An Endless Nightmare.. - Page 12

Adi and Imlie journey will not be like bed of roses. They are going face lot of hurdles. It is journey that they are going to face together that will make this relationship strong . We have just seen the happy moments of this relationship until now.

Still we have lot see. The only thing I feel now is for the Imilie to face this tough situation at Adi’s home. At least she has Rupi Didi’s support now. I want Adi to suffer more for making the choice he had made in the beginning.

More angst to come be prepared.

Hi all,

First things first; I have not read all the comments on this thread, but I'm sure you guys discussed it in detail joh bhi ho raha hai show mein. And for that 👏🏼 I do read the episode update and try read some comments too. Still I want to share some of my thoughts here with you all. It might be repetitive to some, sorry for that. Please bear me with me...

Okay so apparently the show has reached a point wherein a very delicate issue is being shown; suicide. Or at least, Malini who slits her wrist. This is an highly sensitive issue and honestly it kinda left a bad taste.

Being suicidal is not a joke. I'm sure the CVs won't show it as a ''joke'' either, but bringing someone to that point needs so much more depth than what we have seen of Malini up till now. I find it kinda difficult to digest that someone would straight jump to cutting a wrist because of the issues she is facing in her marital life. It takes so so so much more to reach that point where one does not want to live anymore. I am no professional in mental health, but I think severe depression and perhaps medication are two important factors.

Personally, I don't think it is necessary to show this kind of graph in her character. Yes, we understand that she is weak, insecure and perhaps even manipulative but why go so extreme all of a sudden? It doesn't make sense to me...

She fainted the first time, the second time she went on some hunger strike and now directly wanting to kill herself? Or is it just ''plain'' wanting to hurt herself?

Like most of you all, even I think the focus on Malini has become too much now. I have nothing against her character per se, but her character development is something I don't agree with. Adi and Imlie won't ever be able to have a normal relationship, or to atleast focus on theirs, if the focus is too much on showing Malini as the forever bechari. Imlie waisi he is on a maha guilt trip regarding Malini, so with these kind of stunts Adilie's relationship won't have the kind of attention that it needs. I rather see Malini as a villain and trying to hurt others (the ones that every ITV show has) than hurting herself, because maybe only then Imlie will wake up from her guilt trip and see what kind of person Malini really is. But if she keeps hurting herself, then instead of one step ahead, Adilie's relationship will either stagnate or even worse take huge steps backwards.

So what are they really trying to show us here... people who live an unhappy married life and don't know how to deal with it or an intelligent village girl who will make her dreams come true and fighting against all odds in life...? Please CVs, make up your mind...

P.S. Not my intention to hurt anyone here. This is merely my opinion.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

i wish i had answers for any of those.. i am pretty much on the same track.. this week has been absoltuly the worst in terms oft hat missing connect in adi imlie usually they have been able to Slip somethign meaningful here or there if not in every episode but yahan itni badibaat ho gayi rupi di found out and next we get into some bizarre nightmares nonsense.. where is the Imlie we knew.. everyone looked drained today idk if now am seeing more things but all of them looked zoned out too not knowing what they are doing.. there is utter confusion in what they want to show.. where is adi imlie in all this?? When has this been converted from them to about everythign else... they have time and space to insert ar kisi ki bakwaas but to show adi imlie.. heck they can take the full paltan on an outdoor but not show us a min of adi imlie being in connect each other i understood gave them a pass that maybe too much workload hence they skipped adi consolign imlie which then too seemed unreal.. but now this has become a norm.. all they do everyday is Bully Adi to bring malini back or blame him for the failed relationship when he is hardly at fault it is not him who is makign public show of their fall out but hey he gets the blame simply for being a mard and this and ohhh women toh kabhi galat hoti hi nahi hai. Hence adi hi galat hoga..

and if that is not all adi isn't getting understanding from imlie too what about you understand me better than me.. i get imlie ke phobias why she felt what she felt but it didn't work caz this is not the imlie we are familiar with.. she who understood adi at his worst moods and his worst reactions too seemed to have formed this very wall against him.. she is behaving totally ajeeb..

I don’t think this distance they’ve created between adi and imlie is going to work in their favour. Aditya and imlie will end up together obviously, so show us their scenes show us the bond so we don’t forget it. By which I mean, I actually went today ‘why are you both torturing yourselves over your relationship? I can’t see that you actually want to be together? Why so much struggle for something which seems invisible right now’ I want the scenes which will make me shout and say ‘look how perfect they are together, they’re meant to be!’ but I can’t even feel that rn because I hardly see them in the same frame together nowadays.

I hope the shift plus ipl is the reason for it, because if it’s sm negativity that would be a huge disservice to the show’s fans who’ve been watching since the beginning. The vicious campaign againts imlie is because of some malini fans but mostly because of people from other fandoms or people who have only watched a clip or two and think of malini as some wronged goddess so they get up on their weird convoluted moral high ground to shout at us and feel good about themselves. Those people don’t even watch the show. It would be disappointing if all this distance was for them. Like I said adi mun scenes were drilled into everyone’s minds ‘humara pyaar humari choice meant to be etc etc’ and here besides pd we only had ‘well she’s my first wife so I want to be with her’ par baat khatam. I can see how it’s hard for some people to accept it like that. When aditya told imlie to move on in her life in the bunty bhaiya track I was like well how do we go with their story from here? He’s completely unwilling to accept his feelings, also the adi mun scenes were haavi on my mind and I thought ab yeh kaise adi imlie scenes main enjoy kar paongi if it were to ever become a reality but then bunty bhai beat the crap out of adi, imlie got the police and that scene happened where they just looked at each other. That one small scene, with it’s cinematography, direction, acting and the whole vibe just changed everything. I instantly forgot all about adi mun, the chemistry imlie and aditya had in that one scene where they didn’t even touch each other trumped all cheesy adi mun scenes. The whole dynamic changed in that one instance. The potential they have with these two and the way they’re just wasting it on sindoor drama and weird ‘pehli patni’ statements

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

I don’t think this distance they’ve created between adi and imlie is going to work in their favour. Aditya and imlie will end up together obviously, so show us their scenes show us the bond so we don’t forget it. By which I mean, I actually went today ‘why are you both torturing yourselves over your relationship? I can’t see that you actually want to be together? Why so much struggle for something which seems invisible right now’ I want the scenes which will make me shout and say ‘look how perfect they are together, they’re meant to be!’ but I can’t even feel that rn because I hardly see them in the same frame together nowadays.

I hope the shift plus ipl is the reason for it, because if it’s sm negativity that would be a huge disservice to the show’s fans who’ve been watching since the beginning. The vicious campaign againts imlie is because of some malini fans but mostly because of people from other fandoms or people who have only watched a clip or two and think of malini as some wronged goddess so they get up on their weird convoluted moral high ground to shout at us and feel good about themselves. Those people don’t even watch the show. It would be disappointing if all this distance was for them. Like I said adi mun scenes were drilled into everyone’s minds ‘humara pyaar humari choice meant to be etc etc’ and here besides pd we only had ‘well she’s my first wife so I want to be with her’ par baat khatam. I can see how it’s hard for some people to accept it like that. When aditya told imlie to move on in her life in the bunty bhaiya track I was like well how do we go with their story from here? He’s completely unwilling to accept his feelings, also the adi mun scenes were haavi on my mind and I thought ab yeh kaise adi imlie scenes main enjoy kar paongi if it were to ever become a reality but then bunty bhai beat the crap out of adi, imlie got the police and that scene happened where they just looked at each other. That one small scene, with it’s cinematography, direction, acting and the whole vibe just changed everything. I instantly forgot all about adi mun, the chemistry imlie and aditya had in that one scene where they didn’t even touch each other trumped all cheesy adi mun scenes. The whole dynamic changed in that one instance. The potential they have with these two and the way they’re just wasting it on sindoor drama and weird ‘pehli patni’ statements

Also about imlie I think it’s the didi who used to love her immensely and called her choti behan hamesha and stuff like calling her a naukrani and misbehaving with her that’s messed with her mental state. I have been rewatching the episodes and there was this scene where mun and imlie are having this bonding moment and imlie asks her to understand her if she ever makes a mistake and not stop loving her or something. Plus, rewatching the episodes it seems like to imlie moon’s place in her life isn’t much below bk and aparna. Now that she’s seen that mun behave like that with her she’s deeply hurt and disturbed but she obviously won’t show it. She portrays like she doesn’t care but it has left her shaken which is why she had that nightmare too. This is probably the reason she’s put that wall between adi and herself, she’s too broken in herself to deal with adi, and adi is too preoccupied with his own turmoils. But I just can’t take that because they’ve both been through so much before, but the understanding was always there, they in one way or another, directly or indirectly, got through it together. And no matter other people’s place in her life, adi remained above everyone else for imlie.. I think until may ends our adi imlie won’t be back. Main bhi break le rahi hoon but didi wala nahi, proper wala 😳

P.S. the way moon used to be one of my favourites at one point my only favourite, oh how far we’ve fallen, I never thought I’d be this disturbed by a character, she’s literally sucked the soul out of imlie and all of us

I agree with those who are saying its best to step back from the show for a bit if they are only going to keep spinning their wheels in this descent into Malini related depression.

I never expected this story to be a bed of roses, but I also didn't really sign up for such dragged episodes of trauma and psychological abuse for Imlie at the hands of a so called "bechari".

Maybe it's best to tune back in whenever Didi has managed to settle back into T house after this suicide tamasha. I can already imagine Tripathis all cheerily telling Adi ki bhool jaao all that ghutan and all you were feeling and also please zone out this little suicide attempt she just did.....time for a FRESH START😆.

What are they expecting? That Adi will start doing things like popcorn movie dates for her again? lol ok chalo dekhte hain if Babusahib can resurrect his Oscar worthy acting skills again after being spooked by Didi ka suicide drama. They will expect him to do big things to "make it up" to the girl who just tried to supposedly kill herself for him, right?

Meanwhile hopefully Imlie has started construction on that mandir she is building for Didi....Sita Maiyya ki murti ke side pe Didi ki murti bhi lagaa hi leni chahiye Imlie ko ab.

So many people being tortured cuz one person is so weak and mindless that everyone is expected to bow to her whims even if it kills them inside.

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

P.S. the way moon used to be one of my favourites at one point my only favourite, oh how far we’ve fallen, I never thought I’d be this disturbed by a character, she’s literally sucked the soul out of imlie and all of us

And yet, not a single character in the actual story gets what she's doing to their lives😆.....everything is excused in the guise of her not knowing the truth....as if that gives her the right to deride and berate others to the point of killing their self-esteem.

If they don't show some character in the story understanding this about her, things will continue to spiral like this only.....you can't fight something you don't even comprehend. If Adi can't comprehend the psychological impact all this is having on Imlie, then what is he expecting to solve? If he realizes that bringing Imlie to the house was a mistake and everyone can brush Malini's misbehavior with Imlie under the carpet again and again, then best to send Imlie back to the hostel. Usko kyun faltu mein yahaan rakh ke torture karna if all of you are incapable of handling Malini?

Originally posted by: Lak82

Adi and Imlie journey will not be like bed of roses. They are going face lot of hurdles. It is journey that they are going to face together that will make this relationship strong . We have just seen the happy moments of this relationship until now.

Still we have lot see. The only thing I feel now is for the Imilie to face this tough situation at Adi’s home. At least she has Rupi Didi’s support now. I want Adi to suffer more for making the choice he had made in the beginning.

More angst to come be prepared.

I want adi to suffer too, been rewatching and hated how badly he treated imlie, especially after that vrat savitri part 😡 Just waiting for the episode when it will be SK’s turn to throw adi a feast

And you’re right, we knew what we signed up for. But we’re not asking for roses right now, just some acknowledgment of each other’s feelings. I know there will be angst and I know it’s going to be very hard to digest I knew that and still went ahead with the show because the way they executed all the hard parts along with aditya and imlie’s dynamic made it worth watching. Yes there’s going to be very difficult parts but I also don’t want to forget the aditya + imlie connection. And leave that be, where is the imlie journey? Her individual story, this show is about her struggles, I don’t want it limited to her marital struggles only. But yeah, there’s a lot in this show, a lot to come, so let’s wait and get through these episodes too. The suicide part is triggering for me and it’s disturbed me badly, so I have to stop watching for a while.

I think that Malini will be taking a step back once she comes to know about their relationship. She would not be able to understand how Adi could fall in love a village girl.

Her ego will not accept. We have wait and see.

It is not just Malini whole Tripathi’s will be traumatised with the knowledge once they once to know.however I really hope Imlie has the will power to face it, because it is she who is going to be the victim.

Originally posted by: Krantikari

Somehow I can’t take these dialogues of Adi seriously, he literally zones Malini out. Acts around her like he has no faraks to give, and then says he can’t take her tears. I dunno if writers put in these dialogues to paint Adi as a sympathetic character, but to me it makes him seem inconsistent.

LOL basically the approach of the writers seems to be to that Adi-Imlie have nothing to their existence unless they are crying over guilt related to Malini😆......but then they want to show random outbursts from Adi too where he feels frustrated that his family waale blame him and never try to hear him out😆.

The balance they had some days back of Adi-Imlie still having an equation beyond just Malini related guilt has now gone poof. Toh it does force you to wonder ki why bother with this relationship then? Dono taraf se koi nibhaa toh paa nahin raha, bas pura din baith ke Malini ke upar rona hai toh wohi karo phir😆.

Also it really isn't clear what Adi wants to tell Malini.....simply the truth of his marriage to Imlie or also the acknowledgement that he never really loved Malini and their relationship was a mirage?

Originally posted by: Lak82

I think that Malini will be taking a step back once she comes to know about their relationship. She would not be able to understand how Adi could fall in love a village girl.

Her ego will not accept. We have wait and see.

It is not just Malini whole Tripathi’s will be traumatised with the knowledge once they once to know.however I really hope Imlie has the will power to face it, because it is she who is going to be the victim.

Malini clearly isn't finding out about Adi-Imlie's relationship anytime soon....right now the entire focus is simply on her demanding attention from everyone with doing such extreme stunts....and coming up next is just her re-entry back into the T house to continue to torture everyone with her emotional manipulations rather than actually getting direct answers from Adi.

So there is nothing to look forward to in the story right now since the writers aren't even showing any development for Imlie. They have weakened Imlie in order to glorify Malini and justify Malini's misbehavior. Imlie doesn't even have the willpower right now to face the truth even in her imagination.....so no expectations of what she will do in reality.