A break from the suffocation? - Page 3

Originally posted by: AreYaar

A few bits that I am trying to remember as I recover from the draining feeling of watching Didi ka intolerable bakwaas:this will be me as I rewatch so advance research sabko bata Doon I will keep ranting and replying jaise jaise I will remember

1) The symbolism of Malini throwing that sindoor and Imlie immediately rushing to sameto it.....Imlie will always be the one who tries to keep things together while Malini callously tries to tear down things I esp loved that not once her or anyone else thought that it way wrong for her to use it nobody said her faith was wrong and she shouldn't have they were all flabbergasted by didi ka OTT mess. Agar itna hi galat tha toh senior ladies could have told her na and yes the way the poor girl.was trying to sameto it aww

Imlie sleeping with the Sita Maiyya ki murti clutched in her hands all night.....sigh easily the most heartbreaking visual today her clutching to her sm in the corner aur bhi shrink hoke without her blanket too all so alone so lonely aise toh yeh tab bhi nahi thi jab she had to sleep in aangan or had no proper place at all.. or when adi refused to accept and respect her then too she was far stronger than this

3) Notably, despite all the begging for maafi that she did in front of Didi, Imlie never once said ki achha if you want, main sindoor nahin lagaaungi😆

4) Adi was notably reluctant to go after Malini both times....the first time, his feet were literally rooted to the spot and he kept staring at Imlie's crying face even as his Mom kept asking him to go after Malini....finally he only budged with great reluctance but his expression again said he'd rather do anything but that.....the second time, his mom also couldn't make him go and he just stated his suffocation explicitly, refusing to spend another night in a room with Malini. This I esp loved these brief rejections from adi they were so strong he was sonfirm and they were long overdue..I lived the brief moments where he wouldn't budge and couldn't take his eyes off seeing an imlie so shaken and couldn't move an inch until she slightly lifted her eyes and then later too when she told them to stop he immediately did that connection they have had even in-between all this his support bedhak ghuma ke for her that raking a stand.. and giving malini back for her badtameezi first time not at all feeling itna sa bhu guilt while fighting atleast vaz he knew he was right at every point to counter that gutter mouth

5) Malini tried to twist the argument many times but Adi wasn't having it....he kept trying to bring it back to the main point that the issue is not about what Imlie did but how Malini is speaking.....only he has the capacity to cut through her bullshit if others would let him.....left to themselves, Adi-Malini can easily end it in 5 minutes....Adi has no patience for her faltu games anymore and she is deluded to think her abusive tantrums will gain her any sympathy.

6) Nishant is on the track to learning the truth soon most likely

7) I really REALLY hope this break stretches out for a bit and it's not Didi ka faltu two days ka drama and back to expectations ki Adi use ghar laakar sab theek kar dega.....let the break stretch out and let the family see how happy Adi actually is when she ISN'T there.

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Originally posted by: AreYaar

Loathsome is the word for her indeed....I've seen many cliched vamps on TV but Malini's capacity for dragging things through the gutter and acting like she's some Saint is another level of pathetic. She did indeed literally drag them all through the gutter with herself today and didn't give a damn about anyone....the sense of entitlement, arrogance, selfishness, viciousness....it's all on another level with her now. I'm beyond done with her twisted nonsense...she is incapable of accepting any truth. All she will do is keep justifying her misbehavior....even in the last scene she was claiming that Adi "made" her behave like this.

Thank God Adi stated his truth that he is suffocating....hope that atleast gives his family pause that they can't force him and Malini together atleast for a bit.....give him breathing room.....and hopefully that will give them all time for a reality check about how that woman sucks the life out of their family.

LOL at the relief on Adi's face ki usko actually break mil raha hai😆.....bolne aaya tha sach but mil gaya unexpected reprieve😆....

I don't get Malini's game though....it was obvious that Adi wasn't going to stop her from leaving....then she even seemed to admit to herself this proves he doesn't love her anymore....so then why still drag this? Cuz "option nahin hai"?

+infinity on Malini. There was a moment there when she called Imlie naukraani where I thought Aditya would actually hit her. I mean I am so disturbed by what happened today, kudos to these guys who act them out for making it look so realistic.

I think Malini has realized Aditya is not going to do anything for her. The only way she can get Aditya to come and bring her back will be because a)family b)Imlie. Whatever said and done, I think she sees Aditya listens to Imlie. So she will go and Aditya will eventually end up going to get her back. Her objective is simple - be her mother which means keep the marriage at any cost. The no option is for others in that marriage. Uske liye nahin. Her option according to her own definition is being Aditya’s wife even if it’s in name only. She is failing to see that Aditya is not her father. She’ll learn that too over time. Fact that she’s not seen it already is because she can be dense about the truth even if it hits her in the face.

@bold - lol absolutely. Although I’m not too sympathetic towards it 😆 The only good thing coming out from all this is that he is directly seeing her for who she is. I hope he uses the break to go back in time and conclude ki she never was the right companion, heck not even a friend. I just hope the clan let’s him reflect in peace 😆

I’m game for anything as long as they do not show Imlie being dragged around like she was today.

Malini rightfully guessing that Adi never really loved her all along, when he said he agreed with her decision for a break in their rishta. This time, Malini had no issues with Imlie being present in their room after lashing out at her recently, for being present when husband - wife were talking.

Also who donates their sindoor like that , it is not done... a suhagan willingly parting with her sindoor.. is just not done. So essentially she is giving it up to Imlie in anger, whereas when Imlie gave it up, it was a sacrifice, with no expectations from Adi towards their marriage.

Gold fish memory or just plain manipulation to twist the words and the situation to suit her mood.

What does she fear? is it the loss of face in the 'high society' that Anu inhabits or is it cowardice to face the fallout of a broken marriage or the fact that she is trapped in a marriage where her husband does not love her, just like her parents are? I fail to understand her logic here as she attacked Adi for 'smearing' her profession I mean w*& how did that come about and he did not say a word to her about it... baat kahan se kahaan ghuma li... yikes...or the fact that Adi could fall for someone like Imlie.. Think there was some discussion around this, how she is good looking, educated, smart, professional, classy etc.etc..whereas Imlie is the polar opposite of everything that she stands for. I think this is the real fear and loss of face for Malini, how could she lose to someone like Imlie.

Adi rightfully stating the mistake is his to fix, not Imlie not Malini. He consciously entered into wedlock with Malini when married to Imlie and he has to pay a price for his mistake. Coming clean to his family and time are 2 big steps in this realization.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

This thread is going to be one big rant in multiple posts so sorry about it pehle se hi.

Malini is so deplorable in her quest for blood that she laid the blame for single action of hers at Aditya’s door. He changed so she changed. He denigrated Imlie so she denigrated Imlie. He lost love so she is going to go home.

What an unbearably wretched example of a human being.

Rant away yaar.. I am feeling lethargy in forming my thoughts so I'd read and like matlab I am speechless at the besharmi and just like imlie kuch kehne ki Shakti hi jaise khatam ho gayi hai meri all I feel is My BP going up and up and jaise alfaaz khatam hinho gaye Hon.. I want a break from malini a place where adi imlie can heal themselves ab tih OD bhi nahi jaa sakte for few days but these 2 need to spend as much time saath main as the aftermath so just the saath gets them to overcome this big a jhatka this fight is too big for them to be left alone and away from each other.

Completely agreed that it was an tiresome episode

I liked that Adi was specifically paying attention towards Imlie's plea over Malini's behavior. Also, his behavior towards Malini was probably the highlight.

Also, the smeared hand + how Imlie felt her deeds could negatively impact the already-tensed atmosphere --- this symbolism was nicely done to showcase her nature.

Malini deemed her sister as naukrani. So, she does admit it at last. Please don't say she said it in anger, Malini fans.

BS & Imlie had a heartwrenching conversation. I liked how Adi admitted that though the repercussions are intense, but truth cannot be be denied.

What's weird about Malini, is that instead of confiding with Adi she chose her mother. Just cribbing like a adamant kiddo when she didn't get her favorite toy. Her favorite habit of preying with making Imlie & Adi, is just like rolling my eyeballs. LOL, Adi also agreed to distance himself. At least he didn't subside unlike Imlie.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think most of the regard Ts are giving Malini is all cuz of her official title as bahu of the house. Isiliye toh I said in my thread also ki life mein agar koi title ho toh Tripathis ki bahu ka ho....it allows you to get away with treating anyone like shit and no one says anything to you.

I did find it sad ki for all the apnapan that Tripathis have for Imlie, unki aakhon ke saamne their pyari "bahu" Malini called Imlie a naukraani, baahar waali and random girl....but none of them said a word....why? Cuz Malini BAHU hai...as if being bahu gives you the right to do any bakwaas. Imlie ko jitna marzi pyar kar lein....but cuz she doesn't have any official title in their family, they will never defend her like family either.

Adi was the only one who even reacted a bit to Malini using such crass language for Imlie and he called her out for her misbehavior....while Tripathis just kept clutching their pearls ki oh no fighting kyun ho rahi hai without even caring one bit ki unki pyari angelic bahu is misbehaving with a poor innocent soul so much.

Biwi hai, bahu hai toh kya aas paas koi insaan nahin hain? What bakwaas.

Before and after marriage T family baar baar humiliated hue hain from Anu still they don't have courage to defend themselves. Toh fir aaj unhone Malini ko upar rakha toh isme nothing new. Woh family khud bhi toh aapne aa ko hi humiliate karti hai so that unke samdhan khus rahe.

Title or no title,it doesn't matter ki they have always kept Malini before themselves.

My two fav. bits today I think.....

"Jinhein baat karne ki TAMEEZ nahin hoti, unke paas koi haq hona bhi nahin chahiye"👏

"Humara na DUM GHUT-TA HAI us kamre mein....hum nahin jaa paayenge wahaan"

If Malini leaves the house today she is never going to return back as Adi's wife.

Adi has had enough of the facade of maintaining a relationship with her & he is not going to pick up the gauntlet that Didi has thrown.

Now if not the entire truth at least the truth of his ruined marital relationship is in front of everyone. He is not going to relent for anyone including Imlie to bring her back.

If Imlie tries to blackmail him with I will go back card if you do not bring back Didi then Adi is fully capable of blackmailing her back that he will reveal the entire truth if she forces him to bring back Malini.

So Didi abhi itna lightly ego main jo decision le rahi hai is actually the final nail in the coffin for the relationship that Adi was at least maintaining as a facade.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think most of the regard Ts are giving Malini is all cuz of her official title as bahu of the house. Isiliye toh I said in my thread also ki life mein agar koi title ho toh Tripathis ki bahu ka ho....it allows you to get away with treating anyone like shit and no one says anything to you.

I did find it sad ki for all the apnapan that Tripathis have for Imlie, unki aakhon ke saamne their pyari "bahu" Malini called Imlie a naukraani, baahar waali and random girl....but none of them said a word....why? Cuz Malini BAHU hai...as if being bahu gives you the right to do any bakwaas. Imlie ko jitna marzi pyar kar lein....but cuz she doesn't have any official title in their family, they will never defend her like family either.

Adi was the only one who even reacted a bit to Malini using such crass language for Imlie and he called her out for her misbehavior....while Tripathis just kept clutching their pearls ki oh no fighting kyun ho rahi hai without even caring one bit ki unki pyari angelic bahu is misbehaving with a poor innocent soul so much.

Biwi hai, bahu hai toh kya aas paas koi insaan nahin hain? What bakwaas.

The Ts took a while before rebuking AC also no? Not saying that them being mute is good but just that these people probably do not want to interfere in a husband wife spat. I think if Nishant gets to know the truth, he’s not going to be defending Malini’s actions anymore.

Calling her saaf dil is stupid but design hi aisa hai ki they will just be squirming spectators to everything

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think most of the regard Ts are giving Malini is all cuz of her official title as bahu of the house. Isiliye toh I said in my thread also ki life mein agar koi title ho toh Tripathis ki bahu ka ho....it allows you to get away with treating anyone like shit and no one says anything to you.

I did find it sad ki for all the apnapan that Tripathis have for Imlie, unki aakhon ke saamne their pyari "bahu" Malini called Imlie a naukraani, baahar waali and random girl....but none of them said a word....why? Cuz Malini BAHU hai...as if being bahu gives you the right to do any bakwaas. Imlie ko jitna marzi pyar kar lein....but cuz she doesn't have any official title in their family, they will never defend her like family either.

Adi was the only one who even reacted a bit to Malini using such crass language for Imlie and he called her out for her misbehavior....while Tripathis just kept clutching their pearls ki oh no fighting kyun ho rahi hai without even caring one bit ki unki pyari angelic bahu is misbehaving with a poor innocent soul so much.

Biwi hai, bahu hai toh kya aas paas koi insaan nahin hain? What bakwaas.

+ 100 Bold, sad indeed if that is the case.

That is indeed sad then if the T's feel that as Malini is their bahu, she cannot be reprimanded for behaving like a boor.. they have no hesitation in telling Adi that he has done wrong and send him off packing, but cannot tell their bahu that she is wrong..

True that Imlie does not have any HAQ, though she is loved by all, they will not come to her defense. Think Adi taunted Imlie in the first days of their marriage that his family will support him over her any day.. this is payback in kind for BS now, who is forced to watch his wife being belittled and insulted by Malini.

I am venting my thoughts multiple times.. 😆 just like the others.