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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: TaanuDeewani

I feel ...hungry right now 😉 ...res


Originally posted by: BHAVII



😆 I feel Sush I should eat first🤣


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Edited by -Sush- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aidan34

Today what I feel is the show lacks fun part.if I may compare this show to other Gul shows I feel the show is way too serious.ek zaki tha woh bhi arzoo ke pyar main ho gaya aur ab samaira ke chakar main band hi baj gaye.
I feel viewers show nahi dekh rahe kyunke woh relate nahi Ker pa rahe ke sahir has a wife who is in coma and he is getting involved with arzoo.
I feel in zeenat and sahir FB's CVs shouldn't have shown them getting intimate in any sense.i feel it didn't go well with viewers.
Aj yeh feel rahi hoon sush.


So you feel worried about the show...
I feel sad for people that are missing out such a nice show...😃
Edited by -Sush- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sush, I feel the CVs are trying to do too many things at once. They are trying to give us clues about what might have tanspired between Zeenat and Saahir. It started from the confession episode where he claimed that those are closest to us at times hurt us the most. Than this whole betrayal fiasco and how Saahir keeps linking it to his past. But Saahir needs to realize not every young girl is the same. Just like it hit Arzoo that not all men are like her father. Then today he needed a verbal confirmation from Arzoo. Just his trust in her was not enough like Alvira.

But here is the deal, I THINK this is perhaps what bothers me the most is since the time Arzoo stepped foot in the house she has only been accused and tuanted by its members. From the jail fiasco, to the desgins, to being set up in the office that she is secretly helping Sarfaraz, to coming out of Zaki's bedroom, to the kadi chawal incident and I guess this pregnency thing she herself has taken upon her shoulders. But no one has really done anything to prevent these from happening the future. Saahir trusted her once because he knew she was in his room so she couldnt have been with Zaki but other then that no one came to defend her. One time she even had to apologize to Kurti Appa. Why? Because she was new to the house and didnt know they did not eat kadi chawal. So Arzoo might have reached a boiling point of accusations though she herself let this accusation continue due to unfortunate circumstances but they have taken a toll on her. Dont people always feel empathetic to hereos who have a dark past thus are at times excused of the manhandling and verbal abuse they do? Here Arzoo has one too. She can not always keep control of emotions. She too can reach a boiling point.

What is adding to her frustration? Her confusion about Saahir? I mean he has his reasons of trying to maintain a distance from her but at times he himself goes close to her. I mean if he is trying to maintain a distance and told her to stay away from and not to bother asking for a leave again. Than why bother if she is in trouble now? Or pregnant with someone's child? At times he enjoys are company and even seeks for it and other times get out. I know there are many reasons to feel empathetic towards Saahir as well some argue deeper ones than those for Arzoo. But that does not mean Arzoo cant reach a boiling point. If his shove can be overlooked by the everyone or excused as his past contains a betrayal and he is reliving the pain. Than why cant we also see that Arzoo's past contains a pain of rejection and she is kind of reliving it again?

PS. I agree this show can use a little bit more fun! Give us Asharfi or Myrah scenes plz!
PS. 2 I HOPE Saahir finds out the truth beind the pregnancy soon!

Fab post and great collages Shweta!
Edited by redviolet - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ultimaterudra

Bravo Sush ...Brilliant post 👏



I am making it simple ...I feel ...Circumstances made each character respond what they thought was best ...Each one was right from their POV .

I think Saahir not disclosing to Arzoo ...being responsible for the Karkhna burning will come back to haunt him .


I hope Arzoo finds out ...Who burnt the karkhana... Saahir's marital status ... Zaki finds out he was trapped ...Lady love is not pregnant




Thats better!! 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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😉 ..updated...full stomach=clear thinking 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sush-

What I would like you to do is...just start with




I feel...and talk about your feelings...don't judge, don't prescribe, no could have should have, don't use logic..don't argue...just describe your feelings...

You then write two more thoughts...starting with
I Think and
I Hope...


We will not debate...we will just try and understand how each one of us is feeling, thoughts and hopes...OK?

I will start...

I feel...excited about the developments in the story...Saahir and Arzoo are both confronted by their feelings for each other...It is very romantic...Something BIG is going to happen in Saaz's life...I feel it is going to be good...even though the road to there will be difficult!

I think....Rehman and public pressure is going to give Saahir no choice but to marry Arzoo...

I hope...Saahir will find out Arzoo's truth before getting into the marriage...


😆

This is sweet...😳

I feel:

They both know they are attracted to the other.
Sahir can be explained by the breakfast dream...He is scared to give- but he cannot let go- He pushes her away- But silently hopes she will be there...FOR HIM. He is possessive, he is jealous- at this stage he doesn't believe in aankhon ki bhaasha- he needs words...and yes it is about HIM. He is the one who has harboured a broken heart for 7 long years- grown embittered with life- so...when it comes to matters of the heart- He DEMANDS ARZOO HANDLES HIM WITH CARE. She has to put up with every tantrum he throws- this is also because deep down he knows they are connected. She got him into this mess...HE IS A MESS- So it is def not going to be easy on her. He respects Arzoo- would vouch for her character based on past interactions...but beyond that, he is not capable to give...he has already given so much into their relationship compared to what he was before she came in...and considering his mind torments him daily on this issue...Arzoo does not have any such issues- does she?😡.😆..And the Baba did say that the one who comes into her life would require a lot of tender loving care......This is all part of that- and that is precisely why she cannot stop loving him in spite of multiple insults..😳

Arzoo- is a sweetheart. They should have given apt explanations for her behaviour keeping quiet- just minutes before Zaki had told that the whole issue would affect Sahir too...that should have been projected in a fb just as she kept silent- it would have made teh scene meaningful for a random viewer. She loves him- she has accepted. She knows he has some feelings for her- which she may be misreading...she must have seen some semblance of confirmation since the eyes speak what the lips refuse to divulge......But he cannot insult her and expect her to be a doormat😡...she doesn't ask him if he loves her back...does not want an apology...all she wants is a part of him...because she hurts with him...and she knows that is not enough...He has to be healed..so she is begging him to let her help him..all this KNOWING/ thinking Sahir would never accept the class difference between them...😭...Thats why Arzoo is a sweetheart...she knows there may be nothing but heart break for her here...but she will go any mile for him.....even if she ends up hurting herself.😭


I think: The same...Public pressure and Nausheen pressure😉 will probably force Arzoo into a nikah with Zaki...and REhmaan will step in the last moment...and Gabbar Chaudhary will be the unwillingly willing bakra to the Lucknow ki bakri...

I hope: The trps improve.🤔...and the show lasts at least 9 months...
Edited by chicksoup - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hats off, Sush. I am normally a silent reader and an observer. I love reading your posts, but have been unable to post as need to keep running back to work.

But, today compelled to write as I second each of your thoughts and really feel you've brought out the essence of Arzoo and Sahir's feelings.

I FEEL excited about the events that will happen. If one has been so badly betrayed in love, significant events need to happen to showcase true integrity of Arzoo so Sahir can truly love her with complete trust. Today he doesn't trust her unconditionally, hence, he had the accusatory tone. Arzoo was extremely hurt by Sahir's Faraq nahi padta and the questioning tone to suspect her of something so low, hence, she also gave it back to him and HOW! I absolutely loved it and appreciate her characterization. It's high time we show some gender parity in Indian television.

I LIKE the fact that Zakis also undergoing a shift as he's starting to realize the consequences of his frivolity. Yes, he might be getting set up by Samaira but the games he's played with women before even if frivolous, are catching up with him. This is a part of becoming more mature about life and I see him becoming more responsible in future. If the production house gives in to TRP craze and useless drama of making him negative, vying for Arzoo then I ll be disappointed.

I HOPE the story line brings in many such dilemmas before Arzoo and Sahir so that they overcome that their world view of distrust and insecurity and have the courage to experience beautiful love. As they move towards becoming soulmates, these challenges will be necessary to observe and understand each other.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I feel:
There is a huge expectation on Aarzoo all day long, at home and at Sayiara. I feel like this woman is being used at work to make him a lot of money and used like a personal assistant to her boss at home. These are unrealistic expectations. She has been brought into a family that is already torn apart and is used to comfort Sahir.
I really like this Aarzoo who is speaking up and not sitting on the sidelines taking abuse from Sahir. I think it makes sense that she speak up to the one person that abuses her.

I think: Their relationship can only grow and flourish if she speaks whatever she feels and stand up to him. At this point, Sahir has abused her so much, that I pass no judgement on her. I think when a woman takes abuse and is learning to speak her mind, it is not going to make sense.

I hope: Sahir stops lying to himself and divorces Zeenat before expecting Aarzoo to do anything for him. I f*** don't care how much he loves her. He needs to grow up and take responsibility for creating a mess in his life by still serving a 7year old promise to a woman who didn't care about him and he doesn't love.
The only thing he is doing is hurting himself and others who love him. This is HIS mess. I love HC's acting and he is sssooo sexxxyyy, but the reality is, it's obsession -not love. I wonder if that is what he had with Zeenat. An obsession. If he is possessive now, he must have been then. When you are possessive, you treat the other person like an object - not a person.

So, I love it when Aarzoo challenges him. She continuously proves to him she is not an object.

Being over possessive and seeing others as object of his affection is a sickness. That is NOT love.

Healthy love feels free and safe to be yourself when you are with the person.

It is good that Aarzoo is strong. Because, do kamzore insaan cannot support one another.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I feel Sahir is from Mars and Arzoo is from Venus and viewer who reside on earth are trying to dictate what should happen on Mars and Venus. I feel both Sahir and Arzoo do gadhen hein jyo pyaar mein andhe hein aur viewers sare pagal hai. 😆

On a serious note -
I feel there is no justification to how one acts when he/she perceives they are in love or are attracted to the opposite sex. One wants to remain loyal, true to other and thinks his/her actions whatever they may be are for the good of other person. One gets frustrated when the other party is unable to realize this without having to spell it out for them.

I feel Arzoo has fallen in love for the first time so she is new to the rules of that game. She is unaware that open and clear communication between the 2 people is the only way to nurture a relationship (budding or otherwise) and keep any misunderstanding at bay. Sahir cannot be the mind reader, eye reader trying to read her body language and conclude that yes I must trust Arzoo even though she has remained quiet. In general how man and woman respond to each other (when newly in love or even if married for eons) is different.
Sahir has been there before. Unfortunately for him, his experience has left a bitter taste in his psyche because of which he is unable to communicate openly. I feel he is practically getting worn out between his growing attraction towards Arzoo and his past experience with his wife. Therefore he is also not thinking straight. He is jumping all over her sending diametrically opposite signals. Arzoo is no shrinking violet to cater to his ever changing moods and is feeling mutinous towards him

I think viewers need more understanding about Sahir's past. Just showing some abrupt scenes or KA/Alvira dropping hints won't work. If we are unable to get a sense of what is Sahir's past, our patience to sympathize with him will run out which might affect TRPs.

I hope Sahir uses his brain to figure out the truth and there is no nikah nama based on MU. I hope we don't use too much of our own brain and just enjoy the story as it unfolds cheering both Sahir and Arzoo in their journey.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Updated. Uff it was such a beautiful episode and the pace of the show is perfect for me to not get bored so there you all go with my essay (A rare one😳 )
Suh - as always its a treat to read your analyis 😃


Shweta your collages and quotes are treat 😃

@ Tanu - We both responded same😳



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