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Posted: 10 years ago
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Oh My 👏👏👏...BANG BANG analysis VD 👍🏼
Am totally looking forward for this story to unfold 👍🏼...sounds interesting to me 😉...by all hook n crook MONEY does play an important role nowadays when it comes to an individual n his/her blood relations n thereby d life changing decisions PERIOD
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Rojaa-

You are right about how principles needs to be compromised at times owing to the materialistic world we live in.

But with due respect to you, I disagree with most of the other points.

Disclaimer : I'm a neutral viewer. My post is on this particular situation of the current track of the show, not a general view on principles.i apologize n advance for the typos.

First of all, Arzoo is paying the price but not for her unbending principles. In fact her idealistic vision has done few good things for her, SAC himself said " I respect you for being what you are" and he even admired her for being fearless as she fought against the bad, remember their confrontation during the pregnancy drama where Sac questioned her "are you the same girl who fought for anything that is wrong" ?

Now coming to what she is paying for :

She is paying the price of being the daughter of Nausheen.

*price of being the elder sister to two selfish girls, one of them want Arzoo to get married to a guy who apparently is the father of an illegitimate child so that the debt becoz of her education can be paid off.

*price of being the elder child and the breadwinner of her family. The girl can easily walk off abandoning her family but she won't! Becoz there is still some goodness in this world, there are is still humanity in this world. Not everyone can be self-centered, there are still people who genuinely care for their family and have strong emotions.

*price of falling in love, that too with SAC. Again she was emotionally blackmailed to confess her love when she tried to reason and run away from anything that might hurt her.

*price of Sahir being obsessed with her.

List is too long. And I don't agree that Arzoo has been unable to do anything. She has been the breadwinner of the family ( along with Nausheen if I'm not wrong ) but now in this situation she has to arrange a big amount, that too becoz of her mothers stupidity and betrayal to her. Had Nausheen told about Myra's admission fees, Arzoo could have asked for a loan right ? But no Nausheen hid things from her. Now Arzoo has to take responsibility for her mother's fault. Where did Arzoo's principles come in between ?

Coming to Sahir, he is the one who put everything at stake, why should others take responsibility for what he does ? Sahir is entirely wrong in this ! One fine day he decides he wants to fulfill the promise he made to his comatose wife, so everyone shoud dance to his tunes ? Marry him even though he is an already married man ?

For me Arzoo is paying the price for being Nausheen Sarfaraz Sheik's daughter , from now on she will pay the price of being SAC's second wife !

I apologize for the long post, just wanted to share my opinion.


I think Arzoo did push away Zara's attempts to try and help, however I completely, completely agree with YOU on this post. Amazing, thank god someone wrote this b/c I was feeling frustrated by everyone blaming Arzoo for everything. 👏 👏 👏 ⭐️

Edited by Arshiforever8 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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To be brutally frank, beggers can't be choosers. You want to tell SAC to hell with you and your business, then what the bloody hell are you doing in his house with your entire family? Why don't you walk away with your head held high with your principles intact even though your pocket is empty? Hai himmat? Walk the talk. Why did you not take the money SAC gave Nuasheen, throw it on SAC's face and marched out of Niamat House? Can someone please tell me that. You can't have the cake and eat it too particularly if you yourself have not bought it. You can't live in somebody's house and dictate what he should or should not do. He asked you to help him out as a business proposal and you said no. End of the story. Whether he is married or not, whether he should have mortgaged his and his family's everything or not, not your business when your answer is no. Walk away if you have the guts otherwise keep your mouth shut and compromise. As clear as that. Life ain't fair but it gives you a choice. Just like you should not be held accountable for SAC's deal promise, SAC is not held accountable for the state of things within your family. It is purely your headache to deal with. Take the ownership of your decision, yourself whether right or wrong. Don't blame others - neither SAC nor your own family.

All of us have all the 5 principles of nature within us - not just water and wood. It is when the imbalance between these arises, then it causes all the problems.

Aare deva "Kis Daily Soap mein hijack hua mera brain"😲
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshiforever8


I think Arzoo did push away Zara's attempts to try and help, however I completely, completely agree with YOU on this post. Amazing, thank god someone wrote this b/c I was feeling frustrated by everyone blaming Arzoo for everything. 👏 👏 👏 ⭐️



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Excellent analysis VD... Completely agree with you!
I wrote many similar points in the post I made as well..

Just want to say.. This financial crisis situation is not sahirs fault.. Arzoo has two options... Take her family and move out after finding an alternative solution or accept Sahirs solution as a deal... If she chose the second option then she can't blame Sahir for her decision.. Not at all! We are responsible for the choices we make!

And now she isn't helping Sahir with his deal for his benefit but so that her own family doesn't come on to the street.. So whatever Sahir did ... Mortgaging.. Staking everything.. Doesn't come into play here... She isn't helping him selflessly so the question of why should she help him doesn't arise! She needs money and his is the roof she is staying under so preserving that is her need too!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MarathiMulgi

To be brutally frank, beggers can't be choosers. You want to tell SAC to hell with you and your business, then what the bloody hell are you doing in his house with your entire family? Why don't you walk away with your head held high with your principles intact even though your pocket is empty? Hai himmat? Walk the talk. Why did you not take the money SAC gave Nuasheen, throw it on SAC's face and marched out of Niamat House? Can someone please tell me that. You can't have the cake and eat it too particularly if you yourself have not bought it. You can't live in somebody's house and dictate what he should or should not do. He asked you to help him out as a business proposal and you said no. End of the story. Whether he is married or not, whether he should have mortgaged his and his family's everything or not, not your business when your answer is no. Walk away if you have the guts otherwise keep your mouth shut and compromise. As clear as that. Life ain't fair but it gives you a choice. Just like you should not be held accountable for SAC's deal promise, SAC is not held accountable for the state of things within your family. It is purely your headache to deal with. Take the ownership of your decision, yourself whether right or wrong. Don't blame others - neither SAC nor your own family.

All of us have all the 5 principles of nature within us - not just water and wood. It is when the imbalance between these arises, then it causes all the problems.

Aare deva "Kis Daily Soap mein hijack hua mera brain"😲

👏 👏 👏 👏

At least her family is definitely to blame for this mess...and them blaming her is a new low...but SAC isn't to blame for THIS predicament for sure...he offered a solution as a deal...taking it or not was he choice...!

Edited by prettypri - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Rojaa-

You are right about how principles needs to be compromised at times owing to the materialistic world we live in.

But with due respect to you, I disagree with most of the other points.

Disclaimer : I'm a neutral viewer. My post is on this particular situation of the current track of the show, not a general view on principles.i apologize n advance for the typos.

First of all, Arzoo is paying the price but not for her unbending principles. In fact her idealistic vision has done few good things for her, SAC himself said " I respect you for being what you are" and he even admired her for being fearless as she fought against the bad, remember their confrontation during the pregnancy drama where Sac questioned her "are you the same girl who fought for anything that is wrong" ?

Now coming to what she is paying for :

She is paying the price of being the daughter of Nausheen.

*price of being the elder sister to two selfish girls, one of them want Arzoo to get married to a guy who apparently is the father of an illegitimate child so that the debt becoz of her education can be paid off.

*price of being the elder child and the breadwinner of her family. The girl can easily walk off abandoning her family but she won't! Becoz there is still some goodness in this world, there are is still humanity in this world. Not everyone can be self-centered, there are still people who genuinely care for their family and have strong emotions.

*price of falling in love, that too with SAC. Again she was emotionally blackmailed to confess her love when she tried to reason and run away from anything that might hurt her.

*price of Sahir being obsessed with her.

List is too long. And I don't agree that Arzoo has been unable to do anything. She has been the breadwinner of the family ( along with Nausheen if I'm not wrong ) but now in this situation she has to arrange a big amount, that too becoz of her mothers stupidity and betrayal to her. Had Nausheen told about Myra's admission fees, Arzoo could have asked for a loan right ? But no Nausheen hid things from her. Now Arzoo has to take responsibility for her mother's fault. Where did Arzoo's principles come in between ?

Coming to Sahir, he is the one who put everything at stake, why should others take responsibility for what he does ? Sahir is entirely wrong in this ! One fine day he decides he wants to fulfill the promise he made to his comatose wife, so everyone shoud dance to his tunes ? Marry him even though he is an already married man ?

For me Arzoo is paying the price for being Nausheen Sarfaraz Sheik's daughter , from now on she will pay the price of being SAC's second wife !

I apologize for the long post, just wanted to share my opinion.


fantastic post!! I completely agree with everything you said!!
Another thing I felt is that even though arzoo is living in sahir's house, that does not mean Sahir and his family can ask her to do whatever they want. I mean seriously what girl would want to marry or even think of marrying a married man. She said to hell with you to Sahir because she is soo frusterated. Well then you can say well why can't Arzoo just leave niyamat house--- but then where will she go, she doesn't even have a roof over her head and her family is with her without helping her in such a hard situation. There is a limit to anything.
Edited by BlueRobbin - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am sorry but there is a difference between unbending principles and false ego unfortunately the later is the case with Arzoo. What her father did with them was not about money, it was about them being daughters ... a filthy thing to do to your daughters ... they had to struggle for a living all their lives ... but tell me some people struggle even when they have fathers ... fathers who don't work ... who refuse to work ... does this mean we give up on life and go into the mode of self pity? All i see arzoo and nausheen do all the time is self pity ... they make decisions and then blame the entire world for them!
Take the example of factory ... fine Sahir burned it took away the only job Nausheen had ... but did nausheen try and find another factory? I am sure that was not the only factory in Lukhnow ... there must be hoards of others ... Then arzoo found a job in sayarra ... she was so full of herself and so egoistic that she kept arguing and showing attitude to her bosses ... refusing to give any explanations, instead of making the most of the opportunity ... she was busy satisfying her ego by showing off how she stands up for what is right, whether its' any of her business or not being an intern (case in point Linda kid incident) ... and ever since then she has been inviting trouble and blaming Sahir for everything ... be it her stolen designs, teaching her how business works, giving her promotion despite that pathetic resignation letter, standing up for her, protecting her ... Sahir was always there for her ... but all she could ever think off was how he pushed her away or how he was rude to her ... and I am talking about before the dhoka thing!

Then the whole pregnancy drama she got herself involved in, what principle was that about? Which woman in their right mind would take up someone else's pregnancy on themselves? No matter what! And her friendship with zaki wasn't even that deep apparently! And when Sahir asked her sach kia hai ... again it was her ego that told him read my eyes and i won't say it! Pure ego, nothing else! Because Sahir hadn't told her she loves him nor she had told him that she loves her that he owed her anything!

And what self respect or principles, she or her family talk about when she claims to hate Sahir but did not mind staying in his house all this time ... and even now they are living in his house? You can live in his house but can't take a loan from him because your ego won't allow that?

She has two sets of rules ... one for herself and others and one for Sahir ... and she till date has never judged Sahir the same way as she judges herself ... that is why even before the dhoka and even when she fell in love ... she always cursed him saying why i feel in love with him ... he is so rude and all ... never thinking about all that he has done for her ... never thinking about how he had protected her ... how he stood up for her ... how he believed her! All she ever thought about was herself!

And she refused zaki after paternity report ... fact is she never wanted to marry zaki ... she decided to marry him to spite Sahir ... again ego ... so the first opportunity she got she refused ... else a girl who claims to hate Sahir, who has cheated her ... why would she want to believe him over a man she was marrying? Unless of course she still trust sahir only!

Arzoo is impulsive, irrational, immature and egoistic ... she is not at all what a strong woman is like ... not for me any ways! And Sahir's wrongs don't justify her own wrongs ... she was the one who is indirectly responsible for everything that happened ... she is the one who got herself involved in the pregnancy drama which started this all ... went to the extent of stealing Sumaira's blood samples ... that was none of her business considering she had a family to support, a job to make the best off, a career to achieve ... ever since she has come to Mumbai she has done everything but focus on what she came here for ... you can't get yourself involved in filth and then cry oh poor me the world treated me so bad!

Sahir whatever wrong he does he owns it ... Arzoo what ever she does she blames it on others ... never ever looks inside of her to see where she was wrong ... and when she ends up in trouble self pity starts!

Sahir became like this after his wife went into coma who taunted him about money, whom he loved and about whom he came to know was cheating him for three years ... never loved him! Then 7 years of life in misery and lonliness ... and arzoo is about to become like him in 4 days? When she has not even tried yet? Not even gone out to find another job or make the most of one she already has? ... She is not even prepared to try once and to make a life ... before turning into a revengeful being? She certainly is a weak woman!

And no am not going to argue if only a man can take revenge a woman can ... because for me this debate is not about man or woman ... but about what i saw of arzoo ... and what i saw makes it clear for me that she is weak and she has huge ego issues, she is impulsive and immature and has a lot of growing up to do! And no am not even comparing her with Sahir when I say that but just how a strong woman would be like!

And if she takes the deal now he offers, for whatever reasons ... then what right she has to be rude about it? She is not scared of him, if she was she won't slap him nor show attitude ... so she did it for her needs ... then why act as holier than thou? Again ego!!! Why walk on coals to kill old arzoo? When old arzoo was the one who accepted the deal! Just so that you become more anger filled with the heat of coals?
Edited by Soaps1 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very well analysed .
Yes arzoo is like wood not able to see and feel the need but stubborn enough to go her own path which will only put her in more crisis.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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VD hi hello how are u ???😛

N very well put on the parasites , as I like to call them ...
I have firmly believed life is tough for all in its own way n it's us who decide to make ourselves into who we are ..

Nausheen willingly likes to seek help from one man or the other n gets herself n her girls insulted ..it's not Like cannot manage with out Sarfarz , she just refuses to see otherwise ...n so she is suicidal weal n spineless to me

Abt the sisters , sibling jealousy ..what a play at tht ..they want her to step in but dont want her interference ...serves her right if I may say 😕

She hurts sahir , her protector, directly or indirectly n she gets hurt in return 👏
Anywwy sahir has been the star for me...he is Lilke a rock support to the family ...he has been honest even with his shortcomings ...n it's abt time ARZOO opens her eyes

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