Originally posted by: pamk06
exactly, if NDE was not enough then I do not know what will it take.... but I think it’s more do with abandonment than with insecurity... it’s because of her father leaving her and may be thinking that she was not enough for him to come back.
I thinks it’s going to take knowing DEV actual selfish reasons for her to let that go and believe that Aditya will not leave her and he is with her for ever. Also, if you see Aditya is leaving a 7 year relationship for her. So believing him is also difficult especially after all his claims that Malini is the one for him and pushing it down her throat every time. So in her mind, What’s the guarantee that he will not leave her.... we know he will not, but trust in these matter is very difficult to gain especially due to her parental issues. So it’s going to take a lot more for her to actually start trusting that he actually loves her and will not leave her.....
@bold: I did point this out in a post a few pages back also that if her real insecurity is ki Adi has said all these pyar ke declarations to Malini before her and that is why she feels doubtful about him making these claims to her now jab 7 saal ke rishte waale claims bhi nahin tike, toh phir usko dhang se dikhaao na.....show the FBs of Imlie remembering his grand love declarations to Malini.
But no, they don't show us any of that....bas one generic FB of AM ki shaadi chipka diya and uske baad Imlie ko general dialogue de diya about how she accepts what he's saying about his love for her😆
There is no real clarity about Imlie's core issue even now. When she raises the 7 year angle, Adi usko bataa deta hai ki I realized bahut der se it was never love in those 7 years but ab realize kar liya hai toh bol raha hoon na ki woh pyar nahin tha.....toh if she's still doubtful, why is she not shown saying ki aise kaise 7 years ka pyar hawaa ho sakta hai?😆.....If she's so doubtful toh bol de ki matlab 7 years baad humara pyar bhi phurr ho jaayega?😆
If abandonment is the real issue, doesn't that keep getting disproven by the fact that Adi ALWAYS comes for her and finds her wherever she goes?😆.....Matlab yeh bandaa kahaan kahaan nahin pahunch gaya Imlie ke peechhe....bus mein bhi dhund liya, PD bhi chala gaya use manaane, and now most recently managed to track her to a random Lodge with barely a clue about her whereabouts😆. Does a person looking to abandon you do all this? Does she remember him ever showing even 1% of this tadap/concern for Malini even in the throes of his "Meri toh bas Moon hai" phase?😆......Nope....but itna dimaag lagaane nahin denge Imlie ko. Chalo dimaag nahin bhi lagaana toh baat karke ek dusre ko samjhaa lo, assurance de lo....but Imlie is shown to either not comprehend what he's saying or just not believe what he's saying.....lol
If they really want to tackle this, they will need to show scenes contrasting the fact that 7 saal ke baad bhi AM don't really know each other much while Imlie understands Adi's nature in ways beyond others realize......instead we are force fed scenes of how AM are "sabse acche dost".....lol bas ek simple si line bolna Imlie ko ki jo main tumhaare liye feel karta hoon, maine kabhi kisi aur ke liye nahin feel kiya.....itni si line bhi bolna allowed nahin hai Adi ko according to the writers😆
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