A break from the suffocation? - Page 4

Originally posted by: MuteButton

+infinity on Malini. There was a moment there when she called Imlie naukraani where I thought Aditya would actually hit her. I mean I am so disturbed by what happened today, kudos to these guys who act them out for making it look so realistic.

I think Malini has realized Aditya is not going to do anything for her. The only way she can get Aditya to come and bring her back will be because a)family b)Imlie. Whatever said and done, I think she sees Aditya listens to Imlie. So she will go and Aditya will eventually end up going to get her back. Her objective is simple - be her mother which means keep the marriage at any cost. The no option is for others in that marriage. Uske liye nahin. Her option according to her own definition is being Aditya’s wife even if it’s in name only. She is failing to see that Aditya is not her father. She’ll learn that too over time. Fact that she’s not seen it already is because she can be dense about the truth even if it hits her in the face.

@bold - lol absolutely. Although I’m not too sympathetic towards it 😆 The only good thing coming out from all this is that he is directly seeing her for who she is. I hope he uses the break to go back in time and conclude ki she never was the right companion, heck not even a friend. I just hope the clan let’s him reflect in peace 😆

I’m game for anything as long as they do not show Imlie being dragged around like she was today.

LOL if she wants to just be Aditya's wife in name only, then this is only about maintaining an image, nothing else. If there was ever love even from her side, she wouldn't agree to continue on a relationship in name only.

And if she realizes that Adi only listens to Imlie, then why not bother mending fences with Imlie even for her own selfish reasons so that she can manipulate Imlie to get Adi to do what she wants?....woh bhi nahin kiya....she was still doing token formal response to Imlie in the morning like raat ko itni saari bakwaas nahin ki uske baare mein.....if the writers are expecting us to just forget Malini ka bakwaas just like Imlie seems to, they are mistaken.

Yeah, I think this break is badly needed for both Adi and for us.....he is getting no time to breathe or reflect about how to sort out this mess....atleast today he acknowledged that he will have to fix this since he's the one who's made the mistakes that led to all this. Didi doesn't let anyone's brain function with her bakwaas so please keep her away for a bit.

I think the family might indeed start to give some breathing room to Adi cuz Aparna looked quite affected by the way he said he's suffocating in that room with Malini.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

If Malini leaves the house today she is never going to return back as Adi's wife.

Adi has had enough of the facade of maintaining a relationship with her & he is not going to pick up the gauntlet that Didi has thrown.

Now if not the entire truth at least the truth of his ruined marital relationship is in front of everyone. He is not going to relent for anyone including Imlie to bring her back.

If Imlie tries to blackmail him with I will go back card if you do not bring back Didi then Adi is fully capable of blackmailing her back that he will reveal the entire truth if she forces him to bring back Malini.

So Didi abhi itna lightly ego main jo decision le rahi hai is actually the final nail in the coffin for the relationship that Adi was at least maintaining as a facade.

Agree on everything! Question is will she leave?? If she doesn’t and imlie somehow stops her - I can see Adi getting away for a bit -I don’t know guys- too much to take in today..

Just another random thing that came to in my head.. yeah aaj bas aise bizarre hi aayenge I can't be coherent caz am mentally exhausted beyond belief

Insaan ko itna acha hona hi nahi chahiye aajkal ke zamane main like Tripathis like imlie in logon ki achai has become their weakness just caz yeh itne ache hain and doesn't want to accidently bhi hurt anyone ab uske result main malini is bhaith ke nacho on their heads on one and all yeh sab abhi bhi ussi ko theek bol rahe hain despite her badtameezi giving her benefit of doubt seeing the glaringly obvious tameezless and crass woman that she is.. it is painful to see them being this good.. like I am all for humanity and goodness and the kind of warm people that they are but they are all empowering malini to bulldoze them everyday thoda toh stand lelo esp at tripathis.. it was again so hurtful to see aparana trying to diffuse over and over and it not reaching didi je kaan and her going why main samjhdaar banoo aaj toh mera badtameezi ka day hai do hell with ya who are you anyway

And also another thing was didi di confession today ke she thought adi was right in running down imlie all the time like wow 👏😳 she did say that ke tum karte hi toh main bhi karooingi and basically admitted twice ke wob naatak hi kar rahi tji finding imlie masoom pyari jhalii and sweetness ka and how she always knew she is naukrani only

Originally posted by: MuteButton

The Ts took a while before rebuking AC also no? Not saying that them being mute is good but just that these people probably do not want to interfere in a husband wife spat. I think if Nishant gets to know the truth, he’s not going to be defending Malini’s actions anymore.

Calling her saaf dil is stupid but design hi aisa hai ki they will just be squirming spectators to everything

I just feel this was way beyond a spat with AC also cuz AC maintained the same view about Imlie from day one....but Malini who has made tall claims of Imlie meri behen, main kitna pyar karti hoon....that woman today was berating Imlie in such cheap terms and not a peep came out of the Tripathis....I absolutely feel it was cuz they are still doing lihaaz of Malini being their bahu....Imlie se expectation hai ki woh bhi baat ko ansuna kar de cuz Malini toh bahu hai at the end of the day. This is also why Imlie ki mahaanta wala dialogue was inserted about how bahu ka haq is always greater than naukraani.....and even THEN, NO ONE from the Tripathis did even a token pushback ki Imlie nahin, tum naukraani nahin ho.....says it all, doesn't it? 😊

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Rant away yaar.. I am feeling lethargy in forming my thoughts so I'd read and like matlab I am speechless at the besharmi and just like imlie kuch kehne ki Shakti hi jaise khatam ho gayi hai meri all I feel is My BP going up and up and jaise alfaaz khatam hinho gaye Hon.. I want a break from malini a place where adi imlie can heal themselves ab tih OD bhi nahi jaa sakte for few days but these 2 need to spend as much time saath main as the aftermath so just the saath gets them to overcome this big a jhatka this fight is too big for them to be left alone and away from each other.

Fary, MB,+100 Bold

Just want Imlie to chrerish her first big day at college and instead she got into a nightmare, called names and insulted. Look at the kismet of Imlie and Mithi, they are unable to even enjoy the small happiness that life throws their way, without it being cruelly torn apart by external forces like NN or Pari or Malini.

I want to give a jadoo ki jhappi to Imlie, make her feel better.. the emotional turmoil she is going through is horrid and gut wrrenching.

The T's ki shakal dekhne laayak thi when AdiMun were fighting... yikes would not want to present or witness such an ugly fight.

I am venting out too and gathering the scenes as I recall...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm just finding it hard to believe Adi will ever accept staying in the same room with Malini again after the events that have just transpired.

He has also clearly stated to Imlie ki usse nahin ho paa raha any attempt to be a husband to Malini.....so I think this in a sense is the conclusion of the promise he gave to Imlie to bring her back home. With Malini leaving the house, I don't think that promise has any point either - as it is they were barely managing to keep it....lol...

I also found it interesting that he said she shouldn't think about leaving the house again while also saying that he shouldn't have brought her home from the hostel like that.....to me it almost felt unsaid as if he wanted to say, tumhein officially ghar laana chahiye tha with your due right as wife/bahu....aise bas laane ke liye nahin. He doesn't regret bringing her home....I think he regrets that the way it happened still didn't really get her her rights and only led to more pain and humiliation for her.

This was one of my favorite parts today. In all the turmoil that was happening within him and around him, one thing that grounds him is Imlie presence. She is his strength and all he needs to face the world now is to know that she is physically standing behind him. Her saath is all he needs and he is ready to face the consequences of the mistakes he has committed.
Totally agree with you that he does not regret getting her home but the way he got her home without the correct rights. I think that bit came from listening to Malini calling her random girl, outsider and naukrani. All of which struck him and he could not defend it or counter it because of the vachan.

Again, the makers cramped so many things in this episode but one of the things that was long overdue was Aditya admitting was that it was his fault not kismat for this mess and he needs to rectify it. It was dil ko sukoon moment for me because if at that time he would have listened to kismat, then of sukoon milta not ghuton as he claimed.

Aditya is passed the point where he feels anything for Malini, even the friendship bit is almost wiped out and now he wants only freedom. Freedom to defend and protect Imlie which he was so helpless to do today due to circumstances.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think most of the regard Ts are giving Malini is all cuz of her official title as bahu of the house. Isiliye toh I said in my thread also ki life mein agar koi title ho toh Tripathis ki bahu ka ho....it allows you to get away with treating anyone like shit and no one says anything to you.

I did find it sad ki for all the apnapan that Tripathis have for Imlie, unki aakhon ke saamne their pyari "bahu" Malini called Imlie a naukraani, baahar waali and random girl....but none of them said a word....why? Cuz Malini BAHU hai...as if being bahu gives you the right to do any bakwaas. Imlie ko jitna marzi pyar kar lein....but cuz she doesn't have any official title in their family, they will never defend her like family either.

Adi was the only one who even reacted a bit to Malini using such crass language for Imlie and he called her out for her misbehavior....while Tripathis just kept clutching their pearls ki oh no fighting kyun ho rahi hai without even caring one bit ki unki pyari angelic bahu is misbehaving with a poor innocent soul so much.

Biwi hai, bahu hai toh kya aas paas koi insaan nahin hain? What bakwaas.

Right! Bahu hai toh bahu banke rahe. Itna kya darn man...she would have insulted them even more too called called neech too in the mood that she was in but asli rang toh aate na bahaar.. they were trying to handle the situation but they have to realize har baar chup reh ke situation handle nahi kar sakte.. bahu ka saath support all is fine but choot phir bhi itni na do jahan agla tumare sarpe na bhaith ke naache.. bahu hai toh bahu bane aisa kya kaam kia hai isne bahu wala aise bhi to get this regard .. ya toh kuch outstanding kia ho na phir ke ab hum bahu ka har kaha maaneinge.. as i said their achaai is becoming their weakness and that isn't good.. worst part in that they want adi to be a spectator too and not put some sense in bahu ka dimaag caz bahu toh kabhi galat nahi ho sakti aftetall aona ghar chod ke aayi hai ( yes that was what they told adi in one of the episodes ) what nonsense ? As if adi and you haven't done any compromises . Ghar sabke taal Mel se chalta hai

Originally posted by: Lodestar

If Malini leaves the house today she is never going to return back as Adi's wife.

Adi has had enough of the facade of maintaining a relationship with her & he is not going to pick up the gauntlet that Didi has thrown.

Now if not the entire truth at least the truth of his ruined marital relationship is in front of everyone. He is not going to relent for anyone including Imlie to bring her back.

If Imlie tries to blackmail him with I will go back card if you do not bring back Didi then Adi is fully capable of blackmailing her back that he will reveal the entire truth if she forces him to bring back Malini.

So Didi abhi itna lightly ego main jo decision le rahi hai is actually the final nail in the coffin for the relationship that Adi was at least maintaining as a facade.

@bold: LMAO🤣.....yes, Adi is fully capable of exactly that....itni easily nahin hoga blackmail to get Malini back...he has his own blackmails to hold over Imlie😆

I do feel that Malini is going to leave the house....and even if she comes back after a gap, the chasm will have widened way more and there is no bridging it ever again from Adi's side. Family waale karte rahenge whatever token efforts to patch them up but aise dhamkaane se you can't make two people stay together...maybe the Tripathis will finally reflect ki Adi ko har baar daantke Malini ko manaane ko bolna is not the solution.

I think you also mentioned it but I liked that Adi was able to vent out the line towards Aparna that she nor the T's (except for Nishant because he has some inkling but still doesn't know the entire truth) cared actually to observe his pain more closely. TBH, while the jovial environment with Imlie is fantastic to witness, deep down nobody paid itna sa b attention towards their pleas.

Tripathi's silence to Malini's misbehaviour can be from their strong belief that Khadoos Adi can't get such a beautiful , qualified and samajhdaar bahu .