Kismat ka Likha - Page 15

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Exactly akela rehna is a far better option and wait for imlie is far better then dragging yourself and malini along wih the badhati suffocation but they will keep him in yeh nahi toh yeh mode for the reasons you stated and his karma and his obligation ke chalo phir let me bandho myself to malini. I mean he did that technically back at shaadi jaante bhutto bandh dia ha khudko just to negate the PD shaadi but ab isko pata chalega ke bandhne ka asal matlab kya hota hai.. pinjara kaise banta hai kuch impulse main phere toh daal liye but it is not as simple as that so yes karma at play indeed

THIS exactly. Shaadi koi HALWA nahin hai, Babusahib😆. Now he will feel the real weight of taking such a big step in impulse. Yes, us waqt he was in denial but step toh liya na to marry Malini despite all his doubts/confusions about the marriage with Imlie swirling in his mind....toh ab uska price kahin toh pay karna padega.

Karma isn't going to let you extract yourself from this that easily😛. It will ask for it's pound of flesh as you now yearn to be with the one you love whom you never valued when you had her and instead jumped to marrying someone else😆.

Adi's penance is only just beginning....on one side, he will be doing all these things to give Imlie her due rights, her haq, support her in achieving her dreams...on the other side will be the harsh reality that his own choice to marry Malini will now be a roadblock in Imlie accepting the haq he tries to give to her. It is not enough simply to keep asking Imlie to join him in telling the truth to everyone.....he first needs to realize the true weight of what he did by marrying Malini....how it has now convoluted this entire angle of haq that he thinks he can just hand back to Imlie by putting sindoor on her😆. If only it was that simple, Babusahib😆.

I get that he didn't understand himself when he married Malini....but he still needs to feel the weight of those actions more....the far reaching consequences of what he did in his denial and confusions....and why it has now put him in a position where he can't clarify to Imlie ki yeh ab Malini ka haq nahin hai😆

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Thank you ji....😃 who else is from Gulaal, yaar...I miss those two. Hotstar just wont upload Gulaal😡

@ Bold....Completely endorse,,,Although in an ideal world, that would be a normal jealousy that a wife has ...but then didi and Bs are not normal couple😳

I think it was basically why she liked their "banter" today...although she didnt notice how Imlie has come out of that "BS aura" and arguing like she used to when he came to PD the first time (ofcourse none of the T's were witness to that)

But since past few days, Adi has been so protective about Imlie so his bantering and even mild scolding Imlie comes as a respite for Didi...who thinks Chalo now he is back to chiding her🤢

Hi Srushti!! Welcome to the forum😃.

Oh so that's why Malini Didi found their ladai cute because she actually thought they were doing ladai for real. Man Didi ka perception power is seriously in the negative range. She thinks Adi is seriously scolding Imlie like he used to do? Ha ha😆. What a joke😛.

Adi-Malini fighting on proving who cares more for Imlie is hilarious on another level for viewers because we actually know that Adi loves Imlie but Didi bus mahantaa ke brownie points collect karne ke liye dikhava karti hai care ka😆. So many layers indeed.

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Thank you ji....😃 who else is from Gulaal, yaar...I miss those two. Hotstar just wont upload Gulaal😡

@ Bold....Completely endorse,,,Although in an ideal world, that would be a normal jealousy that a wife has ...but then didi and Bs are not normal couple😳

I think it was basically why she liked their "banter" today...although she didnt notice how Imlie has come out of that "BS aura" and arguing like she used to when he came to PD the first time (ofcourse none of the T's were witness to that)

But since past few days, Adi has been so protective about Imlie so his bantering and even mild scolding Imlie comes as a respite for Didi...who thinks Chalo now he is back to chiding her🤢

Oh man you just nailed her psychology there👏😆.....main toh bahut struggle karti hoon to understand her weird behavior but I think you've understood the crux of her. Usko yeh sab bickering mein lagta hai ki Adi "dislikes" Imlie again toh Malini ki importance is back to normal🤔😆.....man, kaise ho sakta hai kisi ka dimaag itna tiny *bangs head*.....lol even a teenager has more mental capacity than this grown College Professor *sigh*

Any normal person would have picked up on the ease/familiarity between Adi-Imlie in that bantering....lol but yeh mahaan log hain jinko sirf "ladaai" dikhi and yeh utne mein hi khush ho gaye thinking ki Adi-Imlie "dislike" each other again😕😆.....sach mein tubelight dimaag hain logon ke.

Word on Adi and Malini not being a normal couple from any angle....wonder if Adi will ever realize that in all his guilt tripping over how Malini was always perfect but he only let her down by not really being in love with her😆

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

But then as he puts on Kismet...what can be done..he is carrying the cross and you cant just blame him although Sitamaiyaa is soon going to come in his dreams and smack some reality telling him that I tried saving you from Didi and sent you to PD...but you jumped into this yourself...

Haha how I'd love to see him getting that reality check that Sita Maiyya DID try to save him from committing this blunder by sending him to PD, to his destiny - Imlie....but he only chose to jump into the marriage with Malini still....ab bhugto😛😆

Re: Gulaal....word on the magnificence still having us in thrall 10 years later😆....oh Hostar is still being a pain about uploading but I managed to gather clips from here/there and upload the Kes-Gul scenes as much as I could....here

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Hi Srushti!! Welcome to the forum😃.Thank you ji,,,Good to be here yaara!😃

Oh so that's why Malini Didi found their ladai cute because she actually thought they were doing ladai for real. Man Didi ka perception power is seriously in the negative range. She thinks Adi is seriously scolding Imlie like he used to do? Ha ha😆. What a joke😛.Didi will only see what effects her directly,,,agar undercurrents dekh pati to kyaa baat thi...ye shaadi hi nahi hoti...Adi's zoned out persona was ideal for her..he was always aloof and distant even with this warm indulgent family of his...so she can play the mahaan bahu and seem to be bridging the distances between the loner and his family and apparently the family will be falling at her feet for bringing their wayward son back home😈 but that apparently didnt happen...or it did happen but not because of her....so naturally she is mildly upset...

Adi-Malini fighting on proving who cares more for Imlie is hilarious on another level for viewers because we actually know that Adi loves Imlie but Didi bus mahantaa ke brownie points collect karne ke liye dikhava karti hai care ka😆. So many layers indeed. It was actually bold of CVs to have a good character(OFcourse we dont like her...but she is not a vamp per se) being wronged by the leads...it indeed puts the leads in a grey area..and every step is to be measured now...Adi crossing a bit of line would actually bring out the cringe element instead of true passion...such thin line are the CVs walking...so you have to give it to them for this.

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Didi will only see what effects her directly,,,agar undercurrents dekh pati to kyaa baat thi...ye shaadi hi nahi hoti...Adi's zoned out persona was ideal for her..he was always aloof and distant even with this warm indulgent family of his...so she can play the mahaan bahu and seem to be bridging the distances between the loner and his family and apparently the family will be falling at her feet for bringing their wayward son back home but that apparently didnt happen...or it did happen but not because of her....so naturally she is mildly upset...

100 baat ki ek baat, this👏😆....Yeh shaadi hoti hi nahin if Didi aisi nahin hoti.....undercurrents are beyond her capacity to understand....only superficial/surface level things, that too those that fall in line with what she wants....good enough for her.

*Edit: I have to add though how bizarrely tragic it is that you aren't able to express to your partner what's ACTUALLY bothering you vis a vis them giving attention to someone else, so you instead start COMPETING with your partner to claim ki woh jis cheez pe dhyaan de rahe hain, tum us cheez se aur bhi zyada pyar karti ho? 😕😆....can't even wrap up my mind around how insane it sounds. She needs therapy.....and someone who can actually help her overcome her emotional neediness. Adi is definitely not that guy cuz he will never be able to understand an emotionally/mentally weak person like Malini.....he's not built mentally/emotionally to manage a person like her and try to untangle all these twisted knots in her mind that make her unable to express what her real issues are. Adi toh khud needs someone like Imlie to stabilize himself....woh Malini ko kya sambhaalega😆.....even as a friend, I think he'd find it hard to help her since they are both fundamentally on very different wavelengths as human beings....there is just no sense of any meeting of the minds.

As for Adi, he's just surrounded by people who can't seem to look beyond the surface....his family is lovely but even they seem to be unable to understand him at all and left him to his aloof persona....he was in a haze until he found Imlie......that is why he cannot survive without her anymore. Even if he's making noble attempts to claim that he will hang back and wait for her to make her choice of saathi😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh man you just nailed her psychology there👏😆.....main toh bahut struggle karti hoon to understand her weird behavior but I think you've understood the crux of her. Usko yeh sab bickering mein lagta hai ki Adi "dislikes" Imlie again toh Malini ki importance is back to normal🤔😆.....man, kaise ho sakta hai kisi ka dimaag itna tiny *bangs head*.....lol even a teenager has more mental capacity than this grown College Professor *sigh*

Haha Seems likes she interests me more than the leads😕😆 but as I said...I binge watched this one...the first one I saw was the one where Imlie is returning to PD and Adi tries to stop her in the bus and all the while I was wondering how come the other passengers keep disappearing🤣 and then I watched till current ones and then caught up the older ones...so it has been a weird trip and thats why probably I understand this weird character She is cluttching straws now...and soon she will see the light..even if Anumata would have to glue her eyelids to her brows to acheive the result🤣

Any normal person would have picked up on the ease/familiarity between Adi-Imlie in that bantering....lol but yeh mahaan log hain jinko sirf "ladaai" dikhi and yeh utne mein hi khush ho gaye thinking ki Adi-Imlie "dislike" each other again😕😆.....sach mein tubelight dimaag hain logon ke.

Word on Adi and Malini not being a normal couple from any angle....wonder if Adi will ever realize that in all his guilt tripping over how Malini was always perfect but he only let her down by not really being in love with her😆

he has to go through the guilt...as you rightly said in another reply of yours...Karma will make him pay and him being blind for 7 years will hold not excuse...apparently he is not taking T's reactions into account because he thinks it is only didi who is going to be wronged....but then here PRakash might prove right...T's reactions might not be so benevolent towards imlie when it comes down to their son's two marriages and aftermath

Welcome shrusti ..

Waise guys I agreed iss bande mein sabar nahi hai bilkul ..let him regret his decision ...

I remembered the adi jo ek phone nahi lagne paar was like,subah se 5bar phone kiye isse baat nahi karni humse and then called PD aur phir bhaga to meet her 😆socho ek phone nahi uthane se he was so desperate ,confused ...toh socho imlie usse baar baar reject karti gayi toh yeah kya karega ...

The way he was today calm and quite mujhe toh vishwaas hi nahi ho raha tha ...😆because uske nature se bilkul hatke tha ...but socha hoga woh imlie hai so slowly I need to take steps 😆so time lo this that ...bol raha tha ..but uska aura table pe kuch aur tha 😆

Bahut fun hoga .he will be totally football jisse imlie bhejegi moon ke pass 😆

Originally posted by: water_83

Welcome shrusti ..

Waise guys I agreed iss bande mein sabar nahi hai bilkul ..let him regret his decision ...

I remembered the adi jo ek phone nahi lagne paar was like,subah se 5bar phone liye isse bast nahi karni humse and then called PD aur phir bhaga to meet her 😆socho ek phone nahi uthane se he was so desperate ,confused ...toh socho imlie usse baat baar reject karti gayi toh yeah kya karega ...

The way he was today calm and quite mujhe toh vishwaas hi nahi ho raha tha ...😆because uske nature se bilkul hatke tha ...but socha hoga woh imlie hai so slowly I need to take steps 😆so time lo this that ...

Bahut fun hoga .he will be totally football jisse imlie bhejegi moon ke pass 😆

LOL exactly....we have very well seen his harkatein when it comes to Imlie....koi sabar nahin hai ismein😆.

Only reason he is able to be a bit calm right now is cuz Imlie is in front of him in his house😆. Agar sach mein sabar hota to just wait for whenever Imlie makes her choice toh woh toh waise hi kar leta. Yeh sab badi badi baatein sunne mein achhi lagti hain😆....but it's always been tough for Adi to show any patience/sabar regarding Imlie. As he said some days back to himself also, "kya hum tumse mile bina reh paayenge"?

I think he's trying to learn sabar and patience from Imlie thoda bahut😆.....but dunno how far he will succeed.....haha

Originally posted by: AreYaar

100 baat ki ek baat, this👏😆....Yeh shaadi hoti hi nahin if Didi aisi nahin hoti.....undercurrents are beyond her capacity to understand....only superficial/surface level things, that too those that fall in line with what she wants....good enough for her.

*Edit: I have to add though how bizarrely tragic it is that you aren't able to express to your partner what's ACTUALLY bothering you vis a vis them giving attention to someone else, so you instead start COMPETING with your partner to claim ki woh jis cheez pe dhyaan de rahe hain, tum us cheez se aur bhi zyada pyar karti ho? 😕😆....can't even wrap up my mind around how insane it sounds. She needs therapy.....and someone who can actually help her overcome her emotional neediness. Adi is definitely not that guy cuz he will never be able to understand an emotionally/mentally weak person like Malini.....he's not built mentally/emotionally to manage a person like her and try to untangle all these twisted knots in her mind that make her unable to express what her real issues are. Adi toh khud needs someone like Imlie to stabilize himself....woh Malini ko kya sambhaalega😆.....even as a friend, I think he'd find it hard to help her since they are both fundamentally on very different wavelengths as human beings....there is just no sense of any meeting of the minds.

As for Adi, he's just surrounded by people who can't seem to look beyond the surface....his family is lovely but even they seem to be unable to understand him at all and left him to his aloof persona....he was in a haze until he found Imlie......that is why he cannot survive without her anymore. Even if he's making noble attempts to claim that he will hang back and wait for her to make her choice of saathi😆

@bold...Word for it yaar...I always thought that the T's are such good people...tolerating Anu for one ....but they always accepted Adi as an outsider,,,not trying to draw him in...whereas we saw in PD...adi was equally capable of being the insider and focal point of everything ...even religious ceremonies...The man has forgotten his camera ever since...

About the wait...we all know he is not going to stick with those noble promises of his...just like his "letting Imlie take the decision" promise didnot last a day..." tumhare bina na jee pa rahe hai na kuch soch pa rahe hai" I must have watched that one a dozen times

This whole college drama and mahaanta sacrifices is going to take a toll on him...he is going to burst ...let us hope for a good built up then...because lets face it...its going to be no fun if Adi walks to didi and Ts to announce the break up and his Imlimania just now...

He has been trying to convince Imlie to come out in open but at the same time it was he who put the cautionary note that he is afraid that Didi will faint again

@ Red...There are so many people in those unhappy spaces...they console themselves with other things..sometimes children or career...Malini has had a difficult childhood..ofcourse nothiing compared to Imlie but her parents dont make up for an parent couple...they dont even bother to take their fights into their bedroom...so didi has great insecurities and unfortunately her mother is going to turn up damn right....