Kismat ka Likha - Page 14

Originally posted by: Angel_Shweta

You are here to remind us to keep our expectations low. 😆

Hafte din se bhugat rahe h be😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL wohi toh...like I just can't get myself to be really irritated with her even over her blindness about Didi😆.....cuz woh maasomiyat itni saaf-dil hai na....you don't need to agree with her thought process or her approach to still just marvel at her....duniya se pare hai yeh ladki🤗....the way she is able to find contentment in herself even in the most difficult of circumstances.....and again, it's not one-tone mahaanta....she does struggle with her decisions too....but overall I think this quality of hers where she can take on so much and still be just content with the love in her heart jaise bhi mile....it's a marvel to watch.

Same.. how do you even blame her .. you cannot caz there is nothing to blame her .. why is so hard to understand this is the girl who btw is doing all the badi badi things so selflessly without any ulterior motive ya need to become.acha in someone eyes and plops herself up.. this is the girl who just fundamentally believes that she should cause no harm to anyone what so ever and her taking up ek gift of sindoor bhi will be beimmani to her didi caz from.her pOV he belongs to her only caz he is the one who brought her into the equation and now inlie cannot see herself claiming tbe right even if he keeps telling her ke he is her caz she is able to see ke malini ke saath sahi nahi hoga. And she will be blamed and she doesn't want that guilt .. she would rather remain alone all her life to harm anyone or cause unhappiness to anyone but herself.. it is really out of the world.. and one can see where she comes from really not about being mahaan or earning brownie points and she cannot just claim him.and baat khatam karo as people may want her too caz that is not what Imlie has ever been or her character.. that just mean you never understood her.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Woah Srushti! Long time! Haha finally another Gulaal fan in this forum😆....Welcome ji, Welcome :)

Haha I try to avoid venting about Didi that much cuz it's mostly pointless....makers insist on brushing her weird behavior under the carpet. LOL but yes even I laughed briefly wondering ki will she let go of Adi just as easily if she learns ki Adi married Imlie first so now he's too "tainted" to be with Malini? 😆

Imlie has long been a football between Adi-Imlie....lol they have used her as an argument point other times also....even over a handwriting sample once😆. I feel all of these are just excuses/smokescreens to hide the larger issues in their relationship.....Imlie related things pe they start arguing but it always feels like something deeper is going on that both of them don't have the guts to directly acknowledge regarding their incompatibility. Imlie is just the catalyst that brings their relationship issues to the front....she's not the cause of those issues.

I sense that Adi's keen interest in doing things for Imlie or his protectiveness for her triggers some latent resentment in Malini which she isn't able to express directly so she tries to instead COMPETE with him in trying to show she cares MORE for Imlie than him😆.

Thank you ji....😃 who else is from Gulaal, yaar...I miss those two. Hotstar just wont upload Gulaal😡

@ Bold....Completely endorse,,,Although in an ideal world, that would be a normal jealousy that a wife has ...but then didi and Bs are not normal couple😳

I think it was basically why she liked their "banter" today...although she didnt notice how Imlie has come out of that "BS aura" and arguing like she used to when he came to PD the first time (ofcourse none of the T's were witness to that)

But since past few days, Adi has been so protective about Imlie so his bantering and even mild scolding Imlie comes as a respite for Didi...who thinks Chalo now he is back to chiding her🤢

Maybe kal Adi interview nahi le payega Imlie ka issliye toh woh restaurant mein Malini k andar usey Imlie dikhega.

Meri expectations toh negative mein chal rahi hai🤢🤢. Didi aisa kuch cunningness karegi ki Adi ke pass koi choice nahi rahega na jane k liye. Fir wahan restaurant mein Didi ko feel hoga ki Adi physically uske saamne baitha hai par mentally wahan nahi hai ( Adi ko apni mast magan duniya hoga with Imlie)

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This might be an unpopular opinion😆....but I do understand Imlie's stance from her side too.

No, I'm not justifying her blind worship of Malini and her cluelessness about how Malini actually looks down on her.....but I do understand why she thinks the way she does.

She is convinced that Malini is a wonderful person😆 who has done a lot for her😆. Aditya has not spelt out to her in any clear way that his relationship with Malini was falling apart regardless of Imlie....right now he's mainly making it appear that he realized his love for Imlie so he now needs to leave Malini. Everytime Imlie says to Adi that she can't be the cause of taking away Malini's haq, Adi has no counter to it😆....why can't he say ki ab woh Malini ka haq hai hi nahin cuz is rishte mein kuch nahin hai? Ek technicality ke basis pe haq argue kar rahe hain?😆

Adi also stays mum when Imlie points out that she can't accept any haq he gives her cuz it will feel like she is taking away Malini's haq. Until Adi himself clarifies the emptiness in his relationship with Malini, Imlie ko nahin samajh aayega. To her, it will keep seeming like everything was fine between them before and Adi now realizing his love for Imlie is taking him away from Malini....lol

I also disagree with those that say that Imlie accepting his vow of saath/savoring his love for her in her heart is not in line with this.....it very much is. Imlie has for a long time shown that she is willing to go it alone keeping her truth/faith savored in her heart.....usko kuch jataane/dikhaane ki zaroorat nahin to feel contentment. She's always been like that....doesn't mean she can't still savor those emotions even if she can't fully accept them.

Adi is the one jisko lagta hai ab akele rehne ki aadat nahin raas aa rahi😆.....waise toh Malini ke saath reh ke bhi akela hi hota hai yeh....lol....but the technicality remains that he has attached himself to her.....so even if he wants to wait for Imlie's decision, he has to realize it's better to stay alone rather than suffocate himself in the relationship with Malini too.

Its not unpopular at all because this is Imlie right? She has always been Ok staying alone, not having any kind of expectation from this relationship. So whatever she is getting she is savoring it in her heart because it more that what she thought she deserved. Having the assurance that there is someone she can rely if needed and the love to sustain for life is all in line with her statement that the three days spend with her is more that enough for the rest of the life. All these things are her strength that she will need and is needing to stand firm in her stance that she cannot take somebody's haq. She cannot build her palace of happiness on somebody's sadness. She gave her haq for the same reason at that time and now she is not accepting it for the same reason.

@bold: Does he himself realizes that? He still think Malini is a calm, samajdaar person and he is the culprit for the downfall for their relationship as he mistook comfort for love. He is clear that the relationship is going to only give sadness but right now if he goes to Malini and tell her that he wants to end it, the main reason is because he loves Imlie. Imlie thus becomes the reason for the breakup which goes back to the vachan.

The other vachan was that he should not break the marriage vow to Malini but by staying in the relationship with no feelings is breaking the vachan and this is what he is needs to explain to Imlie. Just staying in a rishta is not enough if there is no emotional commitment. The other point is the incompatibility and Aditya himself has not yet started connecting those dots or even that how Malini puts him on spot so that "what she says happens".

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Thank you ji....😃 who else is from Gulaal, yaar...I miss those two. Hotstar just wont upload Gulaal😡

@ Bold....Completely endorse,,,Although in an ideal world, that would be a normal jealousy that a wife has ...but then didi and Bs are not normal couple😳

I think it was basically why she liked their "banter" today...although she didnt notice how Imlie has come out of that "BS aura" and arguing like she used to when he came to PD the first time (ofcourse none of the T's were witness to that)

But since past few days, Adi has been so protective about Imlie so his bantering and even mild scolding Imlie comes as a respite for Didi...who thinks Chalo now he is back to chiding her🤢

Hi shrusti ji 😁 not exactly from gulaal the forum but have recently caught it after AY ji ki nudging me for years and have been totally binnawee of it so you can consider a fellow gulaal fan/ person hehe😆

@bold you nailed it hence her immediate smile and finding it cute too caz she felt that they are back to arguments meaning she still is his priority lol didinand her dimaag ki kami would never stop entertaining me.. this woman has serious insecurities and comprehension 8ssues.. so now after this when he will insist to IV imlie she will again not get it and flip again ke he is caring too much when for all that she knows he is just nibhaooing an old commitment of theirs to each other and just being a professional .. rofknbut didi kahan samjheingi professionalism kya hota hai she can see everything as personal and her self absorbness ka chasma hi

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly😆. I mean I can feel bad for both his conundrum as well as acknowledge the fact that he brought this upon himself by marrying Malini😆.

Imlie ke case mein toh bol diya for so long ki gunpoint pe majboori thi....but no one put a gun to his head to marry Malini😆....he did that all on his own....lol so now he has to bear the fruit of that on his own too. Iska blame sirf Imlie pe nahin daal sakta ki Imlie ki wajah se he's trapped here😆.

I wonder if they will talk about it at some point😆....will he ever regret that he married Malini at that point and that is the major cause of the mess they are now in?😆.....now he can't convince anyone either way ki kaunsa haq kiska hai😆.....until he gives Imlie a clear answer ki woh Malini ka haq nahin chheen rahi but woh haq le rahi hai jo humesha se uska hi tha, this ain't going anywhere😆.

We will need to see some sort of a return of the Adi who fiercely told Imlie one has to fight for the haq that Kismat had written for you during that time of her exam....in this case, he will have to fight for Imlie's haq cuz he only kinda give it someone else too😆.

He did bring it upon himself by marrying Malini. But I was feeling bad for him because he has not realised till now how the partner he choose puts him on spot to get her thing accepted, that how she is creating a distance by making her the innocent party. It was the same during PD track and same with the whole college route. Aditya had nothing but good intentions but it was presented in such a bad way to satisfy one's ego that he became the bad guy. I wonder when he will start noticing this things and see the real person behind the image that he has in his head.

Whether its Imlie or the family, Aditya needs to be very clear that irrespective of his feelings, his relationship with Malini is an empty box. Its is about the haq that Imlie is reluctant to accept as she feels she is snatching from Malini but its also about the lack of understanding in a relationship which is always going to have problems, in spite of all the haq that it has.

@bold: Word...i really want to see that Aditya 😊

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Maybe kal Adi interview nahi le payega Imlie ka issliye toh woh restaurant mein Malini k andar usey Imlie dikhega.

Meri expectations toh negative mein chal rahi hai🤢🤢. Didi aisa kuch cunningness karegi ki Adi ke pass koi choice nahi rahega na jane k liye. Fir wahan restaurant mein Didi ko feel hoga ki Adi physically uske saamne baitha hai par mentally wahan nahi hai ( Adi ko apni mast magan duniya hoga with Imlie)

Interview pending for wed. episode then.

Tomorrow imlie will force adi to go out with didi.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Hi shrusti ji 😁 not exactly from gulaal the forum but have recently caught it after AY ji ki nudging me for years and have been totally binnawee of it so you can consider a fellow gulaal fan/ person hehe😆

Hi yaar...You caught up recently....Gulaal *sigh* it reigns our hearts even after a decade yaar. how di you catch up? where are the epis uploaded?....I need to rewatch and rediscuss😳

@bold you nailed it hence her immediate smile and finding it cute too caz she felt that they are back to arguments meaning she still is his priority lol didinand her dimaag ki kami would never stop entertaining me.. this woman has serious insecurities and comprehension 8ssues.. so now after this when he will insist to IV imlie she will again not get it and flip again ke he is caring too much when for all that she knows he is just nibhaooing an old commitment of theirs to each other and just being a professional .. rofknbut didi kahan samjheingi professionalism kya hota hai she can see everything as personal and her self absorbness ka chasma hi

They have reduced her to this "didi" state of mind otherwise it would be difficult for CVs to make BS a hero...he would be branded as bigamous and what not...

But then as he puts on Kismet...what can be done..he is carrying the cross and you cant just blame him although Sitamaiyaa is soon going to come in his dreams and smack some reality telling him that I tried saving you from Didi and sent you to PD...but you jumped into this yourself...😆

on the lead front we see BS thawing Imlie bit by bit...brick by brick...giving one jhatka at a time...holi, then car trunk, then sindoor. lets see where it takes us along with both of them

I must say babusaheb ko bahut jaldhi apne pyar aur upar se apne haq ka ehsaas ho gaya, warna hum log toh soch rahe the ki 200 epi lag jayenge😆

BS is restless getting his haq on her wifey darling par wifey bechari kya bolegi is bade mein ispe toh main bhi hairan-pareshan hun! 😆 i was watching old episodes so i can only say imliya bs ke sath ek ghar mein abhi bhi reh rahi hai yehi kafi hai uske liye 😆 cause the way he used to misbehave with her now he deserves all these ignorance towards him from imliya malini didi ke naam pe 😆 jo tum bowoge wohi toh paogena 😆

But we all agree this guy is no of kind having any sabar in him 😆 yeh imliya ko pata nehi hai ki bs kis had tak ja sakta hai use pane ke liye 😆 agar imliya uske sath rehne ke liye inkar kar diya aur kaha ki hum pati-patni nehi hai kisi din gussa dikhake toh yeh banda use suicide karneki dhamki jaroor dega i am 101% sure 😆 and yes he is pretending to have sabar in him only because wifey is in front of him 😆 warna toh jaha wifey waha hubby uske peche peche chahe pd ho ya hostel 😆 bs is be like 'main pd mein kheti kar lunga, hostel mein chaukidari kar lunga apne biwi ke sath rehne ke liye par use apni nazron ke samne se dur nehi hone dunga, meri patrakar ki naukri gayi bhar mein tel lene, mujhe ab aur serious patrakar banke nehi rehna balki apne patni ki pyar mein duba hua sirf ek serious pati banke rehna hai' 😆

Malini didi please apni bahen aur jijaji ki jaldi se phirse shadi karwa do phir dekhna yeh dono kitna cuteness ki barsaat karti hai sabpe ❤️😆 please hum viewers pe bahut meherbani hogi aur hum sab bahut duaye denge tumhe 😆