It's not just ADI and imli going through turmoil but Malini too - Page 3

Originally posted by: Shiner

That's the main point of my post.

Unfortunately viewers do not understand it's all imli or ADI are in pain. Malini is also there.

Also, I think this might be more of an IF thing? In Instagram/YT I see a lot of Malini centered comments. There are absolutely viewers that see her pain (some that ONLY see her pain but...) so what are you gonna do. This is Indian daily soaps we're talking about after all

Originally posted by: Shiner

@guiltyoo

Comparing two women and their behaviour is absolutely wrong. Sometimes the logic of hiding works sometimes it different because situation differs.

All humans are different and flawed. So as ADI or imli or other family members.

When imli does something or ADI does something. We don't nitpick rather try to understand the situation. Malini gets called out for things ADI is being understood.

Can ADI behave like imli ? No then why Malini should react the way imli behaved when ADI was angry at her ? These comparisons are unnecessary.

They are in pain and everyone deals with pain differently and it's completely ok.

Ooh dear, if we will not compare, if we not supposed to judge, why we will see a show and enjoy it?

I am not saying Millani is a villain, Millani deserve to get pain, you got me wrong this way!

I loved her since the very beginning, I hated when other say bad thing about the lovely kind beautiful women, I did not understand why other tend to skip her scenes and do a drama over Aditya pampering her as a wife!

I know Imlie and Milani deferent ppl which lived at different situation , so of course this will lead to different personality and behaviors to situations and problems!

But comparison here is a must, how can we understand why Aditya will prefer one over the other? How can we think who is the best partner?

Coz in this show, they don't serve us a villain material so it come easy to us to say ooh Milani is bad women, Aditya must love imlie.

Milani is a good soul indeed but it has a flows too, it is coming up now at the surface so we could understand and accept that Adili is the end game, without fully hating Millani and sympathy with her too at the same time.

Originally posted by: PyaarDostiHai

I joined India Forums again just to post here but... yeah I agree with you Shiner! I have been really amazed so far because, in all honestly, I have yet to hate or even dislike any of the three leads. They seem very human in terms of their reactions to the situations destiny has put them in.

I wonder myself if the anger from Adilie fans (of which I am one....) comes from Imlie/Adi bashing in other places? I have seen a lot of that, I think it will only get worse, and I felt sad not knowing if there were people who liked Adilie out there.

For me here, I enjoy the three leads. There is an undercurrent of natural chemistry in all their scenes together, and I am incredibly impressed by how talented they are. Malini is a lovely woman, I don't think she is bad nor can I hate her. I feel sorry for her, but I also feel like she needs to... grow up? Sort of kind of? She needs a journey of her own so I'm hoping the writers do that for her too. (Let her have a happy ending too pls!!) I don't want the easy path of this character becomes a villain I want to see the continued human reactions. Some doubt/oscillation/etc. is absolutely something that would happen in a relationship when seeing the bonding between your husband and someone else (especially when your mother is feeding that thought to you ALL the time... it's not easy to block that out).

Anyways, hope to see more posts from you and talk with you more!

Hi . Thank you so much wonderful reply. I kind agree with you. I mean in most places Malini gets support. Infact I myself always said that imli should have moved on because ADI used to abuse her and she used to keep fast for him or eat from his plate. Nways today not for herself but for Malini ADI she left so no complaints from her but I would have been happy if she has left for herself but that's okay. Malini gets criticized for silly things like her mother insulted imli .... Comments here are like o how convineintly she left bla bla as if she knew her mother is going insult imli. Critisim is done properly then it's ok but for invalid reasons then I don't support it.

As u said it's stepping from other various factors and it's only to increase with upcoming episodes. Nways I m not part of this . I like to stay away from this. It's better to watch show from neutral perspectives and leave it. It was nice interacting with you . Thanks for replying.

@guiltyoo

I don't like to compare because it's like degrading the other women. I enjoy without comparing. Haha may be ur way of enjoying the show is different. Nways dear thanks for sharing ur views. It was lovely interacting with you

Originally posted by: Ps143

The basic plot of the show is enough to tell I guess that TV nowadays is venturing more towards grey characters but ofc without letting go of the melodrama. All the characters here are good enough but the way it's penned down with the melodrama isn't quite approving according to me. Yes Malini discussing it out with the entire family seems wrong. But let us see things from her pov as well. And I don't understand why Imlie and Malini's reactions are being compared here. Both are right and justified at their place. Malini and Aditya have supposedly been in a relationship for 7 years before marriage and all these years Malini has never felt any gap between them or any such occurrence. And then after marriage everything starts changing drastically. They start venturing far. And now she has discovered, Aditya even lied to her. It's natural to feel such. At this point, she is confused and hurt even. And all this while she has been listening to her mother's words. Inadvertently, this has started to have an effect on her because when something is constantly told to you, subconsciously you start believing it. Aise me if she seeks help from her family, then why not? Though I would have preferred her going to Aparna instead of involving the entire family. See her own mother would use this opportunity to instigate her. so unke sivai she has just her Sasural to go to na.

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