Originally posted by: bluejalpari
Redvoilet, agree with you word to word, you said all that I was feeling. People equate Sahir's pain to Arzoo's pain. But Arzoo did not cause Sahir's pain. Where as Arzoo's misery until a few days back was caused by Sahir and his callous attitude to have a fling with her to keep her away from Zaki.Marrying her by threatening, and by making a deal, rather than just telling her that he needs her.
Forum expects Arzoo to be thankful to Sahir because she is in their house, but Alvira almost begged to have Arzoo with them and Saiyarra. People expect Arzoo to deal with her pain with a smile and thank you to Sahir, to understand him and his pain .
But she is a human, and needs to heal. I do think Sahir's dark and mysterious past is making her forget her own problems. And the fact that he cares for her a lot which is very evident, especially when he took the bullet.
You are right in saying that now, they are equal. Arzoo today accepted him has her husband and accepted the relation as life partners. And he accepted her authority and caring , both.
I agree that he was purposefully lighthearted because they underwent too much stress...and he does not want to burden her right now.
His pain should not allow him to hurt her more, rather now they both should learn to trust, heal, and be a team against whoever is trying to spoil their life.
Love to read your posts , do msg me when you post.