I wished they would elaborated this point and given her the clarity that though his feelings for Imlie are the instigator, they are not the reason for the break or the fights. That relationship was doomed irrespective of her because Aditya and Malini are not made for each other. Kitni bhi koshish karo, there will always be unhappiness there because there is no understanding, their soch, which was one of the reasons of marriage, is different., And now that he is seeing this new face of Malini, where she is not understanding, calm and is class conscious, again all reasons why he married her, even if the whole world tries he cannot be truthful to that relationship. This Malini is the epitome of the person that Aditya totally dislikes so even if he tries he cannot be the old Aditya. say things that are not true and hence Malini will always be dukhi.
Today Aditya and Malini were picture of two people spiraling out of control. Malini stance to get him back is reaching desperate levels and Aditya because of Imlie is suppressing his emotions again. Emotions that are fighting to come out. I agree with @Fary, itna bhi push nahi karo ki woh pura irrational ho jaye...but now we just wants to see who explodes first. From the spoilers, its seems its Malini but at least with Rupi Di knowing the sach, Imlie might get that female insight and understand that force se rishta niba sakte hain but khushi nahi de sakte.
But see, that's the thing na....they still don't have the guts to show Adi actually stating that he totally dislikes her😆....that she is not who he thought she was at all.....instead, we are still subjected to daily rinse/repeat of his guilt over hiding the truth....that supersedes everything.....even the fact that Malini's true face is coming out now but they hardly show him dwelling on that beyond him blurting out in the moment that she's talking like Mrs. C.....lol uske aage kabhi nahin sochta dikhaate Adi ko ki isn't it something that the Malini he thought was oh so "sweet" and "mature is showing such GHATIYA soch? Like raat gayi, baat gayi, that's it? lol.....
Rest of the family and Imlie are all still fools about Malini, sure....but Adi ka bhi nahin clear karte what he's actually viewing Malini as now. The fixation is only on the point that he wants to be free of her now but yeh nahin dikha rahe what he thinks of her in light of her displaying these shades that are totally 180 of what he claimed she was all this while.
The whole discussion around "change" or "badlaav" is SO skewed in the story right now. As we've discussed before also....Adi hasn't CHANGED...his TRUE self has been revealed. So why can't the same point be explained for Malini as well? Yet we are just subjected to faltu ka drama daily without even Adi pointing out who she actually is.
Ho jaaye irrational bhai....things will obviously have to come to a head at this stage.....if they all keep pushing him, he will also do something drastic in his own way.....shaayad bol de Imlie ko ki main toh chala PD sabko sach bataane - let your Dadda kill me....phir tum bhi chain se jee lena😆.