Like Moth to a Flame - Page 4

Btw I am loving the scene shift this is exact opposite of what imlie has suffered toll now.. admiration ,pyaar, family, ghar , izzat everything by his family but his constant you go away leave my path you are nobody while all she wanted was just thoda sa acknowledgement as a fellow human thodi si kindness and bas itna ke roshte ka lihaaz kar le but he kept going you are nobody and now samjh aa raha hai when role reversal hua hai he has again everything pyar, ijjat, aap Bhagat, warmth bas nahi hai toh imlie.. she is chiding him exactly like he did for so long by repeating his words to him.. he is been put into her shoes and ab ehsaas hi raba hai kaise lagta hai when on surface you got everything like he thought he gave her everything but not having anything

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Finally Jamaai Babu apne aasan pe viraajmaan ho gaye🤣

And then proceeded to throw reproachful looks to his biwi#1😆

It really has hit Adi VERY hard that Imlie left him....now he's taking every action of hers as an attempt to distance him from herself and he isn't being able to bear it....lol.....this is why he again looked hurt when Imlie said he will stay at the lodge since it will be more comfortable....toh he mutinously said ki she doesn't want to let him rest HERE? 😆

I'm really surprised SK/Mithi aren't picking up on the obvious tension b/w Adi-Imlie this time.....lol last time toh they still had some inkling.....but now they seem to be totally missing the phule huye muh of both miyaan-biwi😆

Mithi SK bas shipping zone main raheinge when it is so visible in your face the obvious avoid tactic imlie is displaying her whole body language has changed she is shutting him off totally as if he isn't even here and yeh usko aise dard bhari nigahon se dekh raha hai and hurtful baatein bhi nikal.rahi hai jaise yehi ke she doesn't want him here.. matlab nikal ke aa raha hai iska disappointment he is craving for her her support chahe woh bas itna hi ho ke she asks him to stay at her home.. bring paani for him bas dekhe toh sahi and he is trying every bit to get that attention..

Ab toh iski desperation dekh ke aise lag raha hai saap ko application daal ke Bulayega hai ke bhai kaat Khao mujhe so meri imelia aa jaaye 💔💘

The only time he got familiarity and smiled a bit was on pari matter as of yeh hai meri jhalli otherwise she was being such a stranger and his despo attempts kept growing to get her to talk to him connect to him.

Har jagah bechara koshish karha just to be around her...Bus ab saanp ka hi sahara hai..😒Wese ye is Adi ko wahi room me bheje hai jider pichli dafa woh mala n all the??

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Babusahib ka second break after first attempt fails😆

And the "Hum apni MARZI se jaa rahe hain" bit.....ROFL

LOL@ Imlie's little "whatever" shrug😆

And then her warning him that she won't listen to his daant anymore🤣

ROFL the most hilarious part of Adi ki harkatein today was he seemed to be in sadma over his OWN harkatein but still couldn't control what all he was saying and doing.

I felt there was a deeper reference here with that Bike convo and road is long so you cannot walk alone so find a new partner.

Today she said you don’t have to walk with me and he is saying that it’s is my wish to walk with you. Her answer was when is walking with me become your wish to which Aditya has no answer😆

At the end I was only thinking that it’s a pendulum. They were going from one corner to other with their emotions, from hope to anger, anger to pleading, pleading to confusion and then the contradiction. She is saying one thing and he is saying the other and then asking himself why he is sayin that 🤣

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

It is worth experiencing the magic in those 5 mins or so..then at home NN ka calling imkie ki hasiyat as a bikharan pinched him so hard the way it hit him that damn sach hi hai even though she was being greedy one could see again how it was a blow on his pride.. aaj toh Babusahib itna farmabardar jamai babu bane thah mithi se bhi itne ache se baat ki itna nicely replied to her queries and kept getting hurt over and over at imlie trying to push him away ke lodge jaane ka hai

Rofl at imlie ka end main what do.you want me to.do Amma aa gaye toh aa gaye denying the possibility ke uske liye aa sakte hai babusahib 😆 but then also wondering is he really there for her .. cutie.. damn it girl.HAAN HAAN HAAN open your eyes and smell the coffee your babusahib is tadpooing so much his rom rom needs you and he doesn't know why all his masks have fallen no excuse is working not even family wala.. he is tearing up so much .. and JUST NEEDS YOU.. again he doesn't know he logistics neither are they his concern now .. his concern is you you are the priority his most precious thing.. uske dil dhadakne ki wajaj uski saansein rune ki wajah.. and unka bas chale toh gale laga lein.. with all the haq he kept exercising by holding her arm stopping her way telling her how indirectly and directly how important she is to him.. it was a pati uthaooing sar out of babusahib.. lol and this is what babusahib call nakli tu jaa re baba🤣🤣

@bold: LOL yeh bhi meri wishlist mein tha and pura kar diya makers ne....thank you thank you😆....I really wanted him to be nice to Mithi after the way he was last time he came to PD.....even though he isn't really here to make amends, in a sense woh ho raha hai unintentionally hi......he is here mainly cuz he can't stay away from Imlie....but ab woh sab achhe se welcome kar raha hai that he didn't value last time he was here. Waise itna polite Adi sach mein hazam karna mushkil ho jaata hai since all we see is him constantly scolding Imlie or being irritated with everyone😆.

Re: Imlie.....LOL I guess her case is what happens when you push someone too far.....isne itni der tak Adi ko consideration diya, uski daant, uske nakhre, him diminishing her at every point....sab kuch jhela cuz ismein sehne ki shakti thi and she was able to be happy even without getting anything from him....then he pushed her too far by insulting her with the find some other guy stuff.....lol now she's like I don't have patience anymore to coddle you and your confusions😆....irony yehi hai ki he is only NOW beginning to recognize some of his emotions regarding her.....but right at that moment, Imlie has had enough and she doesn't feel like waiting around as he continues his usual cycle of scolding her and bullying her into doing what he wants😆.....

As you said, Babusahib ke andar se Imlie ka pati aaj badi clearly sar nikaal raha tha😆.....he is jataaoing pati waale haq but muh se nahin nikal paa raha iske....waise Imlie did give him a couple of chances ki kuch bolna hai? lol and when he didn't, she was like ok, I'm leaving.....lol.....I do feel ki Imlie bhi apna hurt express kar rahi hai over how much he's taken her for granted....and now he's shown up again acting entitled like he has a right to say whatever and expect her to go along with it.....I think that's what's pinching her and has made her give him the cold shoulder.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Her not speaking to him over the phone hit him hard.

How unaware is this parvath jaisa insaan of an actual relationship that he is being put through the grinder because of that ignorance. He is hurting, he is vulnerable, he does not know day from night. And he is feeling the exact same things that Imlie went through albeit in a different context with no underlying feelings other than that of complete doubt. She went through a lot more to get here and Aditya will traverse through it too. He has to in order to be able to be worthy of her.

For the first time Imlie wants to read him selectively. She realized he has come on his own and all is not right but she does not want to read his complaints for what they are - his deep seated necessity for her to acknowledge that she is hurting as much as he is after he left. That what he is feeling is not one sided.

But she did remind him why she never will be Malini albeit in a different context. She will never hold him back whereas Malini wants to never let go. That he will not understand this for a while is another thing.

Malini is thrashing around. She will have to start questioning things more. And her tamasha is only going to get intolerable; not only for us audience but also for Aditya. Badke kaka clearly pak chuke the aaj

Yes....but before that, her LEAVING him has hit him very hard too😆....the phone call was like jale pe namak....but his biggest source of restlessness right now is that he isn't being able to bear her distancing herself from him by just leaving him.

Imlie just looks tired to me....tired of his deflections, tired of his comprehension problems😆....so yeah, now she is also only asking him the bare minimum and trying to basically get rid of him. Shoe is on the other foot big time😆

I had too many expectations for this episode i think. First i was disappointed but then i went back to see it again and it made sense how it played out.

Adhi was expressing his inner feelings to Imlie saying his family's hurt etc but he more or less meant himself. Which of course Imlie has no clue about because literally 1 week ago he was romancing Malini with the movie and telling her to get married.

The kidnapping incident kind of changed him forever. He is in love! He doesn't know it because he has never experienced it before. Not with Malini for sure. Their relationship is so weird. To be honest the show should have shown many flaws in Malini/Adhi relationship instead of the all never ending Malini's doubt scenes.

Any way back to the episode. The beginning was good and also Imli's grandmother's comments were also compelling, I think now I can see the words have pricked him. I also saw how subtly the episode showed the shift of him wanting to be at imlie's place.

As for the Malini and Dev stuff, I just find them utter nonsense and need to fill time for the 20 mins of the show! I would rather see some side story of Mithi/Satyakam or something else.

Originally posted by: pamk06

The only thing that really comes out is that temper mein Imlie bhi kuch kam nahin hain... She is short tempered as him but where his is impulsive bomb spot hers is the simmering kind...😉

Again he is so freaking lucky, he is going to be saved by a snake bite.... who would have thought that a snake would be the saving grace for Aditya and will help him do the thing , that is manao Imlie and take her back, that he has no clue how to do it and is so reluctant to admit that he wants to do it 🤣

Imlie has always had a temper to match his....she has simply indulged his temper more often and not given it back to him with equal measure.....lol she's given him regard, consideration and many other things both because she respects him and because she considers him her husband....Adi ko value nahin thi of all the considerations she was making for him....he felt ENTITLED to the fact that he could say anything and she will take it, that she will always be around.....now he's realizing what happens when someone stops indulging you out of their care for you. Adi babu, you pushed her too far....ab bhugto😛.

LOL yes, the snakebite is Adi's biggest lucky break....it will force Imlie to be at his side and then he can blabber whatever bakwaas he wants to do to manaao her....waise so far his "manaaoing" attempts have been twisted scapegoating and blaming her....lol so maybe he should drop that nonsense if he actually wants to get through to her😆

I liked today’s episode. BUt I am mad at Malini. She is bringing her problems to the family. The whole family not just one person. She has to learn to handle her husband.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: LOL yeh bhi meri wishlist mein tha and pura kar diya makers ne....thank you thank you😆....I really wanted him to be nice to Mithi after the way he was last time he came to PD.....even though he isn't really here to make amends, in a sense woh ho raha hai unintentionally hi......he is here mainly cuz he can't stay away from Imlie....but ab woh sab achhe se welcome kar raha hai that he didn't value last time he was here. Waise itna polite Adi sach mein hazam karna mushkil ho jaata hai since all we see is him constantly scolding Imlie or being irritated with everyone😆.baat wohi hai suddenly imlie se judi har cheez ki kadar aa gayi hai..😆 it is like he doesn't want to leave itna sa bhi room to upset her and yeh koi jaan ke nice nahi ho raha dikhane ke liye.. organically ho raha hai imlie se Juda har naata suddenly iska apna hi gaya hai hence woh tameez tehzeeb pehle he felt.irriyayed with all thay caz he was irritated irritated imlie and koi kasar mahi chodne chahta tha is making that obvious to shut her down.. woh kehte hain na jab connect jud jaaye toh usse Judi har cheez aoni ho jaati hai ohari hi jaati hai wohi ho gaya iske saath.

Re: Imlie.....LOL I guess her case is what happens when you push someone too far.....isne itni der tak Adi ko consideration diya, uski daant, uske nakhre, him diminishing her at every point....sab kuch jhela cuz ismein sehne ki shakti thi and she was able to be happy even without getting anything from him....then he pushed her too far by insulting her with the find some other guy stuff.....lol now she's like I don't have patience anymore to coddle you and your confusions😆....irony yehi hai ki he is only NOW beginning to recognize some of his emotions regarding her.....but right at that moment, Imlie has had enough and she doesn't feel like waiting around as he continue his usual cycle of scolding her and bullying her into doing what he wants😆.....

As you said, Babusahib ke andar se Imlie ka pati aaj badi clearly sar nikaal raha tha😆.....he is jataaoing pati waale haq but muh se nahin nikal paa raha iske....waise Imlie did give him a couple of chances ki kuch bolna hai? lol and when he didn't, she was like ok, I'm leaving.....lol.....I do feel ki Imlie bhi apna hurt express kar rahi hai over how much he's taken her for granted....and now he's shown up again acting entitled like he has a right to say whatever and expect her to go along with it.....I think that's what's pinching her and has made her give him the cold shoulder.

Oh for sure.. all her being extra casual and shrugging and leaving and all is reflecting her hurt too she is trying extra hard to act as if isko farak nahi pad raha hai with all the gestures but wob pad raha hai it comes in moments like is he really here for me or when she can't break her gaze and have to pinch herself about whether this is real or no.. kahin to umeed thi na haha