It's not just ADI and imli going through turmoil but Malini too

This is TV show most of the times one person out of triangle always get hatred. It's very common on India forums.

Just want to put my two cents when it comes to Malini s character.

Someone who has been in relationship for 7-8 years and then finally United with love of life. Then all of sudden everything changes. It's not like after many years love fade away or fights leading to differences between them. It's just u feel completely disconnected.

Malini being woman expresses herself and their family also is really understanding who looks at face and understands ( TV shows family lol ) while ADI being the man not expressive ( his situation is such that he can't even express) and he yells and snaps back at her.

Now Malini goes to different kinds of emotions and reacts and expresses accordingly. Sometimes she feels heartbroken she speaks if her love is true it has to come it will return ... Then her discussion with Nishant where she expresses her fear of losing him . Sometimes she gets angry that yesterday he yelled at her when she tried to speak .

She is going through many emotions just like ADI and she is in pain just like ADI

Deep down Malini fears losing him . She doesn't understand what went wrong .

In future she might turn into just like her mother but we can't blame her for that.

Right now there is absolutely no fault of malini s character.

I do feel bad for her. But but she is being intentionally obtuse about what is happening around her. She is in a bubble about who Adi is.

I think she is in her way coming to grasp about the reality of her relationship.

but what I don’t like is airing her private matter to everyone in the family. Instead shouldn’t she take the time to see why the sudden changes are happening , analyse what’s happening around her.

I usually avoid contraventions,but then if you go by the reality of life too,Niyati has a huge role to play.Kuch cheezen waqaey bus me nahi hoti...Hamare hisab se cheezen galat ya sahi hosakti hai..but ant me wahi hota hai jo destined hota hai...You cannot blame any person if you submit to the fact k jinko milna hai woh haalat,logic se parey mil k rahenge...Acceptance is the key :)

Of course everyone feels bad for her. Including Adi and Imlie...coming up! But if love happens elsewhere unintentionally with no purposeful striving and all signs of trying to avoid...what can one do? In this situation getting out a loveless marriage is the only option. If Malini tries to hold on to it - she is the biggest loser. She only gets a husband who is in love with another woman.

What was Imlies fault? She married Adi to save his life and spent the next couple of months as a servant in the house. She held her head up and did her best and left when she saw no respect for her views. She did not try to manipulate Adi or emotionally blackmail him. She exited his life with poise and her dignity intact.

Originally posted by: PPak

Of course everyone feels bad for her. Including Adi and Imlie...coming up! But if love happens elsewhere unintentionally with no purposeful striving and all signs of trying to avoid...what can one do? In this situation getting out a loveless marriage is the only option. If Malini tries to hold on to it - she is the biggest loser. She only gets a husband who is in love with another woman.

What was Imlies fault? She married Adi to save his life and spent the next couple of months as a servant in the house. She held her head up and did her best and left when she saw no respect for her views. She did not try to manipulate Adi or emotionally blackmail him. She exited his life with poise and her dignity intact.

Where is Malini manipulating anyone ? She is just sharing what she feels and trying to understand what suddenly went off.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

I do feel bad for her. But but she is being intentionally obtuse about what is happening around her. She is in a bubble about who Adi is.

I think she is in her way coming to grasp about the reality of her relationship.

but what I don’t like is airing her private matter to everyone in the family. Instead shouldn’t she take the time to see why the sudden changes are happening , analyse what’s happening around her.

Well it's a TV show and here nothing is private u see. I used to find it very funny where entire family has ample to discuss about imli and Various other stuff. There is nothing called privacy when it comes to TV shows.

Originally posted by: Anuannie

I usually avoid contraventions,but then if you go by the reality of life too,Niyati has a huge role to play.Kuch cheezen waqaey bus me nahi hoti...Hamare hisab se cheezen galat ya sahi hosakti hai..but ant me wahi hota hai jo destined hota hai...You cannot blame any person if you submit to the fact k jinko milna hai woh haalat,logic se parey mil k rahenge...Acceptance is the key :)

That's true and Malini or Aditya or imli all trying to terms with it. They are dealing with it in different ways. Malini deals it by expressing and ADI deals it with yelling and snaping.

U know I have been many years on IF ...my other id is not working and IF isn't sending any mail to reset it so I had to create new ID. Having the experience I understand something calling shipping and always the third angle gets called out for the same things the hero and heroine gets understood. ADI even yells and snaps back people understand him but Malini for the same is being criticized was a bit disappointing for me. Though normal viewers on various sites always supported Malini and wanted imli to move on. Ofcourse scenario is different because of shippers. It's completely alright.

My point is you either trust a person or you do not...Malini oscillates between the two mean positions

Originally posted by: Anuannie

My point is you either trust a person or you do not...Malini oscillates between the two mean positions

But that's what happens when u suddenly disconnect. She has mentioned that she and ADI have in relationship for years and she never felt like this. Her subconscious mind or her soul is telling her something is different. She can feel it by her intuition.

No offence to malini ..but some times it goes overboard with malini ....actually she is not ready to accept that their is some miss ...

She only goes ranting abt her relation of 7 yrs but when testing time comes she behave like attention seeking person ..who is just on sympathy gain programme rather than facing the truth ...

Imlie too has gone worst than malini ..the hatred,treated like dirt,from adi atleast moon has not dealt with something like this ....but imlie need not created scene out of it not even when she got her own hubby married to her ...she deals her problem with utter respect and truth is imlie doesn't have anything apart from respect ...and that's what I guess adi got attracted to imlie ...she is Rock solid but in case of malini she was born with silver spoon instead of solving problem she rather gives an entertainment pass to everyone ...

I don't know what have makers planned for her but when time comes I want adi to repent ,malini to face truth and imlie should stand out with utter respect ....

No wonder I always feels adi dragged malini in this mess ..without her fault ..so he should repent for creating mess for all 3lives ...