An Endless Nightmare.. - Page 10

Originally posted by: prietyp

In the nishant - Malini conversation , were they both implying imli as the other person in directly ? Or were they talking about a third person in general ? Malini said that she fears what her mom says is true , in that case , they probably are doubting imli .

Why do I feel that they did not show the entire conversation between dewar bhabhi. Did they come up with any plan together ?

they meant 3rd person in general but as i said mujeh toh woh bhi dream hi lag raha tha

i think everything seemed like disjoined today. Imlie is back from Collage but BS is still leaving for work.

Then DC n Mommy visited T's. What time?? Aditya again goin on a guilt trip that its all his fault after screaming yesterday that MALINI bimaar ho jaati hai!!!

Location change has impacted the whole series and how!!! this entire episode seemed like some stupid stunt. Somewhere i do understand they are setting up for next PD track. How they will go there i am not sure.

Takeaways -

1. Aditya said he plans to talk to DD in couple of days. There is definitely something going to happen. Malini for all her flaws will not resort to this level of Emotional Manipulation unless she is sure that Aditya wants out.

2. Precap definitely seemed like a weekly promo we get so yeah this will play out in coming week.

3. All the negative things that were said to imlie about her place in this family has done a number on her.. she is connecting all dots starting from Aditya's statement that my family will believe me not you to BK and Pankaj's that bahu ka saath maika deta hai to Prakash that her marriage is invalid and T's will never accept her.

4.Malini has broken Imlie so subtly that we are not able to identify imlie thats in front of us. A girl who her entire life wanted some real connection apart from her mom n dadda has been emotionally manipulated to believe that she is the one breaking the house. Malini's entire sindoor drama n tamasha after that has made sure that between Aditya and Imlie one will never accept their relationship. Suicide attempt will further put a wedge between A and I.

5. I knw adiya is suffering but wat happened in first few months of his marriage to Imlie and the emotional baggage he gave her has been put to display today. His outbursts at her are not helping either. She is looking it from a perspective that she came in between. A needs to make her understand that she is not the reason. This tug of war will be hard to watch.

I am sure m comes back to T house but how the dynamic of the house be after that is something i want to watch.

My main problem right now is not Dementor Didi. She can do suicide drama Veeru style in T house for all I care😆. My problem is that I am unable to connect with Imlie.

Imlie's Malini Didi jaap was expected by us since the time Adi was doing his Moon Jaap. It is not something that was a surprise for us or out of character. What is out of character is Imlie's entire life revolving around this Didi Jaap.

In the initial phase of the story Imlie was being harshly insulted & rebuked by Adi day in day out, she was so alone in T house without any support, insulted by AC as well, missing her mom & Dadda, her entire dream going poof, she had to suffer through seeing her own husband get married to someone else. But was she wallowing in her pain all the time? No. She cried when she got hurt, sometimes even gave it back to Adi when he went too far, didn't let AC's insult matter to her & with her own nature made a connection with the T family. Her not giving up essence remained. She survived it all. Her resilience more than anything gained her Adi's admiration. When Adi disrespected her belief in their marriage by asking Imlie to move on in life with someone else, she had the strength to go away from him for his own happiness.

Now at this stage when she has got full support & love from Adi, the T's have bonded so much with her that the house is lifeless without her, she has achieved her dream of making her Amma & Dadda proud by being a state topper, she has received admission in one of the top colleges of Delhi why is her guilt regarding Adi-Malini marriage being broken so larger than life for her. It's as if Adi's love & support for her has weakened her instead of strengthening her💔.

Imlie even in so much emotional & mental suffering initially having the guilt of ruining Adi's life was able to give understanding & compassion to Adi who was lashing out at her. Now that Adi loves her, it is as if all her compassion & understanding for Adi has gone for a toss. The guy is telling her upfront so many times that he is unhappy with Malini & cannot keep Malini happy but she is just not listening. Ok, if the reason is the guilt & shame, then, she should tell Adi straight away that she won't be with him until he sorts out his issues with Malini on his own. She should not interfere in there relationship. She should concentrate & focus on her studies. Instead she is just day & night worrying about Malini Didi's pain.

Imlie is not close to Malini Didi. There has always been a barrier between them because Imlie always knew that she is also married to Adi. Imlie is 100 times closer to the Tripathis & she loves Adi above her own life. So why the writers are showing that all Imlie cares about is Malini Didi?

I read through your discussion in last thread how Malini has emotionally abused Imlie since her return & made her feel like an outsider. I agree that all her lashing out has impacted Imlie. But if there is one Malini Didi lashing out at her then there is one Adi who loves her & supports her, boosts her confidence, takes pride in her achievements, makes her feel special. There are all the Tripathis who also love her, support her, give her confidence. Does all this love & support not matter to Imlie? Why is only Malini Didi being happy & alright with her the only important thing for her?

The writers need to make Malini Didi the only focal point for Imlie to the exclusion of all others is what is wrong. This has totally messed up Imlie's characterisation. Hence, I cannot connect with her.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Her interaction today with Nishant was pretty much a case study on how manipulative she could be. She starts off with a everything is hunky dory facade and immediately assumes he is here to take her back. When she sees that he is not here for that, she starts listing out why she thinks she is the victim. The moment Nishant asks if she has attempted talking to Aditya, she uses that conveniently to chalk him out as the villain in all this. She actually flares up at Nishant momentarily when he asks the question and she goes off on a rant about Aditya’s shortcomings after. She probably understands people fear her because she is richer than they are so she can use that to raise her voice at them as long as she brings back the “I’m the good one” facade immediately after.

Nishant was weak enough after that interaction to end up relegating his brother’s corner by questioning if there was another person involved in that relationship. Malini already believes it because of her mom and whatever she has construed from the bridge incident etc but there was no Tripathi who had questioned it before. Nishant asking her this opened a window and is going to be used against the family and Aditya now. Just like how that suicide is going to be a direct play at Aditya’s fears for her health. Both men walked into this with open eyes.

What good facade man. What 'good' has she done for the Ts? I'm failing to see why they think she is good, does being Adi's wife automatically make someone good kya? Besides making cakes, cutting carrots & party planning, I've never seen her doing anything that would paint her in a good light for them. Image of college professor & sari parade karne ke basis pe did she become 'good'? Elitist toh she is, so let's not even get into that.

Slow claps for Nishant, and he was Adi's so called best friend?😆 Aise best friend hote hai toh dushman ki zaroorat nahi padti. Such a 🤢. Like what is the basis of him always going the extra mile for Malini? I'm so confounded by this, is there something I've missed?😲

Aditya's 'fears' for her health were only shown before the PD track no? When he came back to take her back after her bhook hartal, I didn't notice any concern in him for her health. Mild humane concern was there, perhaps. So personally, it will seem jarring for me to see him being hugely guilt-tripped by her suicide stunt. Especially after his recent beemari wala taunt re Didi. But let's see how they handle it. Imlie ka guilt trip I can handle, but if Adi and Imlie both become crippled by their guilt, I will zone out completely.

The Tripathis are an endless anomaly to me. Are they even Adi's real family or they brought him from kachre ka dabba & raised him😆?

The total lack of sympathy, empathy or sensitivity towards Adi is just mind boggling. Whatever exterior he projects but still he is your own flesh & blood whom you have known for your entire life. If he is behaving out of character then why not sit with him & discuss what his issue is calmly.

Malini is their bahu who has not even bonded with you to such an extent that you can scold her with full haq & yet she is the one who is more important than your own son. Instead of asking Adi's pov, they are blindly believing Malini's pov & supporting her.

I can never understand what jaadu has Malini done on them that they feel so bound to keep her happy & pampered. She hardly gives them token respect & gusse main toh lihaaz bhi nahi karti but still she is the mahaan bahu who is being wronged by their son. I would have believed it if Malini had formed individual strong bonds with each of the members. Then their support to her over Adi would be justified. But what the writers are showing now is just completely unreal & hard to believe.

The writers have made every one deaf, dumb & mute in order to make Dementor Didi relevant in the story line. Warna aisi bahu ko koi puchta bhi nahi.

Good post. I am having the same feelings regarding the episodes nowadays. Even yesterday’s rupi di scene was such a relief but felt incomplete for some reason, but it was totally understandable since they were shifting locations. But where they are going with the whole of storyline has left me so confused. Imlie, the show, has just not been what it was lately.. they’re on screen but I can’t see imlie and aditya anywhere. The whole vibe of the show seems off. What connected to me was the organic, gradual way they took their storylines forward, but nowadays everything seems disconnected. They force fed us adi mun for the first 90 or so episodes. Don’t get me wrong, I loved the gradual way imlie and aditya’s storyline moved forward during those episodes as well but we had to witness all that as well along with it for the story’s sake. But now, after that beautiful pd track, the emotional bond adi imlie created, the love they portrayed between them, they’ve suddenly decided to conveniently forget about it. Where is that adi imlie connect? Where is their charm?

I had to watch the bland zero chemistry adi mun scenes for 90 episodes to get here, we’re finally here, it was finally time to focus on aditya and imlie’s relationship, and I am not talking about romance, I am talking about their bond getting stronger, scenes with them talking and exploring this new turn to their bond. That’s nowhere to be found, where is our adi imlie? Where is imlie? I don’t know how to say this but it’s not all about the shaadi it’s more about their bond, their essence what set them apart from everyone else, all of which seems lost. I did like adi in the recent episodes but I was badly missing the adi imlie connect, so much happened and we hardly had a proper scene with them, how did adi not check up on imlie? I like his strong stance on wanting the truth out but why is it a trade off? Why can’t we have their relationship be explored along with it? Is this for the fear of ipl? Trp games ka shikaar hogaye? Ya phir they’re unable to handle such a bold storyline and made it all about shaadi bas or the negativity actually got to them?? I don’t know what to think. Is show ko sabse alag bol bol ke shayad maine hi nazar laga di.. I’ll be left heartbroken if this is all this show becomes about. I miss the show Imlie. I am going to take a break until we get it back.

Originally posted by: Krantikari

What good facade man. What 'good' has she done for the Ts? I'm failing to see why they think she is good, does being Adi's wife automatically make someone good kya? Besides making cakes, cutting carrots & party planning, I've never seen her doing anything that would paint her in a good light for them. Image of college professor & sari parade karne ke basis pe did she become 'good'? Elitist toh she is, so let's not even get into that.

Slow claps for Nishant, and he was Adi's so called best friend?😆 Aise best friend hote hai toh dushman ki zaroorat nahi padti. Such a 🤢. Like what is the basis of him always going the extra mile for Malini? I'm so confounded by this, is there something I've missed?😲

Aditya's 'fears' for her health were only shown before the PD track no? When he came back to take her back after her bhook hartal, I didn't notice any concern in him for her health. Mild humane concern was there, perhaps. So personally, it will seem jarring for me to see him being hugely guilt-tripped by her suicide stunt. Especially after his recent beemari wala taunt re Didi. But let's see how they handle it. Imlie ka guilt trip I can handle, but if Adi and Imlie both become crippled by their guilt, I will zone out completely.

which makes it all the more apparent that didi is manipulating this fact now.. Adi has explicitly told her he fears her reactions her Drame that he fears she will do something and he will be balmed like he always is... and what does she do.. pick on that weakness and Multiples it and does this Strategic drama so he will be remaiend with no choice but take he back and be forced into this Toxix relationship.. Jsut because didi acts all sweet she doesn't get called out but bechara adi jsut being mildly happyw ith imlie gets the tag of "toxis" yeh dunia meri samjh ke baahar hai

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

Good post. I am having the same feelings regarding the episodes nowadays. Even yesterday’s rupi di scene was such a relief but felt incomplete for some reason, but it was totally understandable since they were shifting locations. But where they are going with the whole of storyline has left me so confused. Imlie, the show, has just not been what it was lately.. they’re on screen but I can’t see imlie and aditya anywhere. The whole vibe of the show seems off. What connected to me was the organic, gradual way they took their storylines forward, but nowadays everything seems disconnected. They force fed us adi mun for the first 90 or so episodes. Don’t get me wrong, I loved the gradual way imlie and aditya’s storyline moved forward during those episodes as well but we had to witness all that as well along with it for the story’s sake. But now, after that beautiful pd track, the emotional bond adi imlie created, the love they portrayed between them, they’ve suddenly decided to conveniently forget about it. Where is that adi imlie connect? Where is their charm?

I had to watch the bland zero chemistry adi mun scenes for 90 episodes to get here, we’re finally here, it was finally time to focus on aditya and imlie’s relationship, and I am not talking about romance, I am talking about their bond getting stronger, scenes with them talking and exploring this new turn to their bond. That’s nowhere to be found, where is our adi imlie? Where is imlie? I don’t know how to say this but it’s not all about the shaadi it’s more about their bond, their essence what set them apart from everyone else, all of which seems lost. I did like adi in the recent episodes but I was badly missing the adi imlie connect, so much happened and we hardly had a proper scene with them, how did adi not check up on imlie? I like his strong stance on wanting the truth out but why is it a trade off? Why can’t we have their relationship be explored along with it? Is this for the fear of ipl? Trp games ka shikaar hogaye? Ya phir they’re unable to handle such a bold storyline and made it all about shaadi bas or the negativity actually got to them?? I don’t know what to think. Is show ko sabse alag bol bol ke shayad maine hi nazar laga di.. I’ll be left heartbroken if this is all this show becomes about. I miss the show Imlie. I am going to take a break until we get it back.

i wish i had answers for any of those.. i am pretty much on the same track.. this week has been absoltuly the worst in terms oft hat missing connect in adi imlie usually they have been able to Slip somethign meaningful here or there if not in every episode but yahan itni badibaat ho gayi rupi di found out and next we get into some bizarre nightmares nonsense.. where is the Imlie we knew.. everyone looked drained today idk if now am seeing more things but all of them looked zoned out too not knowing what they are doing.. there is utter confusion in what they want to show.. where is adi imlie in all this?? When has this been converted from them to about everythign else... they have time and space to insert ar kisi ki bakwaas but to show adi imlie.. heck they can take the full paltan on an outdoor but not show us a min of adi imlie being in connect each other i understood gave them a pass that maybe too much workload hence they skipped adi consolign imlie which then too seemed unreal.. but now this has become a norm.. all they do everyday is Bully Adi to bring malini back or blame him for the failed relationship when he is hardly at fault it is not him who is makign public show of their fall out but hey he gets the blame simply for being a mard and this and ohhh women toh kabhi galat hoti hi nahi hai. Hence adi hi galat hoga..

and if that is not all adi isn't getting understanding from imlie too what about you understand me better than me.. i get imlie ke phobias why she felt what she felt but it didn't work caz this is not the imlie we are familiar with.. she who understood adi at his worst moods and his worst reactions too seemed to have formed this very wall against him.. she is behaving totally ajeeb..

Originally posted by: Krantikari

What good facade man. What 'good' has she done for the Ts? I'm failing to see why they think she is good, does being Adi's wife automatically make someone good kya? Besides making cakes, cutting cakes & party planning, I've never seen her doing anything that would paint her in a good light for them. Image of college professor & sari parade karne ke basis pe did she become 'good'? Elitist toh she is, so let's not even get into that.

Slow claps for Nishant, and he was Adi's so called best friend?😆 Aise best friend hote hai toh dushman ki zaroorat nahi padti. Such a 🤢. Like what is the basis of him always going the extra mile for Malini? I'm so confounded by this, is there something I've missed?😲

Aditya's 'fears' for her health were only shown before the PD track no? When he came back to take her back after her bhook hartal, I didn't notice any concern in him for her health. Mild humane concern was there, perhaps. So personally, it will seem jarring for me to see him being hugely guilt-tripped by her suicide stunt. Especially after his recent beemari wala taunt re Didi. But let's see how they handle it. Imlie ka guilt trip I can handle, but if Adi and Imlie both become crippled by their guilt, I will zone out completely.

Re good: one was Aditya himself going on about how she’s perfect for him and the family. And the Ts slosh around in an eternal pool of inferiority complex where the Chaturvedis are concerned. Pretty much on display since the time that halwa dropped on the floor in the first couple episodes. Beyond that I fail to understand how no one else gets that it is a facade. I mean Dadi and Dev going on about the Malini nonsense and they are her own family 🤷🏻‍♀️

Re Nishant: They had to go for either Rupali or Nishant to be the one to call out the whole third person angle. Both of them have a backstory of lost love etc. Looks like they decided to go with Nishant. But they did show him to be a bit more concerned for Malini at multiple instances starting from the bridge incident, after Aditya leaves to PD that discussion in the room, going to the office with her. They did seem to be building up to this. Also he seems to be as lacking in courage as Malini is. He knew what Aditya’s response would be to his question so he never had the guts to ask him 🤢

Re Aditya’s fears: he mentioned it once during the date wala fight right? He told her directly that he is not telling her the truth because he is scared that she will either faint, go on a food strike etc etc. I too hope Aditya does not go on a guilt trip post the suicide drama but one line of his today annoyed me a bit. He thought to himself “I cannot see Malini in tears too”. I mean Imlie is disintegrating right in front of him because he brought her back but Malini’s tears hurt him Irrespective of her didi jaap, he needs to see Malini has been nothing but a threat to Imlie

Originally posted by: Lodestar

My main problem right now is not Dementor Didi. She can do suicide drama Veeru style in T house for all I care😆. My problem is that I am unable to connect with Imlie.

Imlie's Malini Didi jaap was expected by us since the time Adi was doing his Moon Jaap. It is not something that was a surprise for us or out of character. What is out of character is Imlie's entire life revolving around this Didi Jaap.

In the initial phase of the story Imlie was being harshly insulted & rebuked by Adi day in day out, she was so alone in T house without any support, insulted by AC as well, missing her mom & Dadda, her entire dream going poof, she had to suffer through seeing her own husband get married to someone else. But was she wallowing in her pain all the time? No. She cried when she got hurt, sometimes even gave it back to Adi when he went too far, didn't let AC's insult matter to her & with her own nature made a connection with the T family. Her not giving up essence remained. She survived it all. Her resilience more than anything gained her Adi's admiration. When Adi disrespected her belief in their marriage by asking Imlie to move on in life with someone else, she had the strength to go away from him for his own happiness.

Now at this stage when she has got full support & love from Adi, the T's have bonded so much with her that the house is lifeless without her, she has achieved her dream of making her Amma & Dadda proud by being a state topper, she has received admission in one of the top colleges of Delhi why is her guilt regarding Adi-Malini marriage being broken so larger than life for her. It's as if Adi's love & support for her has weakened her instead of strengthening her💔.

Imlie even in so much emotional & mental suffering initially having the guilt of ruining Adi's life was able to give understanding & compassion to Adi who was lashing out at her. Now that Adi loves her, it is as if all her compassion & understanding for Adi has gone for a toss. The guy is telling her upfront so many times that he is unhappy with Malini & cannot keep Malini happy but she is just not listening. Ok, if the reason is the guilt & shame, then, she should tell Adi straight away that she won't be with him until he sorts out his issues with Malini on his own. She should not interfere in there relationship. She should concentrate & focus on her studies. Instead she is just day & night worrying about Malini Didi's pain.

Imlie is not close to Malini Didi. There has always been a barrier between them because Imlie always knew that she is also married to Adi. Imlie is 100 times closer to the Tripathis & she loves Adi above her own life. So why the writers are showing that all Imlie cares about is Malini Didi?

I read through your discussion in last thread how Malini has emotionally abused Imlie since her return & made her feel like an outsider. I agree that all her lashing out has impacted Imlie. But if there is one Malini Didi lashing out at her then there is one Adi who loves her & supports her, boosts her confidence, takes pride in her achievements, makes her feel special. There are all the Tripathis who also love her, support her, give her confidence. Does all this love & support not matter to Imlie? Why is only Malini Didi being happy & alright with her the only important thing for her?

The writers need to make Malini Didi the only focal point for Imlie to the exclusion of all others is what is wrong. This has totally messed up Imlie's characterisation. Hence, I cannot connect with her.