Like Moth to a Flame - Page 5

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

+1 I really don't even wanna talk about the sa.e repeat telecast and main bechari bakwaas... rofl AC also called Rotlu bechaari today.. spare me the becharginess.. she really is behaving as if adi gave her divorce and making him sound like he is a repeat offended of abuse .. wow at the ability to make rai ka pahaad.. poore ghar ke saamne she behaves as if pata nahi kya kya Sehan kia hai isne when she literally got bed of roses.

Anyway I did appreciate Bk ka well whatever it is we are here but we really wouldn't like to interfare in your internal matter as that is not our parampara thank you... but not like that seems to have gotten in her head caz she kept going how woh kitni achi hai and how she got the worst husband.. all this over him leaving like this and telling her to stop bossing around woah...I wish woh saanp in saare chaturvedis ko Das ke ek saath group raam naam sataya kar de... this is how tired i am of them

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I still don’t understand why is she so dukhi. Just because he chose to walk away instead of sitting and doing Moon jaap.... why should he always be the one to be pandering to her needs... one time in this whole marriage he is asking her to understand and she is still stuck on “me me me” and behaving as if he has walked away from their marriage

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I was thinking , after her talk with her mother that good they are showing a sensible person and then she just switched from this smiling sweet girl taking care of her sasural people to this sad sudden hysterics of me so good, good , good and your son is so bad bad bad 🤣. Bipolar much? 😉
Chalo atleast she achieved her goal to get the focus from imlie to her so that was atleast consistent 😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

The only thing that really comes out is that temper mein Imlie bhi kuch kam nahin hain... She is short tempered as him but where his is impulsive bomb spot hers is the simmering kind...😉

Again he is so freaking lucky, he is going to be saved by a snake bite.... who would have thought that a snake would be the saving grace for Aditya and will help him do the thing , that is manao Imlie and take her back, that he has no clue how to do it and is so reluctant to admit that he wants to do it 🤣

Bold - you are so right, Pam!! 🤣 Aditya bechara is so lost he has no clue what to do!! Ab toh snake bite se hi kuch hoga...who would have guessed!! 🤣

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Girl.was cheesed at his tum kyin chali gayi... she was you really don't know the Answer to.yhat like seriously? 🤣 but seriously adi what did you expect her will orbit around you while you go live your asli rishta.. you deserves this for Giving such a taken for granted attitude to her and ab ek min nahi raha jaa raha.. as much as the pain and puppy dog eyes and tone made me feel for him I was glad she didn't budge .. caz she knows agar ab budge kia tih he will consider tbst as her weakness and lifelong she will had to suffer.. yup Girl keep the attitude going and watch him come around.. ek din main he is almost down to his knees wanting you back so badly.. but wonders at the back and forth if haq .. you k ow am such a fan of haq games and we got that mixed woth farak games .. YUMMY 😋😍🥰🤩😍🥰😍🤩🥰 I am kinda overwhelmed with all that apnapan and dard spilling over so am kinda sounding like a broken record

LOL I was glad she didn't budge too....Adi has used this puppy dog mode for too long in his life to get his way....I'm sure apni mom and Malini pe yehi use kar karke isko lagta hai kabhi bhi kaam ban jaayega😆.....but don't let him wear you down so easily, Imlie. He has put you through SO much that we've all lost count.....even now, he's caught up in his usual cycle of first trying to blame you/scold you rather than admitting his mistakes or atoning for what he's said/done wrong.

Adi ke liye sach mein reverse psychology only works best...isko jis cheez ke liye na bolo, isko WOHI cheez chahiye hoti hai phir....lol Kismat ne bola NO MALINI for you, that is why he is rebelling and clinging to Malini more.....aaj Imlie ne bola yeh humaare ghar mein kyun rahenge toh he's like main YAHIN rahunga😆......All Imlie needs to say is I'm NOT your wife, and watch him instantly say, HELL YES YOU ARE😆.

Originally posted by: pamk06

I still don’t understand why is she so dukhi. Just because he chose to walk away instead of sitting and doing Moon jaap.... why should he always be the one to be pandering to her needs... one time in this whole marriage he is asking her to understand and she is still stuck on “me me me” and behaving as if he has walked away from their marriage

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I was thinking , after her talk with her mother that good they are showing a sensible person and then she just switched from this smiling sweet girl taking care of her sasural people to this sad sudden hysterics of me so good, good , good and your son is so bad bad bad 🤣. Bipolar much? 😉
Chalo atleast she achieved her goal to get the focus from imlie to her so that was atleast consistent 😆

The insecurity is unreal 😆 amazing how she wants to become mahaan with her mother about how bechari imlie bas nothing to do with it yet plays this whole drama out based on the suspicions of adi's whereabouts.. as if pehle iske pallu se Bandhan rehta tha adi.. what was that maine apna phone band kar dia well do hell with you adi has no hoots to give right now and hopefully it wouldn't be the same when he returns too.. this bandi literally went to everyone begging about her bechargi..heck chote bachon se insecure ho gayi asking about didi .. 🙈🙉🙊🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes....but before that, her LEAVING him has hit him very hard too😆....the phone call was like jale pe namak....but his biggest source of restlessness right now is that he isn't being able to bear her distancing herself from him by just leaving him.

Imlie just looks tired to me....tired of his deflections, tired of his comprehension problems😆....so yeah, now she is also only asking him the bare minimum and trying to basically get rid of him. Shoe is on the other foot big time😆

@bold - Oh that’s the genesis of it all. Like you said in one of your earlier posts, he was a goner on that bus itself. He cannot bear to be away from her so much so that he is even ready to stay in the same room that had disgusted him previously. And he has no inkling why he’s prepared to do everything that he thinks he does not believe in. This turnaround though will be short lived considering if that saanp really comes and dasos him, she’s just going to not let go of his side.

The other contrast - even with so much transpiring, she did not let on about their troubles to anyone, unlike biwi #2. People around do not want to read into the tensions is a whole other thing. They’re just happy he’s around maybe?

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Isko abhi samjh aa raha hai rejection hota kya hai getting a taste of his own medicine and how much it hurts when you have so much faith in someone and all you want is just thoda sa kindness and woh na mile toh kaisa lagta bai.. he literally took all cards out from family to him being hurt needing her to BM her for bragging but nothing worked so he pleaded too physically tried to stop her but jab kuch kaam na aaya to reluctantantly letting her go but not alone decided to tag along ke shayad usko taras aa jaaye lol

ROFL 🤣......the looks he's giving to her don't seem like those of someone expecting TARAS😆.....gusse se muh phulaa ke dekh raha hai ki yeh khud ko kya samajhti hai, kyun nahin maani meri baat? 😆

Waise notice that so far he's just asked her ki "Tum kyun chali gayi"? Usse aage bhi muh khol ke bol lo ki "mere saath waapis chalo, Imlie"😆.....woh toh bolna nahin but nakhre Maharaj ke pure hain ki Imlie iski sune, iske maane😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Imlie has always had a temper to match his....she has simply indulged his temper more often and not given it back to him with equal measure.....lol she's given him regard, consideration and many other things both because she respects him and because she considers him her husband....Adi ko value nahin thi of all the considerations she was making for him....he felt ENTITLED to the fact that he could say anything and she will take it, that she will always be around.....now he's realizing what happens when someone stops indulging you out of their care for you. Adi babu, you pushed her too far....ab bhugto😛.

LOL yes, the snakebite is Adi's biggest lucky break....it will force Imlie to be at his side and then he can blabber whatever bakwaas he wants to do to manaao her....waise so far his "manaaoing" attempts have been twisted scapegoating and blaming her....lol so maybe he should drop that nonsense if he actually wants to get through to her😆

When she asked him that you don’t want to tell me anything else, all he had to say was “I will never come between you and your belief”. That was it and everything would have been ok. Imli would have calmed down but he is so freaking lost.... He does not know what he wants, what he has to say, what he has to think, how to find the answers, or what path he needs to take so that this restlessness in him goes away. He just landed in PD and now he is swimming in dark and the one person who can help him understand is taking the high route. 😆She is just not ready to help him... oh gosh, how the tables have turned.... Adi is like a lost puppy and Imlie is the sherni today.. 🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I was glad she didn't budge too....Adi has used this puppy dog mode for too long in his life to get his way....I'm sure apni mom and Malini pe yehi use kar karke isko lagta hai kabhi bhi kaam ban jaayega😆.....but don't let him wear you down so easily, Imlie. He has put you through SO much that we've all lost count.....even now, he's caught up in his usual cycle of first trying to blame you/scold you rather than admitting his mistakes or atoning for what he's said/done wrong.

Adi ke liye sach mein reverse psychology only works best...isko jis cheez ke liye na bolo, isko WOHI cheez chahiye hoti hai phir....lol Kismat ne bola NO MALINI for you, that is why he is rebelling and clinging to Malini more.....aaj Imlie ne bola yeh humaare ghar mein kyun rahenge toh he's like main YAHIN rahunga😆......All Imlie needs to say is I'm NOT your wife, and watch him instantly say, HELL YES YOU ARE😆.

Lol tab toh adi babu will pull.all the proof from his camera out too that look shaadi hui hai ab deny karo 😆 except right now he seems to not know they exist

Must say am loving this humare beech jo haj humara hai scenario as of now..plz continue building this

Adi ko sach main sorry bolne main pareshani hai and yeh despite repeating their conversation yeh nahi samjh paa raha what made her leave in first place like what a big dufood you are just say it I didn't meant it or I am sorry I said it and watch her melt but nope

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Chubh gaya so hard isse when she said ke hatt jayiye caz woh toh iska janam sidh adhikar hai na koj dusra kaise bolde🤣

But I applaud them 👏 for still not showing manhandling impulse main out of desperation bhi he only held her bicycle and stood in her way.. thank you 😊

Well, manhandling toh waise bhi nahin dikhaayi kabhi show is mein.....yeah Adi has grabbed her arm and pulled her close a couple of times gusse mein but it's still not anywhere near the typical Gul zone.

Is scene mein toh scope tha bhi nahin cuz this is an Adi HOLDING BACK a LOT....lol....yeah he's in a desperate mode but the desperation has still not reached its pinnacle...isiliye it's coming out in gestures like blocking her way for now....but he hasn't reached the point of jataaoing the haq to hold her closer to try to make his point. And that actually makes the angst more refreshing....more intense....the lack of typical getting in each other's faces type stuff somehow elevates the angst even more. The simple act of him holding on to the handlebars of the cycle for that long moment as if he just can't let go said so much more than any grabbing of shoulders/hand etc. would have said.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Word. And I think he knows that if it were someone important, she would have mentioned the person in passing atleast, like how she does her Imarti or Chuari 😆

Yeah, I do not like his vibes either. I am still hoping the snakebite does not happen but since it is the most bizarre thing in the precap, I guess it has to happen lol

LOL yes, the snakebite is deffo happening....no symbolism 😆.....precap so far has not played out as shown even for the SRK pose bit....haha.....but seems like snakebite may play out just like that....Adi standing somewhere randomly and then getting bitten🤣.