Vishwaaas Ke Diye.... - Page 6

yeh imlie ka daya daya gyan sunke i am like kaun hai yeh daya? kaha se aya hai? hume toh sirf ek hi daya ke bade mein pata hai epic CID ka 🤣

Lovely review fary.

It was an episode, which on first watch made me extremely mad. Imlies insecurities and low self worth were like open wounds that were khuredoed by the t family lavish praise of malini. It was so sad to see apu doing more of that on purpose sirf imlie ko sabak sikhaane ke liye.

Poor thing is so conflicted, scared and confused right now about whether she is doing right by accepting her love/husband. It is upto adi to help her through all of her self worth issues by enveloping her in his love, and reassuring her time and again that he and malini were never meant to be. They would have separated regardless of her presence in his life. He already highlighted all the reasons why he fell in love with his jhalli, needs to fulfill his promise of sahi saathi and not just allow her to deal with this internal turmoil all alone. If they do this right, they can show us wonderful scenes where bs stands by wifey and they both walk through her journey of erasing the insecurities together. Instead of focusing on trp fodder scenes like having imlie get verbally humiliated by apu radha , they should show miya biwi navigating through her issues saath main.

Originally posted by: nim_var

Imlie is behaving like a teenager with hormones with respect to her feelings for Adi. Belief, then doubting his love, denying herself the smallest of happiness or right to be happy, guilt over her Dd, jataoing her Haq on Adi like a wife but running away when it is her turn.

LOL what teenager tells the guy she's in love with that he feels PITY for her?😕😆

As far as I've seen confused/hormonal teenagers do things more like lashing out/acting out in trying to suss out someone's feelings for them.....what Imlie is doing right now can't be excused under the umbrella of her age. This is independent of age....she has just become very comfortable with lying to everyone, including herself.....she is unable to face herself. That's what this is about.....not about her being a teenager. It is about the situation she is in vis a second wife being involved in this matter and that being none other than the Didi she so worships.

I actually just find it immensely sad to see what she's become....lying to the very man who was her secret-keeper for so long....it binded them together in atleast not lying to each other.....but now that's gone too. She's starting to convince herself of her own lies.....lol and chalo yeh dikhana bhi tha toh this phase needed to happen in PD when he came to tell her his feelings.....why now? Tab toh she was very confident of her self-worth and only felt bad about doing injustice to Didi.....lol now suddenly it's all about Babusahib doing pity on her and not knowing that he actually loves Didi😆

Waise if this is really about self-worth and Imlie not being able to believe why Babusahib would leave gori/chitti, sari lehraane waali, padhi likhi Malini didi for her.....then better they show Imlie getting FBs of AM ke extensive PDA scenes rather than the token AM wedding FB which btw also has Imlie herself happily taking Didi to the mandap😆.

Agar doubt dikhaana hi hai toh dhang se dikhaao.....cuz it's clear now that Imlie is subconsciously hung up on the fact that he professed so much love for Malini also so where did all that go? lol Adi's explanation of him realizing later on that it was never love with Malini isn't working on Imlie one bit.

They should show repeated FBs of all the times Adi did grand declarations of never loving anyone but his pyari Moon😆......they keep showing that lame haldi doodh wala FB, toh usse pehle wala scene bhi dikhaa do when Imlie eavesdropped on Adi professing grand love for Moon yet again😆

Have the guts to show the problem directly rather than doing this lame gol mol daily and making a joke out of Imlie's faith. Agar trust/faith nahin hai toh acknowledge karo use directly and work through it.

Imlie ne aaj hum sabko educate kiya hai ki this is how you hug someone out of DAYA😆

If someone professes love for you, it must either be out of pity or they're lying.....and if they still insist on the truth of their love, toh then YOU lie to them that you believe them.....simple😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Imlie ne aaj hum sabko educate kiya hai ki this is how you hug someone out of DAYA😆

If someone professes love for you, it must either be out of pity or they're lying.....and if they still insist on the truth of their love, toh then YOU lie to them that you believe them.....simple😆

Posting here instead of page 1 as the thread has moved so much. Good post Faryji.

Here’s the thing about giving these Aditya outbursts that everyone thinks makes for a good episode - the bar should not be so low that bread crumbs can elevate it. Consistency should not be forgotten in the name of whatever momentary appeal people get from these bits and pieces.

I liked Aditya’s scenes, no doubt about it. But when the other half of the story is literally being reduced to someone unknown, there is only so much gloss a viewer can take.

I had told AY after Monday’s episode that whatever they showed was leading up to some form of Aditya breathing fire at Imlie by Wednesday and that is what it led to. He had to literally spell it out and remind her that he had been buried alive. Like nothing about him makes a difference to her because she is not in the right headspace 🤷🏻‍♀️ And let’s not do karma anymore because this is just Imlie refusing to see and believe things that are right in front of her.

Just yesterday someone quoted me and said Aditya has had 100 episodes so Imlie needs a 100 more when I said I refuse to understand this person that Imlie has become. I do not know how people watch the show and see that it has never been about wanting Imlie to just comply. It has always been about her getting comfortable with lying. She let the truth be hidden in the beginning due to circumstances but now it is just lying - to Aditya most of all. She did not trust him after what he said in the episode and she should have told him so instead of saying I believe you. She will always come up with an excuse. If not Kunal, it could even be leukemia 🤷🏻‍♀️ Aditya has always had this burden of truth all by himself and he will be the one to again bring it out. Imlie will not be his supporter here.

An intense personal feeling of inadequacy can warp an individual’s thinking. The problem has been that this has never been delved into as much as I would have liked so far and has now been thrown out in the open. Nothing that Aditya did in the episode showed that he understands what Imlie’s actual problems are. Individuals with Imlie’s sense of low self-esteem do things that are entirely opposite to their nature which is what she is doing to an extent, albeit inconsistently. Aditya wants her to trust him. And she lied to him. And he ended it with intezaar. This is not going anywhere. I have no hope on it ever getting the treatment that it ideally should.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL what teenager tells the guy she's in love with that he feels PITY for her?😕😆

As far as I've seen confused/hormonal teenagers do things more like lashing out/acting out in trying to suss out someone's feelings for them.....what Imlie is doing right now can't be excused under the umbrella of her age. This is independent of age....she has just become very comfortable with lying to everyone, including herself.....she is unable to face herself. That's what this is about.....not about her being a teenager. It is about the situation she is in vis a second wife being involved in this matter and that being none other than the Didi she so worships.

I actually just find it immensely sad to see what she's become....lying to the very man who was her secret-keeper for so long....it binded them together in atleast not lying to each other.....but now that's gone too. She's starting to convince herself of her own lies.....lol and chalo yeh dikhana bhi tha toh this phase needed to happen in PD when he came to tell her his feelings.....why now? Tab toh she was very confident of her self-worth and only felt bad about doing injustice to Didi.....lol now suddenly it's all about Babusahib doing pity on her and not knowing that he actually loves Didi😆

+100 Bold

Teens do lash out or act out, but they are also secretive when it comes to sharing their feelings for another person. That and the fact as you wrote that Imlie does not face her own emotions or feelings here. she would rather bury her head in the sand than acknowledge what she feels is immense love for Adi, not boz he happens to be her husband, but for Adi the Man.

She is clearly out of her depth in thinking that she can sambhalo herself or Adi for that matter, by repeating her Dd jaap every few minutes or throwing his love back at his face.

She is wallowing in self pity, inferiority complex and guilt that is a toxic mix to be feeling right now. The honest and open communication that she had with Adi, when she asked him if she was mithi ki dhool? This was the same suit she was wearing when she entered into his room in sync with Adi, Grihapravesh.

I think something or some words will have to trigger that change in her and sadly we have to face this dejected n mopey Imlie with bursts of spirit shown intermittently.

I also felt she was shown with extra oily makeup today to make her feel even more inferior as compared to Malini who is always dressed impeccably, no matter how low she is feeling. Let us not forget her dressing as a bride.. which took the cake..

Originally posted by: water_83

exactly my thought when she was going with that daya blah blah ...one more question even if she says accept moonji to aditya...paar kya moonji ready hogi ..because now moon knows the truth ...😲just failing to understand ..but good part was adi gave clear and loud msg to imlie jo sochna hai socho I will do what I want ...👍🏼

Lol Imlie does seem to think ki Didi will come back to Adi in a heartbeat even now 😆....and she’s not even that wrong given Didi still giving despo looks to Adi. Only thing holding her back is Adi telling her he loves Imlie 😆

Imlie also seems to think that once Adi learns that Malini still loves him and not KC, that will magically make Adi go back to Malini too 🤷‍♀️😂😂😂

But mere liye it’s still the funniest that Imlie thinks a guy who got buried alive for her and is hugging her like THIS is doing it out of DAYA😕🤣. Imlie has a very high opinion of Adi if she thinks woh kisi ke liye bhi zameen mein gadh jaayega 😆

Ultimately Imlie also doesn’t want to believe the truth she’s seen with her own eyes in terms of the extent to which Adi has fought everyone for her, the way he’s shown his love for her as recently as last week only in this hugs/kisses wala scene. She is willfully pretending all that didn’t happen and Adi still really loves Didi but just doesn’t know it 🤷‍♀️😂. I guess she thinks woh Adi ka bhoot tha hugging her last week? 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Apparently this is how Imlie ki “journey of realization” will be 🤷‍♀️😂. To me it still looks more like random gimmicks but I guess others here are finding this to be a parallel to Adi’s realization? I personally don’t see how this is a parallel to that but chalo logon ko abhi bhi meaning ka hope hai😆. Cute.

Adi’s realization was internal in nature and it never involved him saying something to Imlie that he didn’t believe at the time. Imlie on the other hand is being shown flipping daily, lying to him that she believes his love for her, refusing to show faith/trust in the guy she claims is her husband, making excuses about not wanting to be selfish in love, then randomly claiming the love is fake/dhoka 🙄😂.

Toh pardon me if I can’t find the journey in this. Looks more like gimmicks from start to finish. And it will reach its conclusion with some grand speech on vishwaas/love again after the divorce.

How do you build faith in a relationship with someone who constantly LIES to you that they believe you? 😆 Who constantly shows pretty much zero faith in you and then refuses to even admit they don’t trust you?

Adi did tell her she isn’t doing right by him but as always doing right by Adi is the least of Imlie’s concerns. Lol she doesn’t know herself and doesn’t seem interested in knowing Adi either. So what will be the journey here then?😕😆

Adi's character arc & journey has been well written. We could clearly follow his internal & external thought process. There is build up & follow up as well to his arcs though sometimes they have been very short.

Imlie's character arc & journey was also well written till the sindoor drama by Didi. We could clearly follow her thought process. But after that her characterisation has been messed up to keep Adi-Imlie relationship in a limbo & prop Didi's character. Now one moment she says something, next moment she does something completely opposite to what she has just said. And I for one cannot justify it as her turmoil & insecurities because lack of build up to it & then lack of follow up from it.

So I guess we wil have to jhelo this Imlie until the writers want to move the story & their relationship with some real "progress" rather than some convos whose understanding gets negated in the very next moment😆.