Can we give Arzoo some time? - Page 5

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Red,

I hope you don't mind me asking a personal Q.😊

What is love, for you?😕

Is it about giving and taking?

Is there a definition for love?😊

For me love is respect and it is mutual from both ends. It involves equality and emotion. It always involved two people who are equally engaged. If one has hurt the other and claims to care for them than they should make an attempt to make them feel better. It does not involve always taking pain from the one you love. But I do respect your views, even if opposing they are valid. I think we just have completely different perspectives.

Originally posted by: Zaya4ever

I agree with you Red. 👍🏼 Aarzoo needs some time.. everything happened for her so quickly.. if we think from her POV Sahir proposed her.. then he betrayed her.. attempted rape scene..😭 she is trauma.. for a girl it would take some time to out of it... Again Sahir is not telling her clearly.. he wanted to stop her from house but he said he is releasing her from fake relation.. now as per precap also he is asking her to marry for Niyamat house, Saiyara.. deal.. etc.. why cant he simply tell her he really loves her..😒 all he did because he didn't wanted to loose her by telling her truth becuase he loves a LOT.. again marriage will happen but MU will be still there..

You said it my dear! People have all sort of expectations from Arzoo. To be a genius and get inside Saahir's head to be able to see through all his numerous complexities. Why cant they expect Saahir to start opening up to Arzoo a little bit more? After all he doesnt want to lose her so he can start to regain her trust through honesty. Im sure if he told her he was in fear of losing her and his love motivated him to do things he never dreamed of, as he had lost someone he had loved before? It would make Arzoo feel tens times better. I know Saahir has tons of complexities to him but if he wants to improve effort has to come from both sides. Arzoo can only help someone who is willing to help themselves first. If he has no motivation to heal than all of Arzoo's effort will go in vain anyway.

Originally posted by: redviolet

For me love is respect and it is mutual from both ends. It involves equality and emotion. It always involved two people who are equally engaged. If one has hurt the other and claims to care for them than they should make an attempt to make them feel better. It does not involve always taking pain from the one you love. But I do respect your views, even if opposing they are valid. I think we just have completely different perspectives.