Kismat ka Likha - Page 17

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Abh gayi didi ko naa footage dene wali baat tel lene🤣

😆 That four line post was in no way footage. Mann mein toh chaar page likh liya. Bas forum pe aake bahut control kar liya 😆

Very funny. ..waise adilie fans patak patak ke dhote hai footage aur naara lekar ane walon ko 😆

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Didi will only see what effects her directly,,,agar undercurrents dekh pati to kyaa baat thi...ye shaadi hi nahi hoti...Adi's zoned out persona was ideal for her..he was always aloof and distant even with this warm indulgent family of his...so she can play the mahaan bahu and seem to be bridging the distances between the loner and his family and apparently the family will be falling at her feet for bringing their wayward son back home but that apparently didnt happen...or it did happen but not because of her....so naturally she is mildly upset...

Satyavachan about Didi seeing only what she wants to see... her grasp on reality is only superficial....she can't detect the undercurrents in any kind of relationships. I mean she has seen her mother fight with her father about being unfaithful but she still doesn't know why does her mother suspect her father so much. This fight must be ongoing since 19 years when he came back from PD but she has yet to confront her parents on this issue.

So we can definitely forget about her confronting Adi on anything. She will keep brushing things under the carpet, behave in a passive aggressive manner with both Adi & Imlie but never come out & directly accuse them. Adi himself will have to reveal the truth to her, only then she will at least listen. But I don't think she will accept the truth that the marriage is over so easily. We saw how she reacted when their marriage photo was burnt. She still wanted to repair that burnt out photo. Same she will try to do with her broken marriage. She will try to hold onto it anyway possible until she herself realises the futility of her actions.

Originally posted by: water_83

Very funny. ..waise adilie fans patak patak ke dhote hai footage aur naara lekar ane walon ko 😆

Aap toh kisi aur ki tarah snide comments maar rahi ho aaj kal 😆

I want adi disclose kare didi ko marriage over ...aur aapke jo plans hai woh main poora nahi kar sakta 😆

Better he stands with glucose powder because didi ko chakkar aye toh ..paar bolo baba 😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Aap toh kisi aur ki tarah snide comments maar rahi ho aaj kal 😆

Hey was just joking. Meant no offense. Apologies if I hurt you unintentionally. 😊

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Hey was just joking. Meant no offense. Apologies if I hurt you unintentionally. 😊

Arre baba sorry for what? I was joking about the character of the show 😆 I need to make my jokes obvious now 🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL exactly....we have very well seen his harkatein when it comes to Imlie....koi sabar nahin hai ismein😆.

Only reason he is able to be a bit calm right now is cuz Imlie is in front of him in his house😆. Agar sach mein sabar hota to just wait for whenever Imlie makes her choice toh woh toh waise hi kar leta. Yeh sab badi badi baatein sunne mein achhi lagti hain😆....but it's always been tough for Adi to show any patience/sabar regarding Imlie. As he said some days back to himself also, "kya hum tumse mile bina reh paayenge"?

I think he's trying to learn sabar and patience from Imlie thoda bahut😆.....but dunno how far he will succeed.....haha

Zyaada hopes nahi hain mujhe. Aditya ke patience pe...... especially if Malini keeps lashing out on Imlie... She is sweet to Imlie when Aditya was playing prank on her or as @shruti pointed out that their nok-jhok which made Malini think that he still does not like Imlie. But the moment he makes her the center or a priority over Malini like at the pooja or tomorrow at the interview, she will lashes out or tries to put her down. This is going to irk him more as time passes where Imlie will have to cover up for his actions or take a step back just so Malini is not hurt.....The "haq" word is the biggest trigger here because Aditya wants to give it to her and Imlie is not accepting it. So when she will be questioned on the " her haq on the house, on the family on Aditya himself" ......Bomb bahot zor se phutega... aur waise be silent, patient Adi ki to aadat bhi nahin hain humein.

I just cannot imagine him sitting and talking to Malini and explaining the situation... its another thing that its very rare to see them talking or she listening to him unless he is ranting but still.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

And this is why I'm saying they need to clear it up whether Adi only wants to end the marriage with Malini cuz he loves Imlie or with acknowledgement of the fact that him and Malini were never right for each other. Cuz if it's the latter, he can very well explain it to Malini if he wanted.....doesn't Malini always say that she will believe whatever he tells her directly? 😆.....cuz otherwise she is mindless about all the obvious signs in front of her.

Until Adi himself confronts the fact that his marriage with Malini was a mistake, that they were always incompatible but took too long to realize it....he will not be ready to give the right answers to Malini. Right now, the writers are sort of navigating around this elephant in the room....cuz this would involve pointing out Malini's contribution to why this relationship/marriage has failed....but no one seems to have the guts to do that since the insistence is on painting her as a gullible victim😆....jiska "haq" Imlie ne maar liya🤔.

So for now, it's the easy route of blame Imlie ka vaada and her resistance to claiming her haq😆.

Let's see how long the blame Imlie strategy works out.....lol zindagi toh tum kaat rahe ho, Babusahib....nothing stopping you from choosing to live it alone also - no one said you NEED to have one wife with you at all times😆. Imlie ko toh choice pe bada gayaan de rahe ho....kabhi khud pe bhi apply kar lo😛

I can only imagine how layered and rare the story would be if the writers went the route of Aditya realizing not that Malini is a bad person but just that with or without his feelings for Imlie, him and Malini are just not compatible for marriage...hence the break up need to happen. As of now, the audience can clearly see Adi-Malini are not compatible. The only reason they lasted for 7 years is because Aditya was busy with his career, paying minimal attention to his relationship and Malini was ignoring all the glaring signs and living in her lala land. But now they should not/can not ignore the elephant in their relationship - no compatibility or understanding. Aditya's one of the biggest flaws is his anger and Malini after 7 years has no idea how to calm him down. And Aditya misunderstands Malini's deep emotional dependency on him as love. He has no idea how messed up her mind is and how it really works.

As of right now, the story is that Aditya realized he loves Imlie, realized that he never was in love with Malini and that she was a replacement for Nishanth in his life, and that he wants to get out of the marriage with Malini. But this is just the step 1 of untangling the mess he has gotten himself into. It is like he wants to go from step 1 to step 100 and skip all the steps in between. If only life was so easy as Aditya thinks it will be. 😆

I do not think the writers will take the route of Adi realizing his relationship issues with Malini. As of right now, he does not see 1 flaw in her. He does not see the Malini that we are seeing. Heck even the audience here in the forum have had deep discussions about Malini's character and there have been so many different POVs about her. 😆 But keeping aside Malini's personality, because no one is perfect, the problem is inherently in their relationship. Malini with all her flaws can have a happy ending with a guy who is happy to invest his time in the relationship, Aditya is just not that guy for her. As Aditya interacts more with Imlie like a husband, lover, partner, it will be interesting to see if he can compare both his relationships and see why Malini is not right for him and Imlie is, keeping aside his feelings for Imlie. Only if he realizes this can he help Imlie see it too.

About Imlie, I know she is selfless and will sacrifice herself but will not cause pain to another person, let alone her didi. But I really want her not to blindly please Malini or push Aditya toward Malini. I really did not like her choosing to go to Malini's college just to keep Adi-Malini relationship normal. It was okay when she did it earlier when Adi-Malini had their first fight. But now that she knows Aditya's feelings toward her, I do not want her to push Aditya toward Malini. I really did not like how she blindly agreed to go to Malini's college to stop them from fighting. It is her education, her life. She can disagree with both Aditya & Malini. She should not purposely go against Aditya to please Malini or to fix whatever is wrong in their relationship. I hope the writers really balance Imlie's character here wherein she does not give in to Aditya's demand that truth needs to come out right away and at the same time not be a Malini bhakt constantly.

Aditya has a longggggggggggggggg way to go before he untangles the mess he has created. No way is IMlie going to go with him in telling the truth to everyone right now. I found it kind of funny how he was all set to tell his family yesterday. I am like Aditya beta do you realize the mess you have created. Do you think Malini will just walk out or your family members will bring aarti tray? 😆First of all Imlie needs to know the depth of his love for her. Just few months ago he was aaraam se romancing Malini in front of her. Dhindora pith raha tha ki he belongs to Malini only. 😆 Imlie needs to know what the heck was he doing for 7 years if overnight he is able to let go of this relationship and move on. Why is it so easy for him to let Malini go, they have so much history together. And what is the guarantee he will not do the same with Imlie. Again, we have the answers to all these questions, can probably write a book about it but Aditya-Imli don't have the answers to all this.😆 We all know that most of what Aditya did with Malini after forced marriage was out of guilt. Heck he even married her because he felt guilty and angry. But Imlie does not know all this. I think even Aditya does not know the reasoning behind half of his own actions.😆 And Aditya can communicate this with Imlie only if he realizes that his actions have deep consequences. And Imlie too needs to learn the depth of her own feelings for Aditya. They love each other, no doubt about it, and they have a beautiful relationship. But still there need to be a lot more realizations for them and conversations about those realizations before the truth is revealed.

Writers have created such a fantastic story here. I really hope they do not mess up their own work.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Word on him never bothering with his camera inside his own house until Imlie made him want to photograph those moments.....his life, his home, his family....nothing had charm before Imlie....that's his ultimate truth now.

This reminds me of the time when Imli had gone to C house with Malini and Aditya felt her absence at his home right away. Except for Malini and Imli, everyone was at home, and he knew Malini was gone. But he kept on looking for Imlie and when he found out she had gone to C house, he confronted his mother and then did not waste a minute more to go there and protect her or bring her back home.