs giving bhaashans on their so called strength and progressiveness but still clinging to a man at the end of the day for validation 🤷‍♀️😂

Log Imlie pe ungli karte hain but her background explains why she views marriage and sindoor the way she does. What excuse do these so-called modern, educated working women have to be so weak and spineless in the need to cling to a man?

I was laughing over Didi ka “main akeli reh gayi” dialogue especially hard. The Imlie who never had her privileges, her education or her financial independence also never wept over “being alone”. Even when she felt alone or abandoned, her stance was always about FIRMLY focusing on herself assertively….,she has dreams and goals for her life beyond debilitating herself over sasural nahin hai, maayka nahin hai blah blah. So called modern woman is the one crying over sasural, maayka, akelapan while the supposedly gaon ki gawaar has the capability to imagine her life beyond a man 🤷‍♀️. Yes Imlie loves Adi but she doesn’t sit and cry over akelapan on generic levels like pathetic Didi.

So yeah it’s beyond laughable that people want to claim Didi to be a “progressive” character simply over wanting a divorce. Lol asking for a divorce but still sitting and crying over the same man, still continuing to hang around his life for token purposes. Yeh kaisi progressiveness hai? 😆….Simply being an educated working woman doesn’t make you progressive. Progressiveness SOCH mein hoti hai. Imlie who is otherwise labeled regressive for giving regard to sindoor is much more progressive and independent mentally than the older, so called mature/sensible Didi😆.

Anyways the world runs on tokenism and marketing. Actual substance mein kam hi logon ko interest hai 😆

I just get irritated with the bhaashanbaazi that FLs do. Real life main hardly women do that. Aur satyavachan about tokenism used to pander to the so called modern audience.

Sab shows ko bas alag aur progressive hone ka title chahiye hota hai. When hardly there is anything different about the content that they show- only the packaging changes😆. Now what is shown in Imlie is also not different content wise but it is the organic treatment & execution of most things that makes it feel different. Except for Didi which is a blind spot that they have created for themselves & now do not know how to handle🤔.

So they are going all extra hard in their PR about Didi being a modern progressive woman even when it is clear to the dedicated audience that she is actually not that. Only a certain section of SM users buy into this promotion as they want to prove to be some kind of a different viewer when at the end of the day they also watch the same saas bahu show😆.

This audience wants to prove that how modern & different they are in supporting a wronged female while ignoring all the flaws of that character & also ignoring the FL who has suffered way worse than Didi.

This double standard is the reason why I cannot buy into their arguments for Didi when they give her a free pass to wrong all the people in her life while ridiculing Imlie for believing in the sanctity of her own marriage & eventually falling in love with her husband. It is not as if Imlie had ever purposely tried to come in between Adi & Didi. She has always wished for Adi treating Didi better above all. But still they do not sympathise with her or consider her circumstances.

Didi's faults are justified because she is a child of a broken home. Not as if Imlie has grown up in poverty, with the shame of being considered illegitimate child & fighting for all the things & respect in her life.

Imlie is being begrudged even the one happiness of being loved back by her husband & receiving his unwavering support. And this has happened on its own without any orchestration by her. She has never wanted to stay where she is not wanted. Earlier immediately after marriage she had no option but to stay at T house because she was removed from her own world & forced to leave her home. She has always been ready to leave the T house whenever Adi wanted. She was going to leave on marriage day but was stopped by Adi. She actually went to stay at PD during 2nd PD trip but the gunshot incident happened & she was back to Delhi.

After this Adi never told her to leave but she did leave on her own when Adi told her to get married to someone else which was against her belief. She left without any plan of going back to Adi but it was he who couldn't live without her & came to take her back. She still resisited coming back but eventually had to give up in front of her own feelings as well as Adi's persistence.

But why is Didi so reluctant to break ties with Adi completely who has cheated her & has betrayed her according to her. She has all the options & privileges available to do so. But her own obsession with him is not letting her do so. That is the simple reason. Everything else that she spouts & deludes herself into believing are just excuses to stay close to him & feed this obsession. So what independence is she displaying & what stand is she taking? So much for being a modern independent woman🤪.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I just get irritated with the bhaashanbaazi that FLs do. Real life main hardly women do that. Aur satyavachan about tokenism used to pander to the so called modern audience.

Sab shows ko bas alag aur progressive hone ka title chahiye hota hai. When hardly there is anything different about the content that they show- only the packaging changes😆. Now what is shown in Imlie is also not different content wise but it is the organic treatment & execution of most things that makes it feel different. Except for Didi which is a blind spot that they have created for themselves & now do not know how to handle🤔.

So they are going all extra hard in their PR about Didi being a modern progressive woman even when it is clear to the dedicated audience that she is actually not that. Only a certain section of SM users buy into this promotion as they want to prove to be some kind of a different viewer when at the end of the day they also watch the same saas bahu show😆.

This audience wants to prove that how modern & different they are in supporting a wronged female while ignoring all the flaws of that character & also ignoring the FL who has suffered way worse than Didi.

This double standard is the reason why I cannot buy into their arguments for Didi when they give her a free pass to wrong all the people in her life while ridiculing Imlie for believing in the sanctity of her own marriage & eventually falling in love with her husband. It is not as if Imlie had ever purposely tried to come in between Adi & Didi. She has always wished for Adi treating Didi better above all. But still they do not sympathise with her or consider her circumstances.

Didi's faults are justified because she is a child of a broken home. Not as if Imlie has grown up in poverty, with the shame of being considered illegitimate child & fighting for all the things & respect in her life.

Imlie is being begrudged even the one happiness of being loved back by her husband & receiving his unwavering support. And this has happened on its own without any orchestration by her. She has never wanted to stay where she is not wanted. Earlier immediately after marriage she had no option but to stay at T house because she was removed from her own world & forced to leave her home. She has always been ready to leave the T house whenever Adi wanted. She was going to leave on marriage day but was stopped by Adi. She actually went to stay at PD during 2nd PD trip but the gunshot incident happened & she was back to Delhi.

After this Adi never told her to leave but she did leave on her own when Adi told her to get married to someone else which was against her belief. She left without any plan of going back to Adi but it was he who couldn't live without her & came to take her back. She still resisited coming back but eventually had to give up in front of her own feelings as well as Adi's persistence.

But why is Didi so reluctant to break ties with Adi completely who has cheated her & has betrayed her according to her. She has all the options & privileges available to do so. But her own obsession with him is not letting her do so. That is the simple reason. Everything else that she spouts & deludes herself into believing are just excuses to stay close to him & feed this obsession. So what independence is she displaying & what stand is she taking? So much for being a modern independent woman🤪.

Loved your recap of Imlie's journey and how she has grown, vis a vis didi. I remember Imlie's dialogue before the forced marriage when she tells her mom that humne aaj tak kaunu ka ek paisa nahi liye, phir kaunu ka pyaar kaisan lele. For her, BS loved Malini and she was always zimmedari, which was why she was ready to give him up to the person with whom she thought he had his true rishta. She has always stood up for her beliefs even when the road ahead was not only difficult but dangerous even. She got shot for him, saved him from goons and even dug him out of his grave. Yet even after that she was willing to part ways to build her own identity.

On the other hand Malini has always defined her existence with Adi. Adi ne choda toh woh duniya mein bilkul akeli. Adi ne jhoot bolke PD gaye - usne khaana peena aur ghar chod diya. Adi seemed to get close to Imlie - suicide attempt based on shall rather than talk to either of them or even confront them. Adi se sach ugalwane hai - make up an EMA and use that as a base to prop yourself infront for Adi and Imlie to give them permission to move on with each other, as if she owned them. When we compare shiny glitter over substance, latter will always win. That is why they have to do so much PR to convince people that Malini is good, she is a new-age, progressive aaj ki ladki. Coz without that it will be difficult to convince even the alternate fandom on Malini's character sketch. With a this PR and propping they are giving footage to didi that she craves. While on the other hand, Imlie's character is gaining support just based on her growth and how she has handled her journey ti date. No shoo sha is needed to convince people of how Imlie is. The writers and the actor has already convinced us of that and the character will only grow from strength to strength from here.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Imlie is being begrudged even the one happiness of being loved back by her husband & receiving his unwavering support. And this has happened on its own without any orchestration by her. She has never wanted to stay where she is not wanted. Earlier immediately after marriage she had no option but to stay at T house because she was removed from her own world & forced to leave her home. She has always been ready to leave the T house whenever Adi wanted. She was going to leave on marriage day but was stopped by Adi. She actually went to stay at PD during 2nd PD trip but the gunshot incident happened & she was back to Delhi. After this Adi never told her to leave but she did leave on her own when Adi told her to get married to someone else which was against her belief. She left without any plan of going back to Adi but it was he who couldn't live without her & came to take her back. She still resisited coming back but eventually had to give up in front of her own feelings as well as Adi's persistence.

But why is Didi so reluctant to break ties with Adi completely who has cheated her & has betrayed her according to her. She has all the options & privileges available to do so. But her own obsession with him is not letting her do so. That is the simple reason. Everything else that she spouts & deludes herself into believing are just excuses to stay close to him & feed this obsession. So what independence is she displaying & what stand is she taking? So much for being a modern independent woman.

Word to your whole post, Lodestar 👍🏼

@bold: THIS. So much. It’s heartbreaking that this girl is being begrudged the one joy that life has gifted her in the sea of torment and struggle she has otherwise been saturated in.

All she’s gotten is the love of the man she’s married and even that is being twisted and turned into a forced guilt trip for the other woman who is swimming in privilege 🤷‍♀️

This is not about pitting women against each other, but when you go out of your way to prop up the privileged woman at the cost of the woman who’s gotten the blessing of true love after so much misfortune, that’s when this goes off the rails. The forced attempt to paint a Malini as a bechaari when Imlie is the one who’s actually faced stark life and death levels of misfortune, that’s where this gets ridiculous. And spare me the explanations of Didi ka toxic childhood….it is still nothing compared to what Imlie grew up with and still prevailed over. Waise bhi Didi seems to have no qualms in still marinating in her toxic relationship with her parents so why am I expected to give her leeway for that? 🙄🙄