Cracks rising to the surface - Page 3

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Yes, I really liked that bit too.....it was long overdue after the torture of the last few epis....finally someone pointing out that Imlie's words and actions are not matching.....also, there was an intensity, a palpable quality to the way he said as you also pointed out.....ki if this is really all she wants, why is she running around doing secret vrat and all?

Pent up is the word....dono taraf se jaise emotions bubbled over in this scene....especially the "Aap humein KAAHE bachaaye, na chahte huye Dilli waapis kyun lekar aaye, jungle mein marne ke liye chhod kaahe nahin aaye"....Imlie started that line of questioning first and he looked hurt when he first heard her say it, that is why he burst out with his own "Haan chhod dena chahiye tha wahin.."....and then followed up with, "Tum achhi tarhaan jaanti ho ki hum apni zimmedaari nibhaa rahe the"😆....to which Imlie counters, "Hum bhi apni zimmedaari hi nibha rahe hain patni hone ki"😆.

Actually the more I'm talking about this scene, the more the nuances are becoming apparent😆....this convo was about so much more than Adi's anger with her over creating the sindoor tamasha....both of them were kinda twisted up inside yet again over this relationship b/w them that they both can't get free of.....it's like that one moment where Imlie was like, "Why did you save me"?...she was kind of asking it like him doing that ensured that their connection lives on....or it could all have ended that very day in the jungle if he had just let her be....but he didn't let that happen....and now he can't question her for trying to do her part for this relationship either😆

Exactly this is a scene that demands more than one to understand the actual thing it was trying to convey.. i really enjoyed it so much more on 2nd viewing too caz it makes their helplessness so painful to watch and one can see their own individual struggle with it... also the bit where he's like yeah you don't do anything wrong ever but phir bhi hamesha ho hi jaata hai ajeeb coincidence it is almost like she wanted everyone to see the sindoor and raise questions and her explaining that i don't need to show that off caz my sita maiya knows and how that takes them to hum bhi apni zimmedari hi nibha rahe thay .. the tone matters. It was again the earnesty and the emphasis on it that made it beautiful beautiful that if saving my life was your responsibility then this is mine and am not trying to deliberately cause trouble and he did seem to believe that

i felt so bad for them in that bit that marr hi jaate toh acha hota they both could've been freed from this torture but abhi kahani baaki hai and they will learn in due time that why they didn't die and why kismat wants them to go through this all:)) that it is actually meant to be like that only..

yes the main struggle was once again about where they stand ratehr than sindoor that was a coverup and hopefully now that new phase will finally start caz ab thoda aur clear huye hai POV's and expecatations.. dekhte hain..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Exactly.....Making adjustments is a normal part of marital life....but inka issue is beyond that. They are fundamentally not suited for each other because of their own respective baggage.

Adi has too much of a defensive chip on his shoulder about being middle class and not as rich as Malini's family. He is with Malini mainly as a promise to her, not out of wanting to be with her. Malini actually feels she is ENTITLED to his saath cuz she's made so many adjustments for him for 7 years😆....and he feels OBLIGED to repay her for her adjustments 😆. This is not how a relationship can function.

To me the most interesting thing was Adi realizing that 7 years of being together doesn't mean that you are compatible in each other's life😆.....for the first time, him noting the fact that the only MET UP for 7 years....they didn't LIVE together 😆....and there is a big difference b/w those two things. Yes finally he came to that realization that all they were doing was just playing ghar ghar.. ek pretend "relationship" chalu tha but now it is real life and it ain't as ideal as they thought in their Bubble and kabhi actually samjha hi nahi hai..

And just look at how BITTER he is sounding in the precap😆.....clearly bahut saalon ki bhadaas store up ki hui hai jo ab baahar nikal ke aa rahi hai as he's ranting on about how Malini must think she's married some bechara reporter blah blah.....did you notice how similar to mrs C he sounded in all the things he said... this is exactly what Mrs C warned malini about long ago about ke all the things that now may seem romantic and oh so Perfect were become a nuissance after a while the same family status that are ideal now will not work later caz this isn't the lifestyle she used to or her upbringing... and that's ditto what he is asying too hahahah. hOnestly it was long overdue on his part to let it all out.. for now they might even find a temporary fix either with the help of great imilie ji nut at the base the problem will remain and it is only gonna get bigger... caz these thinsg cannot be solved overnight and the insecurities run deep thanks to 7 yrs of hearing it over and over.. this is the real Adi....that Malini has barely gotten to see, but Imlie ko roz dose milta hai😆......oh that reminds me, there was another bit where Imlie was like, I'm used to him being rude to me cuz that's how he always talks to me but today he talked to Malini didi like that and I didn't like it😆.

that was funny but a bit 🤪too for me caz like come on imlie didi let them solve it on their own aap jagat problem solver na bano na abhi apna toh solve akr lo pehle 😆 but then imelia hai toh Jagat mata hi and didi ki bhakt toh karegi toh yehi solve hahah

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, overall I feel they redeemed the week a bit with this scene....otherwise hum sab log despair zone mein jaa rahe the ki where is all the nuance we are used to?😆

Imlie ka POV did get a bit clearer too thankfully even though I think thoda forced logic hi tha for this vrat but I'm also glad it's behind us. That said, I feel they did a pretty abrupt shift from such an emotional angsty scene to morning with Imlie bouncing around giving doodh to everyone😕😆......editing and flow mein thoda jhol tha.

Wasn't that a bit disjointed? After such harsh words from Aditya, how come she was jumping around the next morning offering everyone dudh?

Some of the things Aditya said were pretty insulting like whether Imlie is trying to sabotage Malini and his relationship or whether she is trying to compete with Malini? How come they didn't affect her at all?

Also, what did she mean by "rishta na nibha sake toh zammidari to nibhaye?" Which zammidari is she talking about? What exactly are her expectations from Aditya?

Originally posted by: Whimsy

It should not turn out that she is a fall back option.It will glaringly show that he is basically selfish and just chose the convenient one.

yes, Imlie should not be a fall back option.

Originally posted by: mayuri099

Wasn't that a bit disjointed? After such harsh words from Aditya, how come she was jumping around the next morning offering everyone dudh?

Some of the things Aditya said were pretty insulting like whether Imlie is trying to sabotage Malini and his relationship or whether she is trying to compete with Malini? How come they didn't affect her at all?

Also, what did she mean by "rishta na nibha sake toh zammidari to nibhaye?" Which zammidari is she talking about? What exactly are her expectations from Aditya?

She was just repeating his own point back to him....he himself had said he can't nibhaao the rishta but he will nibhaao zimmedaari....by zimmedaari, he meant saving her life which he cleared up today😆....so her point was that you said your zimmedaari is to save my life, so my zimmedaari is to keep a vrat for your long life since you are my husband😆. She basically equalized both their zimmedaaris as being about saving each other's lives😆

The things Adi said today all stemmed from the strangeness of Imlie's behavior...she kept the vrat secretively which was in a sense a betrayal of his trust in her....and that is why he said the things he said today that he doesn't know how to believe her anymore and why shouldn't he feel suspicious about whether she is trying to prove some point by doing all these sindoor/suhagan type things in front of the family. Obviously Imlie was hurt hearing all that but she could see he was back in his angry/mistrustful zone about her, so she stuck to explaining why she kept the vrat.

Re: disjointed....yes, there was definitely an abrupt shift from the night scene to the morning scene which affected the flow of the epi. But I think the Adi-Imlie scene is worth watching as a stand alone cuz it was a good, layered scene after many days....the first one in a while that didn't get interrupted by Malini lurking in the background😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

did you notice how similar to mrs C he sounded in all the things he said... this is exactly what Mrs C warned malini about long ago about ke all the things that now may seem romantic and oh so Perfect were become a nuissance after a while the same family status that are ideal now will not work later caz this isn't the lifestyle she used to or her upbringing... and that's ditto what he is asying too hahahah. hOnestly it was long overdue on his part to let it all out.. for now they might even find a temporary fix either with the help of great imilie ji nut at the base the problem will remain and it is only gonna get bigger... caz these thinsg cannot be solved overnight and the insecurities run deep thanks to 7 yrs of hearing it over and over

that was funny but a bit 🤪too for me caz like come on imlie didi let them solve it on their own aap jagat problem solver na bano na abhi apna toh solve akr lo pehle 😆 but then imelia hai toh Jagat mata hi and didi ki bhakt toh karegi toh yehi solve hahah

Haha Mrs. C has always been successful in being a permanent ghost in Adi-Malini's relationship....that is why her words are looming large in Adi's mind as well as Malini's mind from time to time.

Yeh lifestyle discussion should have been clarified long time back but Adi-Malini would rather just keep doing "aap aap" to each other than talk about the realities of living together😆....so now the reality check will happen on it's own.

It's also kinda ironic that Adi remains irritable in general a bit cuz of the Imlie issue also weighing on his mind, so all that is building up in his mind to make him lash out at Malini too if something triggers him like this.....any sign of his "perfect" world crumbling and it isn't just Imlie he lashes out at...it's Malini too.....which again is something worth pondering about especially for Adi-Malini....is the world they thought they were building together really that perfect? And are either of them strong enough to carry each other through these storms of insecurity.

Re: Imlie....lol arey woh lame hi tha....I just laughed at Imlie ki fikar for Malini DIDI as usual😆....khud kabhi nahin sochna ki you don't deserve to be spoken to like that either, kiddo....high time Babusahib ko bhi thoda blast karo Imliya style mein :P

I guess Imlie tomorrow will help them to patch up and Aditya will realize that she is not trying to sabotage their marriage at all (I am sure he knows it in his heart already 😆).

Also, can someone explain why Mrs. C was crazy obsessed with removing Imlie's sindoor? What difference does it make to her? She acted like a crazy woman!

Originally posted by: mayuri099

Wasn't that a bit disjointed? After such harsh words from Aditya, how come she was jumping around the next morning offering everyone dudh?

Some of the things Aditya said were pretty insulting like whether Imlie is trying to sabotage Malini and his relationship or whether she is trying to compete with Malini? How come they didn't affect her at all?

Also, what did she mean by "rishta na nibha sake toh zammidari to nibhaye?" Which zammidari is she talking about? What exactly are her expectations from Aditya?

Abrupt it was but I think that has to do with lack of bank and aaj ka upload was late too so.i think they are falling behind iss liye technically it wasn't a perfectly smooth shift

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha Mrs. C has always been successful in being a permanent ghost in Adi-Malini's relationship....that is why her words are looming large in Adi's mind as well as Malini's mind from time to time.

Yeh lifestyle discussion should have been clarified long time back but Adi-Malini would rather just keep doing "aap aap" to each other than talk about the realities of living together😆....so now the reality check will happen on it's own.

It's also kinda ironic that Adi remains irritable in general a bit cuz of the Imlie issue also weighing on his mind, so all that is building up in his mind to make him lash out at Malini too if something triggers him like this.....any sign of his "perfect" world crumbling and it isn't just Imlie he lashes out at...it's Malini too.....which again is something worth pondering about especially for Adi-Malini....is the world they thought they were building together really that perfect? And are either of them strong enough to carry each other through these storms of insecurity.

Re: Imlie....lol arey woh lame hi tha....I just laughed at Imlie ki fikar for Malini DIDI as usual😆....khud kabhi nahin sochna ki you don't deserve to be spoken to like that either, kiddo....high time Babusahib ko bhi thoda blast karo Imliya style mein :P

woh toh tab hota na had they ever talked to each other beyond roz mara ki casual baatein like khane main kya bana hai gahr kab aayenge types.. even before imlie came into the picture their ontros were very surface level.. they were formally being nice to each other and pretending to make khaali promises to each other and thinking ke bas ho gaya understanding and this is what is called being in a relationship.. ek baar bhi kabhi they haven't talked about actual feelings and what they want from life hahah khudki toh waise baat hi kahan karte hain yeh kabhi it is always about malini ke parental issues ya ab imlie lol

Originally posted by: AreYaar

She was just repeating his own point back to him....he himself had said he can't nibhaao the rishta but he will nibhaao zimmedaari....by zimmedaari, he meant saving her life which he cleared up today😆....so her point was that you said your zimmedaari is to save my life, so my zimmedaari is to keep a vrat for your long life since you are my husband😆. She basically equalized both their zimmedaaris as being about saving each other's lives😆

The things Adi said today all stemmed from the strangeness of Imlie's behavior...she kept the vrat secretively which was in a sense a betrayal of his trust in her....and that is why he said the things he said today that he doesn't know how to believe her anymore and why shouldn't he feel suspicious about whether she is trying to prove some point by doing all these sindoor/suhagan type things in front of the family. Obviously Imlie was hurt hearing all that but she could see he was back in his angry/mistrustful zone about her, so she stuck to explaining why she kept the vrat.

Re: disjointed....yes, there was definitely an abrupt shift from the night scene to the morning scene which affected the flow of the epi. But I think the Adi-Imlie scene is worth watching as a stand alone cuz it was a good, layered scene after many days....the first one in a while that didn't get interrupted by Malini lurking in the background😆

Green - He difinitely is, and I can't really blame him. I just expected Imlie to be very offended by his words.

Blue - That is true. I enjoyed the raw emotions and the intensity. 😳