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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06

I wished they would elaborated this point and given her the clarity that though his feelings for Imlie are the instigator, they are not the reason for the break or the fights. That relationship was doomed irrespective of her because Aditya and Malini are not made for each other. Kitni bhi koshish karo, there will always be unhappiness there because there is no understanding, their soch, which was one of the reasons of marriage, is different., And now that he is seeing this new face of Malini, where she is not understanding, calm and is class conscious, again all reasons why he married her, even if the whole world tries he cannot be truthful to that relationship. This Malini is the epitome of the person that Aditya totally dislikes so even if he tries he cannot be the old Aditya. say things that are not true and hence Malini will always be dukhi.


Today Aditya and Malini were picture of two people spiraling out of control. Malini stance to get him back is reaching desperate levels and Aditya because of Imlie is suppressing his emotions again. Emotions that are fighting to come out. I agree with @Fary, itna bhi push nahi karo ki woh pura irrational ho jaye...but now we just wants to see who explodes first. From the spoilers, its seems its Malini but at least with Rupi Di knowing the sach, Imlie might get that female insight and understand that force se rishta niba sakte hain but khushi nahi de sakte.


But see, that's the thing na....they still don't have the guts to show Adi actually stating that he totally dislikes her😆....that she is not who he thought she was at all.....instead, we are still subjected to daily rinse/repeat of his guilt over hiding the truth....that supersedes everything.....even the fact that Malini's true face is coming out now but they hardly show him dwelling on that beyond him blurting out in the moment that she's talking like Mrs. C.....lol uske aage kabhi nahin sochta dikhaate Adi ko ki isn't it something that the Malini he thought was oh so "sweet" and "mature is showing such GHATIYA soch? Like raat gayi, baat gayi, that's it? lol.....


Rest of the family and Imlie are all still fools about Malini, sure....but Adi ka bhi nahin clear karte what he's actually viewing Malini as now. The fixation is only on the point that he wants to be free of her now but yeh nahin dikha rahe what he thinks of her in light of her displaying these shades that are totally 180 of what he claimed she was all this while.


The whole discussion around "change" or "badlaav" is SO skewed in the story right now. As we've discussed before also....Adi hasn't CHANGED...his TRUE self has been revealed. So why can't the same point be explained for Malini as well? Yet we are just subjected to faltu ka drama daily without even Adi pointing out who she actually is.


Ho jaaye irrational bhai....things will obviously have to come to a head at this stage.....if they all keep pushing him, he will also do something drastic in his own way.....shaayad bol de Imlie ko ki main toh chala PD sabko sach bataane - let your Dadda kill me....phir tum bhi chain se jee lena😆.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Sunnygrin1

Chalo- wouldn’t mind Rupi digesting this information herself- if we get to see how she goes through the scenes with proof that Imlie was married to Adi when she entered the house. How sad she was at Adi Ni wedding, how she always seemed to understand Rupi ka dard. It will be very satisfying to see Imlaiya being redeemed. Am fed up with the silence . But I guess even that we have to hand it to the makers that we can actually feel the suffocation of the current plot and Imlie’s idea of making everyone happy is not the best one


Exactly. Frustrating as it is, they are making us feel the suffocation tangibly along with the characters. A story this complicated cannot have any easy solutions....you cannot extract yourself from such a convoluted situation without going through many struggles and facing the suffocation from the choices you made. We are feeling that along with Adi-Imlie right now as they go through this.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Divi1301

Oh! Matlab Indian Penal code hi change ho gaya ?? I was not aware that a so called entertainment fantasy show is allowed to show different law rules in the country .. my bad! Sorry for enlightening me! Having a living spouse(Imlie) and marrying someone else is a criminal offence , think you are not aware..

How many criminal offences has itv committed? I remember my mom used to watch saathiya a lot and usme toh atyachaar pe atyachaar hote the, kanch ke tukro pe nachate the logo ko par police kabhi pakarne nahi ayi 😆, itv mein logo ko golian maar ke simple maafi maange se baat khatam kardi jaati hai, tab kahaan hote hai laws?

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Posted: 4 years ago

Yeh kya gopher darshan ho gaya aaj 😆. Aati hoon in a bit

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

How many criminal offences has itv committed? I remember my mom used to watch saathiya a lot and usme toh atyachaar pe atyachaar hote the, kanch ke tukro pe nachate the logo ko par police kabhi pakarne nahi ayi 😆, itv mein logo ko golian maar ke simple maafi maange se baat khatam kardi jaati hai, tab kahaan hote hai laws?

Simply, it’s fiction. Take it as fiction. Fiction is not gonna give you a picture perfect life always.

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Posted: 4 years ago

I think the best way for Aditya-Imlie to come out of their stalemate is for them to talk to others. With Rupi finding out the truth, they can show Imlie-Rupi conversation. Rupi can help Imlie understand how forcing 2 people together is not the right decision. On the other hand, since they showed Aparna analyzing Aditya-Malini relationship, she can have a conversation with Aditya about what went wrong now, what happened to his love for Malini after he happily married her. Here, Aditya does not need to speak Imlie truth yet, but at least Aditya will be forced to think more about his relationship with Malini and how they were never right for each other instead of just harping about leaving Malini. Aditya did realize that he never loved Malini, but he has not analyzed why that is the case. Why was it that he fell in love with Imlie within months of knowing her but he could not love Malini even after being with her for 7 years. Keeping Imlie matter aside, I hope Aparna makes Aditya think about his 7 years.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

How many criminal offences has itv committed? I remember my mom used to watch saathiya a lot and usme toh atyachaar pe atyachaar hote the, kanch ke tukro pe nachate the logo ko par police kabhi pakarne nahi ayi 😆, itv mein logo ko golian maar ke simple maafi maange se baat khatam kardi jaati hai, tab kahaan hote hai laws?


😆

Compared to the crimes (most famous being kidnapping and murder) ITV has shown jahan par no legal system rules have applied, Aditya's bigamy is like choti si baat, a civil matter, it is just causing an emotional mess for all involved. But here we have Mrs C and Satyakam, dono Aditya ki waat lagane wale hain. 😆Aditya's one of the reasons for not telling Malini the truth is Mrs C after all. 😆


I have never seen crimes committed in ITV ever reflect reality. But the emotions displayed in Imlie are quite raw, honest, and real based on circumstances all the characters are facing, so I have to appreciate that. 😊

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


But see, that's the thing na....they still don't have the guts to show Adi actually stating that he totally dislikes her😆....that she is not who he thought she was at all.....instead, we are still subjected to daily rinse/repeat of his guilt over hiding the truth....that supersedes everything.....even the fact that Malini's true face is coming out now but they hardly show him dwelling on that beyond him blurting out in the moment that she's talking like Mrs. C.....lol uske aage kabhi nahin sochta dikhaate Adi ko ki isn't it something that the Malini he thought was oh so "sweet" and "mature is showing such GHATIYA soch? Like raat gayi, baat gayi, that's it? lol.....


Rest of the family and Imlie are all still fools about Malini, sure....but Adi ka bhi nahin clear karte what he's actually viewing Malini as now. The fixation is only on the point that he wants to be free of her now but yeh nahin dikha rahe what he thinks of her in light of her displaying these shades that are totally 180 of what he claimed she was all this while.


The whole discussion around "change" or "badlaav" is SO skewed in the story right now. As we've discussed before also....Adi hasn't CHANGED...his TRUE self has been revealed. So why can't the same point be explained for Malini as well? Yet we are just subjected to faltu ka drama daily without even Adi pointing out who she actually is.


Ho jaaye irrational bhai....things will obviously have to come to a head at this stage.....if they all keep pushing him, he will also do something drastic in his own way.....shaayad bol de Imlie ko ki main toh chala PD sabko sach bataane - let your Dadda kill me....phir tum bhi chain se jee lena😆.


So true, they have not shown that clarity at all....I thought they would start that as soon as he came from PD but he still stuck on the truth and his feelings rather than dwelling deeper. My only hope is that this is Adi. How he jumped to Mrs C, he might go 0 to 100 on that realization too. 😆


T's pe to mujhe bharosa hi nahin hain but if Aditya does not want to come out as a jerk in front of his family as a person whose feeling are so feeble, he needs to come up with a better explanation than "I was forced to marry". That was definitely not the reason for him to fall in love with Imlie and hence he needs to be very clear on why he fell in love with Imlie and why he thought he was in love with Malini. Only telling the truth about the marriage is not going to sit well with anybody because the next logical question would be "Why did you marry Malini".


Control environment mein Imlie sach bahar aane hi nahi denge and Aditya is always going to defer to her wishes. Thus @bold3 is the only way the truth is going to come out where Imlie is unable to control the outburst. His impulsive, irrational declaration is going to be the first insight to the truth for everyone. Lets see how many more tamesha we have to see from Malini before this happens. Anyways, if Malini continue on this downward spiral of nataks, not sure of the elder T's but the younger ones are soon going to lose respect and would support Aditya.


@bold2: Do you really think Malini will understand if its explained? I can almost see her begging to Aditya that she will fix things, adjust and change so that they go back to being like before just to keep him with her. He will have more success explaining it to the T's than her. She is always going to play the victim card and if Aditya needs support from his family, he will have to be very clear in his explanation and why his happiness does not lie with Malini which has nothing do with Imlie.


So basically, he needs to start dwelling on the real Malini that is currently being portrayed the one who always had a Mrs C within her and is more dangerous because she also has an innate ability to victimize herself in every situation.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Yeh kya gopher darshan ho gaya aaj 😆. Aati hoon in a bit


Gopher hain ji, they are known for spoiling good fields 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


@bold: Bingo😆....And until he can articulate that, this mess is not going to get resolved.....he needs to figure out how to articulate it both to Imlie as well as his family. Didi ko toh waise bhi kabhi nahin samajh aana koi saamne se bhi bol de toh😆


Also interesting point about Imlie feeling that Adi's love for her is tainted to an extent cuz of the repercussions attached to it.....it definitely does weigh on her cuz of the baggage and fallout attached to it.....she will continue to struggle with it until Adi finds a way to uplift her to acknowledging her right over him and not constantly reducing herself before Malini.


I guess they won't show Adi talking to Mithi even on the phone until he is able to figure out an answer for why he married Malini....😆


@bold - I so hope they do not show a confrontation right now. What will he say? The same thing that he’s been telling Imlie? Or does he say the truth that he already innately gets about Malini? It can go either ways with this guy. Imlie definitely needs to hear the truth but Mithi deserves it equally if not more as well. And I want a face to face. Sigh


Isn’t it so tragic that Imlie’s first day of college got wiped out entirely in this downright nautanki? I hope someone talks about it - baith ke do minute savor nahin kar payi bechari. Didi ne jaise apne panic attack ko poore ghar pe spread karke grahan laga diya.

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