It's not just ADI and imli going through turmoil but Malini too - Page 2

Feeling sorry for her is one thing none can dismiss!

We all sorry for her, no one deserve to be put in such situation!

But , she had a hand to it too, we can't dismiss this fact too!

Aditya want to come clean, he told her, he loves her but things went wrong with him leading to a gunpoint marriage with Imlie!

But rather be strong and face the situation and helping him come out of it, she had a mental breakdown! And fainted which lead to this big mess!

Anyone in Adi place will take that path! I really can't blame him back then!

But now, she is gone super mad, that me as a wife cant accept what she is doing! Keep your personal manners between the two of you, blame him fight with him, why the drama infront of the family? Why making it awkward with others every time anyone speak with her?! It is really embarrassing to her not Adi! Even when she called his boss! If it was me, I will say thanks to him and close the phone! I will be hurt I will be mad , but I will not make a fool of me and my huppy infront of stranger which is my husband boss!

It was so bathetic!

Why the whole public drama! About I will not call, just dont! I realy do the same thing 😂 if I am super mad, but I will never made it in public , see I am angry 😅

And if she really felt he is in danger as a loving partner the common sense is to dismiss any conflicts put them aside for the moment and focus in the well-being of the partner first! So definitely calling without hesitating!

Before this madness she was quite logical in her reaction after her mums kitty party, she kept their problems between them.

But now she just lose it!

She felt Adi drifting, and yes she is now blackmail him and his family too, by her attitude, she did not accept this fact and do not know what to do?!

And yes she is not ready or not wanting to put the puzzle pieces and connect them to figure out what really happened! She is the only one who have all the clues but dismiss them because she don't want them to be true!

So yes we are sorry for her ofcource, but again she is the one who make this harder for the three of them from the very beginning!

And once he come back with Imlie , she will make an excuse for them and will accept any lie will come in the way!

She will hug him, he will say sorry, she will accept, she will kiss imlie on her forehead and say you don't do this again! And take her hand to apply her in her collage with a big smile on her face!

Which will again put more baggage of guilt on Adili's shoulder than it already has 🙃

@guiltyoo

Well I don't think she is making ADI look negative. She just finds unable to understand what's happening with him and why he is doing like this ? Coming to their family we can't really compare to real life family equation. The way whole family was doing imli imli dancing after her who does that ? I used to find it funny the way whole family imli Jaap and imli the body guard of Aditya.

itv families nways interfere between the couples. Infact once ADI and Malini fought entire family did so many things to patch them up. So there is nothing calling privacy when it comes to TV shows.

The only thing that I feel is Malini gets called out on forum for the things we try to understand Adi and imli. We never say ADI should not snap Malini or ADI should call Malini . We are happy that ADI forgot about Malini. That's how shippers rejoice isn't it.

For me all three are dealing the situation and are pain.

Originally posted by: Anuannie

I usually avoid contraventions,but then if you go by the reality of life too,Niyati has a huge role to play.Kuch cheezen waqaey bus me nahi hoti...Hamare hisab se cheezen galat ya sahi hosakti hai..but ant me wahi hota hai jo destined hota hai...You cannot blame any person if you submit to the fact k jinko milna hai woh haalat,logic se parey mil k rahenge...Acceptance is the key :)

Also truth is hard to face but once spoken it can have harsh response in beginning but later truth helps things fall in right place

well, we all know it is a tv show 😆

but it needs sometimes to drive a little common sense too na?

In real life we will never see the whole family gathered all together at the same timing to see somebody having a bad dream, like they are waiting at the door waiting for the scream! and men and women entering a girl bedroom like that! ! it will be more logical if only Aparna or one of the girls show up. but we accept it, coz as you said it is a tv so it has an illogical things go around.

but the things she is doing, discussing her problems and frustration to any body at any time, will it can be real na? I know a lot of girls do this! it is not healthy, it is not right.

in this tv they are showing us the relations, how they react to it and deal with it.

earlier when Aditya lashes at her at kitty party she is the one who find the logic of hiding and dealing with the problem between the two of them. this problem never become public at Tripathy na?

so what had changed now? it is still a personal thing between them, when he lashes at her about Imlie left the house it was at the privet of their room na? so why she go and tell everyone about it?

her attitude making everybody at the house tensed, and when Aditya come back all of this hyper I am sure will disappear!

coz she is the one who don't want to face the truth!

at the other hand, we have Imlie, how many times he lashes on her? she never for once inform anybody about anything she faced with him! what happens between them is safe and secure no one knows about it, they talk solve and dismiss! Milani angry coz he throw the diary in anger? how many times Aditya grips Imlie with a big force with his hand while lashing at her! so she is the one who if she talked about his anger to anybody is somehow justified! but never once she told anybody!

this is the difference between the two, it is not about logical or illogical happening in a tv, it is about how a person deal with his own problems and insecurities

See All I am trying to put forth is "Love just happens".Awal to kehne ki try kari thi adi me...But malini k faint hone se he could not proceed aage..Duja yeh k iske liye ye shadi maine hi nhi rakhti thi tab....Teesra ye k masle jo bhi ho you need not to involve pura ghar usme as malini is doing.Ye actually adi n malini ka scene infatuation kind lag raha...else 7 saal me ap samjh jane chahiye na ek dusre ko??

Originally posted by: tellyme

i am watching show for Adilie and enjoying the new Adi... But we can't excuse things in name of destiny.. Adi has wronged Malini.. And Malini's pain if she knows truth is justifiable.. Adi had many chance to speak truth.. If not Malini he could have said to his family... But he choose to keep shut on such big matter and go ahead to marry with her... If he accepts Imlie as wife he have to break relationship with Malini and speak truth to her... He can't keep cajoling her as wife too.. Truth is harsh and always tough than path of lie which is easy... But truth has its own way to punish if not said... It will never leave you and torture you in all ways.... He has to make decisions which one of these ladies he thinks is his wife and let other go free other rather messing up their life for no fault of them.. Imlie left him he had chance to live peaceful life with Malini... But now he is not able to let go of Imlie... May be for love or responsibility but then he has to let Malini go and take steps for it how hard it may seem.. And if Malini is not ready to leave him he has to let her decide... I want Adilie and can't take their relationship to be a guilty trip.. Malini should be in sync with it. That's my POV...

Also truth is hard to face but once spoken it can have harsh response in beginning but later truth helps things fall in right place

My hubby knows I am big Adilie fan and want Malini out of way so to irk me he was like bechari Malini.. I definitely did not leave side of my Imilya in arguments but today I realized writers have given lot of browny point to Malini to get sympathy.. Foremost her being the one out of trio to only be in dark... My only concern is I don't want anyone to question Adilie relationship in long run whenever it materialize .. I want writes to work on that part...

Originally posted by: Shiner

Where is Malini manipulating anyone ? She is just sharing what she feels and trying to understand what suddenly went off.

I never said that Malini did - I said Imli could have and did not. All I'm saying is that everyone is sailing in their own boat...Malini has her struggle...Imli has hers....thats the boat of life.

@guiltyoo

Comparing two women and their behaviour is absolutely wrong. Sometimes the logic of hiding works sometimes it different because situation differs.

All humans are different and flawed. So as ADI or imli or other family members.

When imli does something or ADI does something. We don't nitpick rather try to understand the situation. Malini gets called out for things ADI is being understood.

Can ADI behave like imli ? No then why Malini should react the way imli behaved when ADI was angry at her ? These comparisons are unnecessary.

They are in pain and everyone deals with pain differently and it's completely ok.

Originally posted by: PPak

I never said that Malini did - I said Imli could have and did not. All I'm saying is that everyone is sailing in their own boat...Malini has her struggle...Imli has hers....thats the boat of life.

That's the main point of my post.

Unfortunately viewers do not understand it's all imli or ADI are in pain. Malini is also there.

I joined India Forums again just to post here but... yeah I agree with you Shiner! I have been really amazed so far because, in all honestly, I have yet to hate or even dislike any of the three leads. They seem very human in terms of their reactions to the situations destiny has put them in.

I wonder myself if the anger from Adilie fans (of which I am one....) comes from Imlie/Adi bashing in other places? I have seen a lot of that, I think it will only get worse, and I felt sad not knowing if there were people who liked Adilie out there.

For me here, I enjoy the three leads. There is an undercurrent of natural chemistry in all their scenes together, and I am incredibly impressed by how talented they are. Malini is a lovely woman, I don't think she is bad nor can I hate her. I feel sorry for her, but I also feel like she needs to... grow up? Sort of kind of? She needs a journey of her own so I'm hoping the writers do that for her too. (Let her have a happy ending too pls!!) I don't want the easy path of this character becomes a villain I want to see the continued human reactions. Some doubt/oscillation/etc. is absolutely something that would happen in a relationship when seeing the bonding between your husband and someone else (especially when your mother is feeding that thought to you ALL the time... it's not easy to block that out).

Anyways, hope to see more posts from you and talk with you more!